Missed opportunities

[nocsag]

my biggest miss was in australia. i was hanging with a malaysian chinese girl. so after i got a job there i reconnected with her. and told her i got a job. etc. conversation went to how I can help and advise her how to get one. so i said sure as long as there is wine at the end.

so we went for coffee and i got myself a cappucino. conveniently my place is 5 mins away from the cafe. just to add this girl who wasnt working dressed up so well to meet me. so we go back and i get the wine open. is just 1 bedroom and my bro is in the kitchen. we are drinking and laughing. im sitting across from her and we are talking about her legs. and my stomach rumbles. bad sign the milk in coffee and wine not mixing. i excuse myself and go into the bathroom and do my business. i come out and she wants to leave FUCK!

so it dies down. i later restart the convo about some tv show and she says she likes that. i say i have all the episodes if u want come over.
she comes down. casually dressed this time. but i dumbly think i gotta restart. im so pissed thinking about this
SHES SITTING ON MY BED IN SHORT SHORTS AND IM STILL TALKING TO HER !!!
she actually leaves my place with shows and i didnt start my own show fuck only i know the dumbness of this. never again

i was in europe later in my life and i was faced with similar situation. i met a girl and on my last day tell her im leaving
she actually says can i bring u a gift. i say sure. bring her up she gives me her gift. i tell her im so stressed cos the schedule happening so quickly
she offers me a shoulder rub. i return the favor. i cant do it with the t shirt on
then i cant do it with ur leggings on. lol she actually tells me "what are you doing"
i lift her bum up and slide it off and she sticks her tongue down my throat like the devil possesed her. my god!

[unsung80]

Originally Posted by vvtix

First time posting after being a long time reader only.

Was working at a cafe and there was this girl that came in that turned heads. Petite and very pretty face but moderately dressed. Tho I was "busy" working she caught me stealing glances through out the 45 mins she was there.

Thought that was it when I looked away from my laptop and she was gone. I continued work and packed up about 10 mins after...Guess who do I see outside the cafe? Took the courage to speak to her asking her if she was waiting for someone? She said she was just hanging about.

I asked her if she wanted to grab dinner and she said yes!!!Long story short: she was from out of town and came for sight seeing alone, 6 years younger than me! Invited me back to the hotel room she was staying at. She kept saying you can stay as long as you don't do anything...like 5-6 times. So I didn't...worried that she was younger than she said and also still green at that time...

At least you pluck your courage and hit her up. She said 5-6 times, sounds like a serious verbal warning.

[Jed1]

Originally Posted by nocsag

my biggest miss was in australia. i was hanging with a malaysian chinese girl. so after i got a job there i reconnected with her. and told her i got a job. etc. conversation went to how I can help and advise her how to get one. so i said sure as long as there is wine at the end.

so we went for coffee and i got myself a cappucino. conveniently my place is 5 mins away from the cafe. just to add this girl who wasnt working dressed up so well to meet me. so we go back and i get the wine open. is just 1 bedroom and my bro is in the kitchen. we are drinking and laughing. im sitting across from her and we are talking about her legs. and my stomach rumbles. bad sign the milk in coffee and wine not mixing. i excuse myself and go into the bathroom and do my business. i come out and she wants to leave FUCK!

so it dies down. i later restart the convo about some tv show and she says she likes that. i say i have all the episodes if u want come over.
she comes down. casually dressed this time. but i dumbly think i gotta restart. im so pissed thinking about this
SHES SITTING ON MY BED IN SHORT SHORTS AND IM STILL TALKING TO HER !!!
she actually leaves my place with shows and i didnt start my own show fuck only i know the dumbness of this. never again

i was in europe later in my life and i was faced with similar situation. i met a girl and on my last day tell her im leaving
she actually says can i bring u a gift. i say sure. bring her up she gives me her gift. i tell her im so stressed cos the schedule happening so quickly
she offers me a shoulder rub. i return the favor. i cant do it with the t shirt on
then i cant do it with ur leggings on. lol she actually tells me "what are you doing"
i lift her bum up and slide it off and she sticks her tongue down my throat like the devil possesed her. my god!

you're a genius, as you actually learned from a previous situation and applied the learned knowledge...

[Steventan]

Originally Posted by nocsag

my biggest miss was in australia. i was hanging with a malaysian chinese girl. so after i got a job there i reconnected with her. and told her i got a job. etc. conversation went to how I can help and advise her how to get one. so i said sure as long as there is wine at the end.

so we went for coffee and i got myself a cappucino. conveniently my place is 5 mins away from the cafe. just to add this girl who wasnt working dressed up so well to meet me. so we go back and i get the wine open. is just 1 bedroom and my bro is in the kitchen. we are drinking and laughing. im sitting across from her and we are talking about her legs. and my stomach rumbles. bad sign the milk in coffee and wine not mixing. i excuse myself and go into the bathroom and do my business. i come out and she wants to leave FUCK!

so it dies down. i later restart the convo about some tv show and she says she likes that. i say i have all the episodes if u want come over.
she comes down. casually dressed this time. but i dumbly think i gotta restart. im so pissed thinking about this
SHES SITTING ON MY BED IN SHORT SHORTS AND IM STILL TALKING TO HER !!!
she actually leaves my place with shows and i didnt start my own show fuck only i know the dumbness of this. never again

i was in europe later in my life and i was faced with similar situation. i met a girl and on my last day tell her im leaving
she actually says can i bring u a gift. i say sure. bring her up she gives me her gift. i tell her im so stressed cos the schedule happening so quickly
she offers me a shoulder rub. i return the favor. i cant do it with the t shirt on
then i cant do it with ur leggings on. lol she actually tells me "what are you doing"
i lift her bum up and slide it off and she sticks her tongue down my throat like the devil possesed her. my god!

Thanks for sharing.

[lovecim]

Not sure if this is counted as missed opportunity.

Accompanied a lady friend whom I was quite close with back to her place to get something late at night as we were hanging out after that. At her doorstep, she told me to come in quietly so as not to wake her family members up. In the end, I humji and just waited for her outside her house. Till today, I wonder what would have happened if I went in?

[Kovovo]

Originally Posted by lovecim

Not sure if this is counted as missed opportunity.

Accompanied a lady friend whom I was quite close with back to her place to get something late at night as we were hanging out after that. At her doorstep, she told me to come in quietly so as not to wake her family members up. In the end, I humji and just waited for her outside her house. Till today, I wonder what would have happened if I went in?

Probably get to cim...

[unsung80]

Originally Posted by lovecim

Not sure if this is counted as missed opportunity.

Accompanied a lady friend whom I was quite close with back to her place to get something late at night as we were hanging out after that. At her doorstep, she told me to come in quietly so as not to wake her family members up. In the end, I humji and just waited for her outside her house. Till today, I wonder what would have happened if I went in?

U get her ride of your lifetime.

[lovecim]

Originally Posted by Kovovo

Probably get to cim...

If only man. What a shame!

[lovecim]

Originally Posted by unsung80

U get her ride of your lifetime.

now I can only imagine. 😏

[lannian]

Originally Posted by lovecim

Not sure if this is counted as missed opportunity.

Accompanied a lady friend whom I was quite close with back to her place to get something late at night as we were hanging out after that. At her doorstep, she told me to come in quietly so as not to wake her family members up. In the end, I humji and just waited for her outside her house. Till today, I wonder what would have happened if I went in?

Yes, considered a missed opportunity. Probably you were inexperienced then

[LordVader]

Went East coast park Chalet with a friend, and her sec school classmates + some other hanger ons to celebrate the birthday of her sec school classmate.

We were in our late 20s.

Last time there was this Javanese spa massage place over there and she knew the owner.

So the next day after the festivities, I was in the Jacuzzi with my friend and one of the hanger-ons. (2 female and myself)

Then the talk change to sex and my friend told this hanger-on that my dick is quite a good size since she had touched it and stroke it before.

Hanger-on wanted to see but I refuse and chicken out.

Missed the opportunity for a 3some.

[vvtix]

Originally Posted by nocsag

wah thats a sign that she wants it.

Looking back I thought so too. Over time as I gained more experienced I knew how to read the situation. LOL

Originally Posted by unsung80

At least you pluck your courage and hit her up. She said 5-6 times, sounds like a serious verbal warning.

At that point in time I took it as such. Plus she looked really young. So didn't proceed to do anything

[nocsag]

Originally Posted by Jed1

you're a genius, as you actually learned from a previous situation and applied the learned knowledge...

thx man. best part is this girl was WAY hotter than the malaysian girl. I still have vivid memories. She wore leggings but you know la its see through. and i saw her panties under. black lace. didnt take me long. she was taller than me and her body was like a VS model. Angmoh chick my god.

[nocsag]

Originally Posted by LordVader

Went East coast park Chalet with a friend, and her sec school classmates + some other hanger ons to celebrate the birthday of her sec school classmate.

We were in our late 20s.

Last time there was this Javanese spa massage place over there and she knew the owner.

So the next day after the festivities, I was in the Jacuzzi with my friend and one of the hanger-ons. (2 female and myself)

Then the talk change to sex and my friend told this hanger-on that my dick is quite a good size since she had touched it and stroke it before.

Hanger-on wanted to see but I refuse and chicken out.

Missed the opportunity for a 3some.

wah wasted. no girl plans for a 3some. but if 2 are kissing , she cant just be watching right. lol

[ralliart]

I had my missed opportunities too... recalling bk I hate myself for not gng ahead.

That day I had a quarrel with my gf n in that evening a female friend called me to help her with her computer in her shop. Well since I knw I had to spend my entire day without my gf, I proceed to help her.

After fixing her computer, I stayed in her shop to drink n chit chat with her till closing time. By then, my friend knws abt my situation, suggested we hit a club nearby to continue drinking n partying.

We drank alot that night. We had a good time. The club closed at 4am n we left the club tipsy but not drunk. When my friend hopped into the cab hm, she signaled me to join her. I declined n we parted ways.

The next day, my gf asked where I went n I told her the truth (except the 'offer'). Till nw, my gf still believe I had a tryst with that female friend.

I shld hv hopped in that cab that night...