How do you know if a girlfriend is a wife material? Is pre-nup a dealbreaker for you?

[bonkhq69]

she sounds intimidating to me...

[Intltuk]

TS, ur GF knows what she wants.........do u??

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by Intltuk

TS, ur GF knows what she wants.........do u??

This old heart of mine just want someone to love & care for me.

[adamsy]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

This old heart of mine just want someone to love & care for me.

bro, sorry, i don't mean to be intrusive

I am around same age as you. I have been following your thread for sometime and is just wondering if you could help me.

I remember that you have mentioned that you do not have much assets nor savings to boot you up. I have noticed you mentioned that you are capable of finding a better girl than her.

So what strategy do you have exactly when you are nearing 40, no assets, no savings to attract women?

Won't women just brand us off as uncle at this age and reject us?

Do you have any special tips or abilities to attract women?

[Intltuk]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

This old heart of mine just want someone to love & care for me.

Most of us also like someone to love and care for us . Question is, do u think both of u are a good fit? Can u accept her for who she is? What's bothering today will not go away unless you have work it with her. No marriage is perfect; it's just a question of compromises that both of u can live with.

There are many factors in making a successful relationship, with respect and trust among them.

Posting in here means u've doubts, work it out with her. Only can decide whether u can move forward in the relationship. Good luck.

[drjones]

Originally Posted by Intltuk

Most of us also like someone to love and care for us . Question is, do u think both of u are a good fit? Can u accept her for who she is? What's bothering today will not go away unless you have work it with her. No marriage is perfect; it's just a question of compromises that both of u can live with.

There are many factors in making a successful relationship, with respect and trust among them.

Posting in here means u've doubts, work it out with her. Only can decide whether u can move forward in the relationship. Good luck.

i think TS already has an idea of what he wants

[nicta]

if so early on your gf can already be rude and cold to you, imagine when you're married for 1 or 2 years..

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by adamsy

bro, sorry, i don't mean to be intrusive

I am around same age as you. I have been following your thread for sometime and is just wondering if you could help me.

I remember that you have mentioned that you do not have much assets nor savings to boot you up. I have noticed you mentioned that you are capable of finding a better girl than her.

So what strategy do you have exactly when you are nearing 40, no assets, no savings to attract women?

Won't women just brand us off as uncle at this age and reject us?

Do you have any special tips or abilities to attract women?

Well, in a relationship there's always a trade-off between the two parties. What we are lacking in some areas, we should find ways to compensate them with another aspect in our life.

Rich old uncles can't compete against young men using their aging looks, so they drive Porsche/Lamborghinis instead.

For my case, I think the only reason she's still staying with me is because she has not been able to find someone else better than me. And in some ways, her introvert personality might have a lot to do with it since she doesn't feel comfortable being around new people. In my opinion, if she has been a lot friendlier, I am sure she would have no problem finding other men.

I can not speak for other men/women dynamics, as different men & women may be attracted to different things. I remember there's this hot/super-dangerous girl I met, too bad she only likes bald men.

Stuffs about me/my background/my personality that maybe of interest to my girlfriend, might not necessarily be attractive to a different woman. Perhaps that's why it's called a 'match'?

One thing I do know about my self, is that I am an excellent conversationalist on many topics, open minded, and somehow capable of letting people showing their true self. The most difficult part of the process for me is to learn when to shut up. hahahaha

Having a casual/playful/respectful demeanor in your ways of having a conversation usually helps to get the woman off their guard.

In my opinion, first impressions do count but not final. The most difficult part is to get them to agree to date you for the first time. I can not put more emphasis on how important my text-writing skill is in landing my first dates.

I am somewhat lucky that I had years of practicing my texting skill during those chat days on mIRC. But that's an entire different topic.

Good luck!!

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by nicta

if so early on your gf can already be rude and cold to you, imagine when you're married for 1 or 2 years..

You are right, my mom & dad also think the same.

However, things have improved, she has become a lot more gentle and sweeter towards me.

[Jimmyboss]

try living together for a while first is the best to see her true color

[elitez]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

Well, in a relationship there's always a trade-off between the two parties. What we are lacking in some areas, we should find ways to compensate them with another aspect in our life.

Rich old uncles can't compete against young men using their aging looks, so they drive Porsche/Lamborghinis instead.

For my case, I think the only reason she's still staying with me is because she has not been able to find someone else better than me. And in some ways, her introvert personality might have a lot to do with it since she doesn't feel comfortable being around new people. In my opinion, if she has been a lot friendlier, I am sure she would have no problem finding other men.

I can not speak for other men/women dynamics, as different men & women may be attracted to different things. I remember there's this hot/super-dangerous girl I met, too bad she only likes bald men.

Stuffs about me/my background/my personality that maybe of interest to my girlfriend, might not necessarily be attractive to a different woman. Perhaps that's why it's called a 'match'?

One thing I do know about my self, is that I am an excellent conversationalist on many topics, open minded, and somehow capable of letting people showing their true self. The most difficult part of the process for me is to learn when to shut up. hahahaha

Having a casual/playful/respectful demeanor in your ways of having a conversation usually helps to get the woman off their guard.

In my opinion, first impressions do count but not final. The most difficult part is to get them to agree to date you for the first time. I can not put more emphasis on how important my text-writing skill is in landing my first dates.

I am somewhat lucky that I had years of practicing my texting skill during those chat days on mIRC. But that's an entire different topic.

Good luck!!

bro, so in a way, you are considered as a pick up girl expert? must share your tips

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by elitez

bro, so in a way, you are considered as a pick up girl expert? must share your tips

I am definitely not a pick-up girl expert as I never managed to randomly select someone on the street/club/social place and get lucky or anything. I want to learn as well heh~

If I were that good, surely I wouldn't be wasting time here than banging real women out there? hahahaha

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by Jimmyboss

try living together for a while first is the best to see her true color

Me and her are really old fashioned people, so this kind of arrangement is definitely out of the picture. Her parents would probably kill her. hahahaha

I find that the longer a couple stay living together without marriage vows, the less likely they are to get married.

[bonkhq69]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

Me and her are really old fashioned people, so this kind of arrangement is definitely out of the picture. Her parents would probably kill her. hahahaha

I find that the longer a couple stay living together without marriage vows, the less likely they are to get married.

bro i wish that you have the best for you and her, good luck

[happywoody]

it's not easy for a couple to handle this imbalance of power.
the woman seems much more mature and if she's the more successful, it gets even tougher.

they say love conquers all ... but in this case, is the love strong enough?