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[84gunner]

Originally Posted by longwinter

l oso had enuf of sg gals. Actually l am a simple guy. Jus hope to hav a gf as a companion, someone that can accmpy me for meals at times, tok wif me, go out wif me, share my joys and unhappiness, care for each other.. is that sumtinz so difficult, l dun tink so. Even if no sex, l am fine oso.

but thru out all my yrs, l still cnt find a perfect sg gal. l agree wif what u had say. Even if u succeed in sianing the gal, it is jus the beginning of another phase of suffering. l used to hav a gf. Never once did she make me happy, everytime it is always me the bf trying to make her happy and tinking of ways to coax her. Every time she had problems, she keep wanting me to tink of solutions to help her, and when l cnt, she will blame me for being useless and etc. But pls la, wad she takes me as? Solution provider, l everything oso can solve de mehs

help her alot, and tried my best to make her happy? In the end, wad happened? Compare me wif her other male frenz and tryin to put me down? l am always lousy and a loser in her eyes.

bro, I understand how u feel. It hurts, especially when she says why this guy can do this, why u cant, why that guy can do that, why u cant, etc. While u are putting in so much time & effort trying to make her happy, this is wat u get from her most times. U see her happy only on few occasions, and often, yr reaction by the time she's happy, u probably didnt even realise, is more of heaving a sigh of relief than being happy. I heard a gal said b4, they set different standards 4 frens & bf / husband. That means they'll demand more from their bf / husband. Many guys, even simple guys, can be their frens, but the guy beside her must be special, different from other guys. So those are the techniques they use to push the guys to do more, to achieve more.

If that's exactly the case, I'll tell her then pls go be wif that guy, cos I cant do this, I cant do that, I cant satisfy u. By the time u are satisfied, I'm oredi exhausted, giving up. U cant accept me 4 who & what I am, what I can & cannot do. U cant accept me during & being my normal self. We have more unhappiness than happiness, so it's meaningless.

Or, v often, the gals will say, if u really love me, u will do this for me, do that for me. And often, the guys kena snooked by this. My solution is to reply: love is reciprocal, 2-sided. If u really love me too, then u wouldn't make things difficult for me! If u continue to think of yrself only, then u dont really love me, I dont feel u appreciate me for what I am / have, I feel u regard me more as a sucker than a bf / husband!

In any case, dun have to pay that much attention to SG gals. Recently, I'm somehow hearing more complaints from my ang moh associates (in Europe & Australia) complaining about SG gals too. Cos they are oso widely travelled, they're oso comparing SG gals wif other gals, especially PRC gals, since most businesses need to have some presence / operations / dealings with China!

Just see many gals in the region, they can work as WLs to support their bf / husband & families, yet their r'ship with their men is still so strong & intact. Yes, they may not like their situation, but u dun see them splitting up or leaving their men & families so easily or much like SG gals. In fact, u hear many stories of these gals cheating richer men, and then sharing the $$$ wif their own bf/husband. Instead of leaving their bf / husband to lead more luxurious life with the richer men. Can SG gals do that? SG gals are more likely to leave their bf / husbands, even families, just to follow a richer man for a more luxurious lifestyle!!!

SG guys are much more appreciated by gals in neighboring countries in the region, u just need to invest more time to go outta SG, learn their languages / communicate with them, the rewards is simply more worth!!!

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by longwinter

l oso had enuf of sg gals. Actually l am a simple guy. Jus hope to hav a gf as a companion, someone that can accmpy me for meals at times, tok wif me, go out wif me, share my joys and unhappiness, care for each other.. is that sumtinz so difficult, l dun tink so. Even if no sex, l am fine oso.

but thru out all my yrs, l still cnt find a perfect sg gal. l agree wif what u had say. Even if u succeed in sianing the gal, it is jus the beginning of another phase of suffering. l used to hav a gf. Never once did she make me happy, everytime it is always me the bf trying to make her happy and tinking of ways to coax her. Every time she had problems, she keep wanting me to tink of solutions to help her, and when l cnt, she will blame me for being useless and etc. But pls la, wad she takes me as? Solution provider, l everything oso can solve de mehs

help her alot, and tried my best to make her happy? In the end, wad happened? Compare me wif her other male frenz and tryin to put me down? l am always lousy and a loser in her eyes.

THink u are just plain unlucky, like many other sgp guys.

My first singapore gf is like a dream, such an angel. Only i show her face and criticise her, not the other way round. Only I compare her with other girls.

[longwinter]

what u say is right, 84gunner.

that is why sumhow l lost the interest in local girls. Intending to look sum where for other gals instead. l too believe other places got better gals wif better character.

l do feel quite tired and mentally exhausted wif my ex gf.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Cyberspace Nerd

THink u are just plain unlucky, like many other sgp guys.

My first singapore gf is like a dream, such an angel. Only i show her face and criticise her, not the other way round. Only I compare her with other girls.

wah, u sure bo? tink u must be quite a big shot then

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[84gunner]

Originally Posted by Cyberspace Nerd

THink u are just plain unlucky, like many other sgp guys.

My first singapore gf is like a dream, such an angel. Only i show her face and criticise her, not the other way round. Only I compare her with other girls.

then it's yr loss for not appreciating her, not treasuring her!