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[shengge]

Originally Posted by ADog

I am a newbie here but I felt compelled to add my 2 cents ...

I have been combing this thread over the last 2 weeks, regretting each time how I missed this forum when I was posted to Shanghai. Still it is not too late to learn of the fun, the places & going rate, the risk, but also "reminder" that we walk a fine line.

I thought my relationship would be different from others (don't we all).
I want you to know your message renewed my focus in life.

I'll be in Shanghai on April 8 - 10. Anyone heard of Yu-meng-yuan along HongQiao Road (beside the Tennis Club)? Not sure if it is an HC or a high end massage place.

Dear Bro AD,
Hi! Welcome to this forum and thanks for sharing your encounter with us.
It is indeed very sad to hear your story, hope it has already overed and happy that you have new focus.

We man sometime are very weird, we give out money easily to those WL but when comes to family expenses, we always felt too expensive even though it merely cost RMB10 difference...

About the Yu Men Yuan you have mentioned, I have no idea about this place. sorry!

All the best to you.

Cheers!
SG

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by shengge

Dear Bro AD,
It is indeed very sad to hear your story, hope it has already overed and happy that you have new focus.

We man sometime are very weird, we give out money easily to those WL but when comes to family expenses, we always felt too expensive even though it merely cost RMB10 difference...

SG

Well said, Bro shengge,

I totally agree with your wise word on the RMB10 difference. That is why you and Bro SGPShanghai69 are my light-houses in Shanghai. We pinge on our kid's present for $1 difference, but spend $1000's on Chinese ladies. No logic right.

Continue to guide me with the light from your almightly light houses.

Best regards

PT Lao R

[shengge]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

We pinge on our kid's present for $1 difference, but spend $1000's on Chinese ladies. No logic right.

Continue to guide me with the light from your almightly light houses.

Dear Bro PTR,
Till date I still cannot get an answer to that. May be the reason we give more just to avoid problem?
Well, do spend more on family, for sure you won't loose out compare to ...

You don't need light houses lar, you need hugh spotlight that comes in pair......
Talking about that, it makes me think of the two pcs rice on the spotlight...

See you around!
Cheers!
SG

[shanghian]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

We pinge on our kid's present for $1 difference, but spend $1000's on Chinese ladies. No logic right.

Dear Bro PT Lao R,
Sorry did not get to meet up in Shanghai with you. Was called back to S'pore at short notice and thus was not in town.
Was think about this issue of spending lavishly on WL but being a scrooge with our family...well when we think with our small head...how to be logical? Actually it is all a game we play and most of the times , our family loses.

Bro SG,
Know you like NTTL but now like Light House so big and can turn here turn there...wah lau... chin eh sai leh... what's the rice all about??? blur leh

cheers

Shanghian

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by shengge

Dear Bro PTR,
Till date I still cannot get an answer to that. May be the reason we give more just to avoid problem?
Well, do spend more on family, for sure you won't loose out compare to ...

SG

Bro Shengge,
Indeed a very correct & accurate sentiments you've said here for all.......

Many atimes we would tell ourself that no way that our 'small head' would overrule our big head...but yet when the situation goes 'hot & steamy'...it's always the 'Kamakaze' style at cheong 1st, think later! KNN....men...sigh....I myslef too been thru touchy, entangled situations like Bro Adog mentioned......the eventual 'awakening' is when one's pocket is almost all emptied then one wakes up! sad thingy but the true fact in reality........NB....

End of the day, it takes oneself to go thru situations like herein mentioned then only will he wakes up to it......much full of regrets aftermath....sigh.......

Hope bros here keep their eyes widely 'peeled' open.......not to be blinded by the scheming PRC gals.....

My cent worth while contribution.
Cheers to all bros, wishing all here safe & sound.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

the eventual 'awakening' is when one's pocket is almost all emptied then one wakes up! sad thingy but the true fact in '

Dear all, this statement from Bro SGPShanghai69 should serve as a golden advice to all. When one reaches that situation, there is no u turn already.

Please allow me to add on my humble half-cent worth to that statement 'The final and sad 'awakening' is when one finds that he has lost his family and the love ones at home.."

Many of us have gone through this kind of situation and have heard a lot. Beware! Beware! Remember, those ladies who work in KTV, HC or similar joints are there to make money, but not engage in Romance.

My 0.15cent worth.

PT Lao R

[liu_12]

The power of the dark side in PRC is sometimes too
hard to resist.Some Jedi bro (including me) have
cross the line and joint the dark lady.Some finally
learnt the thruth and came back to the light, while
others seep deeper into the dark hole.
Again come April, me go fight the dark side

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by liu_12

The power of the dark side in PRC is sometimes too
hard to resist.
Again come April, me go fight the dark side

May the Force Be With You My Dear Jedi Bro!........

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Many of us have gone through this kind of situation and have heard a lot. Beware! Beware! Remember, those ladies who work in KTV, HC or similar joints are there to make money, but not engage in Romance.
PT Lao R

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Greetings O' Mighty Wise one......

A very well said statement herein to us all big bro.
Indeed that the KTV gals, the HC gals, the whatever gals as long as they are from the 'joints' or even cases that they are from norm day jobs life, a BIG BIG YES that they are simply all out to 'fish' the unaware ones..........it's always the begining with "No, I'm not here for your money, it's you & your charismatic self that charms me....I'm most willing to part my legs for ya my dear...."

Thereafter, some many days later, she would be saying to one that she once claimed to love without strings & conditions " You think that are free lunches in this world? Are you that naive??!! Give me a break you overseas chinese man......who you think you're? Tom Cruise?!" It's the grand finale that wakes one up when she, the one that loves you starts telling you the above statement and asked for parting fees in thousands if you're lucky enough if not, it will be in ten of thousands otherwise you being a foreigner here would stand to lose alot in terms of your job & family should she create a scene, etc......sigh....it happened to many & I have seen & heard.

最终她们是说金而非对您说心!

切记,切记!!!!

新上人69

[ADog]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear all, this statement from Bro SGPShanghai69 should serve as a golden advice to all. When one reaches that situation, there is no u turn already.

Please allow me to add on my humble half-cent worth to that statement 'The final and sad 'awakening' is when one finds that he has lost his family and the love ones at home.."

Many of us have gone through this kind of situation and have heard a lot. Beware! Beware! Remember, those ladies who work in KTV, HC or similar joints are there to make money, but not engage in Romance.

My 0.15cent worth.

PT Lao R

Bro ShengGe,

Thank you for welcoming me .. it is an honor to see your reply.

There is no doubt you are another wise sifu, with not one but double spotlights to guide the way.

Bro SG69 wisdom is spot-on. Guo-lai-ren perhaps. Another lighthouse .. for those in trouble.

So April 8, here I come - cheong-ah!

AD
Wannabe simple man

[shengge]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Many atimes we would tell ourself that no way that our 'small head' would overrule our big head...but yet when the situation goes 'hot & steamy'...it's always the 'Kamakaze' style at cheong 1st, think later! KNN....men...sigh.

Bro SGPSha69,
I couldn't agree more with what you have said.
Your writing skill really solid. I like the word, Kamakaze....
Cheers!
SG

[shengge]

Originally Posted by liu_12

The power of the dark side in PRC is sometimes too
hard to resist.Some Jedi bro (including me) have
cross the line and joint the dark lady.Some finally
learnt the thruth and came back to the light, while
others seep deeper into the dark hole.
Again come April, me go fight the dark side

Dear Bro liu_12,
When it get hard, how to resist.....
So you have conquere the whole universe? Or rather 为国争光？Or 壮烈牺牲？
Be careful all the time.

Cheers!

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by shengge

Bro SGPSha69,
I couldn't agree more with what you have said.
Cheers!
SG

Thanks for agreeing with me Bro Shengge.

Aiyo pai she la Bro, me too kenna jialat jialat b4 so here to share my sad past sorrows lor......not because I writing good but bad experiences makes one realises the real world and the true side & colours of the PRC gals lor! sigh......KNN...only can blame my 'small head' always think faster & over rule my big head then lah........Nabei......

I swear I will never will & never shall kenna this 'gong tao' or black magic again.....only 'Pay & Fuck' from now onwards......all the way.......

No feelings sex but what the hell, better than with feelings and later stage with no money lor!

Cheers

[ADog]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Thanks for agreeing with me Bro Shengge.

Aiyo pai she la Bro, me too kenna jialat jialat b4 so here to share my sad past sorrows lor......not because I writing good but bad experiences makes one realises the real world and the true side & colours of the PRC gals lor! sigh......KNN...only can blame my 'small head' always think faster & over rule my big head then lah........Nabei......

I swear I will never will & never shall kenna this 'gong tao' or black magic again.....only 'Pay & Fuck' from now onwards......all the way.......

No feelings sex but what the hell, better than with feelings and later stage with no money lor!

Cheers

Bro SGP-SH69

Li-hai, li-hai. You are the great one!

I kenna cos of with-feeling-sex gong-tao... now I know better lor. I know it is hard to avoid cos for most, little head doing the thinking - still, for those out there who think cannot kenna, check out the forces here. It is worth your while.

Have fun.

AD
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Still wannabe simple man

[shengge]

Originally Posted by shanghian

Dear Bro PT Lao R,
Know you like NTTL but now like Light House so big and can turn here turn there...wah lau... chin eh sai leh... what's the rice all about??? blur leh

Dear Bro shanghian,
Long time no see.
If is very difficult to demonstrate lah.
First of all, I don have a NTTL mm.
Secondly, I don have meal with mm in Shanghai.
Thirdly, the this NTTL mm must eat rice during the meal....

So you know the story now?

Cheers!