China Girls VS Singapore Girls VS Malaysian Girls

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by littlepok

do u guys ever wonder that there is this misconception about local men being together with prc gals are considered losers (cannot find local gals) or tio conned?

i broke up with a local gal and got together with a prc (bought BTO together liao. shes PR) and got alot of negative comments at the start, especially from the local gal family and friends.

initially i got this stigma within me too but now, please, the local gal give me back with ribbon on head i also dont want.

it's not exactly the sex portion, my prc gf dont like to give BJ and abit dead fish on bed (more room for improvement) but in other areas such as taking care of me etc, i got no complaints.

there are gems and shit in every nationality. u see so diverse variety of SG gals (few million population here only), let alone in whole MY or PRC. can't really stereotype but i guess SG gals command a premium (whole family is here. they are who u see since u grow up, dick grow pubic hair, do your first PCC etc) till u go out to higher schools or working life.

for own experience, i pick PRC over local. no experience with MY gals though.

Congrads on deciding to move to married life. I also faced the same negative stigma when dating PRC gals; my friends jokingly asked which KTV/massage parlour I know them or if I went to some marriage agency. Some of my friends (both male and female) started to comment that they are gold diggers, after PR status, etc, a few even tried to match make me with local gals.

I wasn’t happy, my buddy (married a PRC) told me that he faced the same problem too. Difference was he took it positively; he understood his friends were concerned that he might be cheated and end up in trouble, it wasn’t helping that there are a lot of PRCs here to work in the flesh trade and/ trying to cheat old men of their CPF (no sympathy for them, old enough to know better).

He told me since I chose, live with it; in fact he just said (when I or others asked why he married PRC): “I find that she will make a suitable wife for me because I think I can live with her”. They are married for two years now, recently had a baby. To confess (since he don't know who I am ), quite a number of us are a bit envious now, can tell the wife been taking good care of him.

Sorry for the long winded post, nothing much at work as most pple clearing leave.

Bro Little Pok, negativity about your SG man + foreign woman relationship is not uncommon; some locals think that we are superior (an unpleasant experience, when I think back now really shameful), can’t change that, but don’t let it bother your life.

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

....And by the way I was just asking what is SH girls? Nothing wrong with that right?

SH is Shanghai, I think you know that too lah…u more senior here

Originally Posted by joncheong

want to curse and swear at me also i bo pian .. i just come here share only, stating my viewpoints, not out to target specific groups

good discussion so far hopefully it continues

Agreed, some SH gals are very chio, but not that many actually. #8 told me that most SH gals are very attentive to dressing & grooming (peer pressure). I have seen many there that can beat SG gals hands down with all their makeup and highly fashionable dressing, but it’s even more impt how my gal look in private (yes, naked & makeup free).

Actually, I saw/know of a lot more Chio Bus from Suzhou & Hangzhou (neighbouring cities) don’t be surprise that a lot of the Chio Bus you see in SH and actually from Su Hang, working in SH. As in my previous post, PRC is so big & diverse, in terms of looks alone, u have:
- Pan-Asian mix from Xinjiang/Mongolia
- Korean/Jap/Russian/Manchurian mix from Liaoning/Jilin/Heilongjiang
- Chinese/Tribal (minorities) mix in Guizhou/Yunnan/Guangxi (look like thai/Viet + Chinese)
just to name a few (one can see from the map of PRC), but I do notice lots of gals from PRC have better skin, probably because of seasonal changes.

Also mentioned, SH gals can be quite demanding, while visiting #8 in SH; although both parents worked, I noticed #8’s father on a normal day actually:
1) go home after work to prepare dinner
2) cycled/walked to the bus stop to wait for his wife
3) after dinner do the washing up/cleaning

Not only that, most of the heavy cleaning in the house was done by her father, when asked #8 simply told me her situation was typical shanghaiese, even her male cousins were taught like this when growing up, the men should take care of their women. That was when I told my Sis, she should marry a SH man, hahahahaha.

[joncheong]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

SH is Shanghai, I think you know that too lah…u more senior here




Agreed, some SH gals are very chio, but not that many actually. #8 told me that most SH gals are very attentive to dressing & grooming (peer pressure). I have seen many there that can beat SG gals hands down with all their makeup and highly fashionable dressing, but it’s even more impt how my gal look in private (yes, naked & makeup free).

Actually, I saw/know of a lot more Chio Bus from Suzhou & Hangzhou (neighbouring cities) don’t be surprise that a lot of the Chio Bus you see in SH and actually from Su Hang, working in SH. As in my previous post, PRC is so big & diverse, in terms of looks alone, u have:
- Pan-Asian mix from Xinjiang/Mongolia
- Korean/Jap/Russian/Manchurian mix from Liaoning/Jilin/Heilongjiang
- Chinese/Tribal (minorities) mix in Guizhou/Yunnan/Guangxi (look like thai/Viet + Chinese)
just to name a few (one can see from the map of PRC), but I do notice lots of gals from PRC have better skin, probably because of seasonal changes.

Also mentioned, SH gals can be quite demanding, while visiting #8 in SH; although both parents worked, I noticed #8’s father on a normal day actually:
1) go home after work to prepare dinner
2) cycled/walked to the bus stop to wait for his wife
3) after dinner do the washing up/cleaning

Not only that, most of the heavy cleaning in the house was done by her father, when asked #8 simply told me her situation was typical shanghaiese, even her male cousins were taught like this when growing up, the men should take care of their women. That was when I told my Sis, she should marry a SH man, hahahahaha.

Very true, shanghai men tend to be very caring and serving to their shanghai gfs or wives..... Carry handbags for them etc....

[camry108]

I know SH gals are demanding but this is

[banana81sg]

1 strike for china girls?

[naturegreen]

Nice youtube clip.

[joncheong]

very true, i would say in everywhere but especially so in PRC

[jacky43]

Mine discussion will touch on this group of girls, including white girls too many had a same nick. That will be trying/using means to extent their long terms stay in this country.

For the guys many could not extent the working passes 4the second term, which we had seen from the group of PRC drivers. Trouble makers that companies never like, so difficult for another term.

However females wise 4homeboys, go for the educated ones not those looking like PRC country girls. Why? Because this girls fool around with men, while those students office girls type make good wives. But u have to treat them well after marry or she will take her passports and go missing.

Side track abit, I was surprised that PRC Teochew girls still had the typical pettie pretty materials from the first generation of their granny, migrating into this country. I heard from mine new neighbor wife, "Hubby have you eaten? Working is tough could I prepare food4u?"

A home girl with this attitude, don't make me loud.

[jacky43]

Still how to hook the right ones? Do your home work maybe the old man of this country is correct 50 yrs ago. He had a dream a vision of local gentleman which certain extent had to have his making.

Not the $ we could never have that kind of $, no mine man never so don't bother over it.

The special one had to understand western and eastern ways, master English which is a nick Asian man over here does not really had. For the white boys they would never capture Asian culture, no matter what they do.

This 2 yrs I notice FT ladies find me different, for I spoke English while their (PRC) guys don't. White girls speak 2them in the intelligent ways, because she had a negative mindset of local man who are scary cats.

End of days still bring out the old man, 4 he is someone who calls the "white black" society. I had wrote in PT threats, only this old man had the right to tell us to leave the place.

[director66]

Only dated 2 SG girls so far...screwed PRC girls. Worked with MY girls.
Based on the limited experience i have, got to say, local gals are really quite demanding and real hard to find one that is supportive and not always putting you down. MY gals seems more understanding and accomodating.
PRC gals seems quite materialistic...perhaps also due to my limited interaction with them.
Still hopeful that i can find a gal SG or MY that is supportive...sigh.

[infinitus]

You old morons think that foreign gals from vietnam, china or even malaysia won't cheat your money and bring you green hat with another younger handsome or rich guys behind your back??? Comeon, stop dreaming lah!

Whatever nationality the gal is from, still have black sheeps around one lah. I rather let spore gal con than to let some foreign low class cheapo gal con. Simply it's becos at least spore local gals are worth more than some low class foreign gal from vietnam, china or malaysia from the villages. Hahaha

[geylangbonker]

Originally Posted by infinitus

You old morons think that foreign gals from vietnam, china or even malaysia won't cheat your money and bring you green hat with another younger handsome or rich guys behind your back??? Comeon, stop dreaming lah!

Whatever nationality the gal is from, still have black sheeps around one lah. I rather let spore gal con than to let some foreign low class cheapo gal con. Simply it's becos at least spore local gals are worth more than some low class foreign gal from vietnam, china or malaysia from the villages. Hahaha

Hm.. your thoughts or opinions of sgp men is being underestimated here.
you think that spore gals are worth more than other asia counterparts?
Just because they are born with the spore dollar sign face, so you think that they are of higher class?
you should broaden your horizons though...serious ...兄弟｀头　脑　也　太　过 simple-minded.



　







　　

[batty]

Among PRC, Singaporean and Malaysian girls who peel prawns, take off their boyfriends' coats and generally serve their boyfriends? Who among those girls still do so after marriage? Who among those girls are the most courteous?

[danny ang]

Totally agreed. thumbs up. They think like we are carrots. haha. Even for SG Fl, think their cb like got gold, damn ex.

Originally Posted by Psalm

Underline sentences very true.

had lunch and dinner with S'pore (single) ladies. They expected (all men) I should pay for it.

After a few lessons, I learnt to be smart. I paid my own, and she forced to pay for her own automatically.

I presume most S'pore women naturally take advantage of men (probably genetically or already in their blood). S'pore women are smart when they knew you are earning well (job gives them clue), hands of their purse immediately.


Agree!

Add on: Singapore ladies cannot accept being told that they are wrong. Very often, they must always be right and win the argument.

[maxman]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

Another gal comparing thread, allow me to input my $0.02 worth of experience:

1) SG, 3 GFs: #1 (in NS time), #3 during Uni, #4 start working life.
2) MY, 2 GFs: #5 (Malaccan), #7 (JB/Ipoh)
3) PRC, 2GFs: #8 (Shanghai), #10 (Sichuan, current)

Based on experiences, SG gals appeared to be more headstrong and dominating at times. MY gals appear to be more docile and willing to compromise while PRC gals are a mix between MY and SG gals.

I think SG gals behave more like the westerners due to our education, they tend to be more frank and open, (my friend use the term Angmoh Dik /red hair straight) very easy to tell about the gal’s mood from her face and body language.

So like westerners, SG gals appear strive for gender equality but only to their advantage (remember the newspaper article: men must always pick up the tab during dates?).

Also I think most SG gals comes from small family these days, very well care for; most don’t stay away from home until Uni time, so they don’t really know how to take care of themselves, the house and let alone the man.

MY gals, many actually stayed apart from their folks at an early age, due to studies and work (Malaysia is big #5, told me she stayed in Penang with her ex when she was 17 to save on rental) so they are actually quite independent and realistic, but probably growing up in a larger families will see them being less pampered.

I think the term PRC gals is not really a good example to call them (I think is the same for MY gals), both MY and PRC are much larger than SG so it’s not that simple, each area have their habits and culture, especially in PRC. #8 was pretty dynamic and actually pretty demanding, at time more so than SG gals, #10 was much more laid back and a lot less demanding. The common thing between the 2 is that both will put up their demands in a more feminine way compare to our local gals. They ‘teh’ u in a nice way.

As far as sex is concern, there is no real meaning to compare between countries; if the gal like u she’ll go out of her way to please. #1 and #3 were selfish lovers, they like what I could do with my finger and mouth but did not return the favour, and we could only do if they are in the mood (luckily they were pretty horny then ).

#4 was the best so far (#10 is getting real close) game for almost anything, CIM (& swallow), COF, COB except rear (which we hate), we had fun in public and in private.

As for #5, she wouldn’t do much, just lie down, open her legs, and after the deed, (she) would immediately go wash up. She wouldn’t let me lick her; prefer me to do it fast. Once I asked her if she’s not enjoying the sessions, seems that she think exchange of body fluid with another person is unhygienic and disgusting, she prefer me to just finger her till she cums.

So there, I still think like what I posted in other gal comparison threads, the important thing is look for a gal u like, why be restricted by nationality? Important is where you met her, what she does for a living etc.

My experience with girls from these countries isn't much. Based on my experience, I agree with you about "SG gals appear strive for gender equality but only to their advantage", and "MY gals appear to be more docile and willing to compromise". It can be quite pointless to compare sexual attitudes across nationalities even though it may be true that certain nationalities may be generally more conservative than others towards sex, but so is every individual girl depending on her family upbringing. It is almost surely true what you said "if the gal like u she’ll go out of her way to please". I'm inclined to believe many men here who have had girlfriends would generally have had better or wilder sex with them (such as outdoor sex, car sex, role-playing sex, bondage sex or raw sex) than with prostitutes.

I like your well-thought explanation of your past experiences taking into account the girls' family size, social conditioning in the country, and the country geographical size. Your response was surely one of the better responses in this thread.