Is this a social problem here?

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by NightHawk88

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She goes out partying with her girlfriends once a week,

In the net article:Sure or not she goes out partying with gf

[Shoot To Target]

My case is totally different from some bros here. I had been married for 10 years but my sex life with my wife still very active. Sometime i steal eat outside and happen my wife ask for it i tai-ji say today very tired after work.

Try this method mayb can flame up the passion again with ur wife.
Go tour to relax n sometime watch some porno to excite it. Hope this help

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by verisio

guys i think sometimes is also coz certain details nvr check before getting married. Like ensuring ur wife is horny kind. .

Buay zhun one....last time my oc used to do with me at least 3 times a week...now more like wait for a few full moons then maybe got chance to do...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by see see only

1st part of your statement happend to me, 3 months liao, no have until I suspected she outside got man (but I wasn't much bother la) open minded I guessed.

But as for the 2nd part of your statement she said she will kill me if i go find .......... cannot chiong .........

woman are bloody selfish lot....they don't want to give and yet they expect that you remained faithful only to them...hell like i always said if i wanted a life of celibacy i would have checked myself into a monastery from day one...

[picnic]

I personally tink its varies from couple to couple, for me I hv been married 20 years and sex in the last 5 years have been more frequent as I told her that a well fed man will tend not to eat outside. Also try new things wif her instead of galfriend.

[Softcore]

If you're not getting your needs satisfied, show her that you will fuck other women besides her. you don't and shouldn't raise your voice or get emotional - just tell her calmly that she is not giving you what you need, and that you will seek another woman to fulfill it. the key point is to let her know that you're completely serious and will carry out this action.

all these is assuming that you've already done your best in creating a romance fueled lifestyle and environment.

[TheSpecial-One]

I don't know the real situation in a marriage life and should not assume. I am already with my gf for a few years and plans to get married. But I am highly sex driven.
And given my history, I know if I dun get it from her, I will find myself a gal who will give it. So I do hope she maintains our sex regularity after we are married!

yet, given what i have seen from some bros here...seems it's a split vote between married men who steal eat and those who have regular sex with their wifey. hmmz...

[see see only]

Originally Posted by Oralcraz

You don't mind she's seeing someone else??? Wah ..... even with that don't allow you to chiong???
For me, I don't think too much. I just go HC for HJ if time and mood permits. Good luck.

Sometime, you dont have to spell out the words to know what the meaning right

Me suspected only mah but kept quiet willingly maybe she oso leh though she said will kill me but she dont look like those who keep checking on me (me tested somehow).

Nevertheless I believe we still very much in love with each other (as I believe love do not always = to possession of the other person right ? )

[picnic]

Precisely, I always have the McDonald theory: If I have not well fed, I may steal eat like eating McDonald outside but will not start a new kitchen elsewhere. But remember to wipe your mouth before coming home and you are still a good husband/father.
Always spell out clearly what is your needs or even fantasies and that may even spice up your married sex life..

[Max77]

tat's why ppl r saying...u play ur one; i play my one, so long there's no 真感情 involved...

This sentence i feel oni applicable to men, bcoz women make love when they hav feeling (which is 真感情). Men (most) do it, pay up, f**k off.

Most of the time i find tat women can't accept men doing certain things (like falling in love wif other women), but when it comes to them, they can claim all hell innocent and 'bor bian' when similar happens to them....not to say blame it on the husband for HER actions...kaoz

Or maybe i see too much tv liao...hee hee

[Max77]

Originally Posted by Softcore

If you're not getting your needs satisfied, show her that you will fuck other women besides her. you don't and shouldn't raise your voice or get emotional - just tell her calmly that she is not giving you what you need, and that you will seek another woman to fulfill it. the key point is to let her know that you're completely serious and will carry out this action.
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nowaday gals r much stronger when it comes to voicing out, think twice, no body likes to be "threatened". ever heard of 你做初一，我做十五？
("If" U lay the altar for for the 1st day of full moon, I'll lay the altar for the 15th day)

If ur theory is ACCEPTED in ur family, then when she wants u to do housework, she most probably threaten to set fire to the house if u refused ( to show tat she is COMPLETELY SERIOUS AND WILL CARRY OUT THIS ACTION)

Jus my pt of view, may not be 100% right though, don't take it to heart aye

[xmen3]

Wah Bro, you are so fortunate. Before I get married, I always wanted marriage life but after I got married, envy those singles who can have ONS at home.
Important thing for all married guys is that you can crave for and have nasi lemak but you will not wish to raise a chicken for chicken wing and egg and plant rice for nasi. Just go to coffeeshop and buy a packet for $2.00..
Eventually I do agree with those Bros that this is not a social problem but natural process otherwise there wont be brothels going on for as long as civilisation existed.

[Nesferatu]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

woman are bloody selfish lot....they don't want to give and yet they expect that you remained faithful only to them...hell like i always said if i wanted a life of celibacy i would have checked myself into a monastery from day one...

Someone forgot to tell our women folks that frequent making love will make them look younger & glow more radiant. But then again, sometimes these same women reads too much thrash from girlie magazines.

[xmen3]

Originally Posted by Nesferatu

Someone forgot to tell our women folks that frequent making love will make them look younger & glow more radiant. But then again, sometimes these same women reads too much thrash from girlie magazines.

I totally agree that women read too much trash from mag. Everytime wants to make love must have a romantic setting or new ideas from the guy. Always waiting for us to create everything and blame us if not up to their satisfaction.

[fresno99]

Originally Posted by Nesferatu

Someone forgot to tell our women folks that frequent making love will make them look younger & glow more radiant. But then again, sometimes these same women reads too much thrash from girlie magazines.

hey, ya, not only love making, but women should also know that eating sperm is especially good for complexion, better still if can COF and cover the face like a mask like that... sure look 10 yrs younger..