Try not to fall in love with a WL

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by altw78

i also experienced the same thing as u.was cheated of a lot of money,a lot was borrowed money too.i personally feel tat now there is no luck with a wl.
fuck them and pay money and tats it.no feelings with them.come to think of it,i no longer believe in the line,nobody wants to be a wl willingly.come to think of it,why others can survive without being a fl?its all just an excuse.
dont get urself into all this unnecessary problems.theres so many complications.

Many cheongsters tends to forget what is our main purpose for visit a WL
Aren't we suppose to pay for the service but ended up develope an unusual relationship with them. Sorry to mentioned this...never ending stories

[altw78]

yap
the motto is fuck and forget

Originally Posted by Hasa Sas

Many cheongsters tends to forget what is our main purpose for visit a WL
Aren't we suppose to pay for the service but ended up develope an unusual relationship with them. Sorry to mentioned this...never ending stories

[DNAT]

Glad that we all know not to fall in love with a WL, otherwise the next '62 y.o. ah pek who both arms presented S$86,000 (sale proceeds of his HDB flat) to a 28 y.o. China gal (bak bak 1 somemore)' could be you.

[Big Sexy]

who is the first one who kenna con lay???? is it you or Rk huh???

Originally Posted by DNAT

otherwise the next '62 y.o. ah pek who both arms presented S$86,000 (sale proceeds of his HDB flat) to a 28 y.o. China gal (bak bak 1 somemore)' could be you.

[pterchew]

long distance love affair is not easy. if u think u cant trust her,
dont waste your time, go and know other girl n u will forget her.

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by morrissey1209

I have seen so many Samsters here talk about falling in love with Wls they have bonked that I feel I have to warn them about the dangers of doing such a thing.I guess this only happens with the freshies but you never know.

Let me just say this:While it is probably true that nobody wants to be a WL wilingly,every WL will have their own sob story to tell.Whether these stories are true or not,it's up to me to say.But let me ask you this,do you think somebody will say that their family is fine back in China and they're just doing this for extra money?You ever heard that story b4?

Wow! bro, you really opened my eyes on this leh... All the while I tot that although the WLs may not tell the truth, I really tot that they came to work as they wanted a better life (be it due to debts, family or whatever). Never did I tot that they came here to work because they might enjoy the work or tot that it was fun to "spread their" legs to all kinds of strangers.

Secondly,WLs treat you like a bf for a reason.They WANT u back.It is extra money,u can't deny that.Besides,what's there to lose treating u well?At most won't ever see u again,at best,u keep coming back to her.Whether they r true or not is not for me to say,there might be ones who genuinely might love you for who you are,not your money...but unless you have a way of telling,is it not better to be safe than sorry.

At least complete your lesson lah... please advise how to tell if non-WL love you for yourself and not money. Is it very much more obvious than WLs? Are we sure to be safe if it is a non-WL?

I do have a personal story to tell.I have a gf who's a WL.Ever since I got to know her,I have been giving her money on a regular basis...until now,she's wiped out my savings of $15,000 to leave me with less than $1,000 and I have borrowed over $10,000 for her (various reasons like her mum's operation,living expenses and fees to arrange for visas and passports...etc).Are you prepared to do something like this?Is there wisdom in such actions?

So you expect your "gf" to believe you when you tell her you love her? Just because you have given her some money? Just how did you meet your gf? Your first time engaging the services of a WL? Have you put yourself in her shoes? A guy who comes to patronised her services, and probably other WLs services before her... now wants to come to woo her... and tells her he loves her and is faithful to her.... you think she believes you?

Your advises to guys are probably what her friends advise her too. Whether the customers r true or not is not for them to say,there might be ones who genuinely might love you for who you are,not your body...but unless you have a way of telling, is it not better to be safe than sorry? So dig!

I have not seen her for several months now but we talk every two days on the phone.She wants to come over here but is having trouble getting her visa approved...or is it a lie?I have stopped sending her money of course...it's not as if I have any more money to send and thus far,she hasn't abandoned me as yet and says that she will help me repay my debt.It's still all talk because she has no means of income without coming here.And is her heart true?Even now I question it.

And she's back home also asking the same questions? Is your heart true? Will he really let me sell my body to help repay his debts? If he does, that would mean that he will also allow me to sell my body in the future if there is any financial problems. So does this guy really loves me? Even now she question it.

For all you freshies,ponder my story.Even if you like a WL,you are never sure whether she is similarly in love with you.Why put yourself through such a torment?

Thanks for the advice. Didn't know that if I like a non-WL, sure she'll be similarly in love with me. Definitely no torment.

And what about the money?I paid a $25,000 lesson and might not be out of it yet.I now have to service a $10,000 loan (with interest) through no fault of my own and have taken nothing in return.Is it worth it?Ask yourself that.

This lesson should be expanded leh... All guys, never give any woman even your wives any money, never buy anything for them, no houses, cars, etc. Everything should be in your name. Because you'll never know if your marriage will ever last. If it turns out a divorce, it will not be worth it, ask yourself that! It could be a $250,000 lesson!

There are plenty of good girls out there.Local or otherwise.One does not have to turn to a WL for a relationship.Go put an ad in a matchmaking website or something,join SDU,get your friends to intro girls...hell,go buy yourself a Viet wife.So many other ways to get a girl.

Yes! That's right! And guaranteed this way of finding a girl, the girl will surely be truthful to you! She'll truly love you! Your relationship will last forever! All divorce cases are with WLs only! No no need to worry!

KNN, one failed relationship, you already cannot eat, cannot sleep!

Haven't you ever wonder that most WLs while she may have "conned" many guys also marry a normal guy too? one she loves too? The question is "why that normal guy isn't you?"

[siamcutey]

I think thread title should change to MUST NOT FALL IN LOVE WITH A WL, rather than TRY.

Anyway, in the Channel 8 Drama Tong Xin Yuan, Le Yao who was portraying a China FL said, I come to Singapore to find money, not here to find Love.

Makes me wonder whether the script writers come Sammyboy to find some tips on this.

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[HuiGe3387]

Try not to fall in love with a WL ? I never imagine I'll do it since started to cheong more than 10 years ago. But I did, like love as first sight. And brought many good times and heartaches as well.

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by morrissey1209

I do have a personal story to tell.I have a gf who's a WL.Ever since I got to know her,I have been giving her money on a regular basis...until now,she's wiped out my savings of $15,000 to leave me with less than $1,000 and I have borrowed over $10,000 for her (various reasons like her mum's operation,living expenses and fees to arrange for visas and passports...etc).Are you prepared to do something like this?Is there wisdom in such actions?

If the WLs happen to be the eldest or sole breadwinner of the family.
there will be more headache regards the financial concern.
Support both parents, siblings school fees, grandparents if they are still around and raising a kid born out of wedlock. You have to make a bold decision whether to take it or leave it . You have to share her burden whereas yours is none of her concern.
How much are you willing to sacrifice in terms of emotional and financial
to a certain extend before it is too late to return.

[l3atu]

Originally Posted by altw78

yap
the motto is fuck and forget

I heard this motto many2 times from a few of my frens but still, they end up doing the opposite...its easy for us to say, but to put our quotes into pratice is harder.

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by l3atu

I heard this motto many2 times from a few of my frens but still, they end up doing the opposite...its easy for us to say, but to put our quotes into pratice is harder.

Most of us are taught the Do's and Dont's of life since year but at times the thrill of Don't's takes over...Such is life....

[sbfpolis]

Originally Posted by l3atu

I heard this motto many2 times from a few of my frens but still, they end up doing the opposite...its easy for us to say, but to put our quotes into pratice is harder.

The fcuk and forget motto is hard to enforce when "that" feeling hits you.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by l3atu

I heard this motto many2 times from a few of my frens but still, they end up doing the opposite...its easy for us to say, but to put our quotes into pratice is harder.

you scare when you withdraw CPF you will buy a house in Batam [to simpan cewek] har? .. lidat I keep your CPF for you .. ai mai?

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by sbfpolis

The fcuk and forget motto is hard to enforce when "that" feeling hits you.

Yes agree sometime we don't practise what we preached

but it only hit those who get emotional more easily.

Every human behave and react differently so those who are more

hard-hearted are safe. Some of my friend does not even follow the 3F

rule(not in their dictionary) and strangely they never get engaged with

the WLs...coz they are realistic.

Some people mental strength are weak. I'm not exception

[l3atu]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Most of us are taught the Do's and Dont's of life since year but at times the thrill of Don't's takes over...Such is life....

Human nature...