Heart broken....

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro, wat is a successful man?
A man who knows the distinctive line between FAMILY(Internal) and PLAY(external)

I am an extremely successful man.

[Forver]

cheer up cheer up

[cataramp]

you said you can't tell this situation to your friends or family..

obviously family cannot, you don't even have a single good friend that you can confide in no matter what problem it is?

time to reflect on yourself dude!

[hurts]

Originally Posted by see see only

Hahahaha ... since you posted a long sincere post .... hehehe let me try a long reply as wellllllll ......

Like most ppl say .... life is a journey … TS


Imagine life as taking MRT from Joo Koon station (start) to Pasir Ris station (end) … of cos your intended destination may be Pasir Ris station, but due to many factors you may end your journey at Bedok station instead (died prematurely ) or ended up change your mind to go to Changi Airport instead…. Or whatever......

However along the way, you found someone who is willing to travel with you to your destination. Sitting on your left (your wife), you guys enjoy each other company but maybe she felt asleep during this long journey and you felt lonely again.

Then at a certain station, another person (your mistress) sat on your right and start talking with you … both of you enjoy each other again with “your wife” sleeping by the side or maybe even wide awake jealous of the other.

But this lady on the right, is heading to Punggol. Due to your present, she decided to alight at Outram Park to change train to Punggol instead of Buona Vista. But she knew you are going to Pasir Ris station, not her intended destination. She may decide which interchange to alight that do not affect her journey much.

In another word, unless you decided to change your destination to go Punggol with her, the most you can keep her is up to Paya Lebar interchange before she "alights the train" from your life.

But if that's the case, changing train for her at Paya Lebar interchange instead, you are affecting her intended journey with the need to change more trains.

Therefore bro TS, let her go for her sake. She may even miss the opportunity to meet someone real nice going toward her intended destination.


Passengers come and go ... you can change your destination along the way to join her but to affect her journey or even yours ....... dont sound right.

which station I will see you? Good post

[jayson]

Hi Bros,

In response to some of the posts here, i have got friends that i can spill my heart to but i have got different answers, and thus trying to find answers here with people who share the same experience as me.

Thank you

[hurts]

Originally Posted by jayson

Hi Bros,

In response to some of the posts here, i have got friends that i can spill my heart to but i have got different answers, and thus trying to find answers here with people who share the same experience as me.

Thank you

You got different answer or just the answer that you wish to hear? Since you are not prepare to seek proper advice and already shut down from the start when you posted out for help I don't see the need helping you.

不是你无药可救而是你决绝得救。

[see see only]

Originally Posted by hurts

which station I will see you? Good post

Understand you're a sis.....

Thanks very much for your compliment ..... however can i "read" this as an invitation to date you ?

[hurts]

Originally Posted by see see only

Understand you're a sis.....

Thanks very much for your compliment ..... however can i "read" this as an invitation to date you ?

MRT date? sure.

[jayson]

hi,

The real question here is how to forget her and move on.

The answer I gotten from all are the same, family comes first and i agree strongly too. How to forget is the toughest thing....

The tittle of this forum is matters of the heart, I am trying to seek advice from someone who has experienced this before.

Having said all these, I have already made up my mind to stop thinking about her and concentrate in my business, even before writing. Time to move on!

Jayson

[hurts]

Originally Posted by jayson

hi,

The real question here is how to forget her and move on.

An idea strike my mind, maybe I shall give you the opportunity of the MRT date to you. So you and See See Only can go partor then you will move on and forget about her

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by jayson

hi,

The real question here is how to forget her and move on.

We read many books in our life.
So, after reading a book, do u shelve it up or carry it everywhere wif u?
The word here is MEMORY
She's just a part of the many memories now n many more to be acquired by u in ur many years ahead.
So question here is, like the book, u gonna carry it everywhere or u will treat it as a memory n shelve it in ur memory bank n move on?
Hurt, yes, emotional hurt, but when u feel so down, look positive, cos only when ur hurt, like now, means emotionally low, is when u can look +ve n know for a fact tat ur already on the road to recovery.
Moral of the story here is, keep holding on to ur hurt, u made urself stuck in time n prolong the hurt.
Understand the hurt, learn from it, n move on, u'll come out as a better more experienced, matured individual.
Welcome to growing up

[see see only]

Seems like you like straight forward ans ...

Originally Posted by jayson

The real question here is how to forget her and move on.

Now you guys are going seperate ways ... unless you decided to dump your wife and go with her ...

If not ......... just keep all the memories in a certain folder in your brain and cry or simle once a while your brain roam into that folder ...

Originally Posted by hurts

An idea strike my mind, maybe I shall give you the opportunity of the MRT date to you. So you and See See Only can go partor then you will move on and forget about her

Sis, I'm straight ...... and very straight .. ok

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

We read many books in our life.
So, after reading a book, do u shelve it up or carry it everywhere wif u?
The word here is MEMORY

Bro DYB,

It was harder than it seems ....

TS,

We can understand you are presently going through a little hard time to say "goodbye" forever to her .....

Judging from your joint date ... you're no longer a young boy ....

THEREFORE, i take it from here that you are shouting out loud .... in order to vent your frustration and your discomfort that you are going to be seperated from her ... and you no longer have the right to take care of her .....

Shout / scream as you like .... once you are done with such behaviour ... you should learn to let go and be ok liao ....

[hurts]

Originally Posted by see see only

Sis, I'm straight ...... and very straight .. ok

bro I'm striaght too and very striaght ok

Originally Posted by see see only

TS,

We can understand you are presently going through a little hard time to say "goodbye" forever to her .....

Judging from your joint date ... you're no longer a young boy ....

THEREFORE, i take it from here that you are shouting out loud .... in order to vent your frustration and your discomfort that you are going to be seperated from her ... and you no longer have the right to take care of her .....

Shout / scream as you like .... once you are done with such behaviour ... you should learn to let go and be ok liao ....

Should be easy for him to let go, recent there are fewer suicide case on falling out of love. More of bedok resevior suicide because of losing $$ in casino. He will be alright in no time or fall back to her weeks or months later

[DO_YOU_BJ]

We all, as adults, hv all gone thru some what the same episode or episodes in life.
Some end up destroyed forever, some went thru it gallantly n actually learnt a thing or 2 abt why it ended n also, how to improve themselves in future n also, how not to jump so deep after it all ends thus having withdrawal symptoms.
Yes, TS is upset abt it, clearly seen, my stance to TS is to learn from it n when there's a trough, it can't get any worse, and the only next thing he shud set his eyes on is the peak.
That is, unless he wants to stay in the trough
To move fwd, we hv to look ahead.
TS, u r trying to move fwd but ur head n eyes r looking back, how do u tink u can achieve tat?

[beetle]

now i am lost

who is sis

who is bro...

who is straight

who is otherwise