Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

[clinton]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Good advice, bros wanna play, do it smart. First signs of any $$$ request, walk away.
If th FL WL truly love you, no need $, or else it 's just a game on who can outwit the other

Btw bro, when can return upz?
https://thesbf.shop/showpo...ostcount=31832

bro good advice ... seems the request for $$$ will never ending after started

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by clinton

bro good advice ... seems the request for $$$ will never ending after started

Haha bro, too many sob stories of being cheated by FL WL , never ending too
Hope all bros wise up, or can just pay some school fees to learn the lesson

[*FiReWoRkS*]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

share share....how long have you been in this relationship bro?

heh heh, I started this thread to share about our issues, can exchange advice.

Married with 小三, FBs become 小三, FOB become 小三

I salute those that can stay fuck buddies and friends with benefits with no emotional involvement....

There were quite a few of them so I don't really know where and how to start because each one has their story. So just leave them as they are.

I guess everyone of us is different. Some can really keep things as purely sexual but some require a certain level of emotional investment in order to make love to/have sex with the other party.

For me if I just want sex I would go commercial. If I go non-commercial means I like the lady and emotions would be involved. And usually my style is I would cultivate a relationship to make the lady has feelings for me too. Yeah I know this is not very healthy but I can't seem to enjoy a relationship with a non-commercial lady if it's just purely sexual.

[porscheclub]

I have two wives and for a time 2 other mistresses so 4 women in 3 cities. Nothing to be proud of honestly especially for those who've been through it. You need to manage jealousy, time and money. Both wives are accepted by the families but don't stay under one roof so less problems.

Ideally one partner is all we need.

Sex takes a back seat after a while and it's the relationship that we cherish. Strangely, now that I'm not looking for sex and flirts once in a while, women seem to find it unbelievable and feel more comfortable that we're not trying to bed them.

Personally, commercial sex is easiest on the pocket and heart but like most of you, I prefer something that connects both parties so the sexual awakening climaxes which is something a FL can never provide because there's no trust between us. A partner who's in love will give you anything more than you wish for and so are the consequences. Think hard before entering this situation.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by predator314

I'm married with kids, my kids are the love of my life. My love for my wife has dimished since ages ago and our kids only reason we are still holding up. But still, we have respect for each other and I've never had an affair before, even when I was not getting sex from my wife.

After the dinner, I asked her out alone and we ended up kissing and petting. That was the start of the whole thing, over the course of 2 week, I found myself getting more and more infatuated with her to the extend I have the urge to meet her every moment I have free. I know this is not going to work out because I'll never divorce my wife and make my kids go through single parenthood, but I cannot help myself from thinking about her and I truly feel that I am in love with her.

Any Bros can advise me on what to do?

Simple bro. Be honest with this lady and if she's fine being the lady in waiting and keep quiet on family days then it's good but my experience can tell you that unless she's equally liberated (means you're not exclusive) most women will let jealousy drown her and eventually you which always end up in fights.

You're on the warming up period which is really sweet but pay attention to work and trails of messages, dates and emails from leaks. In short, remember to cover your back side!

[korean]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

I have two wives and for a time 2 other mistresses so 4 women in 3 cities. Nothing to be proud of honestly especially for those who've been through it. You need to manage jealousy, time and money. Both wives are accepted by the families but don't stay under one roof so less problems.

Ideally one partner is all we need.

Sex takes a back seat after a while and it's the relationship that we cherish. Strangely, now that I'm not looking for sex and flirts once in a while, women seem to find it unbelievable and feel more comfortable that we're not trying to bed them.

Personally, commercial sex is easiest on the pocket and heart but like most of you, I prefer something that connects both parties so the sexual awakening climaxes which is something a FL can never provide because there's no trust between us. A partner who's in love will give you anything more than you wish for and so are the consequences. Think hard before entering this situation.

Bro, do you love or have feelings with all four women at the same times? How do u manage n spread ur loves, n how to have two families? never thought of divorce or cut down? I alredi have big headache n heart pains with one wife n 2 lovers. I'm achieving single partner and my choice is simple, choose the last one I love and the one I love the most. Wife case is relatively easy as I don't love her just divorce with financial lose. Love for first gf fade away after meeting the current gf so no choice but gotta end sooner or later. I don't think any of them will allow me to have relation with other women.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

I have two wives and for a time 2 other mistresses so 4 women in 3 cities. Nothing to be proud of honestly especially for those who've been through it. You need to manage jealousy, time and money. Both wives are accepted by the families but don't stay under one roof so less problems.

Ideally one partner is all we need.

Sex takes a back seat after a while and it's the relationship that we cherish. Strangely, now that I'm not looking for sex and flirts once in a while, women seem to find it unbelievable and feel more comfortable that we're not trying to bed them.

Personally, commercial sex is easiest on the pocket and heart but like most of you, I prefer something that connects both parties so the sexual awakening climaxes which is something a FL can never provide because there's no trust between us. A partner who's in love will give you anything more than you wish for and so are the consequences. Think hard before entering this situation.

hey bro, you took the words right out of my mouth

can see you have been in this game for a while

I have a wife, (she found out but tolerates me) and a ex WL/FL turn FB(she quit her job) now Gf

with the GF you have a peace of mind, you can 69, do without condom(once I got her pregnant so we do it with now) and not worry about getting anything not like commercial sex

but commercial sex has it perks, like the girl is willing to please

Once the other half becomes wife(god knows how long we have not done it) or gf, then the sex if any becomes very mild if any

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by korean

Bro, do you love or have feelings with all four women at the same times? How do u manage n spread ur loves, n how to have two families? never thought of divorce or cut down? I alredi have big headache n heart pains with one wife n 2 lovers. I'm achieving single partner and my choice is simple, choose the last one I love and the one I love the most. Wife case is relatively easy as I don't love her just divorce with financial lose. Love for first gf fade away after meeting the current gf so no choice but gotta end sooner or later. I don't think any of them will allow me to have relation with other women.

Hello Bro. Yes I do love them all & none of my mistresses were WL/FL though one was a singer. The second wife was a high income earner but we have two kids now so she's working from home. One in China is doing so well in business that she purchased a new Porsche Macan last year.

1st wife is relationship (all love becomes this after some years), she understands me more than my mother and we have kids so we're comfortable with one another. Of course the initial flings brought much heartache to her and after some time, she learnt to accept that it's better for me to stick to one woman than several others & that she being the Queen will get priorities (although you'll have to please your other women that they are the most precious ).

#1 Golden rule is managing finance. Let them know who's the boss and they are dependencies.

#2 Zip your mouth and never let the other woman know too much about the other. Delete sms/emails/apps history or only leave trails of simple words. This will prevent unnecessary jealousy & fights.

Life is of course quite exhausting other than financial drain since both families have homes, cars, kids, education and holidays. So the expenses double and more if you have extras. You'll need to spend time with every kid and I love them all.

Actually one of my mistress is the best. She was very difficult to court but a great lover. She knows her position, will stay out of limelight and frugal. Somehow our timing didn't work out well so had to let her go in case she gets pregnant. In fact, we had some wonderful sexual memories including public sex, quite an exhibitionist this girl.

One must know when to cut loss and fast. My suggestion to the younger chiongster is to leave those emotional wreckers @ the earliest sign, they'll drain you and most WL/FL are; otherwise they wouldn't be in this trade. You can have relationships with them but control your love. I'm not telling you guys to cheat them but ask yourself honestly, do you want your children's mother to have a history? Marry them only when all channels are exhausted. Money can be earned but healing a broken heart is something else.

Boss is right. The easiest way to heal a broken heart is to find a new love & this works for both sexes.

Speaking of love. This is what I've learnt so please feel free to interpret. Love is the catalyst and antidote to a relationship, it is there to start and save two together but in-between there's a whole lot of boring things that you two have to face. There will always be another new and better lover. Find a keeper and settle on one or none is sometimes better.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

Once the other half becomes wife(god knows how long we have not done it) or gf, then the sex if any becomes very mild if any

You're an experienced Samster too

I know how you feel. Every relationship will stale especially when kids enter the scene.

I'm very lucky to find a soulmate. She understands men's need and we engage each other's sexual senses every now and then. Her dark fantasies are kinky sex, multiple penetrations and be a pornstar for once. I'm prepared to share her & she'll reward me too but we'll do it as a couple.

This is one good way to keep both excited even if fantasies. It spices up your relationship but you need to open her lock

[korean]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

#2 Zip your mouth and never let the other woman know too much about the other. Delete sms/emails/apps history or only leave trails of simple words. This will prevent unnecessary jealousy & fights.

lol, I hate this as I dont like to cheat and it is so exhausting. That is one of the main reason I make it more simple for myself, just stick to one and only one

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by korean

lol, I hate this as I dont like to cheat and it is so exhausting. That is one of the main reason I make it more simple for myself, just stick to one and only one

now you have me confused bro.

you posted this was your status. so you stick to one? or you have 2 gfs and married

Originally Posted by korean

Both my little 3 share the same characteristics:
- dont involve money, one of them is rich, another is poor
- they dont want me to divorce, content of being my little three, one of them even wanna break up with me as she doesnt want to ruin my marriage, as she felt I lose too much.
- agree lessens on sex on my part but just happy to have a companion who understand me

[Shadow_warrior]

tomorrow will celebrate 小三 birthday and 6th year together.

Also tonight have to do my duties to the family as the wife family has a member passed on

juggling 2 families is not easy. but as we grow older, our understandings of whats the most important changes.

Maybe that's life. we take what we can get. we move forward

[korean]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

now you have me confused bro.

you posted this was your status. so you stick to one? or you have 2 gfs and married

yes I stick to one. divorce is in interim judgement state now. no official breakup with 1st gf but we kind of let it fades off

[korean]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

tomorrow will celebrate 小三 birthday and 6th year together.

Also tonight have to do my duties to the family as the wife family has a member passed on

juggling 2 families is not easy. but as we grow older, our understandings of whats the most important changes.

Maybe that's life. we take what we can get. we move forward

6th years anniversary! not easy n congrat bro! wise words too bro

[Cheesebeast]

Im in a long term relationship with my current gf of nearly 4 years. However, she's raised to be conservative and will only have sex after marriage. We only went as far as kissing and never engaged in anything sexual (bj or hj) in our four years together. Although I find it difficult to control my sexual urges but i never visited MLs of FLs (fear of diseases)

Then i met an old malay friend who became my first fb about a year ago, and got to know her chinese friend in the process. At first, it felt like I'm cheating on my gf but i convinced myself that i wasn't as i had no feelings for them. We were only using each other's bodies to satisfy our sexual urges with no emotions and both my fbs understood the situation. Don't get me wrong, i loved my gf and still do with our relationship going strong, but since she can't satisfy my desires, this arrangement was necessary for me.

I guess having a girlfriend and an fb at the same time is based on personal conscience. I also prefer having long term fbs as the risk of diseases are lower and we get to experiment more without feeling embarrassed. Plus get to enjoy fucking without condom as they are both on the pill