Shanghai "In Conversation" Views, News & Reviews

[shanghian]

Originally Posted by shanghaitan

Bro Shengge continued with his "usual" NTTL, the envy of all the other bros. By the end of the night, we ran out of tissue as too much blood was lost via the nose.. hahahaha...
Big Big Bro PuTonRen once again demonstrated his impeccable instinct for choosing the "right" women for accompaniment.. As Big Big Bro told me before.. sometimes, looks are not everything.. it is what's inside (in more ways than one.. right?? ) that matters mosts

Bro Facilitator Shanghaitan,
Looks like I missed out on one BIG bash..damn . But looking on the bright side of things , I did not lose much blood and as such do not look so anaemic and as Bro SG mentioned , saved some trees by not using so much tissue ..
Wonder if Big Big Bro PTR has any vacancy for Tu Di or not?This selection "Kung Fu" is a must learn skill to survive in Shanghai KTV scene...I totally agree wif you on the "bitter gourd" face MMs that sometimes looks good but taste is hopeless.
Bro , have kang tao for more NTTL like bro SG or not? your recommend damn good leh....
Waiting for my VISA approval once more( wish I had Bro SG's life long visa type )

cheers

Shanghian

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by shanghian

Wonder if Big Big Bro PTR has any vacancy for Tu Di or not?This selection "Kung Fu" is a must learn skill to survive in Shanghai KTV scene...I totally agree wif you on the "bitter gourd" face MMs that sometimes looks good but taste is hopeless.

Shanghian

Dear Bro Shanghian,

Please do not think that I am that good. Bro Shanghaitan always over praises me. I choose girl based on feeling and I do not know how to share my humble experience on feeling. What I do know is what an old saying goes "Eyes cannot hide anything". I have developed the habit of staring into the eyes of persons I meet, and I usually got the first hand feeling. However, I could be wrong at times.

The Wuhan girl I have taken as companion of the night was a lucky and good choice. Very accommodating and caring. I had a good session with her.

Hope to see you soon in Shanghai again, brother.

With best regards

PTR

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by shanghian

Wonder if Big Big Bro PTR has any vacancy for Tu Di or not?This selection "Kung Fu" is a must learn skill to survive in Shanghai KTV scene...I totally agree wif you on the "bitter gourd" face MMs that sometimes looks good but taste is hopeless.
Bro , have kang tao for more NTTL like bro SG or not? your recommend damn good leh....

cheers

Shanghian

Bro Shanghian, you're not the only one that missed the bash. About the kungfu Bro PTR has in terms of selecting the 'right' mm, at the end of the day, ask yourself what do you want out of the a night out in the ktv. If you have an expectation to find your dream mm from a ktv, most of the time, you will end up disappointed. Relationship is a funny thing, it always happens when you least expect. One simple rule of thumb Bro PTR and I have - in a fleet of mm line-up, we always pay more attention to someone who bothers to make eye-contacts and not stingy of their Colgate smile. You are right about the looks, one can look knock-out gorgeous yet with a fxxx attitude. I rather pick someone who is average looking but with great attitude, which may in turn become great personality, thats a bonus.

Its been a while since I last asked for outright commercial sex. Not that I go for FOC sex, but rather prefer to bring the mm back without negotiating the price. In the morning after, will still give them money which I term as reimbursement of their transportation expenses.

Just my limited experience in the land of the awakening dragon.

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Its been a while since I last asked for outright commercial sex. Not that I go for FOC sex, but rather prefer to bring the mm back without negotiating the price. In the morning after, will still give them money which I term as reimbursement of their transportation expenses.

Just my limited experience in the land of the awakening dragon.

Again........The GREAT WISE ONE has spoken!
Bros, "Heed all his teachings & one shalt be wiser each day & enlightned"..............

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear Bro Shanghian,

Please do not think that I am that good. Bro Shanghaitan always over praises me. I choose girl based on feeling and I do not know how to share my humble experience on feeling. What I do know is what an old saying goes "Eyes cannot hide anything". I have developed the habit of staring into the eyes of persons I meet, and I usually got the first hand feeling. However, I could be wrong at times.

The Wuhan girl I have taken as companion of the night was a lucky and good choice. Very accommodating and caring. I had a good session with her.

Hope to see you soon in Shanghai again, brother.

With best regards

PTR

Bro PTR, I see that you have ventured beyond your all-time fav, Sichuan MM (although I know you have your random picks from other provinces). To date, I still have not had my flag on a Sichuan MM, sigh! I agree with you, eye contacts is an important tell-tale sign. Its also an art to flirt with a MM with your eyes. Luck is one least factor one should rely on, more importantly is, not to have expectation of what should happen in the night, let nature takes its course. Prepare for the worst, anything better than worst is good. This is my guiding principle.

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Again........The GREAT WISE ONE has spoken!
Bros, "Heed all his teachings & one shalt be wiser each day & enlightned"..............

Bro SGP69, I aint the great wise one, as my nic said, I am just a junior cannibal, as junior means fresh newbie. What I share in this forum is just some limited experience I had in the past to serve as gentle reminder for bros here. In life, we tend to take things for granted. Exercise a little caution and regular common sense, we should all be able to enjoy our stay here. The whole idea is how to make the best out of the worst (knowing how unhappy a man you are to be stationed in China)

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Bro PTR, I see that you have ventured beyond your all-time fav, Sichuan MM (although I know you have your random picks from other provinces). To date, I still have not had my flag on a Sichuan MM, sigh! I agree with you, eye contacts is an important tell-tale sign. Its also an art to flirt with a MM with your eyes. Luck is one least factor one should rely on, more importantly is, not to have expectation of what should happen in the night, let nature takes its course. Prepare for the worst, anything better than worst is good. This is my guiding principle.

Dear Bro J_C,

I disagree with you on the luck part! For an U(gly) F(at) O(ld) man like me, luck plays an important part in having a good pick.

As the saying goes "Eyes are windows to the soul", hence, All Brothers, look into the eyes of these mei mei when you make your pick. I seldom went wrong on choices as witnessed by many Shanghai Brothers.

Regards

PTR

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear Bro J_C,

I disagree with you on the luck part! For an U(gly) F(at) O(ld) man like me, luck plays an important part in having a good pick.

As the saying goes "Eyes are windows to the soul", hence, All Brothers, look into the eyes of these mei mei when you make your pick. I seldom went wrong on choices as witnessed by many Shanghai Brothers.

Regards

PTR

Bro PTR, from my personal experience, most Chinese MM are not particular about the look of their dream man, what they want is someone they can look up to, seek advice whenever necessary, afterall, most of them are a bunch of sheeps without direction. A wise man like you will fit the bill very much to direct them, just like some of the wise advice you have unknowingly imparted to some of the bros here, myself included.

[shengge]

Originally Posted by shanghian

Looks like I missed out on one BIG bash..damn

Wonder if Big Big Bro PTR has any vacancy for Tu Di or not?

Bro , have kang tao for more NTTL like bro SG or not? your recommend damn good leh....

Waiting for my VISA approval once more (wish I had Bro SG's life long visa type)

Bro shanghian,
I always enjoy reading your post...
You did not miss anything, what you have missed is with you now, so you should be happy....right?

PTR has a lot of Tu Di but not in this aspect, he basically share his experience with fellow bros.

There are plenty of NTTL around lah, be early can liao. Anyway, it is her personality that attracts me more lah. If she show me faces, then I would have tell her, 88.

As the visa officer knows most of the destinations, that is why most of the time approved lah. For your case, don think you need lah

Cheers!

[shanghian]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Ask yourself what do you want out of the a night out in the ktv.

Bro JC,
Looks like we need to wait for the next KTV bash.. ( facilitator Shanghaitan...pls take note ..hehehehe)
My expectations when I go for a night out in a KTV are simple , have a good time with friends and relax ..chilllllll ( if doesn't hurt to have a NTTL MM sitting next to me hehehe). The liquor helps , the singing helps and definately the company of friends helps the most.
For paid sex ... well I enjoy the process more than the actual act.. the fun is in the approach, chat and if it "clicks" then proceed. If I wanted a straight bonk...go for a HC session ..100% sure but ...no feeling like shooting fish in a barrel..Nike Ad..."Just Do It". Worrying part about KTV session and all this MM is to avoid the Kum Cheng trap. They are damn good at this and even after years of experience..you are not immune to the "trap". I have been fortunate in my years here ,met up with some nice MMs and of course some nasty ones too. I'm still learning ( from all you big bros... thanks for the tips and guidance..Bro SG,PTR,Shanghaitan, WhamBam,SHRam etc) and hoping to stick to the motto .... Fuck and Forget.

Safety Helmets 'ON'

cheers

Shanghian

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by shanghian

....stick to the motto .... Fuck and Forget.

Safety Helmets 'ON'

cheers

Shanghian

Bro, I had my fair share of Gum Zheng trap as well. Part of the reason why today I am in SH was due to a Chinese MM I met in my first trip to SH. It took me a while to get over her. Ever since then, I constantly reminded myself not to repeat the same mistake. As we all have our loved ones back home, none of us could afford such mistake. I have a army friend who once told me, although he goes on a fair bit of sex trips, his principle is: not to bonk the same mm twice, for fear that he might fall for the person. Some bros in this forum said before, no matter how much you think the MM likes you, always remember, there is no such thing as FOC sex, its either you pay now or later. Sometimes you may end up paying more if you dont pay upfront.

[shanghaitan]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Bro, I had my fair share of Gum Zheng trap as well. Part of the reason why today I am in SH was due to a Chinese MM I met in my first trip to SH.
As we all have our loved ones back home, none of us could afford such mistake.
Some bros in this forum said before, no matter how much you think the MM likes you, always remember, there is no such thing as FOC sex, its either you pay now or later. Sometimes you may end up paying more if you dont pay upfront.

Dear Bro Junior_Cannibal,
Well said!

Gum Zheng traps are everywhere... not just in China... but I would say itis more rampant here than anywhere else.. perhaps its the society these women are brought up in.. new to capitalism, everything revolves around money.. it's importance makes it such that it is "do or die!", "Make or break!" and "By hook or by crook! (more the latter though...)"

I'm surprised that the Bro Junior_Cannibal I know has actually fell into one before.. well.. NOT THE BRO JUNIOR_CANNIBAL of TODAY!! Hahhahahaa.. *Salute*

There is not such thing as free lunch in this world.. and like you have so aptly put.. it's a matter of pay now or pay later.. and usually paying later would also mean paying more.. be it financially or emotionally..

At the end of the day, we have our loved ones to think about.. play with fire, bring a fire extinguisher (just a state of mental preparedness might suffice.. )so that whatever little spark can be put out as soon as it happens... otherwise, it will spread and one will get burnt.. It is never worth it to give up on people who truly love and trust you and who will give up everything for you.. such soul mates should be cherished and not be continuously "taken advantage" of... it is inevitable that we "side track" once in a while when alone in a foreign land.. but we must always remember our "roots", where is our "home" and what our "home" means to us..

So bros.. play hard.. cheong hard.. but always cheong safe.. don't wander too far from "home"... spare them a thought once in a while because they are the ones who truly deserve it..

For me personally, it serves to bring sanity back to my sometimes insane and not overly balanced lifestyle...

Anyway, this is just my personal opinion and may or may not hold true to the beliefs of some of the bros here..

Cheerio~!
Shanghaitan

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by shanghaitan

I'm surprised that the Bro Junior_Cannibal I know has actually fell into one before.. well.. NOT THE BRO JUNIOR_CANNIBAL of TODAY!! Hahhahahaa.. *Salute*
Cheerio~!
Shanghaitan

Bro Shanghaitan, Its no surprise that I had fallen into one of those said traps, dont forget, I am human too. I have learnt the lesson the hard way. In fact, I bear no grudges against that MM, instead, I have to thank her for 'bringing' me to China (it presents vast opportunities in terms of business as well as fun ) Despite all these traps, there are still many nice MM around. Think about it, China has 1.3 billion people, there are bound to be nice and not nice people. Its fate and luck that determine who you will meet today. Be sincere but exercise adequate caution and common sense, one will be able to go a long way.

[holein1]

Originally Posted by tionggoklan

SuperFriend,

首先，我要解释一下，我并不是要说你对还是我错。但是我认为人在彼邦，待人处事都要以和为贵，做人要收敛一 点。作为新加坡人，感到自豪并没错，但不应该自傲。正所谓，过江龙敌不过地头蛇。

或许我的经验已过时了，我也很替你高兴，到目前为止，你的方式还有效。不过，千万要适可而止，不然物极必反 。你想一想，如果有老外在新加坡以这种态度对你的话，你能接受吗？所以，己所不欲，勿施于人。

因此，我觉得，而且我相信很多在沪的新加坡同仁也同意，既然在异乡，有时保持低调一点还是比较妥当。小心驶 得万年船，切记！切记！

我再强调一次，我并无恶意，只是说出我的意见罢了，望海涵。

hi tgk,

this is holein1. i have always been mostly a reader, though i have met up with sgh69, whamb, etc in shanghai. sorry to those bros whom i made a sudden appearance in pub97 and disappeared as quickly. i seek your forgiveness; all my trips to shanghai are that busy. 8(

btw tgk, what line are you previously in? kindly pm me. thank you.

0in1

[holein1]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Bro, I had my fair share of Gum Zheng trap as well. Part of the reason why *snipped* is no such thing as FOC sex, its either you pay now or later. Sometimes you may end up paying more if you dont pay upfront.

yo bro,

i agree with you. i have seen many of my company ppl (from the very guai guai de to the super lao ciao) fall becos of this.