Married man did have sex for one year

[afterburn]

Originally Posted by airman

That begs the question; why got married in the 1st place?

perhaps her testosterone level is low?

imagine living with her for the rest of your life without sex.

I would certainly hope his wife's testosterone level is low !

[skihon]

Originally Posted by airman

That begs the question; why got married in the 1st place?

perhaps her testosterone level is low?

imagine living with her for the rest of your life without sex.

Dating time, when she came over to my place we almost every time will have sex. During those times i nvr think why im the one who always making the 1st move, where she just there to get serviced until we got married. Then i started thinking why am i the one who starts the move like im the one who have needs while she just enjoy the process whenever i need it.

[skihon]

Originally Posted by shitty_shit1982

Agree. Did bro do your fair share of housework? Do share her workload and make her fall in love again. Romantic outings and dinners will help

House chores, all i do besides her laundries. I cook, i wash, i mop/sweep/vacuum the floor, wash the toilets, clean the windows, buy groceries. She just sit there

[skihon]

Originally Posted by afterburn

I would certainly hope his wife's testosterone level is low !

Maybe or Could be. I have thought about it also

[airman]

Originally Posted by skihon

Maybe or Could be. I have thought about it also

Better to get her diagnosed with a blood test.

I did not know I had very low testosterone for the longest time when I viewed sex as a chore rather than an enjoyment.

After reading an article on the Straits Times on testosterone I decided to visit an urologist and given TRT every 3 months.

So far my sex life has improved

[Ivysaw]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

This is a wife's core duty. If she refused, tell her you will outsource. The ball's her court.

If you go outside eat and she finds out and wants a divorce then she will employ the woman's charter on you..at the end of the day it's lose lose for you..

[Ivysaw]

Originally Posted by junmin95

a few points to think about:

1. Sex time, is it usually you ask her go on top or you missionary? maybe she don't like the position.
   
2. are you / her overweight ? fat people less sex drive.
   
3. do you pew too fast / easily soft? pcc is one thing but when come to sex easily soft and pew too fast will make the wife give up on sex with the husband
   
4. do you engage foreplay? enough foreplay then can turn her on.

finally, you can bring her go couple trip to Japan. ask people help take care your kids for that period. Now Japan a lot of those APA hotels got adult videos free one in the tv. So just book one of those hotel, then buy the female aphrodisiac from sex shops. Ask her drink then watch a bit of JAV sure will have something even if she is low sex drive.

Wa like that is kinda like drugging your own wife sia..

[lipe]

bro skihon

Up you 20 points

You do all the hosuework. Seemed you are a house husband.

Originally Posted by skihon

House chores, all i do besides her laundries. I cook, i wash, i mop/sweep/vacuum the floor, wash the toilets, clean the windows, buy groceries. She just sit there

[Curious0932]

Originally Posted by skihon

Mine slightly different than yours. Mine after married she has no sex drive. After 1 year of me asking for sex. I give up and sticks to masturbating. Talked to her a few times but no reply for her, so i been masturbating for about 4years tru out my marriage.

I feel u bro. Just masturbating is not enough. Go for some massage with HJ or FJ once in a while. This is not cheating. This is for your sexual needs. U pay for the services they provide.

[mrpickles1996]

Is she just gave birth or what? Usually women can also have hormonal problems. Some tips might be:
watch porn together
have alone time without the kids, wifey go into mom mode when around kids.
you need to find the way to make her slutty personality alive again.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by skihon

House chores, all i do besides her laundries. I cook, i wash, i mop/sweep/vacuum the floor, wash the toilets, clean the windows, buy groceries. She just sit there

She will be getting dementia soon or in the early stage now.

You have to take care of feeding her soon.

HAHAHA.

[MaoSanWang]

Originally Posted by Curious0932

hi all, have anyone encounter this situation ? my partner and I are in my 30s. got children. we did bath together sometimes, but she dont allow any sex. So i masturbate in front of her lor.

I got a high sex drive, everyday i masturbated to release my sperms. I dont know why she lost interest in sex or intimacy.

She is not cheating for sure as she always stay at home.

i was wondering how she satisfy her cravings. I bought a dildo, but she did not use it, saying not nice to play. I'm also so confused.

I did bought some male masturbater but feeling not nice.

can some lady expert here tell me what is happening to her ?

In theory, if one enjoyed the experience, one will look forward to it again.
Did your wife get orgasm during sex with u?
Do u know what turns her on?
Do u know her sensitive areas?
Do u know her fav position?

Sometimes man just satisfy ourselves, turn around and snore after deed.
So as gf time still accomodate.
After pro-create, no need to sex liao since don't enjoy.