Hanging Flowers Joints

[Wuji]

Originally Posted by ksst

Hope its not your only 100k... On a positive note, it could have been much more if the dream carries on. Just treat HFJ as a occasional dose of false ego lifting. And be alert when you start believing that the mm genuinely meant their words. You probably hear things like

少喝一点，对身体不好
我几时还能见到你?
来看我就好
我对你有好感
我不喜欢你看别的女孩子
我怕你会像我的前男友，你教我怎么办
etc etc...

Often, walk away is more effective than walking into. You will be surprised.

Wow, these 2 months I often hear such words, especially those who kc me into thinking they are with me not for the money, tell me no need to hang them etc etc...just keep me company can leow....indeed a lesson learnt...

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by Wuji

Wow, these 2 months I often hear such words, especially those who kc me into thinking they are with me not for the money, tell me no need to hang them etc etc...just keep me company can leow....indeed a lesson learnt...

It's a learning process that we all have gone through at one point or another...

As long as you have learnt your lesson, it's ok.

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

It's a learning process that we all have gone through at one point or another...

As long as you have learnt your lesson, it's ok.

Bro TD, let's up this Wuji as he appeared to have learn his lesson and is willing to admit his mistakes and share....

[roamersg]

Originally Posted by chenzong

I have learnt much since then, and have become wiser with my choice of friends, as well as my choice of night activities. Nothing can compare with the comforts of home.

I guess we all have to learn our lessons, but it's not easy. There are a few good women out there out of the several thousands in sillypore alone, so one can always believe the one you meet is one of those few. I have had some good BYs where I am sure they have not even said a single lie to me, nor begged for extra funds. But with them I had also kept my heart more carefully guarded. When you meet one you really care for, as I have recently, then the danger signs flash, but it's not easy once the KC has happened.

What to do? First, always make sure that whatever money is spent really is money you could do without. Second, take all the identity precautions to protect your family so she can't threaten to ruin your life. Third, no matter how much you fall for a MM, don't fantasise about making her your wife!

Of course, the safest strategy is just to view every HFJ and KTV MM as a bonk, without any real feelings. Most of our wise bros here recommend that. But I personally tired of that years ago and so now prefer more GFE, and so have to deal with the associated risks.

Good luck to all bros in the new year, hope we all have the strength to play this game well!

[ksst]

Originally Posted by roamersg

I guess we all have to learn our lessons,

What to do? First, always make sure that whatever money is spent really is money you could do without. Second, take all the identity precautions to protect your family so she can't threaten to ruin your life. Third, no matter how much you fall for a MM, don't fantasise about making her your wife!

Of course, the safest strategy is just to view every HFJ and KTV MM as a bonk, without any real feelings. Most of our wise bros here recommend that. But I personally tired of that years ago and so now prefer more GFE, and so have to deal with the associated risks.

Good luck to all bros in the new year, hope we all have the strength to play this game well!

A little risky but hey... no risk no gain sometimes. Good luck and have fun.

Btw, any bros here who kind enough to show me this newbie the rope? Occassional (once a fortnight type) small time hanger, light drinker. Thanks!

[seaman6969]

Originally Posted by ksst

少喝一点，对身体不好
我几时还能见到你?
来看我就好
我对你有好感
我不喜欢你看别的女孩子
我怕你会像我的前男友，你教我怎么办
etc etc...

Wah seh! I keep hearing all this also, but I think she means it from her heart.
Not all are bad and scheming, I hope mine is a good one
Famous last words perhaps.

[Wuji]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Bro TD, let's up this Wuji as he appeared to have learn his lesson and is willing to admit his mistakes and share....

Pls up me bros, I have repented and will learn my lessons

[1-4-1]

Originally Posted by lky123

actually during these 3 days i went to a few joints whereby i would not step inside again .
Ai Shang has many ex-Club Jade gals whom some look quite nice

Huang-Du has SHE from Sichuan
There was a singer S72 whom caught my eye. pity, she is on a 2yr pass and her boyfriend is a heavy duty hanger.

At YangGuiFei, there was a singer who is S28 whom caught my eye. A pity she also another heavy flower singer.

Would try to venture to the joint @ Oriental Plaza one of these days and see how the stock.

Are you sure about 28 at YGF? She seems "so so" to me. Anyway, different ppl have diff views.

But I will agree with you on 72 at HD. Very sweet indeed. I doubt that she has got strong supporters based on the survey done. Are you trying her (therefore this post to eliminate your potential rivals)? Anyway, wish you all the best! I have given up on her. Tried cracking this nut for quite some time previously without success.

[jitlong69]

just got back from a HFJ place. Heard that a singer conned a regular supported about 4 to 5 k flowers during her recent show promising to go out with him after the show. Then she told the customer that she had period and clean the next few days. But before the few days was up she went back to China. I wonder, can this kind of things happened? Dont think anyone that stupid!

[Loose_Change]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

These types of 夜夜萧歌猪朋狗友 are aplenty in HFJ/KTV and night joints. Especially free loaders and using our ass as their face. Most often than not, these "dog meat friends" are not trustworthy and reliable nor good at at keeping confidence and will tell everyone at the 1st opportunity and spreading rumors. One do not expect them to defend you when you are in trouble. They will just go with the flow of change of events. I personally had terminated and kicked out 1-2 of them among my groups of friends/bros. Normally, these are those that got involved with my groupies through introduction by other friends/bros and mind you, they are not poor or jobless but professional with good salary (in fact, we do not mind at all if our friends/bros are tight on cash or in trouble cos we will offer help all the way)

Anyway, being Good Friends/Bros are not just about having a good time with others. It's far more important than just drinking, cheonging, talk cocks and singing songs. It involves meaningful conversation and sincerity that is more than just an acquaintances and are willing to put friends 1st or point out when they're doing something we don't agree with. Most importantly, willing to make available to friends at short notice and welcome them if they turn up at our doorsteps.

You be surprised that even in this thread there are a few of them that can keep in a "potential reallife goodfriend book" even though their style might not be your cup of tea. I did actually.



It is a wise decision

I totally agree to what you say,its a good words from a good mouth and a good thhinking from the heart that have gone thru alot i presume..

[Miyanaga]

This is a QQ conversation between me and a singer formerly from ABC (pm me if you want to know which HFJ).

My friend used to feed and support her, until she kanna courted by another Big Hanger ....... and look at how 现实 PRC can be ！The Big Hanger will marry her in Singapore next month........ And she already has 2 houses in China ..... what about Flower Hangers like us ?


Me
你现在的老公 (Big Hanger）给你很多钱？

Singer
我的老公，我在ABC的时候，每个月给我包3万以上的花

Singer
ABC的老板和歌星每个人都知道，公开的秘密

Me
你老公是做什么工作的

Singer
说真的啦，PK (my friend) 在我身上还是花了不少钱尽了不少力，所以我相信我是他这一辈子让他花钱最多的女人，可是我受不了他的脾气， 我是歌星，他不允许我应酬任何人，吃饭都不行，这不是要做死我吗？

Singer
本来那时候我老公 (Big Hanger) 追我的时候我没有接受，我一直很专一跟 PK 在一起，因为他确实那时候对我很好，也很舍得做给我，可是后来出现我老公了，他就开始减少对我好，还总是找 我吵架，脾气很大，胡乱怀疑，我最后受不了啦

Singer
所以我说他以后不敢再吊花了

Me
你跳槽咯

Singer
人是有感情的，谁真心对你好你自然会选择 (Practical Thots ..... Hmmmm)

Me
真心一回事，人会现实的 (Me say her practical)

Singer
你说的也对，可是男人爱一个女人就会做给一个女人，不管是经济上还是生活上。我老公(Big Hanger) 追我那时我还跟PK在一起，PK给我挂1千，我老公(Big Hanger) 就给我上5千，可是那时候我都没做对不起柯的事情，是PK自己怀疑心太重占有欲太强，他觉得自己的钱很大，他给我花钱了 我就不可以跟任何人去吃饭，我一开始做到了，因为不想他难过，可是后来他因为怀疑我就开始变小气，还乱发脾 气，是人都过不下去了

Singer
他 (PK) 很在乎钱，他把钱看得很重，所以他有了我这一次经历他是不会再吊花了

Singer
呵呵，也好啊，他不再吊花了，我也不当歌星了 (My friend PK already discouraged)

Singer
我离开ABC的时候，老板找我谈了很多次，要我不要离开ABC，可是我已经决定不再唱了

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by jitlong69

just got back from a HFJ place. Heard that a singer conned a regular supported about 4 to 5 k flowers during her recent show promising to go out with him after the show. Then she told the customer that she had period and clean the next few days. But before the few days was up she went back to China. I wonder, can this kind of things happened? Dont think anyone that stupid!

Yup, such MIA cases are not uncommon. Which is why intel is important and not hang blindly without interest deposit. Best still, bonk her before her 下档 show cos many of these singers have only 1-2 days of stay here after their departure show. Though some will say they will come back soon but then again, just like cash in pocket is better than a rain-cheque. It's always good to collect some interest if not, one would be singing this song 我等到花儿也谢了

Originally Posted by Loose_Change

I totally agree to what you say,its a good words from a good mouth and a good thhinking from the heart that have gone thru alot i presume..

IMHO, In HFJ/KTV scenes, there are 2 toxic components that might ruin us if we are not cautious: Girls and Toxic friends

Originally Posted by Miyanaga

My friend used to feed and support her, until she kanna courted by another Big Hanger ....... and look at how 现实 PRC can be ！
.....

Singer
本来那时候我老公 (Big Hanger) 追我的时候我没有接受，我一直很专一跟 PK 在一起，因为他确实那时候对我很好，也很舍得做给我，可是后来出现我老公了，他就开始减少对我好，还总是找 我吵架，脾气很大，胡乱怀疑，我最后受不了啦

.....

Singer
人是有感情的，谁真心对你好你自然会选择 (Practical Thots ..... Hmmmm)

I guess most of the bros here are NOT surprise with above Singer's practical mentality and forward looking approach afterall they are here only with 1 objective: Make Money.

Yesterday there's Mr.A, Today there's a Mr.B and Tomorrow there will be a Mr.C.

When such creatures says: "我一直很专一...." it actually means: "我一直很专一向钱看"

[ksst]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

IMHO, In HFJ/KTV scenes, there are 2 toxic components that might ruin us if we are not cautious: Girls and Toxic friends

I guess most of the bros here are NOT surprise with above Singer's practical mentality and forward looking approach afterall they are here only with 1 objective: Make Money.

I see toxic components as Lust and Ego.
And yes, money talks. Their motto: 真心不如红钞票

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Miyanaga

This is a QQ conversation between me and a singer formerly from ABC (pm me if you want to know which HFJ).

My friend used to feed and support her, until she kanna courted by another Big Hanger ....... and look at how 现实 PRC can be ！The Big Hanger will marry her in Singapore next month........ And she already has 2 houses in China ..... what about Flower Hangers like us ?

That's y i say, know yourself, know your terrain, know your foes.
In this story, the FOE is non other than the flower hanger.
He failed to realise that there's nothing wif the singer.
She's here to make money, the more the merrier.
Who will complain that they have more money in their pocket.
Being realistic is a way of life for such people, nothing shocking or surprising.
What actually shocked me after reading your post bro, was.......
Why trying to talk morals to such a person?
A person with morals would never be in this line in the 1st place.
After the conv, the revelations were all expected.
What were you expecting from this conv?
She has earned enuff?
dun want too much money?
go back retire????
Pls lor bro, if so, then you'll need a reality check recalibration.

Singers are like auction items.
How you prevent competition is to ensure that there r so many land mines around that anyone who steps on one will be bombed to bits.......
Also, if one knows that a singer got a man behind her liao, why would he even bother to go after her, let alone fight flower if he doesnt even have enuff ammo to fight in the 1st place?
Totally dun make sense bro

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

don't fall into the thrill of KC unless you can execute it with the perfection and ruthlessness of bro bybj

Actually it's not really ruthless la.
Its just being awake at all times knowing what you're getting into and no hesitation watsoever to cut ties.

Latest, my chick from LV, yes, my retirement nite flower war chick, is still wif me.
To date, since the 1st of Feb, spent a total of 9k on her liao.
Times i went to LV since the 1st of Feb....TWICE only wahahaha

KC...yes, she's not only KCed, she goes around proclaiming that i'm her man and sure as hell is very territorial...which is good i guess hehehehe
Went to Macau the other nite wif Prince and QX of cos wif her, when singers looked towards me and smile, she'll lean over and french me in the hall...wahahaha damn insecure man....i like

To date, 2 major fights.....FUCKED her in the car, dumped her on the streets only to see her crying like a baby.....the push pull technique that is very well illustrated in the other thread.
As the prince has observed, she's finished!
Am i hurt, hell no, she's bot meat....just too bad for her i guess
But that's life in a HFJ, eat or be eaten and the one who gives the heart 1st....looses!