Fed up in sharing contact

[nitefalcon]

Quote:
Originally Posted by lovecat
"Wondering if admin can create a new function. For bros who jam up threads with please share contacts, there should be a function where they cannot Type the word contact but have to share a 200 word FR then they can ask for share contacts again."

Quote:
Originally Posted by GR888
"Good idea but I'm not sure if there's a cost consideration with this additional function though. Really fucking irritating to see all these contact junkies & number collectors wasting people's time with all their bandwidth wasting lanjiao contact requests."

LOL. Unpractical, but really a good idea though.
But who knows, it's a definite possibility nonetheless.
All depending on admin whether to execute this method or otherwise.

[nitefalcon]

Originally Posted by halogen019

Same thing bro.

One more thing that makes me frustrated, is when a bro just PM me with "can share contact?" with no head and tail or with an ambiguous subject like "share contact of busty milf" when he is referring to an FR I shared a long time ago without telling me exactly which one.

Yup.
Noticed a number of those who suddenly 'bump' up old threads, out of the blue - asking for ctc/ location (literally, with that one-liner sentence). The old thread might be from a year or even 2 years ago, which the TS himself who created it in the first place might have even forgotten about it.

[GOODFELLO]

16 upp + for being appreciative of FRs effort by samsters

Originally Posted by xxlolxx

Hi all, I'm a newbie, and would like to take this chance to thanks and appreciate everyone who share, I seldom come here but I agree the part about appreciating man. You guys take the trouble to visit and share FR, the least we can do is to thank u �� so happy sharing and for those who receive favoura, just at least say thanks la !

[makeyouhappy]

Originally Posted by 004kk

Location; bugis
Type of joint: ktv
Small room
Liquid damage: 150 for buffet happy hour
Others: ladies, 2 x viet @ 50 each 1 prc @ 50, mummy 50, waitress / waiter x 5 @ 10 each

Review:

Appreciate it.. but maybe post it into the correct area? No one looking for FRs will hop into this thread.

You'll reach wider readership posting this elsewhere.

[makeyouhappy]

I actually have quite a lot on my mind regarding this topic for awhile now, though I'll just go thru the few most pressing points regarding contacts sharing.

My own story is, I was given a chance by a fellow newbie a long time ago (I think I no longer see him around), he gave me the contact to a massage place that was flooded with positive reviews and I remember it as the one and only number I managed to get with 0 power.

I only frequent the Health Centre, Adult Discussions, and Matters of the Heart areas primarily.

My suggestion for differentiating between leeches and good, potentially contributing samsters would be the Signature function on the forums.

A) newbies should post their FRs in their signatures, and they need to at least produce 2 or 3, of any sort, and link to them like badges - if a potential sharer likes what he reads, he can suggest a trade by demanding the contact from the FRs.

B) alternatively, senior samsters can "endorse" newer members in some way, that way recognised newbies can participate more while unrecognised fellows can be freely ignored. Maybe the newbies can seek recognition somewhere in the forums (same thing, post FRs of some sort, etc).

The current power system has its own pros and cons too, but swapping ups and posting to get out of moderation will only encourage spamming .. and posts like

"Bro! Nice FR please share ctc tia"
"I totally agree just passing by"
"Hahaha great thread!"
"Please up me will return when can!"

Will simply continue to appear..

[004kk]

Originally Posted by makeyouhappy

Appreciate it.. but maybe post it into the correct area? No one looking for FRs will hop into this thread.

You'll reach wider readership posting this elsewhere.

Posting here is for bros here who has given up hopes in sharing contacts. I hope my sincerely can move Qian Bei here to continue to share their experience n contacts.

Of course personally I want to experience the fun at the same time new blood will explore with existing contacts and able to hunt more good stuff as they venture out. Only then the sbf will be so call alive again.

[SAFFRONnation]

Well said Rahl - share FR without expecting anything in return. If you are upped that is great. But if you are pounded or worse zapped just move on. Remember being zapped is OK. You cannot please everyone in SBF 🤔

Originally Posted by rahl

Heh good o' days when some bros (me included) sweat buckets walking or getting lost! Wonder how many samsters still do that today.

Having said that, there is always the silent bro on the other side. I am the type who will usually not reply with thanks to the contact person (since I always thank in advance). But always appreciate and will FR as a way of giving back to the forum.

So my advice is, share without any expectations, or else just ignore requests and replies. It's a free forum and an open forum so we have many types of bros here.

Cheong on!

[iceboar]

This totally relates to what i feel. I shared sincerely then ppl say i okt or owner.. some more got zapped zzz.. at first i tot sharing is caring.. never knew back fire until so Jia lat. i will never share with anyone again

[Kairentay]

Originally Posted by iceboar

This totally relates to what i feel. I shared sincerely then ppl say i okt or owner.. some more got zapped zzz.. at first i tot sharing is caring.. never knew back fire until so Jia lat. i will never share with anyone again

You are either the boss or shareholder of the Thai massage palour trying to advertise for business.

[makeyouhappy]

Originally Posted by iceboar

This totally relates to what i feel. I shared sincerely then ppl say i okt or owner.. some more got zapped zzz.. at first i tot sharing is caring.. never knew back fire until so Jia lat. i will never share with anyone again

I honestly don't understand why you decided to write a juicy FR then proceed to say you won't share and all that..

What did you think was supposed to happen? We start begging for the contact of a tio kan pricing place issit?

[iceboar]

What for should i share when everyone say im the boss.. the more i share the more everyone will say I'm the boss.

[adonis]

For every girl who gave me good service, I tried three - five bad ones beforehand. I have to have an excuse why I was out in case my wife asks me, find an opportune time to visit the girls, travel there and pay them. Most of these things cost me money. When guys ask me for a girl's contact, I'm willing to tell them. But sometimes when I ask them back for any girl who was good, they're silent.

[GOODFELLO]

Good suggestions +16 upp makeyouhappy

Always give newbies a chance by sharing contacts with them + to post FR without fear + without prejudice

Originally Posted by makeyouhappy

I actually have quite a lot on my mind regarding this topic for awhile now, though I'll just go thru the few most pressing points regarding contacts sharing.

My own story is, I was given a chance by a fellow newbie a long time ago (I think I no longer see him around), he gave me the contact to a massage place that was flooded with positive reviews and I remember it as the one and only number I managed to get with 0 power.

I only frequent the Health Centre, Adult Discussions, and Matters of the Heart areas primarily.

My suggestion for differentiating between leeches and good, potentially contributing samsters would be the Signature function on the forums.

A) newbies should post their FRs in their signatures, and they need to at least produce 2 or 3, of any sort, and link to them like badges - if a potential sharer likes what he reads, he can suggest a trade by demanding the contact from the FRs.

B) alternatively, senior samsters can "endorse" newer members in some way, that way recognised newbies can participate more while unrecognised fellows can be freely ignored. Maybe the newbies can seek recognition somewhere in the forums (same thing, post FRs of some sort, etc).

The current power system has its own pros and cons too, but swapping ups and posting to get out of moderation will only encourage spamming .. and posts like

"Bro! Nice FR please share ctc tia"
"I totally agree just passing by"
"Hahaha great thread!"
"Please up me will return when can!"

Will simply continue to appear..

[makeyouhappy]

Originally Posted by GOODFELLO

Good suggestions +16 upp makeyouhappy

Always give newbies a chance by sharing contacts with them + to post FR without fear + without prejudice

Cheers bro. Returned favour.

A bit sad that the thread kinda trailed off after my suggestions..

I'd hope that SBF finds a balance between open advertising and community discussions..

It's one of the most interesting forums in the world for people living in SG,

As boys,
1) we should learn to act less thirsty so that girls can participate
2) we should try to be civil and not be so driven to find the fastest cheapest free feck
3) we should try to contribute and prove our worth to listen first, before look to be listened to

Just a few considerations I have.

[yalpnez]

Originally Posted by makeyouhappy

Cheers bro. Returned favour.

A bit sad that the thread kinda trailed off after my suggestions..

I'd hope that SBF finds a balance between open advertising and community discussions..

It's one of the most interesting forums in the world for people living in SG,

As boys,
1) we should learn to act less thirsty so that girls can participate
2) we should try to be civil and not be so driven to find the fastest cheapest free feck
3) we should try to contribute and prove our worth to listen first, before look to be listened to

Just a few considerations I have.

thank you for sharing ctc with me
its not easy to get a good-non-advertized-non-carrot ctc without some trust