Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl

[TonyMontana]

Originally Posted by mike1304k

Bro,

I also do not know what you are planning. But if you marry overseas, unless you are marrying an under-age girl or something, there will usually not be any involvement of embassies and so on. Just go to local council or whichever government council that does this sort of thing and you present your passport, she presents her i/c and the Justice of Peace asks a few questions and you are married. It is the same in Singapore mah... Which government so free so and check who marry who where.

But like I mentioned, I would advise you not to do anything funny as polygamy is an offence. And if you get found out, you are in a world of grief.

I wish you luck and clear thinking.

noted. just wondering how pple did it without getting caught...

any bros here married a thai girl? they appear very loving, know how to take care of their man and of cos beautiful...

[owen10]

Hmmm .. it's interesting tis thread is rekindled. i thk tis is a very gd discussion cos it sums up d current situation of many s'porean men, mostly d older ones n some of d younger folks too.

in fact for myslf, sometimes i do feel attracted to tt sweet talking n demure hooker in GL, or tt innocent looking, ever smiling Thai masseuse or tt easy going chio hairdresser n thk if 1 day i wd ever marry 1 of them. mayb it's their simplicity tt makes us feel at east tt doesnt come as a package in sporean gals. being single perhaps made me feel tt way but deep down in my heart, of cos i knw there's a lot of social stigma, incl d countless tales tt d gal will run away wif yr $$$ 1 day.

but marriage is 1 big gamble isnt it? i had many friends who had enviable marriages - sporean wives, chio n capable - but ended up in divorce later. on d other hand there r also fairytales (1 army fren n 2 other samsters) which d guys are happily married to some FLs/masseuse with children. saying is easier than done. as Sam commented in pg 1: 'How would you like your friends and collegues to describe to you how good a fuck your wife was.' i guess d social stigma is there as long as u remain in spore, scruntinised under d microscopic eyes of family, relatives n frens. maybe migrating overseas will make it psychologically less burdened.

[mike1304k]

Originally Posted by TonyMontana

noted. just wondering how pple did it without getting caught...

any bros here married a thai girl? they appear very loving, know how to take care of their man and of cos beautiful...

Bro,

The question is whether you got the "right one" or not... Most Thai girls are pretty and nice... They will wipe your plate and forks and spoons... They will also ask you not to serve them and they will serve you... That is where your little ego gets swelled and your heart melts.. But even my wife says that she respects the Thai's for how they treat their men... (FYI.. most Sg girls who know my wife alreadt respect her for treating me so nice... So you can see how much better they are).

But then in response to your question of how do some guys get 2 marriages under the belt and get away with it... If they are smart and cool about it... anything is possible.. And as long as the other side does not suspect...

But again... I say it very clearly and very forcefully, do not try to have multiple marriages in multiple countries. You may think that you can handle it, but it will eventually boil out. Imagine you having to support 2 families? If one side the child falls sick how? Some more, it may seem fun or even exciting.. but the consequences of getting caught? Nowadays Thai girls are not as stupid as many think. They are internet savvy and also able to do searches. If they go into ROM and search your name and you are found out... then you will see the other side of a Thai lady.... They are not people to be screwed with.. You will be in a rice pady feeding the fighting fish and helping to grow the Fragrant Thai Rice faster than you can even blink... If you do so bro... please tell me and I will swear off Thai rice for the time being hor.

[FL Lover]

Bro, in Thai. Anything is possible.

There is no need to legally marry a thai ger if you are already married in Singapore. In thai, as long as you hold a custom marriage in the village, you are consider married even though you do not have the paper. Most of the thai gers I know of are OK with this kind of arrangement,

If you ask me y. I tell you the reason. NO STRINGS ATTACHED. If one day they get sick of you and wants to OFFICALLY MARRIED TO ANOTHER GUY, they are allow to do so without any issues.

Of course, I have seen cases whereby the thai gers already know that the guy have a wife or gf in singapore but still have babies with him. My advice, IF YOU HAVE THE $$ and can support 2 FAMILIES, GO AHEAD.

[mm_guy]

HI pussyman72,

DID u manage to marry ur tirak thru the proper channel??? pls let me know... cuz i seems to hv a similar issue with u...but shes a PRC yellow card holder

SO if therez any BROs kind enough to share all those vital infos to get an ex-yellow card holder to come over here n married......i would be greatly appreciated it alot.....

i know therez also alot of bros out there who dun agree that we shd marry a wls or crazy....i appreciated those bros concern....... but things in the heart is sometimes difficult to understand......so pls come forward n share ur infos will appreciate it greatly.........thanks

[DO_YOU_BJ]

In the 1st place, what's a Yellow Card??????

[mm_guy]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

In the 1st place, what's a Yellow Card??????

its some sort of work permit only issued to those workin legally in sg nia

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Tot now is W or S pass only???????
Yellow card is old sys or wat?
Anyways, no need to reply hahahaha
Bo liaozzz questions only
Can ask me bros during drinking sessions

[BUOYANTLESS]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Tot now is W or S pass only???????
Yellow card is old sys or wat?

this yellow card is a document issued to all legal wls workin in singapore eg:cat 50 thais,cat150 malaysians/prc.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Ah so des.....
Kumxia...like that how to get PR status......

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by BUOYANTLESS

this yellow card is a document issued to all legal wls workin in singapore eg:cat 50 thais,cat150 malaysians/prc.

Yellow card = MOH. There is no such things as work permit.... they never work here and never legal to work here in the eyes of the ICA that is why they are temp banned or indef banned after 1 to 2 yrs duty.

That is btn AV and ICA arrangement is to let the gers to work in geylang for a period of time what i can said is that much.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by spermmyboy

This topic is always mai mao mai dai...

well this topic is always very touchy. so it all up to the person to decide what he wanna do... we can advice alot some even go to the extreme to insult. anyway it still up to the person.

nobody decide for his life how he wanna walk. so long he know it very well what he is in for then he answer to his future....

nobody dare to said the road is wrong or right cos they are not god.... they cant predict the future. so let the guy decide it. there is no point zappings, cursing the person marrying a whore... i dont see any reason doing this kind childish way....

[FL Lover]

quite hard to get marry and officially rgister your marriage in ROM. You can try a few methods but the thing is that.. its up to ICA to even allow her to step into sg..

The only few cases I came across are those who married their ger in their hometowns and they actually moved over there to settle with their loved ones... Big risks and you might end up with nothing if the ger is playing with your feelings.

Better consider properly before you make that big steps. Ask yourself this qns... ARE YOU SURE THAT SHE IS THE ONE FOR YOU? If yes, how far would you go for her? If you are having some thoughts on that, my advice to you... YOU ARE STILL NOT READY FOR HER.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

The only few cases I came across are those who married their ger in their hometowns and they actually moved over there to settle with their loved ones... Big risks and you might end up with nothing if the ger is playing with your feelings.

Better consider properly before you make that big steps. Ask yourself this qns... ARE YOU SURE THAT SHE IS THE ONE FOR YOU? If yes, how far would you go for her? If you are having some thoughts on that, my advice to you... YOU ARE STILL NOT READY FOR HER.

Totally agree with you on the above posting. better think twice or 3x 4x or even 100x better sit down and think it properly whether the path ahead is the choice you really wanna make.... it not a ez road and there is alot of upz and downs...

Just like bro FL lover said If you are having some thoughts on that, my advice to you... YOU ARE STILL NOT READY FOR HER.

[calvintan]

Bro salute to you..

but i really need to ask.. so how do you know how long is she ban from coming to sg? just apply for a visitor pass and then go see ICA officer?

and isit true that all girl from GL cannot come back to sg forever for wadever reason?(current law)