Husband rejected me

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by mangostickyrice

Sometimes i do think that he's quite lucky too haha! Because honestly i love giving him blowjobs. Its so satisfying to look at his face when i blow him. But well. Looks like dressing up, satisfying his needs is still not enough. Perhaps i should work on the emotional needs now.

T.Q. v. much sis for honestly agreeing tat yr hubby is a lucky guy to hv you as his wifey !!...Yes, sis...seems like you hv done yr part, all you could...all tat is expected of a wifey like you in such a situation to cajole & entice yr hubby to sex wif you..so tat you can enjoy awesome & wholesome sex wif him just like any other wives deserves on their marital bed ...wow !..so nice to know you are one of those lovely girls tat loves to give bj !! ...something all men enjoy !!...lucky yr hubby leh & he still doesn't know how to reciprocate wif a cunnilingus perhaps !??...

but i still tink the advice by our boss of the forum to tell yr husband tat other men are interested in sex wif you if he doesn't, will wake up his sexual senses !! ..something like a MMF not a MFF !!...competition & jealousy can get some pple to their senses !...why dun you try telling him tat in a open honest talk wif him abt tis problem facing you ??..hopefully tats just wat u need to do to get back the sparks in the bedroom like the time b4 yr marriage

[Slaveatwork]

i have to agree with the stress and work part. Maybe he's worried about money or things at work? I know that can affect your libido. Given the fact that you've done so much and offered to do so much more, I would say, there's really nothing much else you can do from your end. Until his own situation improves, whatever you do is just short term and temporary and won't result in a shift in his behavior. It's perhaps good to just talk it out.

[lancestorm]

totally understand the feel .

Was rejected last week by my GF , done all the thing and when penetration , the sian looks comes out ... like not willing , when ask her , she say no mood ..

turn over , dress up , feeling sad and just watch tv together lo ...

My first rejection from her too ... but knowing she is quite stress in recent weeks so im guessing guys and girls are same human being , all are control by emotion and stress .

I like to serve her , lick her , make her moan ....

i like to see her satisfy face and moaning when i ride her ...

Maybe i just a guy at mid 30's that like sex ... if can , i just wanna have sex everyday ..

[PrinceCharles]

Originally Posted by Slaveatwork

i have to agree with the stress and work part.

This actually could be a huge factor

[Tomb]

Maybe you are start to go out more often during the evening with your friends and see the reaction from your hubby.

Guys sometimes do get worried or even proud when the wife is getting more attention.

Or improve your work wear and makeup and let him see your attractiveness side (Not saying you are not now )

[Sjiaojiao]

Make yourself a playroom
Close all curtains
Dress as sexy as he like.
Nurse, OL, etc

If not, post a few new photo with your boy friends

[Botakhead]

We are here for you, when you are ready to make that crossing over the line.

[fictionman]

Originally Posted by Botakhead

We are here for you, when you are ready to make that crossing over the line.

"We are here for you"...Bet every hot blooded bros here are "waiting"

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by fallen69angel

As men, we love to talk things out.

Are you kidding me???!!! Men hate talking about stuff. You must be gay if you enjoy yakking with the opposite sex!

I hate talking things out with women because they're devoid of logic. The more you talk the deeper you'll dig yourself into a hole.

[Hantu69]

I hate talking things out with women because they're devoid of logic. The more you talk the deeper you'll dig yourself into a hole.

Fully agreed with boss!!

[milktoast]

I think its individual. Not everyone stress will avoid having sex. Sometimes i be stressed up but definitely I would nod like a small kid looking excited when a guy i loved come over and seduce me.....hee and whatever clothes i have on will be literally Gone in 60 Seconds or less

[fictionman]

Actually we only hear TS side of the story...We only can assume the root of the problem lies wz the hubby....Not to pour cold water but mayb just mayb the prob lies wz TS

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by lancestorm

Maybe i just a guy at mid 30's that like sex ... if can , i just wanna have sex everyday ..

There's a simple solution... you should swap spouses with the threadstarter and everyone will be happy.

[forlive]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Quite a familiar situation & story tat we are reading & hearing abt all the time here in tis forum from u wifeys about yr sex wif yr hubbies...Hmmm..mid 30s & still lidat ???...still very young man leh ..no I dun tink so men's sex drive goes lower with age unless they reach their 70s or more...there may be other problems like work related issues or other kinds of daily stress which may affect his libido..spicing up yr sex life wif him is wat u shd do...dun need to wait for him to initiate..you can start by seducing him by wearing sexy lingerie b4 bedtime action or do kinky roleplays wif each other which makes many couples enjoy their sexing !! ...feel free to let me know if u want to know more details...

bro Ricky, i think you active in every post, haha

[Frackers]

Originally Posted by Hantu69

Fully agreed with boss!!

Same here as well