"Genuinely" nice WL experiences you have met (not simping or KC)

[walao]

Originally Posted by happytree123

Talked about simping, KC, carrothead many times in this forum

But anyone here felt that their WL was genuinely* nice to them. Like the behaviour or the heart to heart conversation in the bedroom, outside session or texting was not the usual sweet talk, but something quite meaningful

*I know still got chance to be a show put up by the WL, but I am just asking about the moments you felt like it was truly genuine

I mean i got good and bad experiences with WL, but there was one that left me quite memorable.

This particular WL kept asking me to stop coming to GL for therapy session and go find one serious life partner for good. It wasn't like some flirting tone, but somewhat serious tone even though we just finished bonking

Not that she disliked me or what, but she just kept going along the idea that I will somehow regret it in the future. She somehow believe that I will grow addicted to GL and get KC by those unscrupulous WL eventually..if I don't stop soon. Also described that GL is really just a place for "cash for services" and nothing else.... And she repeated it everytime I RTF.

even if I want to extend session, she also like hesitant to accept it straightaway

though my r/s with this WL somehow turned more distant for unknown reasons, I felt it was like a unusual concern by a WL. So wondering anyone here got any stories to sharee

Did she tell you go home and finish up your homework?

Walao

[happytree123]

Originally Posted by Ahboy113

Recently those WL said can make booking via WeChat with them, I replied I will call OKT easier. To avoid become GFE chat, lols…

When WL said her aunty coming soon, want to bring her out? I replied can’t. 😅

Those without family can just go as you have nothing to loose, just may get into deep KC only. Haha… they will give you that 初恋的感觉。

Originally Posted by Topper

Once they sensed you are not too willing to give more, they will suddenly start to 翻脸 to say they don't wish to spend anymore of your money, want to go back already making you super confused (as naive SG men has never met such ridiculously cunning women in their entire lives so will tio shock first, LOL) and don't intend to go out with you anymore with imaginative strange excuses and play 冷暴力 first, then set the trap to patiently wait for your Wechat reply to ask what happen

Question is, are you game enough for it or wish to feel the thrill of walking into the slaughterhouse.

First step to avoid all these drama is to never exchange wechat/line

But, if you wanna spice things up and try to play along, then really must have some strategy or draw your red lines. Emo/mind game not really something you can fight back easily if you have been a Mr. Good guy all along.

Getting bitten may be unavoidable but at least you wake up from the first bite so got chance. If you get repeatedly bitten and the "KC venom" already infected your whole body, then really you can only cry with your bank account dried up.

I was quite close to falling for the KC trap but good advice from seasoned players here saved me. The manipulative WL that tried to KC me now moved on to "eat" other guys already after failing to use 冷暴力 and 翻脸 tactic on me. Now I more careful when chatting with new WL, so far so good.

so gotta agree with all the seasoned players here, diversify your WLs so you not easily captured by one. Always remember you are the payor, you have the loudest voice. Eventually, the current batch will leave one by one and new ones will come in so just take it easy. GL is an adult entertainment place, so come here and be entertained by WL, not getting fleeced by WL like some clueless boy

Otherwise, follow the best advice from some "kind" WL: Skip Geylang and find a serious GF outside.

[happytree123]

Originally Posted by notyboy

this was at hotel where we usually relax after goin out.. where she preferred to have sex & be her natural self. she stopped me from meeting her at the brothel cuz she had trouble switching between her role with customers & her real self.

how do u know if she sincerely sees u as someone close? she’s naturally wet when having sex. she refuses $$ from u, even when u offer to comp her for the earnings she loses by taking off days to be with u. she shares her fam pics with u. she reveals her real name, saw it on her passport. she want to meet u outside once a week. sometimes, she even buys u gifts. u can clearly see the diff in her character when she’s at the brothel vs when she’s with u.

she just wants my companionship. she’s now back in thailand, but we’re still in contact. this is what true friendship is..

not sure is it a Thai thing, but PRC WLs are really next level and trying to find a PRC equivalent of your case study is like less than 0.1%. guess could be a cultural thing..