Sad Man

[2swirls]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

errrr....sorry, dun mean to be rude but kinda like running off topic liaozzzzz

No intention to broach on a diff topic

but I do think that the TS needs to take his mind off that.
If the response of the girl had been otherwise, perhaps it might be good to sorta bring him back on the road but the road he took to me seems to be a dead end with no good end.

Anyway, I am off to look @ other threads, cheers

[Gaofar]

I guess I was too carried away by my eagerness to share with others on my trip.. Sorry TS

By the way, where the hell has the TS's been? Haven't "heard" about him for quite some time..

[Panamera]

Originally Posted by Gaofar

By the way, where the hell has the TS's been? Haven't "heard" about him for quite some time..

Think T.S was offended by my posting.

I got a pm from him.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by NewandLost

I recall one of the things said to me in the past was for CH women its common for men to spend all their money and then when there is no more left then the guy and the girl get married. This is what she told me. I was like you are insane.

No Money! No Honey!

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by NewandLost

But thats rather cold hearted if she is in fact a good girl. Like I said the demon or the good girl did already try to contact me for CNY but I declined. I figured as you guys said it was a major setup to be KCed, thinking about all the past times I gor disrespected but no answer, no apology, no defense of perceived or real cheating only didnt want to think about it nor discuss, its your imagination , etc.

So I called about the time i started this thread and the result has been no response. maybe i hurt her? But then again the reactions fall outside of the normal realm of thinking. That is why I have a tendency to beleive I dealt with the devil.

Toughen up! I have gone through experience worst than yours.

There are good and honest girls, but the number is just too small that worst our risk. Like one brother said, you know all the answer on the questions that you posted in this thread. The problem that we men has is "Ego of possession". Admit failure costs nothing, and otherwise will end up in shit!

My 2 cent worth

[Kate]

sorry to hear about this.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Kate

sorry to hear about this.

Kate, u got nottin better to contribute is it?
All your posts in 3 threads are meaningless and one liners
This is not the way to clock postings ok

Thread: Re: Advise Needed

Originally Posted by Kate

try and remain strong.

Thread: Re: How to locate a girl on same flight

Originally Posted by Kate

if have fate, will see again la

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

The problem that we men has is "Ego of possession". Admit failure costs nothing, and otherwise will end up in shit!

My 2 cent worth

That is very insightful. Really its ego driving irrationality. Also you cant change other people.

[Stud00]

Bro T.S,
Just one word of advice for you..
Move on...

Lust takes.. Love gives,
It's obvious that she's making use of you.

Cheers

[mike1304k]

I know of some people, not many, who have so much money, they do not mind spending tonnes on a FL, WL. They know that the lady's do not love them, only their money. But in return, they get a good f**k and someone who looks good hanging on their side.

Some guys try to be saints and try to help a lady, but in the end they end up being screwed.

Some guys just end up getting screwed without even the chance to screw.

It takes all types and it takes two hands to clap. I am sorry for the TS's situation and feeling. But sometimes we feel like we want to be a knight in shining armour and it leads us to fall on our own swords. It is ego lah. When the situation looks funny, we should be able to cut our losses and to go back to our path, but sometimes, ego leads us to give and when we have lost, ego also leads us to try to get back what we have lost and we end up losing more.

If a girl were to say I make her look cheap, I will not even react. I will just drop her. Because if I am giving her what I can afford and she thinks it is not enough, then truly, it will never be enough. I will only give her what I can afford to lose. This is for normal lady and for WL and FL. There is no difference. But once it is given, I do not expect anything back. If it comes back, lucky me... if not... too bad... good way to learn. Money lost can earn back.... Love lost can find again.... family lost will be difficult to mend... Wives divorced will cost you more than WL or FL will...

So for those who are married, just fling and forget.... For those who are single.. you are much better off trying to find it elsewhere. As for PRCs, not trying to make a sweeping comment, but seriously I heard a true story where a frustrated housewife screamed at a PRC why she was like that and her answer was... "There are so many millions of Chinese. To be able to get to the top or anywhere near the top, there is nothing they cannot do... and the only measure of success is... Money!!" These are the words from the horse's mouth brothers... This is a fact... not a myth... not a fallacy... So it is up to you to be careful. I have and do know many really good and honest PRC.. But these are also far and few in between. Again, not trying to make a sweeping statement and or putting someone down.

I hope that the TS will recover and move on.

[Rorschach]

I'm sorry to hear this tale of woe. I too, have been dealing with such issues but my experience has only spanned a few months.

Everyone says that PRC women in SG are just money grubbing whores - I wish that were not true but the mainland Chinese are simply realistic to a fault.

Many of us who fall for the wiles of PRC women are just "da gong zais" and it is simply impossible to upkeep them in the manner which they expect... I remember having a drink on the 87th floor of the Jin Mao tower in Shanghai and overhearing Beijing accented putonghua from two model-looking types. It was obvious that they were kept women and they were discussing their apartments that they stayed in. I was thinking that these two women, with their looks, were definitely doing well for themselves, but human greed is insatiable because shortly after I heard one of them saying "Why not you try to get to know his friend better, afterall, the friend owns 35% of the company compared to his 20%"

I have also spent serious cash on my PRC girlfriend and I don't regret it for one bit... I guess in some way or another, I traded money for her affection... because to be able to survive a PRC female you just have to understand one thing...

现实。

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Rorschach

I have also spent serious cash on my PRC girlfriend and I don't regret it for one bit... I guess in some way or another, I traded money for her affection... because to be able to survive a PRC female you just have to understand one thing...

现实。

Well said, Brother.

I had my fair share of mistakes and had spent some money, to no regret. I have been hardened by the reality. Sometimes, when a PRC girl wants me to be her 'lover', my answer is "when I am in China, you come and accompany me, and I shall compensate you". No more monthly maintenance, buying handphone, bags,...etc. For me, it is a "Take it or Leave it"case. If she does not accept, then split.

[dap26]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Well said, Brother.

I had my fair share of mistakes and had spent some money, to no regret. I have been hardened by the reality. Sometimes, when a PRC girl wants me to be her 'lover', my answer is "when I am in China, you come and accompany me, and I shall compensate you". No more monthly maintenance, buying handphone, bags,...etc. For me, it is a "Take it or Leave it"case. If she does not accept, then split.

Agreed..too much things they are expecting,how can we give them all they want...

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by mike1304k

It takes all types and it takes two hands to clap. I am sorry for the TS's situation and feeling. But sometimes we feel like we want to be a knight in shining armour and it leads us to fall on our own swords. It is ego lah. When the situation looks funny, we should be able to cut our losses and to go back to our path, but sometimes, ego leads us to give and when we have lost, ego also leads us to try to get back what we have lost and we end up losing more.......

........If a girl were to say I make her look cheap, I will not even react. I will just drop her. Because if I am giving her what I can afford and she thinks it is not enough, then truly, it will never be enough. ............

Wow I really couldn't agree more. It's a point I am always trying to make.
Please remind me to up your points soon...

[Guy_Smiley]

Originally Posted by pewpew

You are just another mobile ATM machine to her, enough said.

I concur.