Should I give her another chance

[lightweaver]

To TS, do u know her motivation for being pyschoed by the overseas guy tat easily. Repressing my desire to eat chocolate doesn't remove my desire to eat choc. So she may hv repressed things on her mind. Given her inclinations to lie,
Uncovering tat may be tricky.

[yewchai]

Brother lover that lies will continue to lie for the rest of your life even married.

u got 2 choice since she aldy openly betrayed you

1> let her go and for God sake she will receive her retribution
2> give her a good lession .... and junk her away...

[tshirt]

My advise for you, you should dump this girl. She is a girl without ethics, loves to lie, and even travelled overseas to have sex with another guy. You shouldn't have even gone there to get her back. Let her rot there. You are better off without her.

What she did does not say anything about you, but it says a lot about her - she is a lying little bitch slut who cheats. You deserve someone better.

Even if you take her back, you will never trust her ever again. Stop giving yourself more heartache and headache.

[noobster89]

May I inject something right now which might be an insult to you? If you want to know, I can pm you. Just let me know.

Other than that, I would strongly suggest you give up and look for someone better. If you cannot trust her now, what happens if you 2 are married? I see far worst cases when couples are married and these kind of things happen.

Give her up, go out and freshen up yourself, enjoy singlehood and slowly find a new partner! Take your time, just take it as an experience, a lesson learnt.

[massage1001]

Bro, move on
I know it hurts but once the trust is gone it will never be the same again

[EtherC]

TS I can assure you of one thing about most people: we can't change our core characteristics spontaneously

Your GF is a lying cheat with a high sex drive and she'll always be one unless some traumatic incident happens to her that changes her outlook.

Most women look for security in a partner and you happen to be a safe harbor for her.

The more you spoil and place her on a pedestal, the lower your status will be and she'll start losing her respect for you quickly. Despite the feminist movement its only a social evolution, few women can overcome the biological attraction to men with power + authority.

[Ken79]

your gf is the type of person who doesnt know how to appreciate and think rationally, one of the ppl that u cant trust too much are habitual liars, max 2-3 chances but there's a limit to all things

[archer69]

Nobody gives a better advice, except this guy.

Originally Posted by alan0338

u shouldnt dump her, if she can attract another guy means she at least is those kind of buay pai gal, suggest to continue fucking her and ignore wat she do, then in the meantime hunt for another gal who truly deserves u...

[kawa333]

I have a similar experience previously. Just tell urself that this is never going to be the girl you going to marry, the most stay in BGR relationship. Your partner is probably the only person u can trust the most (other than ur parents) in this world. If you cant even trust her or she can lie to you, then dont promote her to wife status can liao, haa!

[Villian]

I guess the answer to TS question is very apparent.
If you continue to stay in this relationship, the only thing u want is to stay on, fuck her mind fuck her pussy.

A woman who flys over to another country and have herself fucked. She's worst than a Prostitute in my opinion. Prostitutes does it for money, she does it for free.

Be glad you had her for 4 years, and be grateful this is the only time you think she was fucked by another man. Chances of her getting herself fucked by another man this past 4 years with you are very likely.

My advice, continue to stay with her.. always good to have a pussy rather than using your hands.

[Villian]

'The power of all relationship lies with whoever cares less'

[tshirt]

Originally Posted by Villian

'The power of all relationship lies with whoever cares less'

I agree. When 2 people become bf/gf, whichever party that cares less will control the relationship. Because the other party will be jealous, want to get more attention, working hard to make the relationship strong.

You can turn the tables around, if now you CHOOSE to care less and don't give a fuck (I mean, give her fucks but don't give a damn), then in the end she will be the one trying to cling to you and wondering why you are so cold hearted you bad boy! ha ha

[tshirt]

Nan ren bu huai, nv ren bu ai

[1118]

just like her go, your relationship with her will never be the same anymore. we can forgive but we can't forget. you will remember this incident everytime you quarrel. i have similar experiences with my ex also. why some guys deserved to be punched in the face.

MOVE ON!

[TCH1975]

Originally Posted by alan0338

u shouldnt dump her, if she can attract another guy means she at least is those kind of buay pai gal, suggest to continue fucking her and ignore wat she do, then in the meantime hunt for another gal who truly deserves u...

Strongly agree with above.

If i'm the victim, i'll get her to swing with couples or 3P.
Why waste her talent? You got more pussies to fuck n she can get fucking infront of me than behind my back.
No more lying. Honest n Open. No more heart aches.

Choices:
1: If u don't mind then marry her n let her continue her way.
2: Otherwise do as alan0338 suggested.
3: If above don't apply just let go.

Mostly likey u will choose "1". Because it is Already in Practice...
Then why grief over the choice? Only reason could be u are not in the real world n living in imagination/illusion.

No offence to drinkers e.g. i personally dislike tiger beer but many people loves drinking it n make tiger rich n self poorer. Similar situation...