My dear si pui, u back in S'pore??? How's your trip up to Vietnam?
not too bad a trip .... just that a day after my return, monster called and said the place is raided .... i cried in disbelief and seeing all the mini raids the past few days made me think of my wives safely back in vn now ....
Don say waste time la...cultural exchange is what we are looking for. Right Bro Lament? Anyways, she is asking me to go back Vietnam with her during CNY in Feb...I am very wary, i just know her 2-3 weeks only...hmmm...suspect suspect! What u guys think??
cultural exchange is the right word to use ......
anyway 3 weeks is a very short time to know someone and in my humble opinion ...take 6 months to know her ...going to visit her in vn is a small matter if u need a break .....
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Originally Posted by kumfusion
Woohoo! Glad ure back...I have picked many tips just reading ur advise. Thanx Bro Lament!
I didn't catch khong...is pronounced as what? wa lau eh...sibeh confusing sia...No=Khong, hungry also khong! Is it same as khung (siao) pronounced as comb?
khong is used like not .... and is pronounced like "####" in chinese, u know space "tai ####" the same. anything with khong in front means no like "khong an" = not eaten and khong behing is like a question, "em thich anh khong" = u like me or not.
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Originally Posted by kumfusion
Think my girl read as zi...so she's from north...aiya i only know she from Hanoi moved to hcm. This girl i am trying is average looking, just that she has "character". Not easy rider kind...but she is currently in love with someone and has very honestly told me so. Anyways, things are ok...don mind taking it slow...i am happy she takes effort to come stay with me even though its just a couple of hours since i have to work next morning.
well the north speaks viet in the correct manner and is known as the clean language and the version in the south is considered incorrect as it is fused with many local slangs and dialects ..........
end of the days .... looks are but a small issue but its the way that u feels that matters ....... so long as u dun get trapped in too deep a shit and cannot get out .....
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Originally Posted by kumfusion
i ask u something...much earlieer i read somewhere u said something about "The closer you are to their world, the further you will be. You will learn this fact with time" What u mean? I kinda experiece this too lei.
well this .... u will learn with time the difference of being a customer and a lover ......this is a test of how much the gal really like you and their true feelings towards you....
u r still new and if you learn everything ...whats there to discover .... i might as well give you an operations manual .....
When u have tons of money then every WL is easy as A B C. But ppl like me, no money then all depends on luck.
agreed absolutely with you .....
feelings nothing but feelings of loveeeeeeeeeeee
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Originally Posted by D^KnighT
PRCs are smart but easy to get if you know how to play the game with them but Viets are too direct about money.
hmmm ...me thought it was the other way round ...... thats y i skip prc's .... its finding the key thats important and thats y i never have much luck with prcs ......maybe i couldn't find the right key
Wow u finally agreed with me. No wonder u r always my si pui.....
knn ..... i agreed with what u said ... no money then see your luck mah
but then i love you bro ......
just got an indiscreet proposal of marriage from my danang gf .... wanna set up family life .... ai yo ..... only know her 3 nights and wanna spend rest of her life with me .... why me ???????????
i m scared sia .... told her marriage is ok but i cannot upkeep her , she say she dun mind ...jus want me by her .......
anyway 3 weeks is a very short time to know someone and in my humble opinion ...take 6 months to know her ...going to visit her in vn is a small matter if u need a break .....
Ya...slowly understand each other. To be comfortable...how much do I need to spend if i plan to stay there 1 week? Including air tix, food, some gifts, entertainment...etc...what u think?
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Originally Posted by lament
well this .... u will learn with time the difference of being a customer and a lover ......this is a test of how much the gal really like you and their true feelings towards you....
u r still new and if you learn everything ...whats there to discover .... i might as well give you an operations manual .....
I really don know lei…this girl can see she puts in effort also…but on the other hand I am very wary. She tells me she misses me when she wakes up…wants to see me, very happy when with me…Never ask me Have u eaten? What u doing? A bit too sweet….Cmon Bro, let me see the light! How to tell???
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Originally Posted by lament
the only tough part is the actual excution and the art of using the gift of the gab ......
why need a manual when the "Living Word" aka bible aka me is your good buddy me .......
Totally agree...execution is tough. Viets are generally more conservative if they really like u...they will not want to make love so soon…so have to relac, don't let them know its about the sex. So cannot let our small head do the talking. But wa lau eh...if u have girl sleeping half naked beside u...How to CONTROL??
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Originally Posted by lament
just got an indiscreet proposal of marriage from my danang gf .... wanna set up family life .... ai yo ..... only know her 3 nights and wanna spend rest of her life with me .... why me ???????????
Hmm…why you? Cos u are the writer of the manual, if u can’t get who can?? Anyways, u tell me 3 weeks is too short…then u knn 3 days kenna proposal!
...just got an indiscreet proposal of marriage from my danang gf .... wanna set up family life .... ai yo ..... only know her 3 nights and wanna spend rest of her life with me .... why me ???????????.......
Cos you are the first man in her life?
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Originally Posted by lament
...i m scared sia .... told her marriage is ok but i cannot upkeep her , she say she dun mind ...jus want me by her .......
This is just the honeymoon / Hornymoon period only...tell her to be fair to her, she must know you a longer time before commiting...6 mths?1 yr or longer suka you said lah. Just dun be "chong tong" enough to marry her so soon hor! Skali you beat RJ to have wedding dinner along JC. Then i will be your usherer. kekeke...
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