No longer interested in OC

Originally Posted by alba

There are 101 ways to cook a dead fish provided you really know how to sustain the best taste for it.

Bro, you hit it on the nail.
Totally agree, depends on individual, TS should try make it good with OC

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by MG69

i am not sure if anyone has the same problem i am facing.

after the second child, wifey body is all gone pretty out of shape. now no longer have the urge to have sex with her anymore.......

you have to seriously talk to your kookoo jiao, tell him dont cross the river and burn the bridge.

Originally Posted by Castrol

you have to seriously talk to your kookoo jiao, tell him dont cross the river and burn the bridge.

Yep, OC should never be sacrifice bcos of SEX .... that is not a reason, unless she absolutely dont gif you SEX at all time .... then different story

[Freman]

hi,

I even encounter cases where OC give permission to screw FL as long as she can escape her duties... this is rare cases, but happen before....

[pokeman71]

If OC not interested then you will not owe her any 'li you' when you eat out.

If she still need it, then you better fulfil her before you eat out.

Originally Posted by Freman

hi,

I even encounter cases where OC give permission to screw FL as long as she can escape her duties... this is rare cases, but happen before....

I think I heard before, but really very rare cases. I think mostly those couple who are into swing parties .... hehe

Originally Posted by pokeman71

If OC not interested then you will not owe her any 'li you' when you eat out.

If she still need it, then you better fulfil her before you eat out.

Right on bro, priority is OC else all hell may break lose at home

[MG69]

thank you for all the bro's responses.

not that i dun like to do it with OC but with kids and everything, sometimes you just get too sian looking at that face. and it links to the very fierce mother of your kid and the way she is bitching the kids......

also, OC is definitely very much less interested as after all the day's work with kids, she is tired and no mood.

agree with the bro's saying OC and family is still first priority for me. but its just my sex life is deteroiating so much and i am also sick with my hand liao. so now gotta go look for eca......

[MMM88]

Originally Posted by Freman

hi,

I even encounter cases where OC give permission to screw FL as long as she can escape her duties... this is rare cases, but happen before....

dude.........neber believe wat they say ......it will cum back to haunt u ...

[liberatte]

Originally Posted by MG69

also, OC is definitely very much less interested as after all the day's work with kids, she is tired and no mood.

I think you should be getting her in the 'mood' first... She's in fact human too and she does have her needs. Try this... offer a nice massage, massage her back, hands and feet. Make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Let her know that you still love her and still want her. Then, as time goes by.. you'll find your OC back to the way when you just met- pleasant. I am sure brothers would do anything to bed a girl you just met right? Then only you'll get your reward.

Usually, it works both ways. Ever though why you're not interested in OC anymore? That's because she lost interest in you to begin with.

[bergkamp2]

thanks to all brothers for sharing their experience...
i m not trying to justify why some men eat out, but under certain circumstances, it is inevitable...kudos to those men who never eat out! keep it up.

[hubber28]

Originally Posted by liberatte

I think you should be getting her in the 'mood' first... She's in fact human too and she does have her needs. Try this... offer a nice massage, massage her back, hands and feet. Make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Let her know that you still love her and still want her. Then, as time goes by.. you'll find your OC back to the way when you just met- pleasant. I am sure brothers would do anything to bed a girl you just met right? Then only you'll get your reward.

Usually, it works both ways. Ever though why you're not interested in OC anymore? That's because she lost interest in you to begin with.

Bro liberatte, your quote sounded more like my OC doing me massage to me and getting me into the 'mood'.

Usually, its my OC that never could get enough while i abit sianz. But what to do, she is my OC, usually i have to give in. Mandatory ritual of marriage bah.

[MaMister]

Earn hard, do your part in the family, pay ur bills, kids school fees, insurance, save 10% to 20%, do some charity and the rest of the $ go have a good beer session and fuck (extended session if you can make it), go back home sleep.....

Last time still ask for sex, repeats full of shit excuses from OC, now I sian liao.....

Welcome to my life....

[Ronsee]

The stress of our hectic lifestyles in Sillypore has really hurt many marriages of fellow SBF bros here.

My OC is a full time housewife who takes care of my 1 and only 2+ yrs old baby girl.

Sex life also beri jialat. Everytime want to have it she will always say housework make her tired but i know she only spend most of her times at home watching SCV.

Anyway ECAs is only an outlet for relieving of sexual tensions. Always remind myself to put family first and outside flings are always pay and forget sessions.

All my best friends and acquaintances of mine are in the same situation as me. One of my friends even sleeps in a separate room from his OC

Commonly my friends would always say their OC is a dead fish or piece of dead meat. No matter how hard they try to spice up their sex life...its always more like a chore for the OC to oblige the hubby rather than an enjoyment of sexual intimacy with the hubby.

Haiz seems like thats the situation of many marriages in Sillypore.

Just my 2 cents of opinions

Cheers

Ronsee

[~|@|~]

after reading the posts here, it appears marriage does not look like a good idea. i guess thats why many singaporean have decided to remain single or married but without kids

[no_faith]

Originally Posted by ~|@|~

after reading the posts here, it appears marriage does not look like a good idea. i guess thats why many singaporean have decided to remain single or married but without kids

i second tat. to me, marriage is juz signing of papers, no promises. remain single cuz expectations are high in sg, not so easy u can juz hold a gal's hand.

futhermore wif kids, the money given by garmen, how long can it sustain?
also kid's problems u may face in future.

TS, i tink u need more communication and interaction wif ur wife.
to have a wife who can take care family and teach the children, faithful is hard to come by.
imho, maybe juz go out and fuck once a while to fresh up yourself bah.