Conclusion:Better not look for love or sex even in hang flower joints, in present financial and physical condition.
Therapy: Maximal avoidance of Hanging Flower Joints and Singers in totality, with one exception.
No more chasing of singers, no more supporting, no more face issues, no more concerns about quotas, no more face support.
Singer XX:Club1, knew this babe for a while, made a half-heart attempt to woo her, in the new club.
Her boyfriend came back, and then she got a big customer.
So no need to say goodbye at all, still on speaking terms, case closed.
Singer SS:Club1, tried wooing this babe, invested close to over 5k flowers, i pulled back at the last minute. Still owe the club about 4k have not paid and looking back, have not decided to pay yet.
Resolved, might have hurt her feelings, but in reality, she already have a long term boyfriend. So no regrets and no need to worry, case closed.
Singer LL:Club1, invested 2.5 k on the babe on a whim, hurt her feelings pretty badly, as i chased after her friend ML, at another club. She is still asking me on how much i can contribute to her show, i was smiling at her and said, at least 50 bucks... Me unemployed with some debts, case closed.
Singer SS:Club2 ( yeah lots of same names)
Total invested 5k
A bit of a messy situation, she wanted to go to bed with me but.... she said.
你会娶我？就算是骗我， 也让我听这话吧。。。
Being the idiot I am, i am constitutionally not able to lie. So i told her, if it was so difficult for her to get into bed with me, that she needed to convince its out of love that she is getting into bed with me, i would rather not make any demands out of her.
Case closed, so I am carrot cake again, lesson learned, i != cassonova.
Singer ML, here is the interesting one.
I got to know her only on the 15th of Jan, had a nice bonking session on the 30th of Jan. First time ever that a girl wanted to get into bed with me with less than 1k invested in flowers.... And then she tested positive for a baby 2 weeks after.
So i went through the whole routine of angst, took her to see the doctor and got the procedure done. Cost me close to 1.8 k, yeah, it was Mount E clinic. The interesting thing, was that she reveled to the doctor, that her period was already late by 7 weeks :0...
And I had a good talk with her last night, and she finally came out and admitted indirectly it was the case...
Total invested, 12k, case closed, still on speaking terms, no hard feelings, she is only 20 years old. Will monitor to see she gets home safely next month. 1st time in singapore.
Singer GG:Club3
The last one is one that i cannot achieve closure.
I have known her for over 2 years.
1st term, about 20-35k invested, nothing just a kiss.
2nd term, did not even see her.
3rd term, invested about 2k in total.
To be frank, if her heart had been tougher, more merciless, i would not have even gotten into relationships with other singers or even attempted to get into relationships with other girls. She was my first singer....i ever loved totally.
To be frank, i had an emotional break down yesterday, and it was a bad one. i was sitting in the rain. And out of the blue, she gave me a sms to ask how i was doing. And actually consoled me quite bit, fragments of the conversation follows.
She is only 21 years old.
“狠不下心， 骗你的钱， 你太善良， 可是， 你的钱会被别的歌心骗。 忍不下心， 骗你， 我宁可骗那下有钱有家庭的老头子， 寂寞，出来找刺激，要面子的人。 骗你的钱， 会有报应的。 你又不是个很老的人， 没必要在花场玩， 找真爱, 那是不可能的。看开点， 不要想太多，每一天， 会更好。"
So that is the one singer, that cannot have closure, but in reality. I do not think of her as a singer anymore. Not a lover, not a sister, but something in between i suppose...
Cheers.
0401.
End of Report.
Quote:
Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom
Hey, please do not encourage such activity please. No matter if they are ghost ( i am actually leaning towards this), have some decency and leave the poor girl alone.
They are already in a job that is skirting the
edges of prostitution, 擦边球。Let them have their privacy.
Recovering Addict
#0401
bro.. after reading your latest post,, you said they are POOL GIRL.. mind you.. when they suck and sleazing your $$ - do you ask yourself are they really concern you are POOL MAN.
.
Look at your closure report.. as long as they cross the bridge, they are no longer decent!!!
Decent girls are girls working at their PRC land in the factories or any shopping centres or whatsoever.
看谈名利，修身养性ya ! That $$$$$ you throw, can go BY in China or buy a blue diamond still can left abit go for GL cat 150.
Everything that is a Price, 色么事物都是有代价的。 No such thing as Free lunch. Only F.O.C is aka (Fuck on Credit)
Take care and signoff
Quote:
Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom
Well, the singer manager, smsed me and said.
女神，(Oh My Goddess, Megamisama.) is having its grand opening from the 4th to the 6th. Eminent Plaza, Balestier.
Any bro can go down and do a FR, me already booked for business appointments and trying to do cold turkey )
Recovering Addict
0401
__________________ Quality is lifestyle !
RETIREMENT ON 15Nov09
Learn to Enjoy the riding Curves, rather than busy with the starting and where you be landing.
别人笑我忒疯癫，我笑他人看不穿，不见五陵豪杰墓，无花无酒锄做田。
命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求
No $$$$$ No Honey
Do indicate your nick if U UPz me so that I can reciprocate back.
1st and foremost, I am a noob and newbie in these joints.
I agreed these are ghosts and I have no empathy for them morally nor do I care about the circumstances why they are here.
IMHO, I do not think that anyone should feel that the flowers and fees entitled oneself to whatever he wants, whenever he wants it, however he wants to do it and if someone is hurt, that is not his problem cos the "fees" he pays covers all damages.
Well said bro, i like this part.
It's all in the package deal
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
Well, the singer manager, smsed me and said.
女神，(Oh My Goddess, Megamisama.) is having its grand opening from the 4th to the 6th. Eminent Plaza, Balestier.
Any bro can go down and do a FR, me already booked for business appointments and trying to do cold turkey )
Recovering Addict
0401
You will never be able to retire if you do not cut ties and still wanna kapoh kapoh
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
bro, if u read my replied carefully, u will understand tat i dunno abt tis private place la...
btw, if really got such place & it cost a bomb, u will go issit??
Of cozzzzzzzz, he's been there before and loved it.
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
bro.. after reading your latest post,, you said they are POOL GIRL.. mind you.. when they suck and sleazing your $$ - do you ask yourself are they really concern you are POOL MAN.
.
Look at your closure report.. as long as they cross the bridge, they are no longer decent!!!
Decent girls are girls working at their PRC land in the factories or any shopping centres or whatsoever.
不是猛龙不过江。不要被可怜的脸蛋给骗了。
老是帮人家的车打油，不觉得自己很傻吗。
Bro was speaking metaphorically le.
In terms of money, yep not poor.
In terms of having to exchange their bodies for money.
In my book, that makes them poor alias to be pitied to a certain extent.
Just my view of life.
看谈名利，修身养性ya ! That $$$$$ you throw, can go BY in China or buy a blue diamond still can left abit go for GL cat 150.
Everything that is a Price, 色么事物都是有代价的。 No such thing as Free lunch. Only F.O.C is aka (Fuck on Credit)
Take care and signoff
Hi Bro, i know been to DQ a couple of times, so hard hard lesson learnt...
Nah not going down to hfjs, cold turkey is still the best solution.
3 years to rebuild from beneath ground zero...
At least i can recover this time...
Of cozzzzzzzz, he's been there before and loved it.
DYBJ 大哥,
wah lao... he been there b4 still asked me for dtls...
Quote:
Originally Posted by ObamaRocks
Why do i get an overwhelming feeling that you are hinting for our 大哥 to bring you to his private playground?
I will upz u back, let me go zap some CB kias song song 1st and take revenge for you in China Doll thread!
OR 大哥,
no la... 小弟 dare not hint anything to ur 大哥, my 大哥大大...
normal salaried worker like me cant afford his private playground.
if 1 day i can afford, i prefer to make more trips to China...
well, jus my preference. to each its own ya?
btw, pls beware some of those knnccb losers wif power 8..
they may or may not post in CD thread...
1 more thing... rem not to use any vulgar words in zapping..
__________________
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*SEMI RETIRED as of 01-01-2012. Anything, pm me...
Well, the singer manager, smsed me and said.
女神，(Oh My Goddess, Megamisama.) is having its grand opening from the 4th to the 6th. Eminent Plaza, Balestier.
Any bro can go down and do a FR, me already booked for business appointments and trying to do cold turkey )
Recovering Addict
0401
These luring text messages can be hindrance to your cold turkey treatment.
06-04-2011, 08:31 AM
