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[shengge]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

I fell into my own trap after having spent close to 10 years in China,

Yo Big Bro,
With the huge mountains that you always have, sometime I do hope to be in your shoes to fall into the valley..............

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

These PRC ladies are smart, and they can out-wit us with their in-born abilities.

Big Bro,
Their country may not be so developed after 5000 years, certainly their mentality had. Just look at the thread, so many people come to China expecting ONS, don't you think they need to be smarter?.........

Like many bros have said, FUCK and FORGET, but don't forget abt the FEES lah.

And the end of the day, it is about out-smarting each other, panties vs monies! Agree with me, big bro?

Paiseh, my 0.2 yuan!


PS: When show me twin peak?

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by shengge

Yo Big Bro,
With the huge mountains that you always have, sometime I do hope to be in your shoes to fall into the valley..............


Big Bro,
Their country may not be so developed after 5000 years, certainly their mentality had. Just look at the thread, so many people come to China expecting ONS, don't you think they need to be smarter?.........

Like many bros have said, FUCK and FORGET, but don't forget abt the FEES lah.

And the end of the day, it is about out-smarting each other, panties vs monies! Agree with me, big bro?

Paiseh, my 0.2 yuan!


PS: When show me twin peak?

Senior Bro shengge,

Do not 'suan' me okay. Where I can find big mountain to fall into the valley. I was hurt not by money alone, but my feeling. I blamed myself for that.

I think it is a game between, like you say, panties and monies. Sigh........Hence, we can never be too careful, right?

Show you the twin peaks? This Saturday or Sunday in Shanghai lor! Okay or not? See you soon.

Regards

PTR

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by shengge

Their country may not be so developed after 5000 years, certainly their mentality had. Just look at the thread, so many people come to China expecting ONS, don't you think they need to be smarter?.........

generally .... chinese are the smarter ppl on earth ...
dun forget the chinese invented rocket but they do not have the stamina to last ...
look at all the fake stuffs ... if only the chinese were to use their talent in the right way ... the sky is the limit ...

Originally Posted by shengge

Like many bros have said, FUCK and FORGET, but don't forget abt the FEES lah.

right ... dun short change them ...
we have our fun ... they have their money ...
fair transcation ....

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Sinoview

I m sure U guys can hear many stories abt gals saying their "friend in hospital , sister cum fm old town, mother in town etc.... cannot stay overnight etc...
These r just some of their "tricks" for their "multi tasking" work....

oh .. they have a book of tricks to use each time they want to find an excuse ... "cousin getting married in hometown .. have to go back" ... "father is sick in hometown, have to go back" ... etc etc ..
that book is as thick as the yellow pages we have ...

Originally Posted by Sinoview

For those who happen to cum across such "gals" which i think many ll, dont U think it's better to the sub card ? And be a smart one who only pay when he use her service. Let others have the headache.....Hehe....

smart move, bro ...
let the main card holder be the "banker" ... we r there to use the service only ..

[shengge]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

I was hurt not by money alone, but my feeling. I blamed myself for that.

I think it is a game between, like you say, panties and monies. Sigh........Hence, we can never be too careful, right?

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Why we always blame ourselves? Bcos, we know the consequences upfront yet we still 'itchy'. So we just have to face it when it comes.

How can we be careful? Even we are, but most of the panties are wet, super wet, very slippery, that's why many fall into the trap. It is always easy to say and that's why we are here..........

Cheers!

[petrolheadsg]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Ya... think too much sometimes also headache...

Juz be sure you dun kill yourself by overstretching your resources...

Me converting all my regulars into friends now slowly so I will still enjoy their company (no Sex) in future as I treat them as friend.

Only one girl has my heart--- and is killing me softly

steady lah bro....sometimes good to have bros around you to help bring you back to your senses when gong tao is strong :-)

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by shengge

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Why we always blame ourselves? Bcos, we know the consequences upfront yet we still 'itchy'. So we just have to face it when it comes.
How can we be careful? Even we are, but most of the panties are wet, super wet, very slippery, that's why many fall into the trap. It is always easy to say and that's why we are here......

agreed ... if all of us r so smart ... there will not be this conversation ...
the most important part is we learn from our mistakes and move on with our life ..
i always said "What cannot kill me will make me stronger" ...
And i believe we will be wiser after making mistakes ...
or don't we not ???

[shengge]

Originally Posted by adidas88

generally .... chinese are the smarter ppl on earth .....

Bcos in Sgp, govt already planted standardize software in our mind, we just followed. Like recent fugitive case, if you asked a PRC, most of them will tell you that person still under govt control, reason being obvious.

Originally Posted by adidas88

agreed ... if all of us r so smart ... there will not be this conversation ...
the most important part is we learn from our mistakes and move on with our life ..
i always said "What cannot kill me will make me stronger" ...
And i believe we will be wiser after making mistakes ...
or don't we not ???

Thanks for agreeing with me.
Indeed and unfortunately we have to learn from our mistake, as 忠言逆耳.

Cheers!

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

steady lah bro....sometimes good to have bros around you to help bring you back to your senses when gong tao is strong :-)

Ya loh.. good to have SBF bros too as sometimes tell other firends also scared next time they accidentaly tell other people..

hahaha

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by shengge

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Why we always blame ourselves? Bcos, we know the consequences upfront yet we still 'itchy'. So we just have to face it when it comes.

How can we be careful? Even we are, but most of the panties are wet, super wet, very slippery, that's why many fall into the trap. It is always easy to say and that's why we are here..........

Cheers!

Dear Senior Bro shengge,

I blame myself for not being careful enough. Like you have said, it is a mind game, sometimes you lose, something you win.

TO be careful, experience really comes in useful. Nevertheless, with my advanced age and the humble years in China, I would still fall into my own emotional trap. I hope I could be as careful as you, my dear Bro shengge.

Regards

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

I blame myself for not being careful enough. Like you have said, it is a mind game, sometimes you lose, something you win.

TO be careful, experience really comes in useful. Nevertheless, with my advanced age and the humble years in China, I would still fall into my own emotional trap. I hope I could be as careful as you, my dear Bro shengge.

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Life is always filled with ups & downs which all of us goes thru it all one way or another.....
As many fellow bros here on this thread shared & commnetd on one another's case, be it personal encounter, or a mutual friend's encounters it's all the same in the end, a sad ending usually. Nonetheless, every case said here, is a lesson learnt to many of us here.

Personally I have encountered twice such encounters with KTV gals too. Sounds really foolish especially after the 1st encounter, one should wise up and not fall into another yet as a few fellow bros mentioned, the heart rule over the mind!
But, without those 2 valuable lessons, I'm sure I won't have learnt it the hard way and won't be wiser now, thus always harbouring lots of cautions towards them all here in PRC.

To me right now, as mentioned in the Shanghai Recommendations, only stick to my own very basic principles and always remind myself that to keep a clear mind especially with encounters among KTV gals....be it they are willing or not in the KTV trade, as long as they choose to be in the trade, they have their own very Agenda and definitely looking for a suitable husband or man to spend the rest of their life is not one of the Agenda.

Just my cent worth of opinion bros......

[shengge]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

TO be careful, experience really comes in useful. Nevertheless, with my advanced age and the humble years in China, I would still fall into my own emotional trap. I hope I could be as careful as you, my dear Bro shengge.

Big Bro,
Agreed with you, experience helps. We mankind are simply funny creature that we know the trap but yet we still step onto it. Why? 太多美媚了。。。

Well, I must say that we are not here to warn anyone, simply to share, as I know at least we both are not saint.

You take care!!!
.........................hey, when can I have nttl.......

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Life is always filled with ups & downs which all of us goes thru it all one way or another.....
As many fellow bros here on this thread shared & commnetd on one another's case, be it personal encounter, or a mutual friend's encounters it's all the same in the end, a sad ending usually. Nonetheless, every case said here, is a lesson learnt to many of us here.

well said bro .... but i believe everyone here who contribute their points have personal encounters before thus we r able to hit the nail to the point ...
this is a very good thread to newbies and even oldbies .. that we r all very vulnerable in this cheong world .. no one is invincible but can be controllable if we want to ...

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

....be it they are willing or not in the KTV trade, as long as they choose to be in the trade, they have their own very Agenda and definitely looking for a suitable husband or man to spend the rest of their life is not one of the Agenda.

that's absolutely 10000% correct .... couldn't agreed anything less ...

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by adidas88

well said bro .... but i believe everyone here who contribute their points have personal encounters before thus we r able to hit the nail to the point ...
this is a very good thread to newbies and even oldbies .. that we r all very vulnerable in this cheong world .. no one is invincible but can be controllable if we want to ...


that's absolutely 10000% correct .... couldn't agreed anything less ...

True enuff.. my mm case settled today. I juz saw papers so she should be hm soon... time to let go loh

See if we will still be together when she is back in china.. else time to REALLI let go..

Like everyone said.. they are not here to look for love... if it works when she is back in China being herself then good.. else wish her well

[Sinoview]

Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

It's a dangerous mind set when players (us, cheongsters) start to think we KNOW the game that the MMs play. That way, we fool ourselves to think we are smarter than them. (sometimes we are, sometimes we aren't) The rules change everytime and sometimes the MM can reel a very very long line just to hook a potential gold mine.

Every mind game we can play on the MMs to convince them we are only seeing them alone, they can play the same mind games on you too.

So the best policy is still FUCK & FORGET. :

Wise words.....

But sometime for senior bros like Pu ton ren ( bro hope dont mind ) and myself , we need more than just Fxxx.. Hehe... We need some "romance" to be in place to make our Fxxx more meaningful n fun. Thus we r force into playing mind games with them.... Hehe...

Fully agreed, we just hv to be alert if we wanto play wif "fire".... We need to be awared that whenever we bs them they also bs us. Just take their words as a pinch of salt.

I like to remind myself " I m romancing her just for some good fXXX " NOT for love, never.

Cheerios