Would you marry someone who is not a virgin (honestly!)

[lament]

IMHO ..... Viginity is not an issue at all but the feelingsa matter ....

imagine this scenario, u in love with a gal so much.... one day she tells u she not a V then how ???? dump her ......

End of the day, sex is not everthing in a relationship .......but it only serves to enhance the relationship .....

[anakinsextalker]

Virgin? Find Secondary School girls I believe also not guarantee Virgin nowadays..

[tuckshop]

interesting concept

[rafa_benitez]

Alright guys.

The tribe has spoken.

Judging by the results of the 74 who did,

The majority (abt 75%) of the forum members here do not mind if their future wives lost their virginity to someone else besides them.

Out of this group, more than half (abt 43%) will accept this so long as there is only just "one other guy" besides him

The remaining quarter (abt 25%) hope that they will be the one who will do the honors of deflowering their future wives.

And out of this, a conservative minority (abt 11%) specified that they will only do so on the wedding nite itself

Clearly, love is much more than a piece of skin. Well done, guys.

If you have voted, thanks again for doing so!


Disclaimer: While this is no way representative of the mindset of Singaporean males in general, it is nonetheless a reflection of the views of the forum members here who have expressed their views on this matter.

[GuDuWangZhe]

dont think i will accept if she had more than 1 partner ... thats my opinion.

[lesnar]

I think everybody also wants a virgin. But no choice leh....where to find? haizzz....

interesting poll... make me want to make my 1st post...

i voted for the 3rd one like most ppl...
coz i am a wierd person that still believe in love... if i really like the person, i shldnt mind abt virginity....
but NO anabel girl for me... at least if the girl lost it to her ex still ok...

[JianXiu1978]

Dunno which one to vote. I will marry for Love in the first place, not sex.....

But, my comment is of no concern since I am still single!

[Tee-Muay]

That piece of skin represents her first intimate encounter (and the best she could give not in terms of sexual gratification) and the trust on her lover in overcoming the stigma created by society. While it may not be pragmatic in matrimony, failure to maintain it before marriage means she is 'used' or 'felt', emotionally and physically by someone. This is tantamounting to saying that your wife is a playtoy for the enjoyment of strangers.

Let me further point out that virginity or the hymen is still regard with value by men. Given that all things equal between two women except their innocence, I am willing to bet my last dime and my pants that the lady with the skin intact would be choosen.

[Tee-Muay]

Originally Posted by JianXiu1978

Dunno which one to vote. I will marry for Love in the first place, not sex.....

But, my comment is of no concern since I am still single!

Yes but when you awake from the dream and commitment crawls in......heehee.....

The truth is straight people will go for the opposite sex, for love not sex? Why someone with pussy for you?

[Tee-Muay]

Originally Posted by rafa_benitez

if their future wives lost their virginity to someone else besides them.

I wasnt aware that you can devirginize a girl two times.

[free]

Well, I ask myself "am I a virgin in the first place?" - No I am not. And I was no goody-two-shoes either. So what am I do demand/expect my wife to be a virgin in the first place?

Fact is I want someone who will love & cherish me for who I am, be faithful to me, even as I stop cheonging cos I love her and dun want to hurt her. Who she was and what she did in the past is exactly what it is - PAST. It does not contribute an iota to how I see her today or will see her tomorrow.

Same for me. I expect her to forgive my past (and she has) and know that I am no longer the person I was. We are only interested in who we were from the day we started dating, right thru today and who we will be in the future. And we are encouraged as we see ourselves making efforts to love each other more as the days go by.

[tengkokkok]

Originally Posted by Tee-Muay

I wasnt aware that you can devirginize a girl two times.

Bro Tee Muay

It's possible if that means the pussy and asshole.

[Tee-Muay]

Originally Posted by tengkokkok

Bro Tee Muay

It's possible if that means the pussy and asshole.

Do you mean any orifice will do? Mouth? Or how about a girl who hasnt been 'stretched to the limit', two cocks in a hole? Actually I havent found a porn movie having two cocks in the cunt, one occupying her rectum while giving a blowjob. Any local FL reading this may consider as I am willing to pay to watch it in real life.

[Tee-Muay]

Originally Posted by free

Well, I ask myself "am I a virgin in the first place?" - No I am not. And I was no goody-two-shoes either. So what am I do demand/expect my wife to be a virgin in the first place?

A lot of guys spent time listening to girls while the latter just got away with most things. I believe the question you have raised takes its root from feminist propaganda. They have EVERY right to demand from guys ; that guys need to take the tab, creating comfort and convenience for them, behave gentlemently, ladies first etc. But our appeal to them for meekness and self-respect; not whoring themselves off to any guys they are not married to; falls on deaf ears.

There are fundamental differences between a man and a lady hence they can never be equal in the sense of women living their sex life like men. Look at it this way, when a guy touches a woman, he's taking advantage of her in the eyes of the law and society but is that the same vice-versa?