is it worth it?

[is it kc??]

Originally Posted by GeMiNiZzzzZzz

Wow..100 Fls..
Then y still never learn the art of f&f..

er bro, hundreds of fls played doesnt mean that wont fall, i remember reading a bro writing, u can try hundreds of gals( which i really did) but it just take 1 to make you fall( which i did met), and last time when i f&f, the feeling was good cos escaping all that kc trap, but if you play that style for too long, then eventually will get bored and change a style of game play, and i believe thats why i had fallen, but till now i still firmly believe that i will be ok once this fl is gone,i will not do those ridiculous things like going to china to find her all that, sure a big no no for me.

Originally Posted by label34

If you seriously want to get out of this mess, remove sex from the equation. Small head and big head will never work hand in hand. Then, sit down and think hard.
That's all I have to say.

no worries bro, actually this thread was started to ask for opinion on whether i should pay this fl 1 shot the $$$ for a month or not? but suddenly all the kc players all come out and thus this thread is beginning to be like my personal diary, quite pleased with that though, at least kc players here can give me opinion on what they think the fl is thinking and i can see more clearly, but i will have to admit that i really had true feelings for her, but how far and how long this thing will go on, its a big question mark. and the bottomline is i dun even know what i want out of this r/s too. thats the part that i seriously need advice too.

[is it kc??]

due to the recent treatment that she had been giving me, i decided to play the cold war game, but after near to 24hrs, i cant take it and smsed her scolding her upside down asking her why she dun answer my calls or reply my sms. is it that she is finding me a nuisance?

her reply was too good for me to scold her and she turn all the blame on me back by saying that why she never answer my calls was she knew that its me, and since my intention was to talk to her only, and that time she was with a customer, then she will feel that i wont blame her for not answering the call, after all we are already so familiar and we shouldnt be so calculating.

if i am so calculating with her, then what for i still want to be with her and shower her with tlc? then should she still trust that my concern for her is true? i get stunned by her scolding and ended up saying that the way she treated me was making me feel bad and i feel more worse than her customer.and she should think herself why i throw my temper at her.

then silence took over for awhile, and received her sms that i 无理取闹,我们都常有谈天，你还嫌不够吗？，i reply her very simple，我会这样子，都只因为我太在乎你了。then she reply again with the sms stating, 呵呵呵，你不是说不会爱上我吗？我看你就是爱上我了，糟了，嘻嘻嘻. then i answered maybe i did. then the all time super powerful question appeared again, 你觉得你会离婚吗？你回娶我吗？this question was like giving me a jaw snook and i replied 我无法否认我对你真有感觉，可是我也不会要求你有所付出，因为对你太不公平了。then she reply, 既然如此，我们还是顺其自然好了，该发生的事怎样也躲不开，你说对吗?

so bros, this is the update for today. hope you guys all the kc players can give me opinion on what you all are reading.thanks.

[label34]

I'm curious, bro. If you said that you won't do 'ridiculous things like going to china to find her.'

Then what kind of true feelings do you have towards her? Feelings of being a part time bf/fling?

[egmar mah]

bro kc,then u got to seek my teacher for advise. he is the master of kc,normally known as kc 之王。go pm him( shanghai kid ) lah

[is it kc??]

Originally Posted by label34

I'm curious, bro. If you said that you won't do 'ridiculous things like going to china to find her.'
Then what kind of true feelings do you have towards her? Feelings of being a part time bf/fling?

precisely bro. thats what i myself cant figure out too kc her until free sex, i cant bring myself to do that, but my session is always better in terms of damage and number of session wise.

then ask me bring the game up to a higher level, i cant do that also, scared that i really hurt her too cos i really care for her.

thats the worst part i facing now, if ask me give up on her, i cant bear to do that too, cos got kc between us already and she is indeed harmless( at least to me).so how?
thats why bros here said that i get kc big time, but i already said that i admit that i had feelings for her and i am sure that she is feeling the same for me too, but not those type that will end up a tragedy(at least thats what i hope and the impression that she gave me too says no danger)

[is it kc??]

Originally Posted by egmar mah

bro kc,then u got to seek my teacher for advise. he is the master of kc,normally known as kc 之王。go pm him( shanghai kid ) lah

if he teach kc to get free sex, then no thanks bro, in fact i had a few encounters like that before and it never last long, most is 1 month and they will start to wake up and will ask for $$$ also, any bros who can tell me that he can kc fls and free sex without any $$$ involved,is actually just stating that the free sex needs to be returned in one way or another no matter in wat type form only, i dun believe anything in this world is free.

[label34]

Why are you so sure that she is feeling the same way as you?

Don't you feel that she keeps teling you 'we are so familiar and shouldn't be calculative' for some reason?

Anyway, I just read your latest update. You are simply running around in circles. You get agitated, you confront her, she pops the big question, you turn silent, and the cycle repeats. Nothing changed.

Unless you intend to do 1 of the following, you can enjoy being trapped in this vicious cycle forever:

1. Divorce your wife and marry this woman
2. Cut off all contacts and stay away from this woman

You can't bear to do it because she is harmless? Harmless because she is not asking you for anything yet? So what are you going to do if she really falls in love with you and threatens to expose you to your wife? Still harmless and full of KC?

[egmar mah]

fuck lah,this (is it kc) juz wan to try post story down here lah. whatever bros can advice he still will carry on posting n talk cork here. lets not waste time on him all bro over here

[cablesnwires]

Bro 'is it kc', you are remaining in limbo, and that's no good. Take a stand, not sit on the fence. Whatever decision you decide to make, you can start moving on.

I'm not advocating any advice. But remember this, whenever you quarrel with her, she will use the same question again and again (this is the 2nd time), and you will back down eventually. She has total control.

You lost the game when you cannot tahan after 24hrs. Take care.

[slider_72]

TS, you are confirmed goner liao.

The things she said to you, are like the basic standard lines that all WLs use. I am begining to suspect that there is a WL school in PRC where they all attend KC classes before coming over to Singapore. Damned! They all seem to say the same things!

The way you behaved shows that she got you cornered liao.

Start an argument with her because of what she did, you end up being scolded by her and accept it with your tail between your legs. I believe even your legally wedded wife does not do that to you. Why do you allow a whore to bash you up like that? Think about it, you are supposed to pay her money in order to derive enjoyment and physical pleasure, not to be insulted and bashed emotionally.

She definitely got the upper hand in this game. Think about it bro;

1. She got nothing to lose, but you stand to lose your entire life, family, career, etc. If you want to push the relationship further, or tie her down, all she needs to do is to ask whether you are prepared to divorce your wife and marry her. You lose.

2. You cannot stop her from fucking other men. Its her job. If you start complaining about her fucking other men, her response to you would be you knew she was in this line of business when you met. Furthermore, she needs the money. If she doesn't fuck other men for money, will you support her financially? You lose.

3. You do not own her. She owned you. She can disappear for days without contacting you. You feel miserable because you know exactly what she is doing, ie fucking other men. When you start arguing with her, she will say "...we are already so intimate with each other, our relationship is not like customer-whore relationship anymore. You don't trust me?...". You lose.

4. If you start telling her that you love her, have feelings for her, etc, I bet you her response would be I dare not fall in love with you because if I do, I will be the one who will be hurt in the end. Once you hear that statement, I guarantee your heart will melt for her. She would have a love-sick puppy following her around but she is still free to go on fucking other men for money. You lose.

I swear bro, there must be some standard template floating out there somewhere. All the PRC WLs use the same lines, and in some cases, practically verbatim. Don't be surprised if one day, you see the lines she used on you being posted somewhere on the internet. She probably copied them from there or had them memorised when sitting for her exams in Whore School, KC 101.

You mentioned that you will not do something stupid like visiting her in China once she leaves. Trust me bro, if you continue the way you are now, my bet is that you will migrate to China one day. Be honest with yourself, aren't you fantasizing the possibility of you going to China to be with her once her term here is over? Wondering what kind of job or business you can do in China?

She is not your problem bro, you are the source of your own problem. Identify the problem that is plaguing you and meet it head on.

[slider_72]

Bro TS, some other standard form templates that the WLs use, for your reference;

有些事，我们明知道是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心；有些人，我们明知道是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没结局； 有时候，我们明知道没路了，却还在前行，因为习惯了。

很多人，因为寂寞而错爱了一人，但更多的人，因为错爱一人，而寂寞一生。我们可以彼此相爱，却注定了无法相 守。不是我不够爱你，只是我不敢肯定，这爱，是不是最正确的。如果可以从新选择，我希望可以爱 得更单纯

有些人会一直刻在记忆里的，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但是每当想起他时的那种感 受，是永远都不会改变的。

离别与重逢，是人生不停上演的戏，习惯了，也就不再悲怆。

我们在错误的时间相遇，在正确的时间却又分开……希望等我走了以后，不要把我忘记。我们依然还 是朋友。

[Frankiestine]

TS kena KC....remind yourselves how many dick has dipped into that pussy and probably how many other of her customer she has given the same kind of so call KC treatment to in the hope of landing one big sucker, hook and sinker and then come back and tell us whether you still feel KC or not...

REMEMBER THIS "Great sex doesn't mean love"

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by is it kc??

if he teach kc to get free sex, then no thanks bro, in fact i had a few encounters like that before and it never last long, most is 1 month and they will start to wake up and will ask for $$$ also, any bros who can tell me that he can kc fls and free sex without any $$$ involved,is actually just stating that the free sex needs to be returned in one way or another no matter in wat type form only, i dun believe anything in this world is free.

Wow, bro... I have always been a firm believer that "Suckers are born every minute".

But you, you are truly one in a million. You are that special one that can only be produced after billions of minutes have passed by. Why? Because you embody the sucker-ness of a billion suckers.

If KC is not for free sex (due to the devotion of the FLs towards you), what the fuck is it for? I tell you, truely (and some falsely) KC-ed FLs would NEVER receive money for sex even if you force it into their hands.

I also believe that nothing in the world is free. KCing people takes TIME. Time is as asset. By KCing them, you already pay with your TIME. Why the fuck you want to pay them MONEY some more?

I hope I can meet you in real life so that I can sell you the London Bridge... I'm sure you're have some hotshot negotiation skills...

Thanks to this forum, I can fully ascertain the words of old, "Rather to parent a wastrel than to give birth to a sucker."

Wastrels at least waste the money for their OWN pleasure. You, on the other hand, waste money to give OTHERS pleasure while you wallow in pain.

Thumbs up to you!

[colins]

is it kc, give us her contact. We will show you who she is.

I just re-read your previous posts. Bro, you dun know what you are doing and dun know what you want la. I dun think anybody saying anything here can help you anymore, it is up to you already.

You are only building up the pain you will suffer when everything falls apart. And it will.

[Thom07]

Do you think he wants to be helped?