Falling in love with a Thai prostitute in Geylang.. Advice needed..

[wishy51]

Bro, personally, one of my buddy's life got ruined by one of the Thai WL & your story looks exactly the same. They went into courtship for 2 years & when the golden qn came, they tied the knot. Later part of the story it's about the same as what other bros said. He lost everything.
I would say you might want to consider someone else if possible soon. =)

[wishy51]

Originally Posted by MountainTurtle

Well said, fair posting. Really agree to max. Personally I think with your fair judgement and experience you should actually contact this TS personally and guide him through this stage. After reading your post it actually remind me that even fairytales have their odds of not having a happy ending that will be "The little mermaid."

Bro, your "The little mermaid" reminded me of secret garden sia..

[sta1100]

Ho Bro

Not worth the time and $$$ more over you only know her for few month, in this few month how much do you know her ???

1) Can you get over her past
2) Are you sure you can support her and her family ??? Unknow
3) Are you been KC by her
4) Does she really love you or a better life out of proverty and $$$
5) She did raw with you are you sure she will not do RAW with other using the smae trick
6) Since you have a good GF but some problem on and off, you need to over come talk anout the problem not walk off. How long did you know your Singaporean GF ???, she has also wasted so many year with you, just because you found a thai lady and you dump her like that X@%#
7) Better make a trip to thailand to see her family B4 you jump into the boat
8) You also check with ICA she been working her as a yellow card can she married you in not how long did she need to wait b4 she can tie the knot with you, and during all this year you are not beside her how she going to earn $$$ you send her $$$ can you be sure that the $$$ you send her will be enought ??
9) As mention she don;t want to work as a PRO in SIN, since she has apply the job she is will inform B4 hand. She is talking a easy out.

Think over over agian to get a good girl beside you is not easy, and in a relation ship is also not easy, don't screw yourself for a thai pussy

[BS KTV]

On your point 5, best is never do raw with any WL. It is alway better to protect ourselves with a condom. Especially PRC WL, they can do raw with many sugar daddies or boyfriends. I do not trust any WL at all

[littlepok]

hi TS, it seems like a touchy problem and i really agree when men kanna KC, they are dumber than women. they can let u feel like top of the world at 1 moment and wish you were never born the next.

some basic questions: how much can she earn a month? simple maths, pardon me if i am wrong. 20 customer a day, $60 each person, she get 50%, $600 a day, assume work 20 days a month (count in off day, mensus days and room for error, assume don't have 20 customers a day).

she easily earn $12k a month in SGD. ever wonder why they all got laptops and handphones to entertain them while waiting for customers?

her chances of spending is lower too (only on off days, can go out splurge and remit $) so she tend to spend on big items and good food to pamper herself and her tired CB. (used to higher end of life).

ask yourself, if u are earning $12k (or more) monthly salary and ask u to give it up in return for perhaps $2k monthly allowance (not bad liao unless u super highly paid. how many give their wife 2k a month). Will 2k be enough for her? especially she is used to high spending and she got MORE time to spend now? even if u got her a WP, her pay is max $800 (she can barely speak english. $800 is overrated already), it is world's apart from her previous pay and life.

as 1 bro said, when $ is not enough, the fastest and most convenient way is to panties-off. not that she has not done it before and she will definitely earn more than the $30 per customer in the past. she could be charging by hundreds and earn more than what u get in 1 month by freelancing in few days. what sort of respect do u think she will give u?

in short, u are the carrot who can bring her out of that crap hole that earn her $30 per customer. once out, she can easily charge 2-300 hundreds. she knew she have the asset and skill to get customers, why waste it? if she can KC u, what is stopping her from widening her net to get more potential carrots? u see her once a week, u think she is pinning for u for 6 days?

the skill of "i don't know english but i learn so i can talk to u" works on ALL men who feel special and superior. luring her to go US with u for 2yrs give more plus points to KC u further.

the weirdest thing is she allowed u to go in RAW with her which clearly violates ALL vice rules implemented which could get the owner into trouble too. they usually have 2yrs contract which they must leave and cannot return (not sure how long) after completion of contract.

IF u feel u want to go ahead, then good luck because u really really need lots of it. speak to the boss about redemption, let her go back thailand then u arrange to bring her over. ROM with her so she can apply long term visit pass or dependent pass.

PS: try faking poor and see how much she is still willing to stick to u. perhaps u can meet her outside during her off days. ask if she can lend u any money (her red alert will be buzzing off already). borrow 3-400 each time and promise to return on time (which u should) then increase the amount gradually to see her threshold. drop hints about your bad financial status and do not mention about your savings, pay, assets etc. might sound evil but it could dash your fairytale dream faster than you thought.

[AHH2222MK6]

Cannot completely blame all the fault on the Thai girl. Majority of 90% Thai girls in flesh trade will use KOO MAN TONG to lure every single man to love them, like them, bow to them. Perhaps our fellow TS have fallen under her charm. Even after years of mongering, I still falling for the same old trick. But somehow I manage to rob all their valuables as last resort when I find out the Thai girl is betraying me

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by MountainTurtle

Well said, fair posting. Really agree to max. Personally I think with your fair judgement and experience you should actually contact this TS personally and guide him through this stage. After reading your post it actually remind me that even fairytales have their odds of not having a happy ending that will be "The little mermaid."

Bro i am not in a position to advice him lah, not that experienced still. Aniway, thank for your comment. Just share if i can loh. Seriously for the bro who start this thread, i think you need to ask yourself two questions. I think you are a newbie in the nightlife scene here so you really to ask yourself, using ur brain now:

1) Did you really fall in love with her cause you know her well enough and you foresee that you can go along with her, live with her in the long run as you reallý 'know'' her real personality?

IF not, you like her cos she was a stunner in bed, she treated you like a real lover with loads of GFE in bed? Sad to say, that is not love. If it is, i have to jio alot of thai girls cos usually some of them i came across in this trade have great chemistry with me and they serve me better in bed... No starfish treatment, bath you like a baby, wipe you dry with the towel like what your mum may have done in the past. It makes you feel good but thats not love, its service, its business.

Interesting, ''she'' gives you non-mechanical xxx service, she frenches you, go to the extent of licking ur arsehole just to make you happy, allow you to COF and CIM, even RAW liao.

Still, she could have some motive in being so 'nice''. i shall talk about this in point 2.

2) you has this grandmother story and soap opera crap coming out of her, she keep saying this but however she is smart enuff not to link it to money directy as you may suspect her motive. By the way, is she a Lao Chiao(old bird) in this trade?
For me to see if shes lao chiao, what i will do is sometimes i will ask my frens to help me monitor her. For instance, when this particular viet bar girl was super nice to me and i starting to like her liao, i will act blur, dun go in the pub meet her, and ask my frens go in instead and find out more for me.

Even to the extend of asking my friends to just test her by sitting with her and talk to her and see how. Those old bird girls will not reveal much even at this point and i may even go to the extend of knowing her freinds in the same trade and find out more. Sad to say, you need to see her kind of frens also. If they are all lao chaio and they are so pro in KC trap, chances are they psycho your ''girl' to learn their way of so called 'put long bait ,hook big fish'*( chinese phrase which is so handy man) to earn bigger bucks in this trade.

Lastly, dont mean to splash cold water on you, but it seems you are quite newbie(no hard feelings here) and you like her coz she served you well. So its time to stop being a noob and knock yourself into becoming a better player in this trade if she happens to be an old bird in this line even if she smokes some story to cover it up. Time to know more and spend more with her, And for once stop thinking with your dick.

And but very careful with your money, if she ask you transfer or help her with vita M using her soap opera, grandmother based story, you can't stupidly do it lah. The moment you do once, she will ask again and again.
Then , you are screwed. Of course, dont so cheap skate until treat her eat normal meals also cannot. Food and Drinks of course but not go ur shangri LA and show off ur ego to her( still early, not yet time to do that unless shes the right one for you).

If she really likes you for who are, she will be happy to go out with you, hold hand, eat normal meals, watch movie, window shopping even( Trust me, this is the time where she will slowly ask for the perfume, bags and so on. She will start from the cheaper ones if shes a old bird. She will play reverse psychology with you.)

LOL, WTH, initially wanted to just write a brief comment but see what got to me now hahaha. Aniway good luck bro, and i just love such threads as it allows newbie for once to tone down with their ego and learn from the seasoned fellas here. Remember, forget about the FACE issue thing here. If shes not the right one for you, move on. Its not ashameful to do that and do not cling into her cuz you dont wanna lose face to your frens who knoes about this.

If You really check if shes xin chiao( new bird) or lao chiao( old bird) and if she means what she saes, and you still like her. Then go for it. However, just to point out, i have came across lao chiao who has that chemistry and serves you well in bed(COF, CIM, stand in front of mirror fuck and so on). But i back out from having a realtionship with such girls

Why back out? simple, lao chiao girls are smart and cunning and practical about monetary issues. There is sure exception and no offence to single mothers like them( most are single moms). Unlike the caucasians, can we asians accept the fact that shes come along with two kids or even more at times?( she will not say until yu go to her homeland and find out..)

If she is a single mom(in most cases they are as when i chiong in pattaya, met hot babes but got kids liao sianzz), she will value her kids and parent above you. And you are feeding her whole family( its financially taxing K) and she still devalues you in your new family tree you are building then.

So again and again, dont stupidly jump into the relationship and not analyze, understand and find out the real truth afterall. I have been a newbie and its not ashameful to learn from your mistakes. I know some bros here will blast me coz i am not thinking realistically on the financial side yet. But seriously, for once, live life to the fullest and with a open mind.

Money is not the measuring stick for everything. And i think with an open mind, you will find out the truth.( no hard feelings here seasoned bro here, i learnt alot from you guys too, i was once the noob and i now flapping my own freaking wings HAHA). Haha , once again contradictory me, be on the neutral on this issue. Take the advice of other samster bros on the financial side and also maybe take part of what i say in order to find out the real truth.

I think after you done all this( as what i listed below), things are gonna be so open and complex. You will then start to think like seasoned bros like us and it may be a good thing. The woman's mind in this trade can be so vicious and unpredictable and go, explore and search for your answers with care

Cheers
Marc

[singathai]

I sincerely thank all of you bros out there who have given me your piece of advice. Yes I will definitely be more careful when I'm with her. I'm starting to think better already. Anyway, just to clarify with you guys. Firstly, I've told her my actual income. Its definitely not a 5 digit pay like what they earn(if that's really the amount they earn monthly). Just imagine the salary of a regular serviceman in his early 20s(with diploma education only). She told me in my face its definitely not enough to take care of her and her family. I agreed with her. I told her I can find ways to get her to work and stay in singapore but the salary would be less than 2k. She is now considering this way that I've mentioned. And secondly, I don't think with my bottom brain lol. I'm not a person with very high sex drive. And her skills in bed and her other services aren't the best I've experienced. Its just something more than this transaction guys get from prostitutes. I don't know, maybe she's using some spell on me like what one of the bro mentioned earlier on. But why sould she do that? I've made it clear to her I'm a poor fuck lol. For looks? Okay not that I want to say this, but I'm actually above average looking. I don't know what a matured woman(in her late 20s) can look for in me. I'm sure she needs money more than looks. So I don't know what's the point of putting a spell on me. Pardon me for my assumptions bros. Once again, I appreciate all comments all bros out there that have commented in this thread.

[Maxdom]

When a WL say i miss u, i love you and later Cry a few time will always do the trick.. Man is so fucking easy. He is only here to seek advice how to break her contract and stay in Singapore. Not whether he should marry her or continue to penetrate her raw. No amount of advice, criticism or insult will bring him to his senses. The next time he sees her or hear her voice, she just have to say i love u, cry again and deepen the toxic. The only way is to lock him up in a rehab like any addict and let time do the work. Until such facility is available, he will just be another statistic and another useful URL link for future idiot to refer to which the new idiot will still feel his one is definitely "different" cos "She love me".

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Maxdom

When a WL say i miss u, i love you and later Cry a few time will always do the trick.. Man is so fucking easy. He is only here to seek advice how to break her contract and stay in Singapore. Not whether he should marry her or continue to penetrate her raw. No amount of advice, criticism or insult will bring him to his senses. The next time he sees her or hear her voice, she just have to say i love u, cry again and deepen the toxic. The only way is to lock him up in a rehab like any addict and let time do the work. Until such facility is available, he will just be another statistic and another useful URL link for future idiot to refer to which the new idiot will still feel his one is definitely "different" cos "She love me".

Hey bro, u were once a noob which made all this mistakes too in the past so i think u shld not b critical to this bro. We are here to give positive feedbacks and not strike him down. Just remember experienced bros or frens were there to help ya out when u faced such issues too man...

[TheXXthe]

It's ludicrous to think that there should be even an ounce of positivity in the comments for such an appallingly-mindless situation.

That and tiresome blabber of absolutely nothing at all

[Nonteerak2553]

TS,

Have you ever find out about her background? Where's she residing in Thailand.
What's her occupation before she work in Sg, and so on.

Before you bail her out, you need to find out those things. And unless your family owns a company, otherwise there's no way she can work in Sg. With her limited command of English, where else can she work? If she can't stay in Sg after you bail her out, you intend to move to Thailand for good? Do have any saving if things really needs you to move to Thailand? By the way if you got her spelled, I believe you won't come in here to ask for opinions.

I hope to hear from you soon. Anyway good luck, we as third party only can voice out our opinion, ultimately you; yourself need to think which is good or bad.

[ahtat77]

ts,she is preying on your naive-ness...she is only a prostitute...that is why it is almost impossible for her to get a man once she reveal her past unless she is really rich...seems to me that she wants you only because you are one of the few who can accept her for what she is...do not be taken in by her

[DareForRAW]

this just don't sounds good...
but wish you good luck in the future whatever you decide to do...

[jj_jj]

Bro,
Even if you are rich enough, what's to stop her from 'taking' from more meal tickets? To them, the more the merrier. These chicks learn from a standard 'template' of sob stories, over time the smarter ones 'makeover' the stories to suit their ATMs.
You ever hear of the family heirloom etc?

Now that you have made known to her your salary and she has responded to you,
let's hope you wake up for good cos I see you stirring from your sleep
you unlikely have gotten kumantong (sic) cos you still have the sense to ask around here.

btw, can you really bring over a gf for the whole duration of your overseas training?

Cheers,
jj_jj