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16-05-2006, 10:14 PM
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Ya the so close feeling is always there.... but when is it going to get her in bed??? hahahaha actually come to think about it.... if i get her in bed that could be the beginning of more investment.... like bro SGPshanghai69 had said(she could ask for a house) So from now on.... got to think with big head.... and not with that small head  so trying to keep a distance from her..... and write off my (nearly 'bed debts)
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#5207
16-05-2006, 10:38 PM
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Re: ShangHai Recommendation- ONS
Dear Bro Daemoon,
Thanks for sharing your encounter with us here. Don't feel sad or bad, just that the wronged way to learn the lesson. This is the situation in China, you need "Chairman Mao" to get things settled. After all, for your case still not that bad; some worst ones, like blackmail, rob and etc. Ever wonder why "SHOPPING in the Parkson Department Store at Central HuaiHai Road, Shanghai, one could easily mistake the weekdays for weekends" as posted at page 352, may be there are a lot of carrot head buying stuff for the mm mah..................haha! Got to go! Enjoy your stay in Shanghai! Cheers! Shengge![/QUOTE] Thanks Bro Shengge, Like u have say this is not worst ones...so i am not sad or feel bad about it... just another experience to add on... Shit how u found out that I was at the Parkson Department Store at Central HuaiHai Road, Shanghai, last week.... shopping for girts to get my bonk  Hahaha so i become just one of the carrot head in that mall...cheers daemoon
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#5208
16-05-2006, 10:42 PM
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Left, right, center they get what they deserve, I think I will just walk off. You very powerful leh, just realised this, must teach me. Fly kites? Yes, I do fly a lot of kites on weekends, that's more relaxing then pleasing somebody, don't you agree? Just to further enforce what you have said on mobile phone. My ex-neighbour, HK guy, wife shanghaiese. It happened when coloured screen first appeared in the market and that was around Chinese New Year. He told me his wife prepared to buy a new phone, the latest model during that time. I told him, hey you are jobless now, why your wife still wants to buy new phone. She said she will use her OT paid during the CNY period to pay for the phone. I was asking whether her phone has damaged. He said, who knows? Probably she would damaged it herself and told me it was spoilt the next day....  Btw, forgot to mention that the wife is a nurse. I am not saying that nurse is not good, just that in China for them, they tend to compete among each others. Each week he has to follow the wife to go window shopping, the wife has taken up many courses, she is a qualified make up artist and aerobic instructor. Good that he is chin-chai type and did not hear any complain from him. I can only wish him all the best. Actually, Shanghainese men are more family oriented and better temper compare to women. Just my 2毛钱.
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#5209
16-05-2006, 10:49 PM
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[QUOTE=PuTonRen]Brother Daemoon, Shanghian and SGPShanghai ,
Sure enough, there are still many people who still think like I always preach on the excuse that the brothers give themselves: "She is different, she is not after my money". They realised, ONLY after having spent so much, that they have been had. Bro Daemoon, take it as a blessing that you had finally pulled out from this trick. The worst things is to know what the girls are talking amongst themselves, quoting what I have overheard one day in a small chinese restaurant where two girls were talking "that man is so stupid, until now, he is still paying for everything I wanted to buy. He said that he would pay for my rent as well. I only allow him to touch my toe, and I am sure he would come back so that I would go to bed with him!". Thanks Bro PTR, I am glad that i didnt got deeper into this trick...... ya... maybe she and her friends are talking and laughing about how stupid that i was.... pay for all the shit .......and got nothing out of it.... Like my mum always say.... spend $$$$ to get experiences... maybe this is wat she means... cheers daemoon
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#5210
16-05-2006, 10:53 PM
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So how much have you spent? As bro Shanghian said RMB680 for a bonk, how many bonks she owe you? Better exercise your rights before it expires....
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#5211
16-05-2006, 11:30 PM
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Dear Shanghai brothers,
After reading so many posts on your ONS experience, I would like to share mine... I met most of the girls from the internet, such as AFF, Xpat, etc. The first one I met was not a native Shanghainese but living and working here for many years. She can speak the dialect fluently. She's in her early 30's and working as a store manager. After about 3 dates, I invited her over to my apartment and she spent the night over. After that, she spent most of her weekends over at my place. When we dated, although I offered to pay her share, she insisted to pay herself so basically I didn't spend much money on her. Even when I offered to buy her gifts, she'd refused and on special ocassions she accepted, she'd set a limit to how much I could spend on the gift. Eventually, I got sick of her constant smoking (despite her agreement to quit) and just stopped contacting her altogether. I met another one who's a native Shanghainese. She's in her early 20's working as a coordinator in a boutique. She has a Taiwanese boyfriend who's often out of town. We met the first time on a Saturday night after her work at Nanjing Road. I asked her where she wanted to go and she replied anywhere so I jokingly suggested my apartment and she gamely agreed. So we reached my apartment and the fun began. So we continued having such non-committal relationship until she got sick of me finally and wanted to put her attention on her boyfriend. During our dates, she would offer to pay for my share although I always declined. She came from a well-to-do family and she's what I call an independent woman. Next I met a Japanese married woman in her mid 30's who's getting sick of her husband and was looking for some cheap thrills. On our first date, I got her to deliver me a handjob. Subsequent dates yielded nothing until our recent dates when she gave me a blowjob (once under the stairway leading to the car park at Metro Town) and much more. During our dates, I paid for all our meals. Lastly, I met another native Shanghainese in her mid 20's working in Pudong. Nothing happened on our first date and I paid for the meal. She kinda played hard to get so I wrote her off my list. After a few months, I decided to asked her out again. On our second date, on the pretext that I was a foreigner, she showed me around Shanghai and we went to catch a movie at Super Brand Mall. During the show, I started kissing and touching her. On the next few dates, I would took her to a park and "let my fingers do the walking". One day, she told me nobody's home and invited me over. I seized that opportunity and made out with her (while her dog was barking away in the living room). On the subsequent 2 dates, I took her to a hotel nearby. Sensing I wasn't seriously interested in her, she declined further meetings at hotels and just wanted a normal dinner date. I realised I'm not going to gain anything more so I just stopped contacting her. I paid for all the expenses in this relationship. My experience proved to me that ONS really depends on luck. If you're lucky, you meet a girl who doesn't splurge your money and won't stick to you like superglue. On the other hand, you might encounter a blood-sucker that makes you wonder why you don't go to the HC like what the other brothers are doing instead. I hope my sharing is useful to some brothers who are keen to try out ONS in Shanghai. But do be wary and be ready to run when it is time to do so. Don't stay around to be a victim of your own ego and pride. Cheers, Shanghai Papa
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#5212
17-05-2006, 09:10 AM
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how come u guys have all the luck !! hopeless "romatic" peeps like me have to pay.. which i dont mind... hmm.. one of my expat fren who is on attachment here bascially gets free fuck every weekend.. had warn him about 'china gals', he brush me off for that.. althou i didnt have any bad or worse experience on the "Ladies". hope nothing bad happen to him.. I dont know about u guys. but i kinda have this Mentally, "p4f, paid and forget".. well sometimes, what comes around go around...  just beware and becarefull.. ciao !! Chinaalleway..
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#5213
17-05-2006, 09:36 AM
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My point is: There are girls in Shanghai who are open-minded and are ready for a non-committal relationship but you do need lots of luck (and charisma) to encounter and retain them. On the other hand, what I didn't mention is that I also do encounter some girls (university undergraduates and fresh graduates) who are out to "dig gold" from me. I don't mind paying the meal on the our first date but if I sensed that I might be a potential sucker, I just tell my date I got to go and bade farewell. How do I know? Through conversation (try to hint) or action (try to get physically close). If the reaction is negative, then I seriously wouldn't want to invest further on my time and money. Basically, it's just a hit or go. No point lingering on and hoping for a change of luck. There are plenty of girls around so why bother taking the risk? If the girls you met are thinking in the same frequency as you, chances are, she will follow you to your apartment on the first date (at least that's what I encountered). That's my 2-cents worth... Cheers, Shanghai Papa
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#5214
17-05-2006, 09:58 AM
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maybe im ugly.. nvm about that !! keke nowadays cant be bother and doesnt wanna waste time on the 'same frequency'... anyway, have a great midweek in sh.. rdgs & stay cool chinaalleway 
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#5215
17-05-2006, 10:07 AM
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This thread is getting interesting and educational. From the cheong places n FR in Shanghai to, arguing abt free bonk.
This is a virtual world, anyone can post any craps in the forum. Chinese saying, 1 type of rice feeds hundreds tye of ppl. Any, ah pig, ah dog can pour out all his sorrows, anyone can boast how big is his dick. End of the day, who is right who is wrong it is up to individual but most impt, everyone just be happy. I enjoy a lot in this forum, because I can get good info from the bros here. I make good cheong buddies, I can suan ppl as I want. I learn a lot from the cheongsters here, I can boast abt my age, appearance. The lists go on, but most impt, I get to learn wat my previous lecturer dun teach me, "real life".Carry on with your debate on free bonk. It is very informative.
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#5216
17-05-2006, 10:10 AM
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Some people do have the luck, I think they put it a lot of time and effort to achieve them. So don't blame your luck. As for your friend, he did have some luck, who knows he may be spending most of his time at Parkson also?
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#5217
17-05-2006, 10:13 AM
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ONS & Shanghai girls
Well I think Shanghai Papa got it right. Free goods can be achievable through patience, luck and charisma.
You can meet some "wild" girls here and have a lot of fun but you can put yourself in big trouble as well. One rule: if she does not sleep with you before the thrid date and is still not paying her share of expenses or is asking for presents: DUMP HER!!! And I think one important thing also is not to pretend to be something you're not: do not show off with your money and do not make any commitment. Play hard, play smart and play safe. One word on Shanghainese men & women: in my experience here shanghainese men are quite weak compare to their northern counterparts. When they start dating they will really spoil their gf and not get a lot in return. Shanghainese girls can be very smart and manipulative and they are also very independant. Be careful bros. Cheers, PF.
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#5218
17-05-2006, 10:22 AM
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It's not about looks lah. IMHO, it's about colour (if you're white), nationality (foreigners are luckier in ONS because the chances of you knowing somebody they knew is lower), wealth (appeals to the gold-diggers) and charisma (if you can hold their interest). So a foreign man who exhibits a certain level of wealth, who might be old and balding, has a higher rate of scoring a ONS lor... I am short and average looking (ask Brother Naemlo, we met before) but I guess I can hold my conversation well and my maturity and sensitivity captured their interest but not for long though. It's a race between my interest in the girl running out before or after her interest in me runs out. Hahaha! Cheers, Shanghai Papa
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#5219
17-05-2006, 10:26 AM
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It's been quite some time since we last met. How's life? Remember I shared with you about the Yunnan girl I met from AFF in Xiamen ? She just turned 21 years old this month and told me she wanted to seek employment in Shanghai... Cheers, Shanghai Papa
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17-05-2006, 10:36 AM
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