Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[singapore.camel]

Just finish reading all 33 pages in this thread.
Very interesting indeed. But IMHO I would say, whatever you do don't regret or blame the others.

[applepie99]

Wow! I didn't know that this topic is still active.....any here is an update:

My girlfriend was in Singapore last month to meet my parents. Everything turned out well, although she doesn't quite like the food here. I brought her for sight seeing, but felt uncomfortable because we attracted unnecesary attention. What's wrong with a matured man and a young chinese girl holding hands in public?

Anway we're back in our own lives. She's planning to bring her parents to Singapore for holidays, so that our parents can meet. Meanwhile, I still haven't decided when to propose her.

After reading stories about singapore men with china brides I think it is worth the bet, as just like any relationship, there are cases of success and failure. Even local girls have high expectation of their husbands, so as long as we are happy, I don't really care if she's from China. What is important here is that she's willing to swallow my cum. Boy, am I lucky!

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by applepie99

Wow! I didn't know that this topic is still active.....any here is an update:

My girlfriend was in Singapore last month to meet my parents. Everything turned out well, although she doesn't quite like the food here. I brought her for sight seeing, but felt uncomfortable because we attracted unnecesary attention. What's wrong with a matured man and a young chinese girl holding hands in public?

Anway we're back in our own lives. She's planning to bring her parents to Singapore for holidays, so that our parents can meet. Meanwhile, I still haven't decided when to propose her.

After reading stories about singapore men with china brides I think it is worth the bet, as just like any relationship, there are cases of success and failure. Even local girls have high expectation of their husbands, so as long as we are happy, I don't really care if she's from China. What is important here is that she's willing to swallow my cum. Boy, am I lucky!

you are damn lucky on swallowing cum part. hahaha... many girls is not willing to even giving a bj let alone swallowing everything

as long as the 2 of you is happy and can suit each others culture, i think everything should be fine.

if the age gap is too big, you can't help inviting stare. but if you don't mind, it dosen't matter. as long as you are happy.

good luck and hope everything turn out went.

[Waha]

Hi bros, sometimes I just dont get why do the PRC ladies so eager to get marry. I had date this PRC gal for almost 2 yrs, btw she is not FL I get to know her when I was having my internship in China. Her family backgrd not bad. Her parents would alway asked to me have lunch and dinner at their place as to help me save money. They live in the city and her parents are doing some small business. Her parents is fully aware that i am a fresh grad without much saving and money and once their parents ever told me they dont need any money after her daughter married me as they dont short of any money etc... all they request was allowing her daugther to visit them whenever we could...

I worry that my parent could not accept her becoz she's a PRC and PRC here alway dont have any gd reputation. Previous month, she told me if possible we could just ROM in 2 years time and she dont need any wedding ceremony here and just wish to have ceremony at her place and those cost will be handled by her parents for sure. She told me she can even written down conditions which stated she will not get any of my asset when we divorce and of coz if I eat outside and get caught will be another issue and will include my name in her house which brought by her parents... I dont know where should I be touched or so...

Plus Point :
1) Shes's a V when i knew her
2) Willing to do anything to please me... upon my request also... hehe~~
3) Alway find she cheap food store and dont't eat in resturant
4) Pay for my air-ticket and hotel whenever I visit her... Not on company trip
5) Super Sticky ( Damn Damn Damn Sticky)

Minus Point:
1) Alway talk about marriage
2) Super sticky and Damn possesive
3) Alway never sound out unhappiness, just listen and followed what i said
4) Control, Spot check and alway wants to know what I do Where I go

Srry for the long post.

At the end of the days, my family will never get to see her plus point... worries me..

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by Waha

Hi bros, sometimes I just dont get why do the PRC ladies so eager to get marry. I had date this PRC gal for almost 2 yrs, btw she is not FL I get to know her when I was having my internship in China. Her family backgrd not bad. Her parents would alway asked to me have lunch and dinner at their place as to help me save money. They live in the city and her parents are doing some small business. Her parents is fully aware that i am a fresh grad without much saving and money and once their parents ever told me they dont need any money after her daughter married me as they dont short of any money etc... all they request was allowing her daugther to visit them whenever we could...

I worry that my parent could not accept her becoz she's a PRC and PRC here alway dont have any gd reputation. Previous month, she told me if possible we could just ROM in 2 years time and she dont need any wedding ceremony here and just wish to have ceremony at her place and those cost will be handled by her parents for sure. She told me she can even written down conditions which stated she will not get any of my asset when we divorce and of coz if I eat outside and get caught will be another issue and will include my name in her house which brought by her parents... I dont know where should I be touched or so...

Plus Point :
1) Shes's a V when i knew her
2) Willing to do anything to please me... upon my request also... hehe~~
3) Alway find she cheap food store and dont't eat in resturant
4) Pay for my air-ticket and hotel whenever I visit her... Not on company trip
5) Super Sticky ( Damn Damn Damn Sticky)

Minus Point:
1) Alway talk about marriage
2) Super sticky and Damn possesive
3) Alway never sound out unhappiness, just listen and followed what i said
4) Control, Spot check and alway wants to know what I do Where I go

Srry for the long post.

At the end of the days, my family will never get to see her plus point... worries me..

Brother you potentially have a good wife. Her family likes you too. My guess is they think you are a really good catch, a stretch for her that she otherwise would not be able to secure so they make concessions. My recommendation is to keep courting her with some more talk about definitve plans to tie the knot if you are thinking that way. Otherwise dont hurt the girl and offend her parents and let her go.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Waha

At the end of the days, my family will never get to see her plus point... worries me..

Marry her! You can hardly find a Singaporean girl like her these days. PRC ladies aren't lower class than Singaporean ladies. It also seems like she loves you more than you love her. Do let your parents meet her as early as possible. Any initial worries (of her being PRC) can be solved/reduced by time and personal observation during subsequent meetings.

[Waha]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother you potentially have a good wife. Her family likes you too. My guess is they think you are a really good catch, a stretch for her that she otherwise would not be able to secure so they make concessions. My recommendation is to keep courting her with some more talk about definitve plans to tie the knot if you are thinking that way. Otherwise dont hurt the girl and offend her parents and let her go.

Thank you bro, serious I also wish to tie knot but $$$, need $$$ for further upgrading... Her projection is to ROM by 2012. The she will go back to China to continue her work under she preg then she stay in SG until gave birth... She's like totally diff frm other PRC I know... She is keen for me to move over there to start from nothing rather than she come her... Puzzled~~~

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, plenty of SG brothers move there but it does not always have a story book ending. Some brothers pay dowry then woman disappers. Some held hostage not necessarily by family. A lot of bad things can happen. Maybe they are taking your guard down?

[Waha]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, plenty of SG brothers move there but it does not always have a story book ending. Some brothers pay dowry then woman disappers. Some held hostage not necessarily by family. A lot of bad things can happen. Maybe they are taking your guard down?

She told me she could bear to leave her dad behinde... Her parents told me before they dont need my family or me to pay any dowry, as her parents had enough of $$$ to feed themselves and take care of themselves. Her parents wish her to stay here because of the sake of our kids ( in future ). But she dont really keen... First time hear ppl say dont want SG PR or pink I.C.

[arizona]

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, I don't really care if she's from China. What is important here is that she's willing to swallow my cum. Boy, am I lucky!
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When a lady allow CIM, being lucky for that?! I ain't believe it!! oMG LOLz

[yoshii]

Originally Posted by Waha

She told me she could bear to leave her dad behinde... Her parents told me before they dont need my family or me to pay any dowry, as her parents had enough of $$$ to feed themselves and take care of themselves. Her parents wish her to stay here because of the sake of our kids ( in future ). But she dont really keen... First time hear ppl say dont want SG PR or pink I.C.

nonetheless you should get her over Sg. I reckon their government does even worse brainwashing to them than Singapore's, so a little more 'worldliness' by staying in a different country should help alleviate the damage done.

[IdontKnow]

Originally Posted by applepie99

Wow! I didn't know that this topic is still active.....any here is an update:

My girlfriend was in Singapore last month to meet my parents. Everything turned out well, although she doesn't quite like the food here. I brought her for sight seeing, but felt uncomfortable because we attracted unnecesary attention. What's wrong with a matured man and a young chinese girl holding hands in public?

Anway we're back in our own lives. She's planning to bring her parents to Singapore for holidays, so that our parents can meet. Meanwhile, I still haven't decided when to propose her.

After reading stories about singapore men with china brides I think it is worth the bet, as just like any relationship, there are cases of success and failure. Even local girls have high expectation of their husbands, so as long as we are happy, I don't really care if she's from China. What is important here is that she's willing to swallow my cum. Boy, am I lucky!

please give her up to young blokes. you so old already please don't ruin her future

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by Waha

She told me she could bear to leave her dad behinde... Her parents told me before they dont need my family or me to pay any dowry, as her parents had enough of $$$ to feed themselves and take care of themselves. Her parents wish her to stay here because of the sake of our kids ( in future ). But she dont really keen... First time hear ppl say dont want SG PR or pink I.C.

you are so lucky to find a girl like that. if you really love her and can put up with her keep sticking to you, it will be a good catch. of course, normally girl seeking sense of security by getting you to married her will not find it. by then, chances are she will feel more insecure and it might lead to more problem. she seem to be seriously in love with you yet lacking assurance.

[Waha]

Thank SBF bros for the feedback. Been 2 yrs she had tolerate the feeling that my family dont know about her existing Underground r/s) and she been lying to her family about this to her parents. This coming CNY, she insist that she wants to see my family and let my family know about our r/s and she will pay for her expenses to SG and she will apply SG visa on her own... All she wants me to do now is to tell my family about her existing...

But she really changed alot since we are together... Too long to write down... From last time a very arrogant gal till now a very submissive gf... Touch by her actions~

[ahit1]

Originally Posted by Waha

Hi bros, sometimes I just dont get why do the PRC ladies so eager to get marry. I had date this PRC gal for almost 2 yrs, btw she is not FL I get to know her when I was having my internship in China. Her family backgrd not bad. Her parents would alway asked to me have lunch and dinner at their place as to help me save money. They live in the city and her parents are doing some small business. Her parents is fully aware that i am a fresh grad without much saving and money and once their parents ever told me they dont need any money after her daughter married me as they dont short of any money etc... all they request was allowing her daugther to visit them whenever we could...

I worry that my parent could not accept her becoz she's a PRC and PRC here alway dont have any gd reputation. Previous month, she told me if possible we could just ROM in 2 years time and she dont need any wedding ceremony here and just wish to have ceremony at her place and those cost will be handled by her parents for sure. She told me she can even written down conditions which stated she will not get any of my asset when we divorce and of coz if I eat outside and get caught will be another issue and will include my name in her house which brought by her parents... I dont know where should I be touched or so...

Plus Point :
1) Shes's a V when i knew her
2) Willing to do anything to please me... upon my request also... hehe~~
3) Alway find she cheap food store and dont't eat in resturant
4) Pay for my air-ticket and hotel whenever I visit her... Not on company trip
5) Super Sticky ( Damn Damn Damn Sticky)

Minus Point:
1) Alway talk about marriage
2) Super sticky and Damn possesive
3) Alway never sound out unhappiness, just listen and followed what i said
4) Control, Spot check and alway wants to know what I do Where I go

Srry for the long post.

At the end of the days, my family will never get to see her plus point... worries me..

Looks like you have found yourself a good girl. But do not let your guard down. You mention she can have a written condition that if she divorce with you, she will not get anything. I suggest is please do that. Better still if you can enaged a lawyer to do that to make it offical by law, so that you can be abit protected. Observe what is her reaction when doing so.

Is she based here in singapore currently. eg on student pass or S pass. or such? If she is based here, try to stay with her for a period. This way you observe her daily activites and who she normally contact with. Any amiss, you will mostly know. Also this way can give you two a "trial period' whether you able to get used to each other living style or know. Her living style and culture in china may be totally different with yours. Can use this period to get used to her living style. Afterall after marriage, you 2 will be staying with each other.