No longer interested in OC

[humpcheepang]

Originally Posted by pga69

WL main bulk of business come from married men - hahahah.

We are the ppl whom bring up the economy! WL & FL come and fill our fantasies, and we pay. The tourist rate goes up, hotel rooms fill rate goes up, more jobs are secured, and GST rate goes up too

Originally Posted by Peregrine

Bro how old r u??Even u don't want,doesn't mean ur wife too.....I too abit bored with my wife but i still make at least once a week with her and yet she still complain alot......

Agree wif u, how can so long no make love with wifey ...

[wanker10]

Most importantly, it's the love that bond husband & wife together & that will make you enjoy each other company including sex. Although sometime you will find a bit stale making out with wife whom has grown old or waywards but the thought of seeing them enjoying the lovemaking session & being able to make them feel loved is also a good stimulant in maintaining the regular sexual activities.

Cheers!

[sensit32]

after i read abt most bros aft married they eat outside.as for mi jus on my com find those sexy jap or kor babes clips n pcc if CO dnt wan it.eating outside u might think jus eat n go but when u catch hiv or std how r u live on?or yr CO catches u eating outside yr family n kids how?u need a strong determination.i always rem back those times i get to know my gf(present wife)happy moments gone thur wit her,the day we marry n i wil feel well i got a gd wife n kids a happy family n i dnt bear to c destroy on my own hands.when i get old i wan to b wit my CO both white hair n enjoying sunset wit grandchildren running around playing then i know i live to the fullest n keep my marriage vows till the day i live.its hard to control yr SEX drive for guys i agree wit tat but it can stil be done no1 force a cow to drink water.aft u cum think back jus only a human wit different face n figure all u need jus a release aft tat back to yr normal self.yr CO willing to bear yr kids figure change all bcos for U.if u watch how women giving birth u wil think twice how much yr CO done for u.

[David_Ginola]

Originally Posted by MG69

......but her bbbj is still very good so now i only like that from her.......

any bro have the same prob?

I guess is pretty normal...me too having the same problem.....is this an alarm sound? Or is telling us to look for other side dishes???

cheers

[Sevin]

i guess married men or all men have the same problem... when they can have it easily.. they tend to be not so easily satisfied. But then come to think back on it... OC at times can be boring... those magz tell u role play etc.. only applies to couples no kids yet.. if have liao role play = to see who can go to sleep faster...

ECAs are a good form of letting out the stress. But must remember to go home la... else wife and kids at home wait not so nice.

Also i think its impt to have ECA... why i say so.. Not to release the stress or crappy reasons... we need to maintain our charm constantly... So as to be able to handle any shitz that comes along..

[rh8611]

Originally Posted by Niceman

if the main course abit boring, try eat full during appertizer and desert

haha good one!! Agreed!!

[Qimonda]

In my case, OC's not interested . So, I got no choice but to eat out.

[Freman]

Originally Posted by darrendon

Bro,

Everyone of us will grow old one day. Of course our body will change with time as well. Be it fatter, skinner, shorter etc. Not to be rude to you or whatever but take a look at yourself in the mirror as well. I am sure your body or looks have changed over years too.

As of scolding your kids, I think you should be proud of your wife that she is doing a good job in educating both of your kids. Think about it. Who will like to scold fiercely like a bitch. She is doing that all because of your little ones.

Of course I do not deny that guys are visual animals but think of it. Her body changed is also because of you. She sacrifices her own body because she wants to bear your kids.

wow bro,

say until so understanding, then why are you here ?

[Guy_n29]

I only have one time each week with OC.. if she got period.. that week is off.. so.. probably only 3 to 4 times a week, same style, same positions...

Same as other bro.. she don't seem very keen on sex nowaday with all those work and children stress...

Have to PCC daily and sometime ECA.. so sad.. that should not be the life of a married man...

I don't cum easily with OC, but with GFs, no problem ... but still die die must cum with OC, else she say I tao jia outside ...

[tamtam]

For my case, OC is simply lazy and gave all excuses, so i told her if i stray, it's her fault....then it improves slightly, and starts to tapers back to her old self again.

So i sort of given up hope on our sex life, resort to ECAs outside. I truly believe alot of bro have the same problem as me. Other than a few girl friends i had before marriage, i have not patronised any commerial sex services till the age of 38. I still think it's my wife's fault for encouraging me to eat out.

With our society going toward world class status, coupled with the W.charters to protect women, how about us Men? Worked so hard to bring income back for family, and at the end of the day CB door shut, cannot use...

If they can set up casino and another dept to educate gambling problems, then why not the W.charter to do the same, protect women as usual, set up an educational dept for them to stress the importance of satisfying their own men.

Alot of women failed to understand that the sex part after marraige is as important as our daily routine of eating, bathing, working....

So to cut my story short, i told her " If you kept your CB shut, then you might as well keep your mouth shut too !!!"

I don't give a damn now a days, just bring back income and concentrate for my kids. Now the good part is no noise around my ears

I'll just do what i need to for myself, have fun when the urge comes...

cheers

[owen10]

i emphatise with yr situation bro. altho myslf not married, i have got many friends who face d same prob. some marriages had broken up cos d husbands had grown tired of d OC n looked outside for mistress. in many cases, it's bcos of d CHILD tt d couple is able to save a marriage. it's sad when a marriage is broken up; i cant offer much advice but sugg u may want to go for some marriage counselling. or mayb try to hint yr wife to do somethg abt her body (dun tell her direct to hurt her lah ... mayb can even buy her some vouchers fr Beauty Centres but tell her u got them fr some frens).

(i havent got time to read d views fr d other bros in this thread so some views may sound like a repetition.)

[heatingup]

Originally Posted by tamtam

So to cut my story short, i told her " If you kept your CB shut, then you might as well keep your mouth shut too !!!"

I'll just do what i need to for myself, have fun when the urge comes...

cheers

Bro, how I wish I can tell my OC that sentence without any repercussions.

I am closer to my hands than my wife regarding sex, i.e., rejected often and so have to DIY.

[alba]

There are 101 ways to cook a dead fish provided you really know how to sustain the best taste for it.