Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Gentle Beast

Men by nature are greedy. After getting the pussy, they want to own the heart or so they think. What we fail to see is, when a girl decides to be a WL, her heart is already locked up like Davy Jone's from Pirates of the Carribean

Veri true indeed.. In my throes of passion, I always forget and ask if she will give me her heart.. Answer - Bu Ke Yi

It will take time to melt her and make her trust me ... key issues is not to play with their feelings if you are not serious..

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by stone

So in a nutshell, if you like her just look for her every-time you are there. She will be comfortable and you would be as well.
Better not to ‘bao’ as it will be a waste of money.

right on bro ... when we cheong, we don't need commitment ...

Originally Posted by stone

Continue to treat them nice don’t think any human being should deserve been treated in any other manner– while many are in this due to money – within this reasons it could also be because of some related financial difficulty as they are always living with just enough.

Yes ... always respect them ...
We don't have to show that we pity or sympathize them ...
but treat them nice ...
They r just unfortunate to be born in the wrong place at the wrong time ...
we do not need to add salt to their miseries ...

[demarco]

Originally Posted by stone

Bros, maybe I should just share my experience so that the really new to this type of adventure can learn from it and the more experience and senior bros can advise even more.

Started going to CP only recently which was sometime March 2007 being my first trip. Was initially reluctant as experience with Chinese girl mostly unpleasant and very money driven with outright request at times, but after some persuasion decided to give it a shot.

CP, got to know this girl on my second trip (been there 6 times ever since). Not really pretty, somewhat short and very playful. Got along quite well and since been with her all the time, that is: from 2nd all the way till now.

All the time that I am there we spoke quite a fair bit about life, difficulty, man in general and her work. Here are her comments:


‘Yes Spore man are more generous than other nationality. Polite and known very much to give some respect to them. Basically as she rightfully pointed out, due to our environment and educational level we are able to separate their work from them as person and do not treat them like something cheap.

Internally among all her friends, this is what they prefer about Spore man and the generous part is added bonus. They are human being and to be treated nice and with respect (which is a right not a privileges).’

‘Most of the girls being kept are by those from Hong Kong and rightfully it is nearer and easier to get to them. She also acknowledged that if Spore man goes up once every 3 months then it is not advisable and they may be tempted to fool around behind our back - more due to boredom than anything else. However she cannot resist to hint that I should consider’

‘Finally, most would be happy if they have regular customer(s) more than 1of-course. Reason from her, simple – at least they are not subjected to many other man which make them feel really cheap and also they do feel a sense of comfort because of familiarity. Steady income in a way is also reason as repeat customer normally give them more. And also they do sincerely like you , no love or other affection but genuine liking – so don’t be mistaken’.

So in a nutshell, if you like her just look for her every-time you are there. She will be comfortable and you would be as well.

Better not to ‘bao’ as it will be a waste of money.

Continue to treat them nice don’t think any human being should deserve been treated in any other manner– while many are in this due to money – within this reasons it could also be because of some related financial difficulty as they are always living with just enough. A normal reception gets paid RM1200 or $240 a month and that’s is in ChangPing. Just barley can survived on that not to mention in some other ulu places in Hubei, Gangxi or whatever.

Most are between 18 – 22, still very young so yes may be materialistic but also too in mature to be able to understand the implications of their actions.

Hope this is not too long and brothers agree with what I have just mentioned.

Regards and have fun.

I agree with u bro, me fall for 1 gal on my 2nd trip too. She did not ask me for the $ and when i tip her extra she told me no too. She does not like what she is doing but she love the easy job and high $$$ return. She knew i like her but told me we can be friends and she can company me when i am there anytime and anywhere. i have been cheonging for many yrs, always careful not to fall into KC or i should said i hv not meet the right1. The worst part is she is honest to me and i don't know how to react. Now i am trying to get her out of my mind. I love to drink milk, but it is wrong to bring the cow home.

[bumblebeesex]

Singaporeasns are not suckers as what i know.
we are too smart..... that people cannot cheat

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by demarco

i have been cheonging for many yrs, always careful not to fall into KC or i should said i hv not meet the right1.

u mean the right1 as a normal gal or ktv gal, WL or FL ???

Originally Posted by demarco

The worst part is she is honest to me and i don't know how to react. Now i am trying to get her out of my mind. I love to drink milk, but it is wrong to bring the cow home.

understand how u feel ... that's the poison when we cheong ....
small head always lead the big head ...

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by stone

Bro demarco
Liking a girl is ok and to see her every 2-3 months for a period of time it is also ok.
But once you start having emotions that are more towards 'loving a person' time to back-off.

well said bro .. that's the way we should maintain when we cheong ... else at the end of the day, we'll get hurt ...

Originally Posted by stone

Remerber that you are not her only overnite companion, there are probably 4-5 different persons every month otherwise she can't survive. Sometimes when they reject your extras, it could be they know that you would give them more the next time so do not be overly touched by it.
Yes, they are sincere but they also know the way to touch, soften, and ensure your heart always remerber them tenderly. They are smart and streetwise to be in this 'dangerous business' at such a young and possibly tender age.

the cheongsters who think they can out smart these ladies are only fooling themselves ...
we r there to enjoy ourselves .. so let's just enjoy ...
we must pay to enjoy ourselves ... period
don't ever have the mindset that u'll get free bonks or out smart them ...
respect them and understand that this is a business transcation .. period ..

Originally Posted by stone

After all the so called 'wise wisdom' by an experience person like me, I must confess that I am also struggling to get out of my current situation. That's how good they are so be very very CAREFUL and LOGICAL about the entire episode.

sure or not bro ...
don't let the small head do the thinking ...
once a while, u can allow that to happen .... when u r bonking ...
after that, big head take over ...

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by stone

After all the so called 'wise wisdom' by an experience person like me, I must confess that I am also struggling to get out of my current situation. That's how good they are so be very very CAREFUL and LOGICAL about the entire episode.

Brother,

I fell into my own trap after having spent close to 10 years in China, and I got out thanks to some wise old friends. Talking about experience and wisdom. Sigh....

Beware! Although 6 years have since passed, I am still very careful in reminding myself to be prudent. These PRC ladies are smart, and they can out-wit us with their in-born abilities.

My 2 cent worth.

PTR

[Thai_Traveller]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

These PRC ladies are smart, and they can out-wit us with their in-born abilities.

My 2 cent worth.

PTR

Bro PTR, I think any lady in the trade is smart (their means for survival), not only PRC, let it be Thai or Indo or...etc. End of the day, we must have enough self control to avoid stepping on banana skin.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Thai_Traveller

Bro PTR, I think any lady in the trade is smart (their means for survival), not only PRC, let it be Thai or Indo or...etc. End of the day, we must have enough self control to avoid stepping on banana skin.

Bro,

You are probably right! Thank you! I could only speak about PRC ladies, as I do not have experience with ladies from other origins. Pardon me for my ignorance.

With best regards and thanks.

PTR

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Thai_Traveller

Bro PTR, I think any lady in the trade is smart (their means for survival), not only PRC, let it be Thai or Indo or...etc.

well said bro ... yes, it applies to all WL ....
but i am quite certain PRC gals are smarter .. they "invest" in the future ...
while thais focus on the present ....

this is my own opinion only ...
might not be accepted by others ..
to each his own ....

Originally Posted by Thai_Traveller

End of the day, we must have enough self control to avoid stepping on banana skin.

nowadays ... we have to watch out for dropping durians too ...

[havana]

The "old man" has warned seekawhorean for being complacent
So bros, pls use your BIG head instead of your small head when u cheong!!!!

[Sinoview]

Originally Posted by stone

Remerber that you are not her only overnite companion, there are probably 4-5 different persons every month otherwise she can't survive.

I like to think that The game is such that there is a main card holder, who is the main contributor to this lady s income thinking that she's exclusive his. The actual fact is that she has many "sub cards" whom she "see" when the opportunities arises. "Sub card" holders normally pays when they "see" her. But some do pay more than market rate thinking she's "NOT a working gal or a "nice" lady who really need help. Haha.. Some even pay her monthly regularly..thinking that sum is not big....

I know many gals in CP n SZ operates this way. They dont need to work in a ktv as their list of former clients ll be enough to keep them going. Plus intro by gals of their kind ie her friend's bf's friends. Whenever, they r short of clients they ll work part time in KTV like JY, HH whereby they ll buy per day pass normally on Friday n Sat. Many ll said they r working as property agents, shop owners etc... all bs lah......

I m sure U guys can hear many stories abt gals saying their "friend in hospital , sister cum fm old town, mother in town etc.... cannot stay overnight etc...
These r just some of their "tricks" for their "multi tasking" work....

There are actually so many of such "gals" around, I was surprised by their numbers.... recently rising very fast in CP.....

For those who happen to cum across such "gals" which i think many ll, dont U think it's better to the sub card ? And be a smart one who only pay when he use her service. Let others have the headache.....Hehe....

[petrolheadsg]

Originally Posted by Sinoview

I like to think that The game is such that there is a main card holder, who is the main contributor to this lady s income thinking that she's exclusive his. The actual fact is that she has many "sub cards" whom she "see" when the opportunities arises. "Sub card" holders normally pays when they "see" her. But some do pay more than market rate thinking she's "NOT a working gal or a "nice" lady who really need help. Haha.. Some even pay her monthly regularly..thinking that sum is not big....

I know many gals in CP n SZ operates this way. They dont need to work in a ktv as their list of former clients ll be enough to keep them going. Plus intro by gals of their kind ie her friend's bf's friends. Whenever, they r short of clients they ll work part time in KTV like JY, HH whereby they ll buy per day pass normally on Friday n Sat. Many ll said they r working as property agents, shop owners etc... all bs lah......

I m sure U guys can hear many stories abt gals saying their "friend in hospital , sister cum fm old town, mother in town etc.... cannot stay overnight etc...
These r just some of their "tricks" for their "multi tasking" work....

There are actually so many of such "gals" around, I was surprised by their numbers.... recently rising very fast in CP.....

For those who happen to cum across such "gals" which i think many ll, dont U think it's better to the sub card ? And be a smart one who only pay when he use her service. Let others have the headache.....Hehe....

Hahah...cannot agree with you more Sino. Newbies and not so newbies...take heed from advice earned through seasoning and experience. :-)

Of course, there will always be some that willingly want to believe in fantasy ...as they say ignorance is bliss

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

Hahah...cannot agree with you more Sino. Newbies and not so newbies...take heed from advice earned through seasoning and experience. :-)

Of course, there will always be some that willingly want to believe in fantasy ...as they say ignorance is bliss

Ya... think too much sometimes also headache...

Juz be sure you dun kill yourself by overstretching your resources...

Me converting all my regulars into friends now slowly so I will still enjoy their company (no Sex) in future as I treat them as friend.

Only one girl has my heart--- and is killing me softly

[Optimus_Prime]

Just to input my 2 cents worth.

It's a dangerous mind set when players (us, cheongsters) start to think we KNOW the game that the MMs play. That way, we fool ourselves to think we are smarter than them. (sometimes we are, sometimes we aren't) The rules change everytime and sometimes the MM can reel a very very long line just to hook a potential gold mine.

Every mind game we can play on the MMs to convince them we are only seeing them alone, they can play the same mind games on you too.

So the best policy is still FUCK & FORGET. Pay when u have the need to fuck her, afterwards foregt about keeping her exclusive for yourself. Just pay again when u next want to fuck her. Less pain and less hassle, period.