Looking for a company

[kazaf86]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

The land of down underrrr.

Frankly though, the bros who have issues with your title have good reason to. Go read up on fwb relationships la it's exactly what you're seeking~

sorry for being such a newb...
guess im just desperate in looking for a companion.

[kazaf86]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

His title already salah !

a first I thought he's looking for a job .

1)looking for company

2)looking for a companion

ok, my bad...

[onlyhuman]

Originally Posted by kazaf86

sorry for being such a newb...
guess im just desperate in looking for a companion.

U are not the only one...there are thousands Sbf members desperate too.

Good luck.

Onlyhuman

[PPGirl]

AFF ( Adult friend Finder) would be a better choice for u rather to find here.

Originally Posted by kazaf86

so yeah, hopefully some girls will read this thread and believe what i say, and then pm me.
.

hmm giving u benefit of doubt..

Originally Posted by kazaf86

but still, am posting here to increase my chance of knowing someone.

Y not join d outings here organised by few others? Since in ur other thread u say u r a loner n hard to meet up with girls.
Outings can let u know some others too n not only girls ..then u wont feel bored n lonely.
Just like me, i know my other half thru group outings too

[Rocode]

Originally Posted by kazaf86

sorry for being such a newb...
guess im just desperate in looking for a companion.

Cheer Up..

[kazaf86]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

The land of down underrrr.

Frankly though, the bros who have issues with your title have good reason to. Go read up on fwb relationships la it's exactly what you're seeking~

this might not makes any sense to anyone here, but the reason i dont use the word FWB, is because FWB relationship is more on two adult having fun (sex) together without strings attached.

on one hand, i would really love that to happen. but yet, i think that might not be exactly what i want. As i said before, i am looking for something more on the emotional side, rather than physical.

not to say im looking for a lover here. but just someone who to spend time together. someone who i have no worries telling all the problem im facing in my daily life. and i dont mind if she would share the same topics with me too, or any other topic as a matter of fact.

whether the relationship would proceed into something sexual, that'll totally be up to her, and the mutual understanding between the two of us...

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by kazaf86

not to say im looking for a lover here. but just someone who to spend time together. someone who i have no worries telling all the problem im facing in my daily life. and i dont mind if she would share the same topics with me too, or any other topic as a matter of fact.

Hmm.. since you know that this is a sex forum, why are you posting here when you are looking for a soulmate rather than a fb?

Don't you think you will stand a better chance at other popular matchmaking websites like singaporecupid.com?

[kazaf86]

Originally Posted by yangguo

Hmm.. since you know that this is a sex forum, why are you posting here when you are looking for a soulmate rather than a fb?

Don't you think you will stand a better chance at other popular matchmaking websites like singaporecupid.com?

partly because most of the dating sites requires you to pay a certain amount of money, just to let you communicate with their members, which you have no idea whether or not he/she exist, or might just be a dude hiding behind a comp trying to screw up your life?

whereas here, it's a free forum, where every member are free to speak up.

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by kazaf86

whereas here, it's a free forum, where every member are free to speak up.

Tiagong you are wrong wor...
Watch your back(side)!

[prettymannequin]

Originally Posted by kazaf86

this might not makes any sense to anyone here, but the reason i dont use the word FWB, is because FWB relationship is more on two adult having fun (sex) together without strings attached.

on one hand, i would really love that to happen. but yet, i think that might not be exactly what i want. As i said before, i am looking for something more on the emotional side, rather than physical.

not to say im looking for a lover here. but just someone who to spend time together. someone who i have no worries telling all the problem im facing in my daily life. and i dont mind if she would share the same topics with me too, or any other topic as a matter of fact.

whether the relationship would proceed into something sexual, that'll totally be up to her, and the mutual understanding between the two of us...

Glad you clarified! I'm happy agreeing to disagree, but

What you described here "two adults having sex without strings attached" sounds more like fuck buddies to me, while what you're looking for-- someone to hang out with, with the benefit of sex-- sounds closer to fwbs.

Just a headsup because the culture here tends to pigeonhole, but at least now you know why I'm recommending you to call it fwb instead. And I think ppgirl has wonderful suggestions you could consider. Cheers!

[kazaf86]

Originally Posted by PPGirl

Y not join d outings here organised by few others? Since in ur other thread u say u r a loner n hard to meet up with girls.
Outings can let u know some others too n not only girls ..then u wont feel bored n lonely.
Just like me, i know my other half thru group outings too

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

Glad you clarified! I'm happy agreeing to disagree, but

What you described here "two adults having sex without strings attached" sounds more like fuck buddies to me, while what you're looking for-- someone to hang out with, with the benefit of sex-- sounds closer to fwbs.

Just a headsup because the culture here tends to pigeonhole, but at least now you know why I'm recommending you to call it fwb instead. And I think ppgirl has wonderful suggestions you could consider. Cheers!

not that i didnt try joining outings, did once, with a few bros in a chatroom of one of the stable. feels abit awkward... as in, im not a local, and sometimes they speak dialects which i have no idea what they are talking about...

and coffee with those few bros near GL, before strolling the streets there, just feels... weird...

im those kind of people who are more comfortable meeting other peoples one to one, rather than hanging out with a whole bunch of people who i dont know....

[PPGirl]

Originally Posted by kazaf86

not that i didnt try joining outings, did once, with a few bros in a chatroom of one of the stable. feels abit awkward... as in, im not a local, and sometimes they speak dialects which i have no idea what they are talking about...

and coffee with those few bros near GL, before strolling the streets there, just feels... weird...

im those kind of people who are more comfortable meeting other peoples one to one, rather than hanging out with a whole bunch of people who i dont know....

Those outings u went seem more like all guys.
What i mean is here do have outings for mixture of girls n guys.
Friends started off as strangers too. Maybe u can try go more of this type of outings. Actually 1 to 1 there is a con.. if 1 or both party lack of topic to chat.. then its like u look at her n she look at u. Whereas outing u can mingle ard. But of coz its ur choice. Just a suggestion only.

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

What you described here "two adults having sex without strings attached" sounds more like fuck buddies to me, while what you're looking for-- someone to hang out with, with the benefit of sex-- sounds closer to fwbs.

Agree with PM. Fwb more like fuck buddy but u can still date this buddy out for movies, coffee etc (more like companionship)

[kazaf86]

Originally Posted by PPGirl

Those outings u went seem more like all guys.
What i mean is here do have outings for mixture of girls n guys.
Friends started off as strangers too. Maybe u can try go more of this type of outings. Actually 1 to 1 there is a con.. if 1 or both party lack of topic to chat.. then its like u look at her n she look at u. Whereas outing u can mingle ard. But of coz its ur choice. Just a suggestion only.

well, honestly, its the fact that i'm surrounded by strangers that makes me uncomfortable. As i mentioned on my other post, im more of a introvert.

that is why im starting a thread here, so as we could start chatting online first, before actually meeting up...

[Johnbass]

TS u also weird lor...
Shouldn't you be going out with friends?
Why go outing with a bunch of guys... strangers somemore...
You "bro" them, they may not "bro" you...

You may want to join the nearest Community Centre...
They always have activities for new citizens/foreigners...
But dunno got girls anot... Usually Aunties a lot.
(No wonder all the Uncles are here)

[PaPaSm00th]

Originally Posted by kazaf86

well, honestly, its the fact that i'm surrounded by strangers that makes me uncomfortable. As i mentioned on my other post, im more of a introvert.

that is why im starting a thread here, so as we could start chatting online first, before actually meeting up...

Cheer Up TS. Wish you the best of luck.
But try going out to the outings organise here, it will surely be helpful. Take your time and don't rush things.