Advice from bros

[NobleEagle]

Originally Posted by JoySeeker

at least she try to stay (but not sure whether for u or $$)...she still needs to work for her studying fees unless u can pay for her, if not, let her work and build up the relationship from there n slowly change the situation...it's also not a crime to work in this line n i've seen a lots of m'sia fre which their spouse is oso in the same line (#1 rules: no sex with cust) n still hv a good time together...nevetheless, nv give up if u reali think she is the one but act with cautious n calmness...cheers ok...

i have seen countless of these girls coming here jus on the pretext of study to get long term permit so tat they can earn money doing "other things", esp. those tat r studying english, dance and arts etc, earn 1~2yrs then go back china to enjoy better life, along the way finding some sugar daddy or some roberts...sometimes fairy tales r not possible but definitely extremely rare esp. in tis materialistic world we live in nowadays and esp. more so in Sillypore..if u ask ard, im sure they will tell u how much diff. in characters changed when these foreigners after spending some time here and those back home, every horns will come out, pure seemingly innocents girls later bear the ability to wearn the sharpest knives cus we jus have too many "carrot heads" for them to chop here

[JoySeeker]

Originally Posted by NobleEagle

haha bro take my advise move on, go with her only when she comes calling dun waste ur time, she really interested in u would have called immediately after her work tat day or early next day and not 4pm

i agreed with u..like wat Rick Price did sang: if u reali love her, u gotta set her free..n if she rtn in kind, i noe she mine...

dun forget to upz me hor....cheers bro...

[kelvin123456789]

Originally Posted by NobleEagle

haha bro take my advise move on, go with her only when she comes calling dun waste ur time, she really interested in u would have called immediately after her work tat day or early next day and not 4pm

agreed wat u stated...all prc gal will call their love one after they off eventhough 3-5am....

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by AdamApple82

Ya agree. U cannot really tell if she's out to cheat at such a early stage. So my plan will be not even bonk her and just let nature take its course.

So even if things turn out not good, at least both parties has nothing to lose. I do not have a wife neither a GF now, so yeah.

I dun wanna owe her anything also.

I've read quite a few stories about fellow bros here to kena jialiat jialiat. I feel for them. Hope my story can give some bros here some idea on how's its like and to bros who has been through this before to give some advice.

CHeers!

Well dude...i think u should stop ur idea of going after her. Not bcos for fear that u will be con big time by her.....

But i find that u are totally not committed into a relationship. Not a relationship with her, but to any nationality.

If u read thru all that u post before..i realised that u havent spend much stuff on this ger and u have been grumbling non stop.

And we have bros replying their true life stories or that so called friends true life stories to u and asking u to wake up.

I only have a qn for u. Do u not do all those mentioned activities with ur Singapore gfs? or maybe u dun have any sg gfs before? Shopping, movies, cosmetics and stuff?

Then u mentiond that u pump duno hw many % of ur income into ur fixed stuff...and no money for this ger even if she wana con u.

Friend...Did she ask u to buy her a house in China? Did she ask u to buy her diamonds at Lee Hwa? and Did she say to shop at LV?

Instead, i only read in ur post...Movies...makan...cosmetics... i mean...all those u dun do it with ur past gfs or sg gfs??? So do u weight ur return even if the ger is a singaporean?

And u weight TOOOOOO much of ur expense vs return. Ur objective is simply. Free fxxk and dun wana pay. Even if u fxxk ur sg gf, u also have to spend to be with her isnt it?

I suggest u go to pick up some sg gers at movida or boiler instead.

If u have invest alot of ur money into investment and stocks...i blive u will be cursing even more with this market situation.

[longwinter]

For me, l dun know whether l am lucky anot

l visited this gal quite a number of times. On the last day, she call me to go out wif her.

But she jus ask me to accmpy her nia. So l jus go ard accmpying her do her shopping. She didnt demand me to pay for the things she bought. And when comes to makan, of cos l volunteered to pay, can see she didnt want it. She told me, she ask me out cos jus wan me to accmpy her, and l have to fork out $$, she is paiseh. And for drinks, she jus paid, dun wan me to pay le. when l am out wif her, she jus hold onto my hand and we jus go ard shop buying her stuffs, and she asking for my opinions and etc.

l went out wif her that day, didnt spent more than $60. That day, l was really happy, l enjoyed myself. Dun noe whether she enjoyed herself anot, cos l am not those kind of smooth or sweet talker. Actually l tink l am quite a boredom. But she sent me a msg telling me that she is happy today and thank me for the happy moments l give her. Was really surprised.

She had already gone back le. But up till now, l still miss her terribly. Her images still flash to me at times, and l could remember her every face expressions and whatever we chat abt. Actually, l kind of retired after she left. Nowadays l go very less to commerical sex le unless l really have the urge. Can say she really leave a very deep impression in me.

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by longwinter

For me, l dun know whether l am lucky anot

l visited this gal quite a number of times. On the last day, she call me to go out wif her.

But she jus ask me to accmpy her nia. So l jus go ard accmpying her do her shopping. She didnt demand me to pay for the things she bought. And when comes to makan, of cos l volunteered to pay, can see she didnt want it. She told me, she ask me out cos jus wan me to accmpy her, and l have to fork out $$, she is paiseh. And for drinks, she jus paid, dun wan me to pay le. when l am out wif her, she jus hold onto my hand and we jus go ard shop buying her stuffs, and she asking for my opinions and etc.

l went out wif her that day, didnt spent more than $60. That day, l was really happy, l enjoyed myself. Dun noe whether she enjoyed herself anot, cos l am not those kind of smooth or sweet talker. Actually l tink l am quite a boredom. But she sent me a msg telling me that she is happy today and thank me for the happy moments l give her. Was really surprised.

She had already gone back le. But up till now, l still miss her terribly. Her images still flash to me at times, and l could remember her every face expressions and whatever we chat abt. Actually, l kind of retired after she left. Nowadays l go very less to commerical sex le unless l really have the urge. Can say she really leave a very deep impression in me.

Well bro...tat is the companionship i was referring to in my much earlier posting...u happen to be the guy that fit the shoulder for her to lean on during her loneliness...

u should tell our dear TS that not all gers are like carrot choppers...and somemore u pay for the food and drinks which i belive our TS will be calculative upon.

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by AdamApple82

I went out with 1 before this one.

nb go watch movie liao then about to bring her go eat she said she wants to look at cosmetics, my head start to spin "nb the knife coming liao". So bring her to watsons and she see see look look. Saw a set she liked then she said too ex and went off. Head to another store also ex and she said airport cheaper as got duty free.

Then she recongised carrefore cause china also have. Went there the price was ok and she choose what she wants and even the free gift bag also want to choose and bargain....i damm paisei and the salesgirl lucky was patient enuff to serve her. I really feel like digging a hole in the ground and put my head inside.

Then end up she took what she wants and went to the cashier to Q up. When she was queuing i was looking around stuffs and after awhile she asked me come over and she asked if i could pay for her anot. ZZzzzzzZZZzzzZZzz

As the item was not expensive i also sua just pay. Since then that was the first and last date i went out with her lol

The first and the last date u went out with her? pls..i think u shld not get any ger to go out with u.

She mentioned cosmetics and u bring her to watson...Is watson stuff expensive? Somemore she say the stuff is expensive in watson and went off...isnt she saving and looking ard for stuff which is cost lower?

Went to carrefour and found a cheaper stuff and u siam by looking around which end up lan lan u pay for her when she ask u to.

U can be man enuf to reject and ask her to pay herself. But wana act gentleman enuf so lan lan pay for her rite?

The more i read ur post the more i wana fxxk u up. Like i said a thousand times, if she is not a prc and is a sillypore ger, will u have the same reaction and posting as per all ur grumbling and complains? u also damm knn man...see cosmetics and u bring her to watson?? U are kan stingy！

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by daydevil89

O... still at this topic....

Well in my opinion:
Get the KTV gal if
- you are rich and out to have fun
- you are rich and like to have her for the whole day or week or month
- you are rich and pity her that her life is tough
- you love her and want to safe her from the scene
- she actually likes you

Don't get the KTV gal if
- you are average or low income worker
- you dun like to be a robert
- you can't stop thinking that she treats you as a robert
- you think she is trying to milk you
- wondering if she really like you or otherwise

Just my 2 cents summary...
Cheers!!!

Bro...ur 1 dollar worth of advice is totali suitable for our TS here!
But i am amending ur advice slightly..

Don't get ANY gal if
- you are average or low income worker >> Since u put all ur $ into investment, then stay at home and pls PS3. Opps, i think u are still into or sega saturn since u dun have $ for extra stuff

- you dun like to be a robert>> Stay Single cos all gers need to be pampered regardless of the nationality

- you can't stop thinking that she treats you as a robert>> Be glad that u have the look like a robert cos u look rich

- you think she is trying to milk you>> Doubt u have the balls to be milk

- wondering if she really like you or otherwise>> There isnt love at lst sight and its over time for her to like u even if she is really looking for a true bf.

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by AdamApple82

Nice advice NobleEagle bro! Ya for now its at a very very early stage and no one knows what will happen next.

Even if she's out to KC me also no use, cause i every month more than 70% of my money all goes into savings, investments and stuffs like that. So even i myself want to take out money for her also cannot.

Sigh....time to get some rest, fever going up and she also having fever now since last night when we were together (We did not bonk last night, just kissed)

So did u pay when u bonk her the last time? or u have free fxxk? since u are so stingy? DIY will have the highest return amount for ur investment! cos money all keep and stick on ur wall

[SomandrisIsDead]

Originally Posted by ShittyAss

Well dude...i think u should stop ur idea of going after her. Not bcos for fear that u will be con big time by her.....

But i find that u are totally not committed into a relationship. Not a relationship with her, but to any nationality.

Instead, i only read in ur post...Movies...makan...cosmetics... i mean...all those u dun do it with ur past gfs or sg gfs??? So do u weight ur return even if the ger is a singaporean?

And u weight TOOOOOO much of ur expense vs return. Ur objective is simply. Free fxxk and dun wana pay. Even if u fxxk ur sg gf, u also have to spend to be with her isnt it?

Bro ShittyAss, cool it. TS might have skipped some details in his postings. But I agree with you totally, in the aspect that if you are interested in her, you need to shower her with some care and concern, which often comes in time and money investement. Most girls like little gifts, and I;m not talking about expensive stuffs. It's how they feel being loved and cared for. You worry if she'll take you for a robert. Think about it from her perspective as a WL. She worries if you'll take her for a full time whore, and whether investing her time with you is worth it. I'm not saying that she's NOT going after your wallet. The fact is nobody knows until you make the move, and to make this move, you'll need to invest a little. Even if she's a SG girl, tha same principle applies.

Originally Posted by longwinter

For me, l dun know whether l am lucky anot

l visited this gal quite a number of times. On the last day, she call me to go out wif her.

l went out wif her that day, didnt spent more than $60. That day, l was really happy, l enjoyed myself. Dun noe whether she enjoyed herself anot, cos l am not those kind of smooth or sweet talker. Actually l tink l am quite a boredom. But she sent me a msg telling me that she is happy today and thank me for the happy moments l give her. Was really surprised.

She had already gone back le. But up till now, l still miss her terribly. Her images still flash to me at times, and l could remember her every face expressions and whatever we chat abt. Actually, l kind of retired after she left. Nowadays l go very less to commerical sex le unless l really have the urge. Can say she really leave a very deep impression in me.

Bro longwinter, I'm sure she left a deep impression. You must have done or said something to her when you visited her to make her feel very comforatble with you. I have similar experiences. Go out shopping with WLs when they on code red. They pay for their own stuffs, not asking anything from me. In fact I went out with one that i like this morning. Bought her a cute T-shirt (which she only gets to wear off work). $15 and you can see she's really happy. If you treat them well, which I believe if one is sincere, they can sense it. Got another one asking me to go shop with her, when she's not working, upfront she told me she wont want me to pay, juz like my opinions and help to bring her around. Even insist on buying me dinner.

[ShittyAss]

[QUOTE=SomandrisIsDead;3083113]Bro ShittyAss, cool it. TS might have skipped some details in his postings. But I agree with you totally, in the aspect that if you are interested in her, you need to shower her with some care and concern, which often comes in time and money investement. Most girls like little gifts, and I;m not talking about expensive stuffs. It's how they feel being loved and cared for. You worry if she'll take you for a robert. Think about it from her perspective as a WL. She worries if you'll take her for a full time whore, and whether investing her time with you is worth it. I'm not saying that she's NOT going after your wallet. The fact is nobody knows until you make the move, and to make this move, you'll need to invest a little. Even if she's a SG girl, tha same principle applies.

Yes bro...that is what i am referring too..."Even if she's a SG girl, tha same principle applies. "

But our TS seems to be having the perception that that ger is out to con her.

Its hua hee gam guan one...buai gam guan then get his life la...

[NobleEagle]

Originally Posted by ShittyAss

Yes bro...that is what i am referring too..."Even if she's a SG girl, tha same principle applies. "

But our TS seems to be having the perception that that ger is out to con her.

Its hua hee gam guan one...buai gam guan then get his life la...

But MOST importantly is CHEONG SMART, SPEND WISE, THINK WITH UR HEAD NOT WITH UR HEART OR DICK

[kelvin123456789]

Originally Posted by NobleEagle

But MOST importantly is CHEONG SMART, SPEND WISE, THINK WITH UR HEAD NOT WITH UR HEART OR DICK

TOTALLY AGREED...

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by ShittyAss

Well bro...tat is the companionship i was referring to in my much earlier posting...u happen to be the guy that fit the shoulder for her to lean on during her loneliness...

u should tell our dear TS that not all gers are like carrot choppers...and somemore u pay for the food and drinks which i belive our TS will be calculative upon.

Ya, maybe is the companionship. She did told me that everytime l visit her, the time we spent together is like so short, and so she decided to call me out to accmpy her so that we can jus spent more and quality time together. Ya l could feel and see that she is lonely actually.

l dont know bah, seriously when l go out wif her, l oso worry tat l might bored her to death sia..l dun noe how to talk well or sweet talk wif gals oso. But l do lend her a listening ear when she wants to talk and express herself out. She told me she is happy for the day and thank me for the happy moments l give her. l also happy when being wif her.

Well, cannot be too keng kao la. Food and drinks still reaonsable enuf lar...u go out wif any gals, be it local or foreign, this is just the basic courtesy.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by SomandrisIsDead

Bro longwinter, I'm sure she left a deep impression. You must have done or said something to her when you visited her to make her feel very comforatble with you. I have similar experiences. Go out shopping with WLs when they on code red. They pay for their own stuffs, not asking anything from me. In fact I went out with one that i like this morning. Bought her a cute T-shirt (which she only gets to wear off work). $15 and you can see she's really happy. If you treat them well, which I believe if one is sincere, they can sense it. Got another one asking me to go shop with her, when she's not working, upfront she told me she wont want me to pay, juz like my opinions and help to bring her around. Even insist on buying me dinner.

haha, l dun noe what makes her left a deep impression of me la. Whether she had a deep impression of me anot, lt is not really impt. l jus hoped she will be happy and never come back into the trade again lo. For me, she really left a deep impression in my heart la, l do feel good that she appreciates me and treat me well. Nowadays l like not much heart to cheong also, feel like l am still living in the past sia.

yea , l do agreed wif u, they noe how to see and read ppl , like whether if u are jus toying wif them or playing words wif them or being sincere wif them. But for me, l do tink it is impt to be sincere when dealing wif ppl (especially ur close buddies and ppl close to u).