Help on my FL addiction

[sherny]

Originally Posted by rhibs

Since u r already spending the money, just enjoy the experiences and no point feeling guilty about it. In the beginning i had the same problem as you, feeling bad about myself for engaing FLs and it took me some time to finally understand that since i needed to fulfill my desires and the FL needed to earn the money, it was perfectly fine! We both get what we need and nobody is disadvantaged.

Instead i learnt to appreciate every woman i engaged (i especially like Milfs, haha) and after each session, make it a point to talk to the lady and be friends with her.

So chill bro and just go with the flow!

Good points! Now I am trying to cut down to once per week only, but very difficult. I am still doing 3-4 times per week.

[fleabag]

Don't let it stop!happy bonking.

[ahmengmeng]

Hope I can control also. Just starting out nia. Haven try yet. Haha. Any advice? To walk down this path or Siam far far don't even get started?

[sherny]

Originally Posted by ahmengmeng

Hope I can control also. Just starting out nia. Haven try yet. Haha. Any advice? To walk down this path or Siam far far don't even get started?

Don't get started and Siam far far away. Once start u can't stop. There's no such thing as just try once for curiosity. Like drug, once tried one time, it'll become a lifetime hobby till u're broke or kana caught by wife if u're married or kana STD/AIDS...

As if u'll listen to this advice. Haha.

[ahmengmeng]

Originally Posted by sherny

Don't get started and Siam far far away. Once start u can't stop. There's no such thing as just try once for curiosity. Like drug, once tried one time, it'll become a lifetime hobby till u're broke or kana caught by wife if u're married or kana STD/AIDS...

As if u'll listen to this advice. Haha.

LOL! wah. scary 1st warning from bros. liddat i got 2nd doubt le. jialtt

[sduuu]

Originally Posted by ahmengmeng

LOL! wah. scary 1st warning from bros. liddat i got 2nd doubt le. jialtt

Once you registered as a member of this forum, that's it already. You have already started.

Good luck and godspeed to you!

[nightren]

sad me me also same~~

[luvityoung]

Originally Posted by sherny

Dragoncave01.com
Not all photos are u get what u see. I do have some disappointment as there are fl there looking older or fatter than photos but still same persons. But you can read the comments (FR) there to get some assurance.

Bro any recommendations? Porsche, Yuki, Eva, Coco, angel look good

[twilight13]

Originally Posted by sherny

Good points! Now I am trying to cut down to once per week only, but very difficult. I am still doing 3-4 times per week.

I was in a similar situation like you when I just started out. The strange thing is I don't find sex so enjoyable but I keeps going back to them.

However, I am not as bad as your situation of 3-4 times per week. Mine is like 2 times per week initially. After 3 months, the fever died down and I only go occassionally.

First, try to limit your spending to a certain amount that you can afford this will help put a check on yourself and ensure that you don't overspend. It is a kind of restriction that you put yourself in to control yourself.

Usually most guys will slow down at some point of time after bonking for a while when the novety dies down. Maybe because you are still young and the hormones still raging that is why it will be like that.

In 3 months times if you still find the urge very strong and cannot stop, then I advise that you see a psychiatrist if it is going to wreck you life.

[sherny]

Originally Posted by luvityoung

Bro any recommendations? Porsche, Yuki, Eva, Coco, angel look good

I haven't tried them. Be careful don't be taken in by photos. They can look different from real persons and u may not like it. I tried 8 girls from Dragoncave already, only 2 look close to photo (Tina, Carol), 2 are different but turns out prettier in real persons (Annie, Mimi), 3 are very different (but still resemble the photo) and I'm disappointed, and one is different and slightly disappointed with her look but perfect service and GFE feel that I hope to RTF (Gina-no more in DC).

[sherny]

After tried 15 FL in the last 5 weeks (I never had FL before that) and spending close to $2000 including taxi fares, I really must stop before I destroy myself. I never RTF any of them cos i keep wanting to try new pretty FL.
I think I'll look for psychiatrist to help me stop my addiction and doctor to check for STD. Gosh! There's still a list of FL I'm burning inside wanting to book them next week! And I still keep listening to Miley's song "we can't stop".

[twilight13]

Originally Posted by sherny

After tried 15 FL in the last 5 weeks (I never had FL before that) and spending close to $2000 including taxi fares, I really must stop before I destroy myself. I never RTF any of them cos i keep wanting to try new pretty FL.
I think I'll look for psychiatrist to help me stop my addiction and doctor to check for STD. Gosh! There's still a list of FL I'm burning inside wanting to book them next week! And I still keep listening to Miley's song "we can't stop".

I think one month is still too early to say that you will be hooked so badly unless you have cleared your whatever savings or spare cash and getting you into a financial crisis or affecting your work badly. Try to control yourself and check if you are still have this issue 2 months after your first bonk.

Actually, quite a number of my friends were like you when they first started to cheong, especially first timer and with no gfs or wives. So don't worry too much as this is normal. It is like when you break the dyke, the water just rush in non stop in the begining because the sensation is too much to handle. This is the same as those who have zero interference and free access to internet porn initially. They keep thinking of porn and some surf porn while working.

In fact, most of the bros here are also hooked to WL/FL and that is why all the discussion in SBF. Look, many have cheong for years and are still doing it! It is just that we must know how to exercise self control and not to be too excessive.

When all avenue of trying to rein in yourself excessively on FL fails, then you can consider the psychiatrist.

[luvityoung]

Originally Posted by sherny

I haven't tried them. Be careful don't be taken in by photos. They can look different from real persons and u may not like it. I tried 8 girls from Dragoncave already, only 2 look close to photo (Tina, Carol), 2 are different but turns out prettier in real persons (Annie, Mimi), 3 are very different (but still resemble the photo) and I'm disappointed, and one is different and slightly disappointed with her look but perfect service and GFE feel that I hope to RTF (Gina-no more in DC).

Thanks for the reply bro. Interested to try Tina after reading all the positive FRs. But am apprehensive about the location as my last PRC experience was pretty bad cos it was some dirty, dark shophouse in G area and the hygiene & living conditions there quite bad. Is it like that for her location?

[sherny]

Originally Posted by luvityoung

Thanks for the reply bro. Interested to try Tina after reading all the positive FRs. But am apprehensive about the location as my last PRC experience was pretty bad cos it was some dirty, dark shophouse in G area and the hygiene & living conditions there quite bad. Is it like that for her location?

Her location is very residential, with shophouses in front. There got indian food stall and chicken rice restaurant. Both food very nice. Each time I went there for FL I will have my lunch/dinner/supper there. It is very very far away from Geylang. I am thinking of buying a property there, maybe the house just next to Tina's, so that very convenient. haha.

[handsomeboy888]

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