Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

[DDAMn]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

Just to share with the bros,

My ex "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.

Well bro wat u say is truth.For my part my divorce was the darkest part in my life.Sacrificed everything left everything for her in the i'm the one suffering with the hurt.Maybe some lucky one do have the fairytale ending but most crash n burned and lived forever with the hurt.So ppls may say wat made us so blind to choose this kind of love but ppls will never understand our situations unless they being through it themselves.we didn't asked ur wish for it.It just happened n we lost the rational thinking and got carried away with the false promises n false love.

QOUTEo blamed ppls for bad decisions n unrational thinking for we r only human who tend to err when we start thinking with the heart then think our brain.

[archer69]

I thought this would never happen to me to fall in love but now I'm trapped.
I got fall in love and she also love me (she said).

She is different never ask money, except when we go eat outside
Of course I have to pay.

We enjoy going out and making love 1-2x weekly, but it really worries me
When the days she is not with me, and thinking she making love also with other
Guys. This cause me stress and pain in my heart.

[senny86]

Few guidelines to follow when in relation with all women
1) Always love your family and money more than women
2) Never pay for their shopping. If you do so, you are branding yourself as an ATM.
3) Their family problem is never your problem

Feel free to pm me if you are in relation with FL and you want some unbiased opinions.

totally agreed with TS, well said.

Love yourself more despite how beautiful the FL is, money and heart lost, still can recover, family lost, its gone...

cherish family

[patrickjane]

Was feeling moody because kena KC but after reading the posts here made me feel much better. Thou I knew the rules of the game but cant help but get attracted to the charm. Oh well. Lessons in life.

[Big Sexy]

is your girl pretty? what is the charges like?
i would like to insert my big dick into her lovehole,
just like many thousands have done and many more will do. please advise

Originally Posted by archer69

thinking she making love also with other
Guys. This cause me stress and pain in my heart.

[maxsee]

Love yourself first before u love others....the day u love someone more than urself is the day u stand a good chance of kenna con....

[gfexxx]

Well, had a 2 hour massage session today, 1 hour for action and the other solely for GFE(this is what i always do). Witnessed how a poor fellow fell for a FL. The FL was telling me how a customer was persistently disturbing her, asking her out and blah blah, and it so happened that the guy called while we were talking about him.

The guy said that he was already downstairs, brought her chicken rice and wondered if he could come up, I was like wtf?! The poor FL had to coax him home, like how a mum does it to a crying baby. The FL told him before that "you can't give me what I need, nor do we have a future", yet (unsurprisingly) he still can't snap out of it. Oh, according to the FL, he's married with kids (way to go man!). Many FLs simply tried put up with such idiots until they leave, not wanting to offend them. This FL was nice enough to give it to him straight and did not exploit him, but would he always be this lucky?

It's inevitable that sometimes our feelings blur the reality, and I myself for one fell for FLs before, but I simply visit them more often, book their entire night and shit, and the day they leave the country is the day everything shall be forgotten.

Happy fucking and be safe.

[tiikokia]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

The modern females take this as a profession & part-time financial freedom. So guys, don't take it too seriously ok. We're just one of their suckers & it's always a transaction. You make them happy, they make you happy

agree on this one. this is the way to go.

[sammysgboy]

Seriously, does all these FLs worth to be loved Just because they have sex with you
Can someone advise?

[Auhwey]

Originally Posted by sammysgboy

Seriously, does all these FLs worth to be loved Just because they have sex with you
Can someone advise?

Its their job. If you mentally can sustain people having sex with your FL partner, and emotionally you love her. Then ok you can carry on.

[enzyme]

Originally Posted by Auhwey

Its their job. If you mentally can sustain people having sex with your FL partner, and emotionally you love her. Then ok you can carry on.

Been thru this phase. Saw her and other guys naked walking in and out of the room to the toilet to wash up while I am hiding in the other room.

Whenever her customer comes, she ask me to go to the next room to hide.

After the deed, she always tells me only 打飞机. She say she only do small dont do big.

Well, I heard so many times piak piak piak. Once I had to tell her that it’s too loud (her moaning) and we went into an awkward silence.

The next day, we pretended like nothing happened. Every time this happened, my heart hurts and I dip into some depression.

Worst is she will never recognise me as the bf. in front of others, she will keep a distance.

It is a good few years.

Well, it’s part of my silly phase.

I still wish her all the best in her life.

[kuriya]

From this thread and at least one other thread I had read, it seems to me most men here despise what they use to enjoy.

I am not saying that you should love a prostitute but you guys sound like they are not worthy to be loved, ought to be treated as a sex object only and they don’t have feelings.

And what I am hearing from this thread is that: if she loves you, she wouldn’t take money from you.

The most ridiculous thing I ever heard.

Isn’t money a form of measurement of one’s love too? When you like something, you spend money on it eg. I love travelling, so I spend money on it; I love branded bags, so I spend money on them; I love my parents, so I give them money; I love my siblings, so I give them money.

Why should a prostitution gf not expect money from you?

Are you saying your non-prostitute gf and wife not only give you free fuck, they also pay for everything themselves? Then don’t they look even cheaper than prostitutes?

Even Fann Wong said a man who’s stingy with money is stingy with love. HK actress Anita Yuen said she’s so independent that she doesn’t spend her own money. So are you saying they don’t love their men?

It’s only reasonable for any gf or wife to expect men to support them monetarily. I find it warped that you men actually think prostitutes should prove their love by not asking for money from you. If you are so cheapskate, then don’t fall in love with a prostitute, or any woman for that matter.

[chaoslord]

Originally Posted by kuriya

From this thread and at least one other thread I had read, it seems to me most men here despise what they use to enjoy.

I am not saying that you should love a prostitute but you guys sound like they are not worthy to be loved, ought to be treated as a sex object only and they don’t have feelings.

And what I am hearing from this thread is that: if she loves you, she wouldn’t take money from you.

The most ridiculous thing I ever heard.

Isn’t money a form of measurement of one’s love too? When you like something, you spend money on it eg. I love travelling, so I spend money on it; I love branded bags, so I spend money on them; I love my parents, so I give them money; I love my siblings, so I give them money.

Why should a prostitution gf not expect money from you?

Are you saying your non-prostitute gf and wife not only give you free fuck, they also pay for everything themselves? Then don’t they look even cheaper than prostitutes?

Even Fann Wong said a man who’s stingy with money is stingy with love. HK actress Anita Yuen said she’s so independent that she doesn’t spend her own money. So are you saying they don’t love their men?

It’s only reasonable for any gf or wife to expect men to support them monetarily. I find it warped that you men actually think prostitutes should prove their love by not asking for money from you. If you are so cheapskate, then don’t fall in love with a prostitute, or any woman for that matter.

This is a very old thread that was bumped. Many of the writers here no longer frequent this thread.

This is a sex forum - most posters here have no issues paying for sex. That's why they come here. The notion of no money for sex if its love is stupid thinking especially when it comes to WL. A service provided should always be paid no matter what. We do this even with wives / gfs.

That said something in this thread has clearly triggered you. Could I ask if you are female as you refer to us as "you men" and you refer to "branded bags"? If yes, are you a WL? No offense if either or neither.

[ps7432]

Personally encountered before. In short, two options. For final outcome:
- get married and settle down out of SG and she will stick with you as long as yu can sustain her.
- dont get married because cannot settle down out of SG then you need to ensure that you can sstain her while her being out of your sight.

Summary - no money no talk. If they can settle easily they will not make this last decision to get into this line. You want her to stick to you regardless of monetary status? Pardon me but imho only.

[jipbroni]

i’m not sure about what I’m going through is real or not. Been seeing one ML for almost 2 years. And only started to get emotionally attached to her since last October 2019. Initially all my visits to her were just like the norm, massage, chit chat and ending the session with release of stress. And long story short, she slowly opened up herself to me, such as, her real name, her history back at home, showed me her work pass, told me she have a real boyfriend outside her work and her boyfriend is not aware of her actual job scope. (The boyfriend I have verified is real, not stories created by her. Plus she needs to report to him and he will call to check on her at times). She allows me to send her home after her work (discreetly), took the bus back to her place together. And also accompany her to work by bus as well. Meet up a few times with her just a few hours before she needs to report for work outside at those transit hotels (pretty obvious why. LOL) and also managed to spend one entire day with her on her working day to celebrate her birthday. Throughout the time we spent together never a time the dollars and cents were mentioned. Bottom line is, she told me she love me and want to be with me, but she need time to settle her relationship issues with the current boyfriend as her family at home is close to his. And she also need to resolve her marriage issues at home which she was left alone 7 years ago. Honestly I would say I feel the same way for her too. But am still being paranoid because I know her from a spa. Is this real? Or just a KC trap?