Married Men Vs Single Men ! Married Women Vs Single Women ! Who will be better FBs !

[onlyhuman]

Originally Posted by silkypussy

Very good postings.

I actually have no preference whether or not Married or Single status for my FB. However I am inclined towards Married Men based on a few of my own reasonings

Married men are "cleaner" and "safer". I demand that my FB goes to a annual checkup for any signs of STD. Being married men, they are less likely to have high risk sexual tryst outside their marital wife as the impact of a STD passed on to the wife and family.

Single men on the other hand tend to have more sexual partners. I am sorry, I am being frank and honest. If the FB is a single guy, what makes you so sure you are both "mutually exclusive"? I tend to believe that Single guys are more playing the field on the range more so than Married men.

The other key thing is sexual compatibility. I like older guys, as they can hold better. The connection with an older guy gives me a much more intensive sexual interaction versus a young buck who just wants to cum.

Married men are less possessive and they are also more respectful. Perhaps I should say, the qualities of a FB should be one who is respectful and knows when I say NO, I mean NO. A young buck tends to have their dick rule over their heads.

After Sex, I tend to want to just chitchat for awhile. A young guy will just lay over and smoke or worse still, get up clean and get dressed.

Sorry, no matter what, an FB is still a person. Yes, there's the nice sensation after cumming. But as a woman, I still sometimes wanna chat and not have sex when we meet. I find this almost impossible with a single guy. They just want to get on with the physical act.

I think u have met wrong single guys to be your fb...

[Toyota Honda]

I don't actually have any preference. but if I have to really choose, I will think having a married lady. that at least means I am better than another guy, her husband, and thats just for ego boosting.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by onlyhuman

I think u have met wrong single guys to be your fb...

How are you BRO ? long time no see ! from last gathering at lunar YUE til now !


In life , it relies on Fate and Luck ! you see many mismatched couples . Like i once meet a couple both are married but not to each other . The guy young and handsome in his 20s while the lady was in her 40s still in good form from afar . It was a FB marriage of convenience cos both being married they ain't choosy as long as its discreet . To each their own bro . Fate and luck plays a important role in finding a FB however one can't be as picky too .

[Apocalypse]

what an amazing thread - 4 pages within a day.

Its entirely a matter of perference. Some people like durian, some people don't like durian. Relational and status wise, there is no difference between married and single man.

If a man is married for 2 yrs, and divorced because he was caught cheating on his wife, he is a "married/divorced man" but since he is married, he is tender and knows woman? If a man has dated the same girl for 10 years but have not married her, he is a single man and does not understand woman? That is a flawed concept imo.

Exclusivity/Non-exclusivity its all a matter of perference, and which stage in life the person is.

Why Married men in FB relationships tend to demand exclusivity ? - All man demand exclusivity if possible. But when you demand exclusivity, the same is expected from them. Some are able to do it, some aren't able to. So as a result they don't demand. Doesn't mean they don't want to, just they can't do it.

Also Married woman in FB relationships are more acceptable to exclusivity ? - Married woman start the relationship with anger and guilt. if there is just 1 FB, the guilt will be limited by the notion that it just 1 guy, the husband is finding many more girls every night. Also, the attention and desire for the husband is transfered to the FB. this can be dangerous, if the FB is not strong enough to hold back and distant himself. as 1 friend/bro here said, "wait till the FB say she is willing to divorce for you, and appear at your door cos she happen to be in the neighbourhood.". When she realize her FB have multiple FBs or get tired of her and dumps her after 1-2 months, she start to feel used and become convinced the concept of exclusivity is bullshit, and henceforth she also have a few fbs at the same time.

reoxy - friend before sex, or sex before friend is irrelevant also, as even in FL situation, after you RTF a few times if you become friends, you get a few session once in a while, and she get some small gifts once in a while. You can also ask the FL out for movies and coffee, when she is in between clients.

The most professional FL is able to chut this seamlessly - "you are a wonderful guy, and you make me feel v comfortable. and since we are friends, if you want to talk or chill you can give me a call, but there is no discount today because I still have a heap of bills to pay. you wouldn't want your friend to sleep on the streets right?"

The most professional whoremonger is also able to chut this seamlessly - "yes, you are a special girl, no FL have ever made me felt this way before. I've never took you as a FL. I want to take you out everyday, and be happy with you. But you must understand I can't give you a big tip because my wife monitors my expenditure. I hope you can give me the $50 discount today, because I will have $150 left after your discount today and I want to rtf you tmr. I don't want you sleep on the street thats why I rather eat maggi mee and still support you."

Jasdude - hope you don't mind my 2 cents worth of opinion. hope it caused no offence to anyone.

[dorseht]

i'd go for married women

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by Apocalypse

Why Married men in FB relationships tend to demand exclusivity ? - All man demand exclusivity if possible. But when you demand exclusivity, the same is expected from them. Some are able to do it, some aren't able to. So as a result they don't demand. Doesn't mean they don't want to, just they can't do it. .

We still demand. We still can't do it. We call it Double-Standard. We are very good at this.

Originally Posted by Apocalypse

reoxy - friend before sex, or sex before friend is irrelevant also, as even in FL situation, after you RTF a few times if you become friends, you get a few session once in a while, and she get some small gifts once in a while. You can also ask the FL out for movies and coffee, when she is in between clients.

That defeats the whole concept of commercial sex.

Thus there is a thin line of difference between a Whoremonger and a Professional Whoremonger.

But, to be fair, the best of us may also be KCed. 一山还比一山高。

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by jasdude

A married man does not guarantee that he is "CLEAN" neither does a single man will not be willing to be exclusive . If married men if they are not playing the field , why would the married men come out in the first place to look for comfort ? The reason is exactly the same for single men ! to find personal solace . And what makes you so sure that a married man will be exclusive to you as well ?

A single guy does not mean that he is a young buck . There are mature guys of mature age that choose to be what they are of presence status "SINGLE" due to some experience and reasoning .

many thanks for your stand on single guys!
thought for a moment she's really making the rest of the single guys look bad altogether.

if i can be exclusive to a fwb for up to a period of 7 months, i don't see why other single guys cannot do the same or better.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

That defeats the whole concept of commercial sex.

the concept of commerical sex can be twisted to suit your own style, provided you don't fall into your own trap.
besides, is not always easy to f&f.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by Apocalypse

Its entirely a matter of perference. Some people like durian, some people don't like durian. Relational and status wise, there is no difference between married and single man.

Exclusivity/Non-exclusivity its all a matter of preference, and which stage in life the person is.

Jasdude - hope you don't mind my 2 cents worth of opinion. hope it caused no offense to anyone.

There major difference between married and single personnel is their schedule of freedom , place restrictions and their need of reporting . Many married Fibs have curfews and limited action time . They have certain places that they cannot be seem at cos relatives working there or wifey hangouts . They need to report or is at the call or beckon of their spouses thus it puts a dampen on the mood of the occasion at times .

In regards to Exclusivity or not ;I agree with you bro with your views , hope to see you contributing more of your insights here .

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

many thanks for your stand on single guys!
thought for a moment she's really making the rest of the single guys look bad altogether.

if i can be exclusive to a fwb for up to a period of 7 months, i don't see why other single guys cannot do the same or better.

A FACT - A mature experienced single guy is the cream of the crop when it comes to be a FB . He has the time , he has the finances , he has no reservations in public , he has no one to report to , he can even go on a holidays with his FB ! As long as he understands the rules of the game and give the flexibility and the impromptu time commitments to his partner or partners . He will be very very well received by many gals that ain't looking for a normal relationship . How promiscuous is the single guy depends on his character , we cannot judge by his status as being single .

Thanks bro for sharing your past history . thumbs up ! I thank all and welcome all to share their insights in regards to this issue . Hope all will understand that this is a friendly debate and exchange of ideas . no punk intended to any one especially to the person who zap me .

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

the concept of commerical sex can be twisted to suit your own style, provided you don't fall into your own trap.
besides, is not always easy to f&f.

I do not understand what you are trying to put across.

[smartke]

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

the concept of commerical sex can be twisted to suit your own style, provided you don't fall into your own trap.
besides, is not always easy to f&f.

dun fall into own trap? at commercial sex?? wat kinda trap is tat??

also, if its not easy for YOU to f&f, does not mean others CANT!

in commercial sex, ALWAYS remember BOSS's motto: "Whores are for fucking not loving. Just fuck them and be done with it.".

[BiRd13]

Will prefer married over single girl for FB for now... Why?
Because no commitment is there, and both know what we want...

If I'm single, will go for single girl... Why? Cause at least or maybe there's a slight chance that she will become your girlfriend, or even wife in future... (Fyi, my wife is my FB, which turn out to be my girlfriend, and finally now, my wife =D)

[geckoSG]

Personally, I got no preference. But as a married person, I hope my partners can respect and understand my timing and limitation.

If they need full attention all the time, then they need to approach the single guys instead. So far, I'm pretty lucky to meet good people who are not pushy and we respect each other all the time.

For me, I dun like to just fuck, wash up and go, unless we have time limit, which I will make it known to my FBs earlier before we meet. Else, after the firing is done, I would loved to ly back and enjoy some hugging time with my FB/Lovers and chat with them.

Of cos, often, its always end up with round 2.

Married women tends to be more engaging from what I felt. They know what
they want, they know how to please. They know the Dos and the Don'ts.

Single ladies wise, they can be wild, but in terms of skill, so far, I haven't
met any that can outshine the married women.

[guruking]

FB or FwB?
Married or single?

All these are just a english term.
Everything boils down to chemistry...the ability to catalyst one's another in terms of comfort and communication. Period.

[1stTR]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

I believe you.

My 小弟弟 do not.

bro, tis shows ur 小弟弟 got thrusting problem....