It is worth forsake everything in singapore and join her in china to start a new life

[aczeta76]

TS,

Dun kid yourself hoh... Even Shen Zhen which has been growing like 26% the past few years has many hundred of factories closing down the last few months.

Money is not easy to make in china now.

My Ex-ZH GF juz contacted me a few weeks back.. told me very chiam in ZH and ask if I could go see her... still feel for her so I told her NO to cut things short else the cycle will start again.

However, it still affected me and this is Y you see me hyper active asking for ctcs online these few weeks, need someone to shake my mind off her...

haiz... tough times ahead so hang on tight for the ride..

[colins]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

My Ex-ZH GF juz contacted me a few weeks back.. told me very chiam in ZH and ask if I could go see her... still feel for her so I told her NO to cut things short else the cycle will start again.

However, it still affected me and this is Y you see me hyper active asking for ctcs online these few weeks, need someone to shake my mind off her...

Agree with the assessment of shenzhen, many unemployed released into the job market now. A lot of them will just enjoy themselves pass the CNY, but a couple of months after that, China will see many changes. They have to brace it in June/July period when both the newly unemployed and graduates who can't find employment run out of cash to live.

If I may offer a suggestion, just delete all your contacts with ur ex-ZH girl. You can think of a way to get out of her radar if you really want to. Otherwise, how long do you have to shake your mind off her? Everytime she contact you?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

If I may offer a suggestion, just delete all your contacts with ur ex-ZH girl. You can think of a way to get out of her radar if you really want to. Otherwise, how long do you have to shake your mind off her? Everytime she contact you?

Not that I know our dear bro aczeta76 very long, but from the day i knew him till now on this forum, this ZH gal has always appeared...somehow!
From that, i dare say, this is gal that has won a place in his heart & for him to LET GO, vely vely the gung kor!
Tiobo aczeta76
This is known as "The Curse of a WL!"

[GreenHorny]

Yo brudder,
would like to give you my 2 cents worth of opinion on this matter. I am living in China currently for about a year.
First of all, this gal you are refering to is that you met her in a ktv in Singapore. Most of gals working in ktv in spore are actually a 'grade' above those in china ktv. Meaning they are definitely smarter and more street smart. They have seen, taste money b4. So you must be able to give them a decent living. And KC in such scene, chances of real KC from them is like less than 10percent, but that does not means no chance la.
Well, im not sure where ur gal is frm, but if shes frm sichuan/chongqing region pls beware as i met gals frm there which r good in pleasing men for their money.
Next,your option in living in China. I hope that you consider gg china only if u realli like that place. Culture is really different k..
Teaching in china is not a bad option, as i have frends who are doing so. Wont say earn alot though....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Not that I know our dear bro aczeta76 very long, but from the day i knew him till now on this forum, this ZH gal has always appeared...somehow!
From that, i dare say, this is gal that has won a place in his heart & for him to LET GO, vely vely the gung kor!
Tiobo aczeta76
This is known as "The Curse of a WL!"

You are rite.. blessing is that she is too young and unable to come to SG else I may really give up everything for her.

Bro Collin, I did delete all her ctc, then she QQ me recently on the anni of our 1st meeting...wat can I say...I can't stand the thought of her lonely over there but I have been quite firm with her as in not going to ZH to see her

The last few months have already helped me quite a bit..

[colins]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

You are rite.. blessing is that she is too young and unable to come to SG else I may really give up everything for her.

Bro Collin, I did delete all her ctc, then she QQ me recently on the anni of our 1st meeting...wat can I say...I can't stand the thought of her lonely over there but I have been quite firm with her as in not going to ZH to see her

The last few months have already helped me quite a bit..

aiyo bro, you know what I meant when I say delete all her contact. Its means there should be no such as she QQ you what. Deleted and block how to contact you? But friend, for your own good la, you know what I mean ok.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by colins

aiyo bro, you know what I meant when I say delete all her contact. Its means there should be no such as she QQ you what. Deleted and block how to contact you? But friend, for your own good la, you know what I mean ok.

I know lah... She had my QQ for almost 1 year and never ctc me on it before mah... so it was a shock when she did ctc me through it..

I will survive lah... I no longer yearn for her but looking at the situation in China, I still can't help but worry for her..

Afterall, we had been...

[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Afterall, we had been...

and the story continues..... you still have liking for her. somehow from how i see it. U give urself alot of benefit of a doubt. thats enough to show ur liking.

Ur niceness can kill u lor. Just like me. too nice kenna eat.. sigh.

[EtherC]

Learn how to vanish like they do. Never notice how well many of these girls vanish and appear like ninjas to call you when they need more $? That's why I have said in previous posts: have a different sim card for cheonging, reveal nothing about your real occupation, just say you have a gf and you cheong when she's away, try not to drive when you meet them etc. Delete your QQ /Msn/Skype account. Change your Hp number. If you really want to vanish you can. Cheongsters who keep saying "Oh the girl keep sticking to me, what can I do?" Excuses... ask yourselves honestly are you just a sucker for the girl's attention? Maintain this sucker for attention attitude and you'll never escape KC traps no matter how experienced you are. We patronize them, we must not need them. Choose your friends wisely, help only those who can learn to help themselves. 烂泥扶不上墙, many of these girls are simply used to being degenerate. Associate with them too closely, you'll be dragged into the maelstrom of problems. If you're a person who can't say no all the more should you employ this ninja methodology.

[White Tiger]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

I know lah... She had my QQ for almost 1 year and never ctc me on it before mah... so it was a shock when she did ctc me through it..

I will survive lah... I no longer yearn for her but looking at the situation in China, I still can't help but worry for her..

Afterall, we had been...

the only reason they would contact you after a year is they are running out of "roberts"

PRC girls are leeches.

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by EtherC

.... have a different sim card for cheonging,..

This I agree. In fact get another phone with reject and accept capability. My phone is set to reject ALL incoming calls. Users who call will only hear a busy tone, and all rejected calls will be logged into a list.

Price of the phone : S$250 (no contract)
The pleasure of looking at the rejected list: Priceless...

A busy tone will give your girl hope. A dead number will let the girl know is over.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_I_BJ

and the story continues..... you still have liking for her. somehow from how i see it. U give urself alot of benefit of a doubt. thats enough to show ur liking.

Ur niceness can kill u lor. Just like me. too nice kenna eat.. sigh.

Ya.. wat to do... I dun like to hide things from people.

Bro EtherC... I am aware but I will rather be frank and break off then disappear like a ninja...

Toning down my ECAs lately so if any of my regular gems are in town, likely I will not need to seek new ones like that.

[fishyprawn]

most bros here got cheated with the same mentality like u in the beginning.. I am not trying to pour cold water on u, but do take note, if u really intend to go over to china with her to stay there, make sure u r confident of giving a ggod life for her there.. If not, u might end up coming back empty handed, only with a broken heart..

Do consider very carefully, this is no joking matter. All the best to ur decision

[zhaonan]

Spore not the best place in the world but its also not the worst.

[haoyunqiqi]

U will regret later!