How do you manage finacial issues with wife or girlfriend

[Vanda]

Originally Posted by HeLovesMe

This guy marrying PRC Xiao will regret later after marriage. Self entitled women will make their husbands and kids suffer in silence.

Some prc women think they are very beautiful therefore used their beauty as entitlements to leverage for golden tortoise. I just hope that kids are not born or family suffers. Who knows this guy just want to buy time and slowly take back his money worth

[HeLovesMe]

Originally Posted by Vanda

Some prc women think they are very beautiful therefore used their beauty as entitlements to leverage for golden tortoise. I just hope that kids are not born or family suffers. Who knows this guy just want to buy time and slowly take back his money worth

Bro Vanda, agreed with you! Women thinking that their big boobs, sexy bodies, pretty faces and tight pussies are made up of gold are not worthy of being FWBs or FBs or GFs or prospective wives regardless of age. Men going for women with pretty faces are more likely to be cheated on or fooled by these women who use their beauty, big boobs, sexy figures and tight pussies to con men.

[cavemanng]

Originally Posted by ilovepantyhose

tiagong some wives belittle their husbands and keep comparing them against their friends' husbands, seems like their expectations on certain things in life are not realistic/pragmatic

when one becomes a tai tai, hoseh jackpot liao, shake leg all the way

Aiya, life is always about up and downs. Ah sia kia or those rich businessmen won't become bankrupt meh? Please la. Unless ur fortune is in 50 or 100mil, maybe still safe. Else if you have a few mil and ur wife is those tai tai who cheong mbs, may die cock stand after 1 year. Lol

If you marry the wrong wife, you are 1/2 leg in coffin. Those ass wife more difficult to deal even if she want to divorce. I feel wife is about make or break. U look at all the millionaires and billionaire who make their own fortune, most have good wives. Some may have a handful of mistresses but those cannot cause huge damages.

[ilovepantyhose]

Originally Posted by cavemanng

Aiya, life is always about up and downs. Ah sia kia or those rich businessmen won't become bankrupt meh? Please la. Unless ur fortune is in 50 or 100mil, maybe still safe. Else if you have a few mil and ur wife is those tai tai who cheong mbs, may die cock stand after 1 year. Lol

If you marry the wrong wife, you are 1/2 leg in coffin. Those ass wife more difficult to deal even if she want to divorce. I feel wife is about make or break. U look at all the millionaires and billionaire who make their own fortune, most have good wives. Some may have a handful of mistresses but those cannot cause huge damages.

how do u become a millionaire?

start off as a billionaire and get married

[Vanda]

Originally Posted by HeLovesMe

Bro Vanda, agreed with you! Women thinking that their big boobs, sexy bodies, pretty faces and tight pussies are made up of gold are not worthy of being FWBs or FBs or GFs or prospective wives regardless of age. Men going for women with pretty faces are more likely to be cheated on or fooled by these women who use their beauty, big boobs, sexy figures and tight pussies to con men.

I still think they can become FBs or temporary GF but no way they can become wifey

[OldCause]

Originally Posted by dex88

seems this is life of a married man

Seems like it!

[QuandumFC]

Originally Posted by cavemanng

I think a lot depends on ur wife. Most don't really care as long as u come home and spend time with family

This is very true bro

[HeLovesMe]

Originally Posted by Vanda

I still think they can become FBs or temporary GF but no way they can become wifey

Such women are better off as ONS transactions

[Vanda]

Have a Vietnam date who is single mom, after we had good times in hotel. She demanded that I give 550 SGD for gift at first I disagreed and we patched back. Then she reminded that I need to give her the 550 for gift but I asked her what will she spend? Or whether we can spend that amount together. She also refused and she unfriend me several times.
Paying isn't an issue but from start of the relationship she initiated such regulations and this relationship will become monetary based instead of she having feelings for who you are.
At the start of the relationship, we are quarreling over small things and money is an important issue. I feel that she is desperate for money. If she is in debts, I rather that she open up for discussion. I feel that quarrel over money issues in relationships is very unhealthy especially at the start of relationship. This has caused our relationship to put to a halt

[NightProwler]

I agree with some Bros here on the taking care of family part. I am married for almost 10 years and have known my wife for 15 years, we have a child in Primary school. Since the day we met until now, I have never disclosed my income to my wife and have made it clear, indirectly, by not opening this topic or shutting it off once discussed, that this is sensitive territory. Of course after so many years together, she kinda found out how much I earn by doing her own maths. Since she had our child, she have been a full time home maker and have been doing a wonderful job ensuring that I have a nice house to go back to. However, when it comes to money, she still does not ask how much I make. I do not give her an allowance at all for the past 10 years, but rather, will give her my ATM which I set aside money for our home expenses inside. I always keep around $300 to $400 inside and once it is out, I will top it up. Anything she needs, she will hint me if she really likes it, and if possible, I will buy it for her. Very often, I also automatic, buy gifts for her as a surprise. Every day I will call her and tell her how much I miss her, do my part as a loving husband.

In the end, I conclude, for some ladies though not all, Love and attention is really what they need. If you give them enough assurance, love and attention, they will be ok. I am supporting the family now and ensure there is a nice roof above their heads, yearly holiday trips, outings on weekends plus food on the table and the occasional indulgence. Maybe I am lucky to have a good wife, but I trust if the relationship is conditioned correctly from the start, it should be ok. Oh I forgot, I make sure I steer her away from female friends that LOVES to COMPARE!!

[Vanda]

Originally Posted by NightProwler

I agree with some Bros here on the taking care of family part...Maybe I am lucky to have a good wife, but I trust if the relationship is conditioned correctly from the start, it should be ok. Oh I forgot, I make sure I steer her away from female friends that LOVES to COMPARE!!

Agreed with you that when you marry to husband, Dun compare if he is making a conscious effort to be responsible for happiness of the family and wifey.

[ourworld]

Originally Posted by Vanda

Good morning, mrs ow, looks like your hubby earn 5k~6k per month or more. You husband is lucky to have you fully take care family. Nice feedback. Thank you

Hmm,,, He owns a biz in Thailand,, That’s why my whole family relocated here,,
Averagely he earns about USD200K a year,,,
When we first dated, he was a normal executive working in the bank,,,
But during 2008 crisis,, he invested correctly,,
He became multimillionaire in 2012,,
(I believe those who know us here, will know our story)

But it doesn’t means that I’m having a tai tai life,,,
I have to be honest,, it wasn’t easy for me,,
I know nothing about Thai,,, I don’t speak Thai,,
So when he was in office,,,
I’m all alone with my son,,,
When we first came here,,, my elder son is merely 3
And I not even pregnant with my 2nd,,
Everything was very challenging for me,,,
But becoz of love,, becoz of my family,,,
I’m willing to sacrifice and adapt,,,
as long as I know I’m near to my family,,,

It takes 2 to clap,,,
My husband is also faithful to me,,
He keeps his money in our joint account so I have assurance,,
But I don’t use those money too,,
It’s meant for our future,, our retirement and our children,,
We lead a simple life here in thailand,, A happy life is most important,,
Money takes our worries away,, But if without control,,
If mismanage,,
Money can also creates worries for us,,

I do not work,, but I do not misuse my husband money,,
I stay faithful,, and take good care of the family
So he can focus on his work without worries,,
He always says it’s our money,,,

Sex wise,, is without a question,,, hahaha,,
I’m willing to explore anything as long as we are both comfortable,,,
For those who don’t know us,,
We both have fetish in public sex,,
-exibitionist,,,
-we fuck on the roadside,,,
-In bedroom with lights on and curtain open,,,
-fuck on the balcony,,
-anal sex,,
-delivery dare,,,
-golden shower,,
-Bdsm
-cum in mouth is just basic,,, I will consume him all the time,,
- we even tried 3some,,, MFF a few times,,
So many!! Hahaha,,
Only didn’t try MMF,,, coz I don’t feel comfortable,,

My take is,,
when the man take care of the financial,,,
We, ladies should take care of the rest,,,
Never compare who contribute what and who’s contribution is more important,,,
We are the pillar of the family,,,
We build the family together,,,,
and importantly we must enjoy every moments together,,,

We been together for 10 years le,,, and still going strong!

[Vanda]

Originally Posted by ourworld

Hmm,,, He owns a biz in Thailand,, That’s why my whole family relocated here,,
Averagely he earns about USD200K a year,,,
When we first dated, he was a normal executive working in the bank,,,
But during 2008 crisis,, he invested correctly,,
He became multimillionaire in 2012,,
(I believe those who know us here, will know our story)

But it doesn’t means that I’m having a tai tai life,,,
I have to be honest,, it wasn’t easy for me,,
I know nothing about Thai,,, I don’t speak Thai,,
So when he was in office,,,
I’m all alone with my son,,,
When we first came here,,, my elder son is merely 3
And I not even pregnant with my 2nd,,
Everything was very challenging for me,,,
But becoz of love,, becoz of my family,,,
I’m willing to sacrifice and adapt,,,
as long as I know I’m near to my family,,,

It takes 2 to clap,,,
My husband is also faithful to me,,
He keeps his money in our joint account so I have assurance,,
But I don’t use those money too,,
It’s meant for our future,, our retirement and our children,,
We lead a simple life here in thailand,, A happy life is most important,,
Money takes our worries away,, But if without control,,
If mismanage,,
Money can also creates worries for us,,

I do not work,, but I do not misuse my husband money,,
I stay faithful,, and take good care of the family
So he can focus on his work without worries,,
He always says it’s our money,,,

Sex wise,, is without a question,,, hahaha,,
I’m willing to explore anything as long as we are both comfortable,,,
For those who don’t know us,,
We both have fetish in public sex,,
-exibitionist,,,
-we fuck on the roadside,,,
-In bedroom with lights on and curtain open,,,
-fuck on the balcony,,
-anal sex,,
-delivery dare,,,
-golden shower,,
-Bdsm
-cum in mouth is just basic,,, I will consume him all the time,,
- we even tried 3some,,, MFF a few times,,
So many!! Hahaha,,
Only didn’t try MMF,,, coz I don’t feel comfortable,,

My take is,,
when the man take care of the financial,,,
We, ladies should take care of the rest,,,
Never compare who contribute what and who’s contribution is more important,,,
We are the pillar of the family,,,
We build the family together,,,,
and importantly we must enjoy every moments together,,,

We been together for 10 years le,,, and still going strong!

Mrs Ow, glad to see your response, if I have wifey like you I will be a happy man. You are one in a million rare gem who willing to keep sex exciting and wild with your husband. Actually simple is beautiful, you still manage to keep your husband a very happy man. Cheers and my respect for you