Bro JC, i called you, you no pick up and no decency to even return call or return sms.
Since you want to put it in the forum, i will and can only oblige you.
I called you bro so face value i give you liao!
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Originally Posted by jacky chan
Bro BJ , Me really retired liao as I feel me not suitable for HFJ as me is too emotional even the singer mummy also look down on me and ask me not to come
No singer mummy will ever say that, and in all fairness, after what we all observed that nite, i am actually grateful to her for her honesty.
Also, your earlier post above said the war isnt over yet between you and that singer.
Do you remember how she deliberately shouted so loudly in the hall when all music was off on there's no way she'll leave wif anyone else but the other guy? She didnt even have the courtesy to come shake your hand bye bye before she left.
As a bystander, you were insulted and humiliated by her in public and yet you can sit there and speak on her behalf and say she's drunk la!
Where is your pride?
Where is your honour?
Where is your dignity as a man?????
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Originally Posted by jacky chan
doesn't realised that when I m gone, my group of friends will also be gone. He shd trasure every single customer doesn't matter small or big flower and even even hang..
Bro, we all still go back there incase you're not aware.
And your chick dare not even make eye ball contact wif any of us!
That says alot about your yet to win battle bro.
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Originally Posted by jacky chan
Me now concentrate on my job as no bonus again this year, has to save money. Anyway me is a cheongster, a cheongster don border about face, so doesn't bother meand me definitely not a hanger, so also bo chap...
Bro, if this is all you can say to console yourself, i am quite speechless.
To me and I'm sure to many bros as well, whether its about cheonging HFJ, KTV or pubs, the most basic 尊严 shud still apply.
This, was all destroyed by that singer of yours that very nite!
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Dear BRo BJ, I really appreciate your concern, is not I nvr answer la, cos I left the phone at home today, how to SMS or answer u lei> By the way wat u mentioned here, will be taken note seriously in future reference. Me late for appointment now. Will catch up again.
Do you remember how she deliberately shouted so loudly in the hall when all music was off on there's no way she'll leave wif anyone else but the other guy?
WTF!! Now I am missing the essential part of this shouting creature
Bro JC - Check your pm, I just sent you a wake-up call pm
Last edited by Ichigo_Kurosaki; 01-02-2011 at 06:33 PM.
Bro JC, it is not always about hanging flowers or about money even.
I am so called trying to escape and i can say that its a hard hard thing.
For me, i have always been unsucessful, but slowly you just get to enjoy the environment, chatting with the singers and just treating them as friends/human beings so to speak . Without the rush, pride, envy, possesiveness and self decieit hat is the real killer.
Being honest with oneself, that the failure rate is high, but if you are able to control your emotions and think logically, its ok.
Nowadays, if i go down its just to chat a bit, maybe hang a 100 or zero, buy a jub of beer, that is that. And was quite honest with the singers on what i want with them, those that i am interested in.
a. I already have a former gf singer, that I am going to marry this year. No doubt about that, and nothing is going to change my mind.
b. I will only have one wife, whom i will marry, have kids and stay together forever.
c. Only have one wife, but will have a few 爱人。
d. A few 爱人, but lots of girl friends to chat with, to flirt and to pass the time in chatting at flower joints.
Would be surprised that the number of girls, who thought i was bluffing and yet when i reaffirm it, they still want to go on 公平竞争。
Which i say to them, you sure, you are too young for me, 21sh i already 40ish, i aint a looker, do not hang big flowers and now 0 flowers....
Sample Responses.
a. 22 year old singer (ClubA), becoming 爱人。 After less than 2 weeks of knowing her。 And she is all good in being just being the lover with some support on the side, and wants to keep it quiet, very quiet, as i told her straight, i am interested in her good friend, who is working in another place, and trying to make her my 爱人 as well, given i spent about 1.5k by impulse on her. Fun easy going, and enjoy the exercise. No hysterics, no crying no drama...see below.
Coincidentally, I met both at the same time at a chance meeting and interacted together.
b. 22 year old singer (ClubB), apparently wants to continue the relationship, even though i hanged 4plus k in flowers and did not pay for another singer in same joint. Apparently, she really likes older men.... much older man. And she terrifies me, as she is the type that seems to be 动情了。Not going to proceed any further, until she knows that the relationship is of a lover and no way to progress any further beyond that.
c. 22 year old singer (Club C), cannot decide if she wants me to be her 爱人 or 干哥哥。I prefer the former, but she still coming to terms, that she cannot be my wife to be....
d. Singer 30+ (Club B), i hanged about 3k worth paid, no response, i hanged another 4k still no response so i refused to pay the 4k, I got really pissed off, as she immediately targetted my goods friend in the same clique.
She threathed me today, "如果人知道， 你挂花 不还钱， 对你名声 不好吧。
I replied， “你早就跟每个客人， 每个歌星讲了”
She went speechless since 4pm this afternoon....
I am always very truthful to the singers, yes i want them as 爱人，its for fun and companionship, some token support on the side, nothing heavy less than 6k in total per 6 months, no 买场， 诺皇冠，龙袍 etc。
Still when i go down to other clubs, girls who try to target me to be their customer, with their usual range of statements.
a. 我好喜欢你， 下来吧， 需定台， 我早晚是你的人， 不是吧， 你还没展示你的实力， 我那可能， 跟你出酒店。
b. My reponse have been, 抱歉， 我不玩游戏了， 你要就赌一把， 不然就算了。你这样的态度是对的， 避免被骗， 可是， 我不想玩这种游戏。。。我没养你， 没钱包你 ，就这样好吗， 你决定吧， 我不会主动的。
Anyways bro, my escape have not really been successful, i am still going to HFJ and enjoying myself, more...., but from the words i heard third hand from a singer at 澳门。
"真真有钱的人， 知道钱的价值。 不会乱挂花的》500。每一分钱会用在适当的时候。 是那些，刚有点钱或傻逼的客人， 才会乱挂花， 挂大花、”
Bro JC, i used to hide away as well, but no point, just go back face your demons... and just stick it in her face.
No need to spend money at all, just turn up and be yourself.
Returned Escappe.
Bro BJ , Me really retired liao as I feel me not suitable for HFJ as me is too emotional even the singer mummy also look down on me and ask me not to come doesn't realised that when I m gone, my group of friends will also be gone. He shd trasure every single customer doesn't matter small or big flower and even even hang..
Me now concentrate on my job as no bonus again this year, has to save money. Anyway me is a cheongster, a cheongster don border about face, so doesn't bother meand me definitely not a hanger, so also bo chap...
Probably the singer mummy is just caring and concern about you as she feels that you are not suitable for flower hanging joints....a cheongster is a cheongster does it matter he cheong hfjs or ktvs?.....
Me also no bonus but i created my own bonus of 88k although it was subsequently cheated away by my ex-singer....it's not about working hard....it's about creating a legacy....
Bro JC, i called you, you no pick up and no decency to even return call or return sms.
Since you want to put it in the forum, i will and can only oblige you.
I called you bro so face value i give you liao!
No singer mummy will ever say that, and in all fairness, after what we all observed that nite, i am actually grateful to her for her honesty.
Also, your earlier post above said the war isnt over yet between you and that singer.
Do you remember how she deliberately shouted so loudly in the hall when all music was off on there's no way she'll leave wif anyone else but the other guy? She didnt even have the courtesy to come shake your hand bye bye before she left.
As a bystander, you were insulted and humiliated by her in public and yet you can sit there and speak on her behalf and say she's drunk la!
Where is your pride?
Where is your honour?
Where is your dignity as a man?????
Bro, we all still go back there incase you're not aware.
And your chick dare not even make eye ball contact wif any of us!
That says alot about your yet to win battle bro.
Bro, if this is all you can say to console yourself, i am quite speechless.
To me and I'm sure to many bros as well, whether its about cheonging HFJ, KTV or pubs, the most basic 尊严 shud still apply.
This, was all destroyed by that singer of yours that very nite!
hmmm.....if the singer don't even accord the customer the basic respect in public I think it's probably a lost cause leow....sure everything is within your circle of control and you let others pump while you enjoy the ride?
Probably the singer mummy is just caring and concern about you as she feels that you are not suitable for flower hanging joints....a cheongster is a cheongster does it matter he cheong hfjs or ktvs?.....
Me also no bonus but i created my own bonus of 88k although it was subsequently cheated away by my ex-singer....it's not about working hard....it's about creating a legacy....
Thanks broME n Bro Escape, firstly I m ok n I am not hiding . Me recently really busy with my work place. Of cos I fully understand the term n condition in hfj, I maybe Shd change my statement , I will retired from hanging flowers but once a while still go hfj, can Bo . As bro escape said， me also tell those gal very frankly that I got no money to support them, I can oli help them when they need some simple help. After the xiu , I manage to up another joint gal two times n spending less than 500, n third time n four time is not a issue too. Me also kenna kc before n I know Tat feeling, but now is fine with me wrong . Hehe me not trying to avoid or wat, not to worry
hmmm.....if the singer don't even accord the customer the basic respect in public I think it's probably a lost cause leow....sure everything is within your circle of control and you let others pump while you enjoy the ride?
I m very confident to make that statement mission competed Just be patient If I don make it, is jst another Kc case, just pay to learnt, afterall my retirement is not becod of her, is jst I think I Shd take a break, u Nvr know I be back again with another introduction of joints to share , haha.
Thanks broME n Bro Escape, firstly I m ok n I am not hiding . Me recently really busy with my work place. Of cos I fully understand the term n condition in hfj, I maybe Shd change my statement , I will retired from hanging flowers but once a while still go hfj, can Bo . As bro escape said， me also tell those gal very frankly that I got no money to support them, I can oli help them when they need some simple help. After the xiu , I manage to up another joint gal two times n spending less than 500, n third time n four time is not a issue too. Me also kenna kc before n I know Tat feeling, but now is fine with me wrong . Hehe me not trying to avoid or wat, not to worry
That's great...I was beginning to miss your company...thanks for keeping me company in all my long lonely nights...
That's great...I was beginning to miss your company...thanks for keeping me company in all my long lonely nights...
Me still be around , maybe will try ktv liao as I like to sing , Tonite Shd be a happening nite as I believe everywhere will be pack, now sending a fren back to MY n drop by醉花庭，saw buffet outside , must be celebrating cny n see lot of ppl coming
Bro JC, it is not always about hanging flowers or about money even.
I am so called trying to escape and i can say that its a hard hard thing.
For me, i have always been unsucessful, but slowly you just get to enjoy the environment, chatting with the singers and just treating them as friends/human beings so to speak . Without the rush, pride, envy, possesiveness and self decieit hat is the real killer.
Being honest with oneself, that the failure rate is high, but if you are able to control your emotions and think logically, its ok.
Nowadays, if i go down its just to chat a bit, maybe hang a 100 or zero, buy a jub of beer, that is that. And was quite honest with the singers on what i want with them, those that i am interested in.
a. I already have a former gf singer, that I am going to marry this year. No doubt about that, and nothing is going to change my mind.
b. I will only have one wife, whom i will marry, have kids and stay together forever.
c. Only have one wife, but will have a few 爱人。
d. A few 爱人, but lots of girl friends to chat with, to flirt and to pass the time in chatting at flower joints.
Would be surprised that the number of girls, who thought i was bluffing and yet when i reaffirm it, they still want to go on 公平竞争。
Which i say to them, you sure, you are too young for me, 21sh i already 40ish, i aint a looker, do not hang big flowers and now 0 flowers....
Sample Responses.
a. 22 year old singer (ClubA), becoming 爱人。 After less than 2 weeks of knowing her。 And she is all good in being just being the lover with some support on the side, and wants to keep it quiet, very quiet, as i told her straight, i am interested in her good friend, who is working in another place, and trying to make her my 爱人 as well, given i spent about 1.5k by impulse on her. Fun easy going, and enjoy the exercise. No hysterics, no crying no drama...see below.
Coincidentally, I met both at the same time at a chance meeting and interacted together.
b. 22 year old singer (ClubB), apparently wants to continue the relationship, even though i hanged 4plus k in flowers and did not pay for another singer in same joint. Apparently, she really likes older men.... much older man. And she terrifies me, as she is the type that seems to be 动情了。Not going to proceed any further, until she knows that the relationship is of a lover and no way to progress any further beyond that.
c. 22 year old singer (Club C), cannot decide if she wants me to be her 爱人 or 干哥哥。I prefer the former, but she still coming to terms, that she cannot be my wife to be....
d. Singer 30+ (Club B), i hanged about 3k worth paid, no response, i hanged another 4k still no response so i refused to pay the 4k, I got really pissed off, as she immediately targetted my goods friend in the same clique.
She threathed me today, "如果人知道， 你挂花 不还钱， 对你名声 不好吧。
I replied， “你早就跟每个客人， 每个歌星讲了”
She went speechless since 4pm this afternoon....
I am always very truthful to the singers, yes i want them as 爱人，its for fun and companionship, some token support on the side, nothing heavy less than 6k in total per 6 months, no 买场， 诺皇冠，龙袍 etc。
Still when i go down to other clubs, girls who try to target me to be their customer, with their usual range of statements.
a. 我好喜欢你， 下来吧， 需定台， 我早晚是你的人， 不是吧， 你还没展示你的实力， 我那可能， 跟你出酒店。
b. My reponse have been, 抱歉， 我不玩游戏了， 你要就赌一把， 不然就算了。你这样的态度是对的， 避免被骗， 可是， 我不想玩这种游戏。。。我没养你， 没钱包你 ，就这样好吗， 你决定吧， 我不会主动的。
Anyways bro, my escape have not really been successful, i am still going to HFJ and enjoying myself, more...., but from the words i heard third hand from a singer at 澳门。
"真真有钱的人， 知道钱的价值。 不会乱挂花的》500。每一分钱会用在适当的时候。 是那些，刚有点钱或傻逼的客人， 才会乱挂花， 挂大花、”
Bro JC, i used to hide away as well, but no point, just go back face your demons... and just stick it in her face.
No need to spend money at all, just turn up and be yourself.
Returned Escappe.
From your posting don't think you really need to escape from hua chang.....you must be doing well....can hang $4000 without paying...small time players like me who hang a few k each time the joint always collect cash on the spot....
Me still be around , maybe will try ktv liao as I like to sing , Tonite Shd be a happening nite as I believe everywhere will be pack, now sending a fren back to MY n drop by醉花庭，saw buffet outside , must be celebrating cny n see lot of ppl coming
but you can't do HH 5 to 8pm ... still waiting for your treat after so long...(:
Bro no lah, all my flowers getting smaller and smaller, no more. Just happened the boss know i good credit list.. so gave me some flexible terms.
But seriously, i am still trying to come to grips of controlling expenditure and money issues.
Escape in progress again!
Going down to a hfj for a while, very boring, once the new year starts i am going to cut down to the core skeleton.
Bro no lah, all my flowers getting smaller and smaller, no more. Just happened the boss know i good credit list.. so gave me some flexible terms.
But seriously, i am still trying to come to grips of controlling expenditure and money issues.
Escape in progress again!
Going down to a hfj for a while, very boring, once the new year starts i am going to cut down to the core skeleton.
Think you should go with Bro JC...he is into KC no need to spend money one...he will just charm the singer while letting other brudders pump the petrol....he is the new undisputed flower king!
01-02-2011, 06:03 PM
> By the way wat u mentioned here, will be taken note seriously in future reference. Me late for appointment now. Will catch up again. 
. As bro escape said， me also tell those gal very frankly that I got no money to support them, I can oli help them when they need some simple help. After the xiu , I manage to up another joint gal two times n spending less than 500, n third time n four time is not a issue too. Me also kenna kc before n I know Tat feeling, but now is fine with me wrong . Hehe me not trying to avoid or wat, not to worry
He shd trasure every single customer doesn't matter small or big flower and even even hang..
