a lingering question on my mind - Page 3

genji81 · #31 10-06-2014, 01:35 PM

Well is like that , once i knew a girl that is actually married to a NS guy for almost 4 yr now , never had sex with her because the husband feels that he don't want to have a baby when he don't even have a proper job or career , because of how she was before she met her husband , she was actually having sex quite frequently with her ex and fwb when she was single , she was thinking of even if the husband was right in his mind to not have sex with her for so long(you guys can imagine how it feels like)
So of course i became the "good guy" to comfort her and so on and eventually get to release the urge inside of her , and now she is a happier person. We are actually doing a good deed to their marriage :

onlyhuman · #32 10-06-2014, 01:49 PM

Eh I am also wondering since most guys here loved the kink of upping or have an affair with a married lady.
Why not hor...if let ur wives out and have a affair and see what are ur reactions.

Maybe your sex and marriage life will improved just like what you guys said here

Onlyhuman

unsung80 · #33 10-06-2014, 02:09 PM

If man can have affair with another woman, of coz woman can have affair if she is not happy in anyway of her marriage life. Put conservative society aside, and insert equality between men and women. For both parties if is cheap thrill is all right. As long married man and woman goes back to their family end of the day.

For a man to bed married woman, man would feel a sense of achievement to conquer another man's wife. Is not the man force a married woman to bed, but she is also a willing party to sleep with him.

welk · #34 10-06-2014, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by onlyhuman

Eh I am also wondering since most guys here loved the kink of upping or have an affair with a married lady.
Why not hor...if let ur wives out and have a affair and see what are ur reactions.

Maybe your sex and marriage life will improved just like what you guys said here

Onlyhuman

Bro, do u like a handjob?

Now, do u like giving a handjob?

The reasoning is same, human r all selfish beings, n u r Onlyhuman

Hornydieme · #35 10-06-2014, 02:27 PM

I feel it takes 2 hands to clap! Having sex with someone that are married is not a crime under law! For me, I have had twice having sex with married woman. It's quite exciting tho. I feel as long as both are adult enough to let the affair under control, it should be good. There must be reasons that people are having sex with people other than their spouse! Not having enough from partner due to many reasons like medical reasons, stress from work or simply too use to the normal routine.
And for those that feel it's not right to have sex with married personal, I'm sry. There could be a dark secret that you never till the day we leave this world. Just don't bother to find out. Come on, will your other half come home telling you, hey, I just laid my PA , or honey, my boss made me cum twice! Lol

newyorker88 · #36 10-06-2014, 02:37 PM

It is not only about sex, it is more of an intimacy that married woman would show to a loved one, be it hubby or a new lover. Of cos, dun get caught and always remember who is your hubby.

Remember, woman does leave tell tales when they go out for fun. Not only men does that. Make sure you cover up well.

Emotionally, or physically, both party can leave tell tale signs.

sadlonelyguyer · #37 10-06-2014, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by KellyNg

tks for the inputs.

different man have different need(s) different agenda(s).

so question, do u like/love/emotion for him?

WoShiMingXing · #38 10-06-2014, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Hornydieme

I feel it takes 2 hands to clap! Having sex with someone that are married is not a crime under law! For me, I have had twice having sex with married woman. It's quite exciting tho. I feel as long as both are adult enough to let the affair under control, it should be good. There must be reasons that people are having sex with people other than their spouse! Not having enough from partner due to many reasons like medical reasons, stress from work or simply too use to the normal routine.

No one would choose to have an affair outside if there's nothing wrong with their own marriage. This is what I believed.

firejalan · #39 11-06-2014, 04:24 AM

Can tell..?
Y chose to ve an affair w him..?
Man stray.. I understand 100%
Woman stray.. I don't understand fully..
coz for woman e more impt thing is like... Love...?
Then again.. maybe I m getting too old...fashion.
Anyway is extra thrill to bonk a married woman on her bed in her hse .
But nvr Eat n Shit at e same pl... No matter what...