ML earning a lot more than me, I'm ashamed and have woke up

[assrimmer]

Bro it’s a fair exchange. ML service you, you pay her. How much she earns is her business.

Just treat it as a business transaction and pay her the agreed upon price. No more, no less.

And definitely no need to shower her with lavish gifts or extra $$$ as in her line many silly Roberts already doing the same.

[halogen019]

Originally Posted by assrimmer

Bro it’s a fair exchange. ML service you, you pay her. How much she earns is her business.

Just treat it as a business transaction and pay her the agreed upon price. No more, no less.

And definitely no need to shower her with lavish gifts or extra $$$ as in her line many silly Roberts already doing the same.

Agree.

It is like buying chicken rice from a stall. You pay for a plate and you get the food. You hardly should consider how much the hawker is earning. But I also have to agree paid sex is different on a whole emotional level.

Part of the reason I think causing such an issue is that there is a thinking by giving extra money or gifts, you get into the good books of MLs, which may lead you to believe you can squeeze something extra special out of them and then to realise they earn so much more than you, then the extra money/gift you gave to them suddenly seems inconsequential and negligible. Resulting in an unbalanced mindset.

I think giving small inexpensive gifts can contribute towards establishing good relationships with MLs. Simple texts of concerns may work too. But expensive bags, all expenses paid overseas holiday trips are way over the top and if not careful, you may mislead them to something else.

[MassageExpert84]

Some ML earn more while some earn less, some bros earn more while some earn less... as long as the ML never chop you or demand you for present or more money I feel that its ok.

Ren Bi Ren qi si ren if you get what i mean.