Falling in love...once again

[hunter89]

Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

(of cus narrow line exist between being a caring cheongster to being a carrot head)

How many people have cross the line to become a carrot head??? Sad to say, alot and the number continue to rise... Me myself had nearly cross the line a few times, but luckily was shaken awake by frens and financial problem. One way of teaching yourself not to fall into this trap again is to "Own up and admit that you had failed again, and to remind yourself time and time again not to fall into the trap again." By reminding yourself, you are hurting yourself, pain for your heart, pain for your money, therefore you will stay awake and wary of the trap.

This is what I do!

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

last nite marks the end of my misery.told her i rather gv her the money which i need to spend for the drinks & rm at the ktv so thou she may choose not to go wrk and maybe go watch movie with me.after wrk i sms her then she told me she decided to go work despite knwing biz may be bad.when i rch there,to my shock my frens were there too,then i saw her sitting with my fren(both me & my fren sat with her before,in fact my fren was the 1st to sit with her there),holding on to the 2 paus which i bought for her on my way there,i passed it to 1 of the waitress and left.went to the coffeeshop downstairs and drink 2 bots of tiger,at the same time i sms her.it seems to me she is not bothered at all so i decided to join my frens upstairs.i open a bot of hennessy balance and drank a lot of glasses ,on the rock in front of them.in the end,all of them just left,leaving me dead drunk,vomitted in the rm and took a cab back.have a gd sleep,now awake.its heartbreaking to knw she can be so heartless after all that i did for her.she did told me before she is just here to work,affairs of the heart she dont wish to think.maybe like one of my bro told me,maybe i enjoy torturing myself by engaging myself into such relationships,in the process getting myself emotionally slashed.hope time can heal all wounds and dont let myself get into such a situation ever again.Bless me my frens..

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

Hope time can heal all wounds and dont let myself get into such a situation ever again.Bless me my frens..

Take care hor. Only you can save yourself.

[hunter89]

Bro, I will kill you if I ever see you!
Told you time and time again, don't do foolish things.

1) How does it feel to see the girl you like with other people?
2) How much does it cost to open 1 bottle of Henessy?
3) How does it feel to get drunk, ignore by all your frens who drink to their heart content and left you to die at the room?
4) How is the headache when you wake up?
5) Are you feeling very shiok now, after seeing the girl with another man and your money being wasted on nothing, but endless drinking?

You really enjoy torturing yourself. Maybe what your fren did, by leaving you there is correct! But is it worth doing it?!

I sincerely hope that it will be the last time you get yourself into this position... I myself is not experience as any brother here, but I dare to say that when I cheong, I excercise more discipline for my own sake and money sake......

By the way, have you put yourself into your parents shoe, or someone who care for you as a fren, to see you like this? It is about time you do it.

[ct75]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

last nite marks the end of my misery.told her i rather gv her the money which i need to spend for the drinks & rm at the ktv so thou she may choose not to go wrk and maybe go watch movie with me.after wrk i sms her then she told me she decided to go work despite knwing biz may be bad.when i rch there,to my shock my frens were there too,then i saw her sitting with my fren(both me & my fren sat with her before,in fact my fren was the 1st to sit with her there),holding on to the 2 paus which i bought for her on my way there,i passed it to 1 of the waitress and left.went to the coffeeshop downstairs and drink 2 bots of tiger,at the same time i sms her.it seems to me she is not bothered at all so i decided to join my frens upstairs.i open a bot of hennessy balance and drank a lot of glasses ,on the rock in front of them.in the end,all of them just left,leaving me dead drunk,vomitted in the rm and took a cab back.have a gd sleep,now awake.its heartbreaking to knw she can be so heartless after all that i did for her.she did told me before she is just here to work,affairs of the heart she dont wish to think.maybe like one of my bro told me,maybe i enjoy torturing myself by engaging myself into such relationships,in the process getting myself emotionally slashed.hope time can heal all wounds and dont let myself get into such a situation ever again.Bless me my frens..

Firstly those are not your friends, they are your cheonging kakis... because your friends do not leave you dead drunk and to go home yourself, your friend do not up your girl.

Friend.... all I can say to you is this WAKE UP YOUR FUCKING IDEA......

To get yourself drunk, to fall in love with a PRC KTV girl.... you are fucking a idiot.... spend money on her tell her to stay at home.... She obviously treat you like a carrot to be chopped... to her "GOT STUPID SINGAPORE MAN GIVE ME MONEY"

KTV is a place for us men to spend money to rub, dig, fuck and be blown. Not a place for us to find girlfriend, to find "love" etc etc.... if you want to do that... then you will be the one that will get hurt...

[ct75]

anyone know how to insert a link to another thread? Want to post somethings I said in another thread to give some solid frank advice to this fellow here....

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

last nite marks the end of my misery......i open a bot of hennessy balance and drank a ......dead drunk,vomitted in the rm and took a cab back........its heartbreaking to knw she can be so heartless after all that i did for her. she did told me before she is just here to work,affairs of the heart she dont wish to think ......

Well bro like I said... if she's does not want... then dun plunge in.

Pull urself up ... if she's not worth your time... then go spend ur $$ elsewhere.

"Feelings" spent on her... whether it was worth it or not... only you yourself know. (think of the happy times... but oso know everthing is now PAST TENSE... she's not yours now and probably never will be.) As for $$$... that can be earned back.

Now it's the time to spend more time with your family and friends. HANG TOUGH, bro.


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[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

i knw wat i did was freaking stupid,i make ymself drunk on purpose.i woken up now,knwing this is just me zhi zuo duo qing.i have let go of her liao.gv me time,i will.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by hunter89

I sincerely hope that it will be the last time you get yourself into this position... I myself is not experience as any brother here, but I dare to say that when I cheong, I excercise more discipline for my own sake and money sake......

By the way, have you put yourself into your parents shoe, or someone who care for you as a fren, to see you like this? It is about time you do it.

sori to disappoint u bro and the rest who cares for me as a fren like u do,after last nite i realised all was a dream.gv me time,i will do wat i need to do.

[t123]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

i knw wat i did was freaking stupid,i make ymself drunk on purpose.i woken up now,knwing this is just me zhi zuo duo qing.i have let go of her liao.gv me time,i will.

this is a pain staking process which have to go thru. Take care bro.

[machoman]

Originally Posted by ct75

anyone know how to insert a link to another thread? Want to post somethings I said in another thread to give some solid frank advice to this fellow here....

Just go to the post in the other thread, copy & paste the link in this thread.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

i knw wat i did was freaking stupid,i make ymself drunk on purpose.i woken up now,knwing this is just me zhi zuo duo qing.i have let go of her liao.gv me time,i will.

You are not 自做多情, you are just giving her and yourself a chance to develop a further relationship. If this one can't move on lor. Y damage yourself over this? Do you want to end up like me 8 yrs back in hospital for alcohol poisioning just for a girl in 舞夜城, LP. The experience is farking dreadful man.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

You are not 自做多情, you are just giving her and yourself a chance to develop a further relationship. If this one can't move on lor. Y damage yourself over this? Do you want to end up like me 8 yrs back in hospital for alcohol poisioning just for a girl in 舞夜城, LP. The experience is farking dreadful man.

u r rite bro,i am moving on not only for myself,like wat bro hunter89,also for the ppl ard me who cares.

[ct75]

http://thesbf.shop/showthr...t=44499&page=8

Read this page.... there are some posts that I placed on the topic of falling for KTV girls.

I have seen young men, old men, middle aged men "fall in love" with ktv girls. I really dont understand.... don't you guys understand that you pay money, you get their company. Its a business transaction.... that simple! Why keep wanting to harp on the feeling, that this girl is different, etc etc etc... and to the THREADSTARTER...... you are even stupid enough to say that maybe you hope to be one of those rare ones that marry a KTV hostesses.... yeah they married a hostesses but did you go find out if they turned out happy?? There are so many women out there, even if you are FAT, UGLY, POOR (Which I dont think you are if you can afford to open bottle) there are defintely choices for you to choose from. Unless you are aiming only for looks which I tell you will fade with time. Smart men marry a wife that they have feelings for, that will stick with them. Not marry a pretty SYT that will run at the first sign of trouble.

We come out to play, we come out to cheong, we pay, we fuck. WE DONT FUCKING FALL IN LOVE WITH THE KTV HOSTESSES. UNLESS YOU ARE IN A HONG KONG GANGSTER MOVIE WHERE ALWAYS THE HERO HAS A LOVE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MAMA SAN.....

Hope you wake up your idea.... and even if you dont think for yourself, think for your parents.

[dap26]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

u r rite bro,i am moving on not only for myself,like wat bro hunter89,also for the ppl ard me who cares.

U definitely shld....