Stephen Leather's Private Dancer

[thaigers]

Originally Posted by yomun

... Her concerns for you are just some good will as she regards you as jai dee person.

knowing this is good enough for me.......

Originally Posted by yomun

Kekeke you also another one who wants to know whether you're THE ONE. Recently got one friend also like that. If you've any doubts at all. That means you're not THE ONE. You'll get a very clear hint from her if you're really THE ONE. Please move on and make more money for your future girlfriend/wife and have a successful career. Everything will fall in place one day once you have $$$. Money is not everything but it helps to facilitate many matters.

Actually I am not sure if I wanna know if I am THE ONE. I know for sure I am not THE ONLY ONE. I will be happy to know that she has treated me as a friend. Saying that, really feel sad that she will going into the same profession in BKK......

[Sundaytimes]

joop dai mai

Originally Posted by thaigers

knowing this is good enough for me.......



Actually I am not sure if I wanna know if I am THE ONE. I know for sure I am not THE ONLY ONE. I will be happy to know that she has treated me as a friend. Saying that, really feel sad that she will going into the same profession in BKK......

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by thaigers

knowing this is good enough for me.......



Actually I am not sure if I wanna know if I am THE ONE. I know for sure I am not THE ONLY ONE. I will be happy to know that she has treated me as a friend. Saying that, really feel sad that she will going into the same profession in BKK......

Actually, I envy u that she has been honest with u on this.

Darkstorm

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by thaigers

you two got a point there, and i have thought about those points as well. yes, she may like me, but she also know that because of the circumstances, she would rather let it go. Same for me.

Calling their customers and regular is part of their CRM when they are here. That is why i didnt bother picking up her calls when she called.

What i dont understand is, why does she wanna keep up the CRM when she is going to leave? I overnite her 2 days before she called to tell me she is quitting. I do not think she plan to quit, its like all of a sudden, she just tell me she wanna quit. So after hearing that, I dont even get a chance to bonk her again because they cant work when they say they wanna quit.

After she announced she quit, she still call and sms me and asked me out and asked me to go to the airport. Surely I will not be her customer here anymore after she says she quit. So why carry on all these CRM?? She has also displayed concern for me, asked me dont go geylang waste money, ask me to save the money and visit her in BKK for a holiday. She asked if will I go and visit her. I told her sure. She did not seem to believe me and asked , SURE???

KNN, if i think that she really want me to go, of course I will go lah. But i feel that she was asking for the sake of asking only.....

So why all the CRM before she left?? This is the only thing that i am confused about I wanna know the truth (whether she really like me), but I aint getting any..which hurts even more........

Are u a rich guy? Do u consider yourself rich? Does she consider u rich?
If u r rich (however this is defined), then there is the chance that she wants u for your money.

Darkstorm

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by thaigers

knowing this is good enough for me.......



Actually I am not sure if I wanna know if I am THE ONE. I know for sure I am not THE ONLY ONE. I will be happy to know that she has treated me as a friend. Saying that, really feel sad that she will going into the same profession in BKK......

After a while, you will move on with it and you will be talking about your next good bonk. Sad also no use, cos it can't help her.

SC

[Mr.romance]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Then at least should send you a letter right?

SC

haha..tats a good one.But now slightly more high tech leow..They are starting to send through e-mail instead of letter....
But funny thing is I always send e-mail to my TG to her Thaimail account but bounces back very often especially when the information exceeds 2kbytes ...& she claims she send me e-mail many times but i did not receive any..Til now I am still scratching my head over this issue

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by thaigers

knowing this is good enough for me.......



Actually I am not sure if I wanna know if I am THE ONE. I know for sure I am not THE ONLY ONE. I will be happy to know that she has treated me as a friend. Saying that, really feel sad that she will going into the same profession in BKK......

It is an illusion and u will be fine when it's over

[RJ2004]

Originally Posted by metalbaby

i am now also thinking about the THE ONE issue. it's one big game and i'm not close to winning. it's like poker... i've got the bad cards but have to pull a poker face as if i'm ace-ing.
it's hard. and she probably knows how it's like.
then again, she may not even care. i come, i buy beer, she take a dollar... drink finish, i fuck off. why should she care so much?

you already lost if you think its a game la. cos its not a game, YOU are the game (to be hunted). so no point coming here asking for opinions if you want to play becos everything has been repeated over and over again. you will carry on no matter wad others say. i have read your thread about that gal and frankly i got nothing to say to it oso la.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Mr.romance

haha..tats a good one.But now slightly more high tech leow..They are starting to send through e-mail instead of letter....
But funny thing is I always send e-mail to my TG to her Thaimail account but bounces back very often especially when the information exceeds 2kbytes ...& she claims she send me e-mail many times but i did not receive any..Til now I am still scratching my head over this issue

What good one? Last time me and my ex-tirak use letters.

SC

[thaigers]

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

Are u a rich guy? Do u consider yourself rich? Does she consider u rich?
If u r rich (however this is defined), then there is the chance that she wants u for your money.

Darkstorm

i dont think I will ever turn crown prince.........

when i am with someone in the 'service industry', for me its very simple, when they start asking for money(if i think they just want money because they kept me company), I am out.

[Darkstorm]

I have been thinking again...the path taken by one who falls for a Working Lady (WL) is not an easy one. One goes against the advice and moral norms of friends, family and society at large. It is a lonely path to walk upon. It really is the road less travelled, and fraught with much peril.

Imagine being in such a relationship, or your heart pining for a WL. And u need to pour out your heart's troubles. Who's going to want to hear u out? Would any of your 'decent' friends want to listen to u? Will they even have the patience to hear u out? Your family? Most would not want their family to know. Would any of them understand what your mind is going through?

Maybe we should form a support group for 'fallen' comrades or something. Just some thoughts.

Darkstorm

[thaigers]

Originally Posted by yomun

There's the Alcoholic's Annoymous Group. You're suggesting for a Tirak Annoymous Group? Hehe.

End of the day join what groups also no use if one wants to walk the sad fuck path.

May i suggest "The Sad Fuck" group then???

[delifrance]

Hi pple

Telling you that she works in a new restaurant is nothing more than a pacifier for you. For Mr Romance, it's like this - to prevent a baby from crying, the mother shoves her breast into her baby's mouth....keep the baby happy. That's what she is doing to you.

leaving the chicken business and still keeping contacts with her customers is simply this: you are not the only fish in the ocean or market and there's a thing called 'divorce' even if you are married.

telling you to save money and not go Geylang - you have more money now, part of it can be spent on her for her use or for both of you to benefit. Nothing is wasted on her advice - she benefits somehow because you are generous and soft-hearted enough to spend on her or share your resources with her.

Honesty is part of Loyalty, it does not equate to Loyalty because Loyalty have more components like Commitment. A girl who gives you her honesty can disappear from you when she does something wrong to break your heart or a shared agreement....especially if you want to confront her in your righteous anger. She doesnt need to take chatisement from you or should I say: she doesnt need to take shit from you. She needs to receive nice things from you. That's the Thai mentality.

Unless a girl or thai girl or WL of yours does and keeps on doing things that has no benefit for her and for you over time, you can consider her a bit better than the normal type of person who will be committed to you for a long-term happiness.

[delifrance]

Hi Mr Romance

another thing about email - she doesnt bother to check her email account. She needs to go to an Internet Cafe to pay money to check her email account, obviously her email account is jammed with other emails by other guys and junk mail. She emailed you many times? think carefully.......put yourself into her shoes and look at how you are playing the game with her? Enough reason for her to email you when you call her and tell her that you are coming to Bkk? *small grin*

I have met WL who swear that they will never marry or go into a serious relationship with men who fell in love with them through their WL (working life) and some of the stronger WLs keep to their oaths. Think of why they think this way, even if you are one hell of a handsome and rich guy.

One question for all friends who are in Bkk now: Since Orbit is having their anniversary, can someone check for me if the Manager called Ms Ratchanee is still working there? She is one cool lady that I admire and know in person. She is formerly from Forte Fashion Fashion house where she worked as a mama-san and the last time I've met her is in Orbit. She has style and does not show-off, her picture is inside Orbit, along with the other posters of the dancing girls and better looking hostesses.

Thanks.

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by yomun

There's the Alcoholic's Annoymous Group. You're suggesting for a Tirak Annoymous Group? Hehe.

End of the day join what groups also no use if one wants to walk the sad fuck path.

Heh heh....in life, there are Winners......and Losers!

In order for someone to win, someone must lose. I just wish it wouldn't be me.


Darkstorm