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Yo bro Panamera,
Heehee.. Actually I've just came back from China yesterday.. Been there for a week ++.. First time in China there though, but what an experience! Was at Shenzhen, then took the @#%$^ 8 hours train to Hunan.. Damn.. Had a taste of China people's culture (They are more kiasu than us!!), their mannerism (Cutting queues, anywhere spitting regardless how good that man or woman wears.. Classic..), and not to mention to stay in a rural village, on a mountain top at 10 to 5 degree celsius, but with tons of fresh air.. Just beautiful.. Oh, did I forget to mention about the "toilet" facility in the village? Simply put, a cess-pit which collects and being used to grow their vegetables out in their field.. Unforgettable..
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Bro NAL, Sorry, we didn't mean to ignore your problems, we just got a little bit carried away by China adventure...hehehe...Please make a trip there and I bet you will be able to see your problem in a different light and life is not as gloomy as you are in now...
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I am not here to receive tks or gratitude. I help advise with sincerity. It's good that one pens down EVERYTHING, its from here that we see how he's doin. End of the day, we can only advise, the last & final step, has to be undertaken by the dude himself!
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You know something?..
China seems to be a fine place to be in actually.. It's infrastructure and technologies are advancing at break-neck speed.. Only what makes China of being stop-short of becoming a global superpower is its people.. Their socialism, behaviorism, ethics have much, way too much, to makeup for.. I mean, in the days that I was there and observed, even their own people have low or NO confidence in their police enforcements.. If they can overcome these problems, you see that they'll be the one leading the world instead of US..
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Bro NAL, Hi there! Thanks for the pm.
Apologize for any rude or offensive statement which caused you much discomfort or dismay. Please continue to post your updates and thoughts in this thread. I be more sensitive and selective in my encouragement in future... Be happy and chill! .
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I had work with very knowledgeable and capable people, I tell you chinese saying "Ren Jie Di Lin" lands of talents there. And they are also humble folks, who do not "sound the GONGs just for a lil of pride" When I look at people of my age and their country youngmen .... I tell you that folks outside there are more Hungger for wisdom and knowledge than our this generation kiddos who stay in this tiny country. What I will call is that its reality life out there, whereas, over here, I sign and look around that will my next generation be able to stay afloat or not. (coz my generation are more lacking alots, in terms of determination, focus, bite the bullet, never say DIE spirit, more important the respect due) Indeed 1 who born in these tiny land are more bless, I still can recall the last day of my backpacker at the train station, child than is not even 3 yrs old .....tens and many of them .... just flocks to me, just because I give a "Shi ge Da Yang" to 1 children, and I end up giving my meals too.... haha. Even with "sanctions' the chinese have the will to fly to moon, imagine without some restriction .... the chinese are a bunch of just like he ancient if I can combo them - (The Greeks Rich culture, the armies of Rome, the dawn of Persia, and the Knowledge and wisdom of Babylon) or the Eastern Jews. Think I speak too much oredi ... haha .... paiseh.
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Bro Oceanlee, I did my backpacking adventure from HK too..perhaps, we bumped into each other before.
I was staying at Discovery Bay in HK....kekekeke
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Hate to say this, but I concur with your view
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BUT! even when I lived in kampung, we had full and proper sanitary facilities way way back in the 70s Imagine doing your business and if you lean back slightly you can see the family in the hall chit chatting away. A shower is with solar powered heater is heaven.
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Kampung life Singapore-style with Village gals - China types aka Gong Li lookalike....
How wonderful ! Who want to be a part-time farmers, anyone keen? Oops...gotto stop day-dreaming..back to work work and more work....
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Well, I've lived in Singapore kampong before though for a short period of about a year when I was young.. But seriously this is quite not the same like Singapore kampong as the weather and terrain there is... "speechless".. A whole village that lives on a mountain top at about 156m high and there's some more other families that lives even higher up.. Plus the coldness there, 2 shirts plus a coat is the bare minimum..
For all the differences mentioned, it's the village spirit or to us "kampong spirit" that is familiar to me as you can see families around just comes in to talk, being friendly and all.. Even the village teacher drops by to have a drink of wine to just chill at anyone's house.. Oh.. the wine? My god.. I swear that never again I'll try so fast to drink their wine as my head had never been that painful after a few rounds of their "homemade-health" wine.. I can normally hold myself even I had beer and liquor together.. But this.. is entirely another creature.. The "kick" comes slow, unlike liquor which is fast, but sure bloody gives me a long and painful headache that now still gives me shivers..
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errrr....sorry, dun mean to be rude but kinda like running off topic liaozzzzz
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的,就是你的。 不是你的,不要抢! 人之所以快乐,不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene |
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Wahahahahahaha!
T.S must be wondering.."I didn't ask for a tour in China, you know?" "I just want to understand a PRC, not People Republic of China" T.S...hope I am not rude, no offend intended... Bro Goafar, Oceanlee and 2swirls - Shall we discuss this "village" in a new thread...wahahahahahaha
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