ShangHai Recommendation!

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by Zaryl

On a recent Sunday afternoon, I was stepping out of the underpass at the beginning of 南京路步行街 and was approached by 2 lady in the difference of less than 10 minutes. Each asks the same question of where is the location of certain street. And since I am not familiar I politely told her not sure.

any bro knows what game are these gals up to? going for ST or trying to get my wallet?

Dear Bro Zaryl,
First of all, congrats to you on not relenting to any of those approaches and being safe! It is very wise of you to do that bro.
YES!!! You are right on the fact that those gals are merely after money, having evil intentions to con any unawared ones in particular single man on the street proned falling for such approaches.

There are many of such cases along Nanjing East Road Pedestrian Walking Street being that it's filled with tourists from everywhere, locally and overseas, which therefore giving these con gals lots of opportunities and preys.
Browse thru past postings here on such cases and you shall read more on these cases as well as some real-life experiences of some unfortunate bros whom have encountered it.
Last but not least, do exercise extra cautions especially at tourist attraction places as those places are always filled and lurking with all kinds of con men, be it men or women!
Take care & stay well bro.....

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by XuJiaHui

Bro SGP , Dun worry.... as what CM Quote again : you and your special skill lah !!Gal is attracted to you and falling in love with you..... haha .. but when touch empress then difference liao...
Empress is always empress loh !!

Dear Bro Xujiahui,
Many thanks for the kinds words & consolation here bro!
Yes indeed empress will always still the Empress, to be served & taking all things I have done for her for granted. Yet what sadden me alot was that despite realising it all knowingly herself, she still chose to stay the way it is possessing the 'rightful' attitude of hers to be at the receiving end of the relationship. sigh.........

I have made up my mind this time round that enough is enough bro! I might have said this many a times before in the past yet eventually relented and bow to all her demands, which have accumulated and caused all these sufferrings upon myself now! Time to let go now........hence the relationship is not heading anywhere at all......

Let's catch up this weekend bro, lots to catch up with you! Call me. Cheers

[tangsuyuk]

While you guys are talking about Nanjing Xi Lu, have you guys ever experienced a guy trying to offer you services? When I was there, I experienced the usual numerous offer of services by various conmen/conwoman but I just ignored them. Then there was one that came and asked me if "Wo xi huan nan ren ma?" or something to that effect before GRABBING my ass!

I was so freaked out that I ran away from him as he chased me, and it was drizzling that day, I found that the tiles along the road became damn slippery lar. Cause me to slip and get a bigger bruise on my ass. Next time go to there must get some armor to protect my ass.

[TLCsession]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Yes indeed empress will always still the Empress sigh.........

I have made up my mind this time round that enough is enough bro! Time to let go now........hence the relationship is not heading anywhere at all......

Bro SGPshanghai69,

Just PM you.

Hope to talk to you about it. On such matters pls do not rush.

Take care

regards

TLCsession

[SinThai69]

Hi,

I have been in Shanghai almost a year. Yet, I have not managed to have the opportunity to hang out with fellow SingShang bros for a few drinks and exchange locations for chiong, happiness and beautiful lassess.........

bros, please PM me for next sessions.... feeling the work pressure already, need to relax.

Cheers,

SinThai69

[goalgoal]

Originally Posted by TLCsession

Bro SGPshanghai69,

Just PM you.

Hope to talk to you about it. On such matters pls do not rush.

Take care

regards

TLCsession

from the way he posted, it seems that he has already 下定决心, decided to stop the relationship...

well, anyway, im glad to see brothers here encouraging one another!
Cheers!

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

I have made up my mind this time round that enough is enough bro! I might have said this many a times before in the past yet eventually relented and bow to all her demands, which have accumulated and caused all these sufferrings upon myself now! Time to let go now........hence the relationship is not heading anywhere at all......

Let's catch up this weekend bro, lots to catch up with you! Call me. Cheers

Mr. Simple Man, dont scare me this way ok for I have a weak heart. You know yourself what you feel deep down inside and you know what you want as well. Dont drag things thru the mud for I know that is the last thing that you wanna do. Take it in your stride, I feel, she is more than an "Empress" to you.

[Me10]

For a Puxi Sauna, I would recommend Yi Juan. This one is located in the intersection of Changping Lu and Jiazhou Lu in Puxi, like 4-5 blocks behind Jing An Temple. It is basically a Japanese Soap Land. Girls are from 6-9 in my book, of course as in saunas, the earlier, the better and more enthusiasm.

It is quite a good experience, you get in, put in shorts and get lead to the resting room or to the fish bowl. After fishbowl you are lead into a room, basic soapland set up. All the routine and the bouncing balls available. Damage is RMB740.

[Zaryl]

Originally Posted by just4fun

better dun trust those ppl on the road...we never know wat the hell are they up to man...

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Last but not least, do exercise extra cautions especially at tourist attraction places as those places are always filled and lurking with all kinds of con men, be it men or women!
Take care & stay well bro.....

thks bro just4fun and SGPshanghai69 for the sincere advise and it's always good to refresh these advise for others who may visit Shanghai or other provinces for the 1st time...

[Zaryl]

Originally Posted by tangsuyuk

Then there was one that came and asked me if "Wo xi huan nan ren ma?" or something to that effect before GRABBING my ass!

bro tangsuyuk..you must be a fair and handsome guy hor to get this attraction..

by the way, I also met up with 凯迪 just to say hello but didn't book the room as it is costly for a lone person lah..

[XuJiaHui]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Dear Bro Xujiahui,

I have made up my mind this time round that enough is enough bro! I might have said this many a times before in the past yet eventually relented and bow to all her demands, which have accumulated and caused all these sufferrings upon myself now! Time to let go now........hence the relationship is not heading anywhere at all......

Let's catch up this weekend bro, lots to catch up with you! Call me. Cheers

Bro SGP, think really properly before you decide to do so..... before I decide to let go a long term relationship , it come with thousands of reason and justification..... Till now, it is still tough to get over...
And if you go to Suzhou thread often you know I am cheonging there quite often as it is quite economical compare to Shanghai.... just back here now..
Will call you on weekend for a drink... We have many things to update each other.....

Suddenly at this hour discover my greatest mistake toward KTV mm is putting some emotion in after cheonging KTV so often in Suzhou. Those girl is really too smart for us to fight back...
Friends and bro here , our friendship is something should last long and forever......

[Van Basten]

Originally Posted by XuJiaHui

Bro SGP, think really properly before you decide to do so..... before I decide to let go a long term relationship , it come with thousands of reason and justification..... Till now, it is still tough to get over...

Suddenly at this hour discover my greatest mistake toward KTV mm is putting some emotion in after cheonging KTV so often in Suzhou. Those girl is really too smart for us to fight back...
Friends and bro here , our friendship is something should last long and forever......

hello,

your mistake is common, many pple have committed this mistake, even emperors in history have made this mistake n ended up losing their empire.. let alone us mere mortals.

even with decent chinese girls, if u think it is difficult to marry them, u may end up breaking your heart. i have thought that way, i have thought long n hard n very hard, but....

hey wat happened, u 2 guy including sgpshanghai like really very moody...

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Dear Bro J_C,
My utmost apologies to you! It wasn't intentional of me not to return your phone call but was really all caught up with work lately, and also my domestic problems as mentioned herewith.
No big shot or any sort of that attitude you mentioned here! Shall buy you a drink the next time round you are back here bro.....call me when you are back again.
Cheers.

Bro SGP, its ok lah, just pulling your legs mah. After all my trips to SH not able to catch up with you, I myself also paiseh leh. About you and empress, if you don't mind, let me say this,

There is no such thing a perfect match in life, its about making compromise, sacrifice and many more. For a relationship to work, it takes alot of patience as well. Sometimes, we got to ask ourselves, why our women are so spoilt, could it be that we spoilt them, to begin with? For example, I know of a guy who bought flowers fairly frequently for the gf, at one point of time, he kinda stopped, the gf asked, do you not love me anymore? The guy complained the gf was too spoilt, but he didn't question himself, he was the one who started pampering her first. In a relationship, be it bgf or friends, we should be true and be yourself, don't try to woo the person by doing something that is not something we normally do. Empress may have flaws, for she is human too. So, give it some thoughts. Think of her good points, are they good enough for you to stay, or are the bad points enough to drive you out of the relationship.

Let me know when I next visit SH, hope things will work well for you.

JC

[tangsuyuk]

Originally Posted by Zaryl

bro tangsuyuk..you must be a fair and handsome guy hor to get this attraction..

by the way, I also met up with 凯迪 just to say hello but didn't book the room as it is costly for a lone person lah..

Bro Zaryl, I rather be ugly at that point in time haha. If I go back to Shanghai will surely next time ask people to cheong with me. Last time I open bottle also never finish, and don't think I be back in time to finish it unless I can persuade my boss to send me there again haha. Wasted. Should next time leave it under sammyboy forums or something so other people can finish up my half bottle Chivas.

[Willie]

[QUOTE=SGPshanghai69;2028099]Dear Bro Xujiahui,
Many thanks for the kinds words & consolation here bro!

bro, sorry to hear about your problems, thank you for "entertaining" my call and sms last weekend while I was in Shanghai. Though we didn't get to meet this time round, I am sure there will always be another time.

Anyway I did have a go there, visiting a massage place call Ji Yuan, which was located at the junction of Ji Zhou Road/Yi Yao Road. Once again, take care! Cheers!