Advice needed - Page 4

Tom Telex · #46 04-01-2009, 11:53 AM

Ok.....Sunday morning breakfast opinion.

BJ not as part of foreplay that results in sexual intercourse has been ruled to be unnatural sex and some sorry sod in Singapore went to jail for that...amongst other things.

I think Tabs got a right to be a little pissed. He should have approached it another way and not apologise which, in my opinion, makes her feel lousy. Just my opinion girl.

silverblue · #47 04-01-2009, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by tabbilicious

anyway, i already told him not to look for me anymore. And, just to clarify. He wasn't my boyfriend.

can i be your boyfriend?

tabbilicious · #48 04-01-2009, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by silverblue

can i be your boyfriend?

No thank you.

HCKing · #49 04-01-2009, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by tabbilicious

anyway, i already told him not to look for me anymore. And, just to clarify. He wasn't my boyfriend.

just curious,wat will u do if the same thing happens again but the guy is yr boyfriend?

tabbilicious · #50 04-01-2009, 08:19 PM

it wont probably happen till further notice. hahaha

LostALau · #51 04-01-2009, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by tabbilicious

i didnt know it's illegal.

Under Provision xxxx Section xxxx of the Penal Code, (sorry, cannot remember the numbers) oral sex that does not ultimately lead to natural sex is punishable by Law. Although it does not specify whether it is between males and males or males and females, in your case, you and your partners have committed an offence under this Provision.

However, such cases are hard to proved and the authorities are not so free to handle such cases. An open minded and tolerant attitude is adopted on this issue as long as there is no official report of abuse.

Maybe yr partner is having this in mind therefore he kept apologising to u.
As for other possible reasons, other good bros have highlighted to u already.

onlytellu · #52 04-01-2009, 09:46 PM

Not much details leh. Maybe he doesn't like u but u perform BJ for him. He felt guilty and apologise? It happened to me also, i did it with someone and i kept apologising to her. Not because i dun like her, its because im married, feel guilty towards her and my wife.