What will you do to that man who cheat on your wife if you know who he is. - Page 3

nickharold · #31 31-10-2014, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Rocode

Hi Ts, (From Bro To Bro Ah)

U Treasure The relationship/marriage?

Then talk It Out. Find A Solution.

OR

If She Disgusts You..

Hire PI, Gather Evidence, Black & White. Divorce Her. Clearly She thinks The Other Guy Can Satisfy Her Needs, Better Then You.

Why? Cause You deserve Better Then SCUM.

You Have No Kids. No Strings. Plenty Of Ladies Out There.

Best Regards
Rocode

Think Bro Rocode made it rather clear. TS, you really need to know what you want right now la. At least in a sense, if you do choose the divorce route since you have lost all respect for the woman, at least you have no kids, so in a way, I guess no one else suffers.

Settle this in a manly manner though. Anger and hatred is definitely going through you right now, but don't let it take over unless you're gonna humtum him. Think through it logically and calmly. And most importantly, collect evidence if you really do divorce. Whichever, wish you the best.

heye · #32 31-10-2014, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jackson3

who women nowadays so cruel de

bro i had gone thru it.
All bullshit , woman sometimes also wanna play.
like many had advice you no point goin after dat guy.
I been betray more than once.
I knw maybe now u are goin thru wat i had been thru trying to salvage the marriage.
I did too but for me it didnt work out i cant forget same incident and i dunno how to face the world.
When i let her go it turns out to be more relax for me.
No more worries she will betray me again.
i take 2 weeks to accept the fact and i am married with kids.

I also found out she betray me with 5 guys for short term relationship.
Crap and bullshit if she tinks i am not good enuff then divorce me
wat is the excuse i wanna be with u , u take care of the family
when u nv regret at all wat u did.

In our time ppl are getting more and more self centre and not tink of family as a whole. I learn my lesson althou this is too harsh.
I had learn to love myself more.

Curly Fries · #33 31-10-2014, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Since the dawn of mankind, nothing has ever been achieved by talking to women because nothing a man says ever registers with the opposite sex the way it was intended.

Attempting to be logical and reasonable only makes things worse.

This is the BEST TRUTH I've heard !
Amen !

jackson3 · #34 31-10-2014, 05:16 PM

female nowadays all so cruel de........... once a women change in character<-------------------------------HO SEH LIAO LA

wa81 · #35 02-11-2014, 09:24 AM

I guess some bros had given quality advice to you. Just my thoughts...

First you have to do a deep reflection and ask yourself, do you still love your wife and willing to forgive her for what she had done? What done cannot be undone, the damage, the scar will be there for a long time. But times do heal, just that it will take a long while.

Secondly, we can totally blame the guy for what he done but put yourself in his shoes, he may not be wrong if the feelings are mutual. IMO, its the lady who is more wrong for giving in to her temptations so going back to first point, do you love her enough to forgive her?

Thirdly, you do have to protect yourself. Gather whatever evidence and prepare for the worst. This is just to be objective. Going separate ways is not
hard, its whether is it a ugly process or a peaceful split.

Lastly, splitting would be the last option, you can go for marriage counselling if both are still willing to give each other a chance. Its about just finding that 10-15 mins of each others time, sit down in a comfy place, your living room after dinner, and just start that first sentence, taking the first step to open the mouth is the hardest ever, but just have the courage to say it out. You are husband and wife to start with.

What is not desirable most is letting anger and jealousy getting into your head. To answer to your question on what to do to that man, to have the courage to tell him to take good care of your ex-wife when the time arises. Take care bro.

joscklee · #36 02-11-2014, 03:25 PM

TS

how about BBQ ur wife lover's ku ku jiao

LeeHsienLoong · #37 02-11-2014, 03:35 PM

On a more serious note, what is the point?
The wife is screwing around for a reason.
Similar to us guys who screw around for many reasons too despite being married.

arsenal_84 · #38 03-11-2014, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Since the dawn of mankind, nothing has ever been achieved by talking to women because nothing a man says ever registers with the opposite sex the way it was intended.

Attempting to be logical and reasonable only makes things worse.

golden words of wisdom

ClownoRama · #39 05-11-2014, 05:23 AM

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Originally Posted by arsenal_84

golden words of wisdom

Very true indeed

Megatronzombie · #40 05-11-2014, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by ClownoRama

Very true indeed

Totally agreed with boss sammy

MIFAcafe · #41 05-11-2014, 04:40 PM

Learn so much here......

Should open a school and name it after boss.

Quote:

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Since the dawn of mankind, nothing has ever been achieved by talking to women because nothing a man says ever registers with the opposite sex the way it was intended.

Attempting to be logical and reasonable only makes things worse.

MIFAcafe · #42 05-11-2014, 04:43 PM

Getting a new wife?

Is it......

Jumping out of pan and go into the fire.

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Originally Posted by porscheclub

After doing all those & you're still alive without getting caught then go find yourself a new life.

Well, they have already told you the civilised Singaporean ways so choose wisely.

GreenGiraffe · #43 06-11-2014, 02:50 AM

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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Learn so much here......

Should open a school and name it after boss.

Hahaha,

jasonlianghs · #44 06-11-2014, 04:52 PM

Thank you all for the advices and jokes.

Finally managed to get photos of them and have tapped some conversation between them.

Now just thinking of what to do.....
it seems like i can't let go of her. She still thinks that i dun know anything.

anyone knows if i get divorce with evidence of her infidelity, is she still able to claim anything from me? Like my assets, money and house ...?

Additionally the car that i drive was previously purchase under her name, and hers under my name.

Any experience bro knows how do i go about?
Will be meeting a lawyer on monday. Brain is telling me to just go ahead and divorce, heart is pulling me back.

urgg · #45 07-11-2014, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by jasonlianghs

Thank you all for the advices and jokes.

Finally managed to get photos of them and have tapped some conversation between them.

Now just thinking of what to do.....
it seems like i can't let go of her. She still thinks that i dun know anything.

anyone knows if i get divorce with evidence of her infidelity, is she still able to claim anything from me? Like my assets, money and house ...?

Additionally the car that i drive was previously purchase under her name, and hers under my name.

Any experience bro knows how do i go about?
Will be meeting a lawyer on monday. Brain is telling me to just go ahead and divorce, heart is pulling me back.

Bro, I sympathise with your situation. Can understand the suffering and pain you are going through. My advice to you is divorce. I duno much about the law governing divorce. I think you wun lose out since you got evidence..

What done is done. There is one old saying, quoted from TV drama. "when a vase breaks, no matter how you mend it, the cracks will still be there.."