Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by batboyz

Any charges charged to the receiving party?

No charges for receiving party.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by batboyz

Any charges charged to the receiving party?

For VN, In-coming call is FREE

[A+++]

Haha I guess most of us here won't be so pek chek if VBs own a computer at home, hehe

[xyman]

Originally Posted by A+++

Haha I guess most of us here won't be so pek chek if VBs own a computer at home, hehe

You can use yahoo messenger to video chat with your vn. I use my iPhone 4 to chat with my baxa. I can see her on my phone... sometimes see more...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by xyman

You can use yahoo messenger to video chat with your vn. I use my iPhone 4 to chat with my baxa. I can see her on my phone... sometimes see more...

Wa .. Like that must Buy iPhone4 ...

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by A+++

Haha I guess most of us here won't be so pek chek if VBs own a computer at home, hehe

Bro, there are plenty of internet games shops around every neighbourhoods. Only charge 5000 Vnd per hour about 35cents SGD. Simply dirt cheap and don't bother about owning computer at home.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I m sure the amount you spent on cheonging for 7 years is much more than US$25k. So in fact, you are richer than me

I only cheong for 4 years. The amount u come out is 1time, while mine is accumulate throughout.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

I only cheong for 4 years.

xao nhieu nhieu...

[carmeo88]

At least 6 years in GL, since I know Jack.

[jackbl]

Nearly 60 percent of Vietnamese women maltreated by their husbands
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VietNamNet Bridge – They may be poorly treated by their husbands physically, psychologically or sexually. Even pregnant women are beaten.

This is the result of a research conducted in early 2010, with the participation of nearly 5000 women from 18 to 60 years old.

The research work reveals that up to 54 percent of the women surveyed suffered from psychological maltreatment. One in three women was abused by their husbands physically or sexually.

Duyen from Hanoi was beaten by her husband very often. He beat her with anything he had, for example a pipe, a small chair, a brick or his sandal.

Nguyen Phong, a senior official from the General Statistic Office, said the survey shows that most Vietnamese women are threatened by family violence.

In some areas, four out of ten women said they didn’t feel safe in their families. Up to 5 percent of pregnant women were also beaten at least once.

Worse, many children had to witness family violence.

“Even with the presence of my daughter or her friends, though they are only ten years old, whenever he came home, he weighed down on me…” a woman who participated in the survey said.

Dr. Jean Marc Olive, chief representative of the World Health Organisation in Vietnam, said children who have to witness family violence will suffer from psychological problems. Moreover, they can become violent people when they grow up.

Most women kept silent when they were beaten by their husbands. Up to 87 percent of them said they had never thought of reporting their cases to the local governments to get help though Vietnam has the Law on Family Violence Prevention.

Some women even thought that violence in families is normal and women should bear it to maintain peace in their families.

Some women sought the community’s help but it was ineffective because some local governments still thought that family violence is a family matter.

“Now we have evidences – true stories – from women who were maltreated in their families. It’s time to break the silence. We expect women to stand up and tell their stories to put an end to domestic violence,” Mr. Olive said.


PV

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Nearly 60 percent of Vietnamese women maltreated by their husbands
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No wonder so many poor peasants wanted to marry foreigner. You can speak to alot of VB, most can tell you their stories.

[SingViet]

I think almost every other chap who has contact with Vietnamese or have some knowledge of vietnamese culture will know that most Vietnamese man are useless and will beat their spouse often. That's the main reason why most vietnamese gals dream of marrying foreigners who will respect them and provide them with comfortable life abroad. But when these dreams never come true after marrying foreigner and going abroad, they will choose to go back Vietnam to be beaten by their Vietnamese man.

[Botarbolampar]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I think almost every other chap who has contact with Vietnamese or have some knowledge of vietnamese culture will know that most Vietnamese man are useless and will beat their spouse often. That's the main reason why most vietnamese gals dream of marrying foreigners who will respect them and provide them with comfortable life abroad. But when these dreams never come true after marrying foreigner and going abroad, they will choose to go back Vietnam to be beaten by their Vietnamese man.

True bro..........I agreed what you say.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I think almost every other chap who has contact with Vietnamese or have some knowledge of vietnamese culture will know that most Vietnamese man are useless and will beat their spouse often. That's the main reason why most vietnamese gals dream of marrying foreigners who will respect them and provide them with comfortable life abroad. But when these dreams never come true after marrying foreigner and going abroad, they will choose to go back Vietnam to be beaten by their Vietnamese man.

Me too agreed.

[papillon30]

Wife beating is like a hobby to the Vietnamese men, usually after
the men came home drunk. Neighbours pretend to be deaf, police
pretend it is orgasmic screams.

Besides the honky-tong of the day traffic, night time you have the
screams. HCMC is a very noisy city.