Falling in love with a ML

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Connor

You made her an offer, she countered offered at a lower rate, but you kiv ?

Need to KIV cuz it is uncertain if she gonna do the change soon. At this time, it is not easy for her to change job and it costs $. Currently she still get quite an amount of tips from her regular customers for foot massage. She will probably change job only if this spa can't keep up. Her boss gonna reward her for some time off, may plan to go on a trip with her and see how first.

[Connor]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

Need to KIV cuz it is uncertain if she gonna do the change soon.

Hope you communicated everything clearly to her, or it can be very demoralizing.
Imagine someone bargaining with you, and you agree to lower price than requested because you know the person.
But then the person said, I'll think about it.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Connor

Hope you communicated everything clearly to her, or it can be very demoralizing.
Imagine someone bargaining with you, and you agree to lower price than requested because you know the person.
But then the person said, I'll think about it.

I didn't out right tell her "I think about it", it was an offer IF she change to a normal job. I guess it is uncertain on both sides. She says it costs a lot to change her job (many MLs tell me this) and still have regular foot massage customers who take 2hrs sessions.

Those uncles and aunties here for foot massage tip quite a bit, no need to do extra and still got tip. In fact it's almost what I gave her for cip (still min tip). She is ok with this if I visit her regularly. It is better than MLs who swat flies most of the time. Also, she show me she turn down an offer to marry a guy in TW. Now she just want to 看一步走一步 and see how. Her boss seem to be good too, just let her do anything she want, so she want to stay.

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

Get KC by them? No, at least not yet. Even if they are willing to be my kept woman, my offer is going to be less than what I’m currently giving to them. Actually my Viet ML had come up with quite an amazing offer which is way less than what I’m giving her currently to be my kept woman and leaving this trade for a normal job. I’ll KIV this. Though I’m single now, keeping her will definitely affect my family which I don’t care about anymore. For those who are married, I guess some kind of problem already arose that they need to resort to outsourcing.
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Mind share what her " amazing offer " bro ?

[Lake]

If scroll through every year, will find a few threads fall in love with commercial girls.
I see this I shake my head.
Then I remember there was this girl I would definitely fall head over heels for.
But the very thing that made her stand out was the same thing that made it such she would not lead me on.

sighs....I miss her.

At least I got to meet someone like her.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Lake

But the very thing that made her stand out was the same thing that made it such she would not lead me on.

Was it a shemale dick that turned you off? HAHAHA

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

Mind share what her " amazing offer " bro ?

Maybe not that amazing to some bros, but quite acceptable to me.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Lake

If scroll through every year, will find a few threads fall in love with commercial girls.
I see this I shake my head.

I think it depends on your intention when you went to find these girls. If your intention is just to fuck and release, then this effect won't occur on you. I guess some of us who look for these girls for company especially to relieve our stress, MLs who provide excellent gfe are the best choice, even better if you can find a lone ML. They give you a massage to relax and provide great relieve. But over time, the chance of these effect happening is high and even more if she doesn't care how much tip you give her.

Tbh, some of these girls (not just MLs) who just want to make a living and live simple each day matches the type of girl I'm looking for. It is extremely rare to find a local girl with these kind of thinking as most of us are brainwashed to build our career as priority. I want a partner without an ambition to build her career.

[Lake]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I think it depends on your intention when you went to find these girls. If your intention is just to fuck and release, then this effect won't occur on you.

I met her in ktv. She just had that very different quality about her, but at the same time, she kept her distance from verbal enticements. She is just someone who does not seem perturbed by anything yet at the same time carrying a heavy burden with very clear goals. And also, very very polite.

I was not looking for anything, it was a click that did not happen, for good, or bad.

[Errornotfound]

Originally Posted by KimSiew769

This works only if u follow through (most cases ppl in your situation, u will not able to). There is not point of trying to discourage you or encourage you - because whatever we suggest, you will not believe its the truth - so i can only give u a very simple advice and it always work.

1）Tell her u no longer have $ to meet her in the MP, ask if she is willing to meet u outside twice (at least)

2) Tell her you need financial help and you are busy looking for people to loan you $$ (dont ask her to loan u $) thats why u no time to go meet her. will she offer to help you?

If the above 2 are met, i am quite sure she is sincere with you. Then you just give her an excuse that all your issues are solved.

If the above 2 are not met, then i suggest you take it as part of your growing up experience and move on

I ever brought up to her to ask if that is the only way to meet, in mp?

She said that we can always have lunch together.
And yes we had for a few times.

[Saven]

Originally Posted by Errornotfound

I ever brought up to her to ask if that is the only way to meet, in mp?

She said that we can always have lunch together.
And yes we had for a few times.

Have you had sex with her yet ?

[Errornotfound]

Originally Posted by Saven

Have you had sex with her yet ?

Don't think you understand.
If I had the intention to bed her, I don't need to even share my situation here.

Right?

[Saven]

Originally Posted by Errornotfound

Don't think you understand.
If I had the intention to bed her, I don't I would need to even share my situation here.

Right?

Correct, I don't understand.
In fact, I am dumbfounded.

[loneyheart]

Those play hard to get may fish u easily

[oxeso]

Originally Posted by Saven

Correct, I don't understand.

Which part of SBF's motto "No sex b4 marriage" do u not understand?