Do you think sex is important in marriage?

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

If sex not important in marriage then how to have you as a human being to be TS here...

Well said ...where's TS to respond to yr question ??

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Well said ...where's TS to respond to yr question ??

Easy to say many dowan kids but want fark without fuss...so where got pussies if no babies...

[naan1974]

if SEX is not important ,
then a girl marry you to be your maid eh?
then a man marry you to provide for you like yr father eh?
naivety at it best

[Akim3]

I don’t feel turned on by my wife anymore since so much better sex on SBF. We are still young and no children yet. I care about her but no lust liao she also didn’t take care of herself or get me in the mood. Is this headed for bad ending? And should stop before children come along?

[classicangus]

Originally Posted by Akim3

I don’t feel turned on by my wife anymore since so much better sex on SBF. We are still young and no children yet. I care about her but no lust liao she also didn’t take care of herself or get me in the mood. Is this headed for bad ending? And should stop before children come along?

after mop just divorce, what is the point of staying married? you want be one of those phuket angmos? even then you still need to earn enough for that in the future. but take my opinion with a pinch of salt, i'm not married or have lived long enough to hear enough stories

[newswing]

It's important! But once married and u have kids, u start to prioritize your kids and your career instead of your own well beings.
I think whatever life stage u are in, your mental health is important.
Your health, career, sex and marriage etc
If u don't take care or your partner needs, what's going to happen?
If u spend all your
money on your child education like going to enrichment classes every weekend, are they happy?

For some single women or men out there, don't be naive!
There's gonna be temptation, if u don't wanna fall into that watch porn and masturbate, go to a sex shop and get a toy!
I bet your life will change once u have it!

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Akim3

I don’t feel turned on by my wife anymore since so much better sex on SBF. We are still young and no children yet. I care about her but no lust liao she also didn’t take care of herself or get me in the mood. Is this headed for bad ending? And should stop before children come along?

The highlighted text seems to be a common issue shared among married guys who comes out to chiong.

There doesn't seem to be a thread on this either.

The common reply from what I have read is eat outside and be a good husband at home.

If you are seeking more replies and alternative solutions, could probably start a New Thread on this.

[yowtf]

Definitely an act to keep a couple close through physical touches and increase mental bond.

[junmin95]

Originally Posted by mikestc

Hi all
Seeking some opinions here..
Do you all think having sex is important in a marriage? If so, how often?

I heard about alot of sexless marriage lately... so its this an issue/problems in marriage?

Discuss here..

if no sex, then find professional service lor.

sex is definitely important but not the most important. most important is that the family bonds stay together.

husband can go out play, wife can go out eat, but end of day, must remember come home and harmonious to have good and long marriage union.

[sgjoey]

Sex is nature's way of getting the species to reproduce. It is overwhelmingly on our minds in our younger days.

Marriage is the way for humans to have sex, reproduce and start a family. It's not the only way. Some societies have evolved such that marriage is not necessary for people to have sex and even start families.

Time changes everything, including people. One needs to be extremely lucky if, over the years, a couple remains totally sexually compatible.

Sex workers is society's method of dealing with the problem of sexual ennui between couples. There are other ways like having affairs, but sex workers definitely play an important role in most communities. They should be more respected than they are.

[gilagila100]

Originally Posted by mikestc

Hi all
Seeking some opinions here..
Do you all think having sex is important in a marriage? If so, how often?

I heard about alot of sexless marriage lately... so its this an issue/problems in marriage?

Discuss here..

Sex is important until either one party thinks it's not.

Imagine this, you have a wife who cooks, looks after the kids, do housework and look after your parents, but at the end of the day, just no longer in the mood for any sexual activities.

Would you want to divorce her ? Imagine how to explain to your parents, in-laws, kids, family members and friends ? She no let me f**k, therefore I asked her to f**k off ?

So again, sex is important until it is not.

[Shogun456]

I think all forms of intimacy is important to keep up in a marriage, be it hugging, kissing which should happen frequently. Sex also means the physical attraction between 2 parties, however, with kids and all, it is still important to take time out just for the both of you to keep the marriage alive.

[WinterMelonTree]

Marriage without sex is like living, but instead of eating. You sustain yourself by doing glucose drip.

Sure you'll live, but you might as well get it over with.

[Chua Soi Lek]

Originally Posted by mikestc

Hi all
Seeking some opinions here..
Do you all think having sex is important in a marriage? If so, how often?

I heard about alot of sexless marriage lately... so its this an issue/problems in marriage?

Discuss here..

School holidays again ? ��

haha wat u want to discuss ? Gotta write an essay ?

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Shogun456

I think all forms of intimacy is important to keep up in a marriage, be it hugging, kissing which should happen frequently. Sex also means the physical attraction between 2 parties, however, with kids and all, it is still important to take time out just for the both of you to keep the marriage alive.

Well said bro...fully agree with wat u said abv