even married women can't resist the pleasure of huge dicks...I totally lost faith in marriage in this modern globalised society.
Omg...I had this gut feeling that his wife is a bloody mess up person, guess I was right.
Looking at the way he phrase his story, I kinda thought that his wife had lost it.
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even married women can't resist the pleasure of huge dicks...I totally lost faith in marriage in this modern globalised society.
Omg...I had this gut feeling that his wife is a bloody mess up person, guess I was right.
Looking at the way he phrase his story, I kinda thought that his wife had lost it.
For a woman who sold her soul to lust...there can be no turning back for her.
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Has anyone considered marrying a woman who has no intention to have kids, who is crazy about sex as we are and is willing to go out with us to look for different sex partners?
That would solve a lot of the problems mentioned right?
firstly, when a guy wants to stray, they need no reason. there's only one reason, small head over big head.
secondly, the only reason i will ever stray is because my guy is sleeping behind me or his inability to satisfy my sexual needs regardless of the other guy is in a better league than him or not.
thirdly, after being through my past relationship, i realise one thing; honesty is the best policy. only being honest with each other, will you be able to gain trust and respect from your other half. whereas on your comment on the maintenance allowance part; woman always have a upper hand when comes to divorce. if husband don't cheat, will they cheat? there's a saying: "what goes around, comes around." in short, karma. i think that if husband didn't give wife a reason to cheat, will they do it? i doubt so.
above is just my 2 cents worth as a female. don't flame me!
Nice opinions!
There is really nothing right or wrong.
If you agree, it's right to you. If you disagree, it's wrong to you.
(1) if what is in front of us is something undesirable to us, do you think our small head got the power to drain blood off the big head? A desirable person is the cause(reason), small head rule over big head is the result.
(2.1) sleeping behind you while attached to you is a wrong move and he's at fault. However I will encourage you to break off with him rather than stray. its best we don't do what we dont want people to do to us.
(2.2) What if the cause of his inability to satisfy you sexually is due to the fact that he is trying too hard to satisfy you monetarily by working hard earning money? Wouldn't you agree that being more financially well off indirectly put the richer guy in a better situation to sextify you than the less well off guy? the rich guy will even have enough time, without the worry for money, to learn all the tricks you may have never thought of and send you to the ninth heaven every single time while having sex.
(3) honesty is golden. I will never want to betray my beloved's trust. the problem is, how can we account for honesty? all we can do is to try to trust. If he's never been found out, he's assumed to be honest but that doesn't mean he is honest or dishonest. however, I do want an honest woman. She is a rare gem. But how can I prove she is honest? I just have to try to trust.
Girls cheat too but I will have to admit and say those are really rare cases. and most of the time is cos she can feel more love from the other man.
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TS bro, I have had similar considerations in the past. I know I'm not someone who can commit. I'm not a responsible person. So I decided that I am not gonna 害人. Not gonna lead girls on. Not gonna let anyone down.
Was in a clubbing stint getting my kicks until I realized shit man, FBs have a high emotional maintenance cost too. If I have to entertain calls at 3am on a workday, machiam like having a GF - what's the difference?
So yea. Decided that enough is enough. We just need a bonk once a week or something to keep the lil bro happy. Fuck and fuck off. No strings attached. In terms of finances, spending $400 to $800 per month on WLs is way more affordable than having a GF, much less a family. In terms of sextisfaction, you get to have more variety. And WLs are more skilled than GFs in my opinion. Unless your GF is a big time slut. Its an experience thing no?
But like what some bros are saying here, having a GF and eventually getting married is about fulfilling your emotional needs. You gotta think for yourself what you really want out of life, and act accordingly.
Good luck!
Bro, We think alike! with the exception of relying on gf/wife for emotional needs..becos 95% of the time in conversations with gf/wife, they are always talking about themselves, be it complaining or complimenting. And they expect us NOT to complain cos, I guess, we will sound like sissies if we do. We are also supposed to compliment them cos we know they will be happy as we are being attentive. Where are our emotional needs covered here when the topic is not even about us in the first place?
as for slut or not, I prefer to term them as novice, intermediate or expert. not nice calling them names unless they like dirty talking and showering lovey dovey words to FLs spices things up in bed at times, agree?
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since there is no free lunch in this world, i prefer to pay for each lunch after eating straightaway..life is made up of transactions. never pay in instalments.
You can play, flirt, f around for all you want, WHEN you are single, but once you meet the right one, time to stop all your nonsense. Being a victim of two-timed, not once, but twice.. all i can say is, it totally sucks, and it hurts really badly.
Just imagine that you are working hard to bring money home to your wife, and home.. but behind your back shes screwing someone else..and at the end when you divorce.. you still have to pay her?! wth... my friend's ex wife, was fooling around behind his back, and despite all the evidence against her? he was ordered to give her half of his assets... millions of dollars worth of properties etc.. for what?
For me, when i would wait patiently for the right one.. no point rushing into it.
my 2 cents worth
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(1) if what is in front of us is something undesirable to us, do you think our small head got the power to drain blood off the big head? A desirable person is the cause(reason), small head rule over big head is the result.
sweetie, there is something call self control. if you really love the woman, no matter how tempted you are, you will have will power to reject temptations. agree?
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(2.1) sleeping behind you while attached to you is a wrong move and he's at fault. However I will encourage you to break off with him rather than stray. its best we don't do what we dont want people to do to us.
women being an emotional being, first thought will be revenge. but trust me, the feeling after cheating on the other half just to revenge sucks big time and ended up full of regrets. though i only done it after breaking off, i ended up regretting do it just to spite my ex... it's just hurting myself even more.
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(2.2) What if the cause of his inability to satisfy you sexually is due to the fact that he is trying too hard to satisfy you monetarily by working hard earning money? Wouldn't you agree that being more financially well off indirectly put the richer guy in a better situation to sextify you than the less well off guy? the rich guy will even have enough time, without the worry for money, to learn all the tricks you may have never thought of and send you to the ninth heaven every single time while having sex.
i do not agree with you on this. financial stability and sexual ability does not goes hand in hand. for female to find her man inability to satisfy her sexual needs are based on:
1) tool size: as the saying goes, size does matter. i am not saying those huge dicks you see in porn. what i meant is, what if the guy tool is erm... small?
2) ejaculate too fast, ejaculate before sex. once or twice i can understand it's because he is excited, but what if it's all the time?
3) not putting in the effort to know the likes & dislikes of partner. i believe guys preferences in sex right? it's the same for female. if the man doesn't put in the effort to understand his partner's preferences, the chances of the partner to stray is pretty high. it's not that hard to know what a woman like, just ask her. or if she is those shy type, just take note of her body reactions. when a female enjoys herself, her body will definitely have reactions.
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(3) honesty is golden. I will never want to betray my beloved's trust. the problem is, how can we account for honesty? all we can do is to try to trust. If he's never been found out, he's assumed to be honest but that doesn't mean he is honest or dishonest. however, I do want an honest woman. She is a rare gem. But how can I prove she is honest? I just have to try to trust.
it's not easy to trust someone. but i always believe that for me to trust a person, it's based on my judgement whether can i trust that person. ultimately, it's whether can you trust your own judgement to trust that person?
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Girls cheat too but I will have to admit and say those are really rare cases. and most of the time is cos she can feel more love from the other man.
that, i do not agree. there was this instance that i knew this guy A before i knew my ex. Guy A and i have much more things in common than my ex, but guy A has this charisma that will attracts both female and male (aka gays). in the end i choose my ex over guy A even though i knew our feelings for each other is mutual between guy A just because of the lack of security from guy A. even after i was with my ex, i did met up with guy A a few times whereby we could advance our relationship but i did not because i knew i already made my decision to be with my ex. temptation was high, but thinking of the lack of security from guy A did prevent me to sink in deeper.
so my point is, when female cheats, it's not only the lack of love but also the lack of security.
above is just my own opinion.
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Conventional, moralistic thinking, as indicated by use of words like "cheating", especially, is naive thinking. It is the result of lifelong indoctrination by society, whose attitudes have been (mis)informed by religion and superstition.
A rational approach would just accept the fact that most humans tend to be non-monogamous. We naturally crave variety in most things, including sexual partners. Just accept that for a fact, instead of labelling it as "cheating". Sex is just sex, if no big deal is made out of it.
Much misery caused by needless divorce could have actually been avoided if more people take a more rational approach to sexuality instead of treating it as a grand tragedy when their significant others have other sexual partners.
Conventional, moralistic thinking, as indicated by use of words like "cheating", especially, is naive thinking. It is the result of lifelong indoctrination by society, whose attitudes have been (mis)informed by religion and superstition.
A rational approach would just accept the fact that most humans tend to be non-monogamous. We naturally crave variety in most things, including sexual partners. Just accept that for a fact, instead of labelling it as "cheating". Sex is just sex, if no big deal is made out of it.
Much misery caused by needless divorce could have actually been avoided if more people take a more rational approach to sexuality instead of treating it as a grand tragedy when their significant others have other sexual partners.
it will be nice if all women took up your belief. but most people are selfish, whether if it's media caused or by nature. they want things for only themselves. its easier to settle in the animal kingdom; fight. but humans are alot more sophisticated. try settling the issue with fights and you will know what I mean. needless to say, the rate of STDs will also be higher mainly because people only listen enough to act upon the information but not enough to do more such as protecting themselves using condoms. ever heard of people entering the stock market immediately after hearing their hairstylist telling them a particular stock is profitable? they don't even bother checking the risk-reward ratio and many other important factors before diving in. imagine the same impact when people are being informed they are non-monogamous.
married or not, people have the ability to pro-create. marriage is a societal lock for accountability. every child born is given a birth certificate to identify them and their parents, people responsible for the child. if the child/teen/adult were to commit any crime, tracking them down is perceived to be alot easier..at least for this small island..the identity will create fear in each child to behave themselves..and controlling them will in turn be easier..and that's another topic altogether in human and society.
come to think of it, what else can you do in life beside working, enjoying (excluding sex), eating, drinking and having sex?
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Nice "divide & conquer". I shall do likewise for you, smoochie. ;]
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sweetie, there is something call self control. if you really love the woman, no matter how tempted you are, you will have will power to reject temptations. agree?
People use words, "if you really love me...you will..." "if you really love me...you will not..." it can be easy to answer the above if you think about how bros here always get rejected by their wives in the name of love. if you will really love the man, you will not always reject having sex right?
the bottomline is, if you girls reject too often, what else can we do, especially for bros with high sex drive, besides looking for another one? Love no doubt is sweet but loses its taste if its being used as a tool to manipulate.
I believe solving issues in a diplomatic manner. If there's a problem, talk it out. If there's no solution, split. If there's a solution and the solution seeks compromise in order for each other to benefit. Its unhealthy to be one-sided..
for married/attached bros out there, I suggest adding sex in your weekly schedules. It may help. Though doing that does not make the activity spontaneous, imagine the anticipation you and your other half will have when the day to have sex gets closer and closer. If you are thinking of making sex spontaneous, you may be waiting for Godot (who never comes..)
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women being an emotional being, first thought will be revenge. but trust me, the feeling after cheating on the other half just to revenge sucks big time and ended up full of regrets. though i only done it after breaking off, i ended up regretting do it just to spite my ex... it's just hurting myself even more.
Ya girl, its definitely not healthy. And beware, many men will take the opportunity to get touchy with you when you are at your worst. Revenge is not as sweet as people claim revenge to be.
If your ex is no longer truthful, revenge on him by treating yourself better and leaving him for good. Cry as you may but don't hurt yourself through cheating back.
As far as I'm concerned, I do not welcome relationship cheats back. She can do it once, she can do it again and again and again. Once is enough for me to see her tho-roughly. She can jolly well go look for another one to cheat.
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i do not agree with you on this. financial stability and sexual ability does not goes hand in hand. for female to find her man inability to satisfy her sexual needs are based on:
1) tool size: as the saying goes, size does matter. i am not saying those huge dicks you see in porn. what i meant is, what if the guy tool is erm... small?
2) ejaculate too fast, ejaculate before sex. once or twice i can understand it's because he is excited, but what if it's all the time?
3) not putting in the effort to know the likes & dislikes of partner. i believe guys preferences in sex right? it's the same for female. if the man doesn't put in the effort to understand his partner's preferences, the chances of the partner to stray is pretty high. it's not that hard to know what a woman like, just ask her. or if she is those shy type, just take note of her body reactions. when a female enjoys herself, her body will definitely have reactions.
(1) size does matter to the extent that an erected penis must be long enough to have successful penetration. the rest is skill. I'm sure its not exactly the same for all females but sensitive parts of the genital in females are 2 to 3 inches (or less) deep into the vagina. the rest of the vaginal wall is not so sensitive.
(2) Too be honest, the first time my ex bj me, I was shocked and ejaculated immediately after her tongue suddenly touched my tool (of course there was a long heavy petting before that) when we were almost turning in and the room was quite dark. But after that, I am trained. what I am trying to say is, "practice makes perfect." Yes you are right. Its not fun if your man ejaculates pre-maturely all the time.
(3) Communication is Key to having great sex! If we don't talk about it, we will never know each other's likes and dislikes, other than using trio and error for shy girls. Some guys will be shocked if girls talk about sex openly. Others will be thrilled to do that. To each his own.
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Originally Posted by EatPrayLove
it's not easy to trust someone. but i always believe that for me to trust a person, it's based on my judgement whether can i trust that person. ultimately, it's whether can you trust your own judgement to trust that person?
Yes, having good judgement is important. Your female intuition works perfect here. The next step is to give it a try, carefully.
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that, i do not agree. there was this instance that i knew this guy A before i knew my ex. Guy A and i have much more things in common than my ex, but guy A has this charisma that will attracts both female and male (aka gays). in the end i choose my ex over guy A even though i knew our feelings for each other is mutual between guy A just because of the lack of security from guy A. even after i was with my ex, i did met up with guy A a few times whereby we could advance our relationship but i did not because i knew i already made my decision to be with my ex. temptation was high, but thinking of the lack of security from guy A did prevent me to sink in deeper.
so my point is, when female cheats, it's not only the lack of love but also the lack of security.
Guy A is great in his soft skills. Women think differently now. Look around in the streets and I see pretty girls with not-so-good-looking guys because either they give the girls a better sense of security or their tongues are good.
It seems that you have a good control of your desires. Luckily Guy A and you didn't get drunk. If not, that only barrier (the lack of security) will disappear in thin air for that moment of lust and pleasure in bed (if he's a play boy).
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since there is no free lunch in this world, i prefer to pay for each lunch after eating straightaway..life is made up of transactions. never pay in instalments.
it will be nice if all women took up your belief. but most people are selfish, whether if it's media caused or by nature. they want things for only themselves. its easier to settle in the animal kingdom; fight. but humans are alot more sophisticated. try settling the issue with fights and you will know what I mean. needless to say, the rate of STDs will also be higher mainly because people only listen enough to act upon the information but not enough to do more such as protecting themselves using condoms. ever heard of people entering the stock market immediately after hearing their hairstylist telling them a particular stock is profitable? they don't even bother checking the risk-reward ratio and many other important factors before diving in. imagine the same impact when people are being informed they are non-monogamous.
married or not, people have the ability to pro-create. marriage is a societal lock for accountability. every child born is given a birth certificate to identify them and their parents, people responsible for the child. if the child/teen/adult were to commit any crime, tracking them down is perceived to be alot easier..at least for this small island..the identity will create fear in each child to behave themselves..and controlling them will in turn be easier..and that's another topic altogether in human and society.
come to think of it, what else can you do in life beside working, enjoying (excluding sex), eating, drinking and having sex?
Lest I be misunderstood, what I said about non-monogamy applies equally to women as well as to men. In other words, if a female decides to take on a lover, her husband shouldn't kick up a big fuss. And the latest science research is supportive of this finding, so it's not just my belief, but belief backed by the best evidence -- humans, both males and females, have a natural tendency to seek sexual variety.
Marriage as a notion for raising families needs updating especially when today, having sex does not mean that children will follow. Concepts such as open marriages are worthy of greater exploration but can only be accepted if all parties involved are sexually enlightened. Unfortunately, even from the postings in this and other threads, as well as from my personal experience, most people are still highly myopic when it comes to sexual matters.
Nice "divide & conquer". I shall do likewise for you, smoochie. ;]
Sweetie, here comes your reply. ;]
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Originally Posted by muscleboi
People use words, "if you really love me...you will..." "if you really love me...you will not..." it can be easy to answer the above if you think about how bros here always get rejected by their wives in the name of love. if you will really love the man, you will not always reject having sex right?
the bottomline is, if you girls reject too often, what else can we do, especially for bros with high sex drive, besides looking for another one? Love no doubt is sweet but loses its taste if its being used as a tool to manipulate.
I believe solving issues in a diplomatic manner. If there's a problem, talk it out. If there's no solution, split. If there's a solution and the solution seeks compromise in order for each other to benefit. Its unhealthy to be one-sided..
for married/attached bros out there, I suggest adding sex in your weekly schedules. It may help. Though doing that does not make the activity spontaneous, imagine the anticipation you and your other half will have when the day to have sex gets closer and closer. If you are thinking of making sex spontaneous, you may be waiting for Godot (who never comes..)
I do agree with you that this problem can be solved diplomatically and the key word is communication and compromising. I still remember watching this taiwan show and this female artiste was sharing how she and her husband had this agreement that if they quarrelled for more than this amount of time, they have to settle it in bed (meaning having sex). so when they were in the act, they couldn't control the laughter and just start laugh and eventually made up (and out). I think this is really a good example of good commmunication and compromising in a married couple.
however, sweetie, i don't quite agree with you saying that love is a tool of manipulation. female being female, they would want their other half to prove how much they love them. ultimately, it's the sense of security that us, female needs to feel in our partner. this is why sometimes female acted like a spoilt brat and demanding certain actions to be done from our partner.
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Originally Posted by muscleboi
(1) size does matter to the extent that an erected penis must be long enough to have successful penetration. the rest is skill. I'm sure its not exactly the same for all females but sensitive parts of the genital in females are 2 to 3 inches (or less) deep into the vagina. the rest of the vaginal wall is not so sensitive.
this, i have to disagree. size does matter simply because with a long and thick manhood, female will feel fully penetrated and the emotional satisfaction is beyond words.
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Originally Posted by muscleboi
(2) Too be honest, the first time my ex bj me, I was shocked and ejaculated immediately after her tongue suddenly touched my tool (of course there was a long heavy petting before that) when we were almost turning in and the room was quite dark. But after that, I am trained. what I am trying to say is, "practice makes perfect." Yes you are right. Its not fun if your man ejaculates pre-maturely all the time.
sweetie, what i meant was ejaculation pre-maturely all the time. I met a few when i was in my teens and i hate the feeling of being left high and dry. sex without intercourse is equivalent to not having sex at all.
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(3) Communication is Key to having great sex! If we don't talk about it, we will never know each other's likes and dislikes, other than using trio and error for shy girls. Some guys will be shocked if girls talk about sex openly. Others will be thrilled to do that. To each his own.
Yes, communication is key to great sex. but what if the guy is so into himself and totally ignore the sexual needs of his partner? or no matter how he tries, he just couldn't do exactly what his partner had told him? some people are just not talented in that department, if you get what i mean.
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..... Women think differently now. Look around in the streets and I see pretty girls with not-so-good-looking guys because either they give the girls a better sense of security or their tongues are good.
hmmmm.... nowadays looks aren't that important. it's the character and personality of the person that matters. not forgetting stability and security that a man can provide to his partner.
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Seem like an interesting discussion, I shall join to share my experience and maybe some advice from bros and sis here.
Bro here suggest that there is always opportunity to find a FB. Well, in my case, I am with this girl who has a great body, a big pair of tits and great sex techniques. She is slutty but since she is committed to this relationship, she is only slutty to me, at least physically.Sexually, she is my dream girl. I used to visit FL and then one day I suddenly asked myself:"WTF am I doing?" I have this girl who can provide services better than all the FL who only care about money, and most of the times, the FL in this forum is worse than the OKT described, there is no reason to visit FL. Since then, I stopped visiting FL. But with this girl, other than sex, I cannot connect with her emotionally. So for years, I will get very frustrated with the r/s but these thoughts disappearred after a great sex with her.
I started with her thinking of bonking her, but as time passes, I realized that I can't do w/o her sex. Everytime we quarrel, a great sex will normally settle the problem. Then now come the time that she want to settle down and I am having a dillema. Should I settle down with her just because of sex? It's sound very shallow, but for me, great sex really make me forget everything for the time being. I can see that for the coming 10years, if I bonk her every day, I will feel sexified. It's not hard to find a fb, but it's hard to find such a gem. She is also very blur, so if in the future I need some excitement, it's easy to cover up.
It may seem like I am only together with her because of sex. Well, after a few years together, I realized that I also care about her. But this don't stop me from feeling frustrated during day to day interactions. To make matter worse, I had this ex who is the direct opposite. This ex can connect with me emotionally but can't satisfy me sexually. Unlike the current girl, she is very smart and it's hard to have fling if I am with her.
A few years ago, I thought I will just be with my current girl for a while and will get back with my ex. But slowly, I an trapped by my lust and if am actually comfortable with it. Only that emotionally I do not feel happy lest the great sexxion. All the conventional movies will tell you that being emotionally happy is the most important thing. But as a man, if you are not satisfied sexually, it will also become a source of frustration in the future, at least for the next 10years where my little brother is still very itchy.
Seem like an interesting discussion, I shall join to share my experience and maybe some advice from bros and sis here.
Bro here suggest that there is always opportunity to find a FB. Well, in my case, I am with this girl who has a great body, a big pair of tits and great sex techniques. She is slutty but since she is committed to this relationship, she is only slutty to me, at least physically.Sexually, she is my dream girl. I used to visit FL and then one day I suddenly asked myself:"WTF am I doing?" I have this girl who can provide services better than all the FL who only care about money, and most of the times, the FL in this forum is worse than the OKT described, there is no reason to visit FL. Since then, I stopped visiting FL. But with this girl, other than sex, I cannot connect with her emotionally. So for years, I will get very frustrated with the r/s but these thoughts disappearred after a great sex with her.
I started with her thinking of bonking her, but as time passes, I realized that I can't do w/o her sex. Everytime we quarrel, a great sex will normally settle the problem. Then now come the time that she want to settle down and I am having a dillema. Should I settle down with her just because of sex? It's sound very shallow, but for me, great sex really make me forget everything for the time being. I can see that for the coming 10years, if I bonk her every day, I will feel sexified. It's not hard to find a fb, but it's hard to find such a gem. She is also very blur, so if in the future I need some excitement, it's easy to cover up.
It may seem like I am only together with her because of sex. Well, after a few years together, I realized that I also care about her. But this don't stop me from feeling frustrated during day to day interactions. To make matter worse, I had this ex who is the direct opposite. This ex can connect with me emotionally but can't satisfy me sexually. Unlike the current girl, she is very smart and it's hard to have fling if I am with her.
A few years ago, I thought I will just be with my current girl for a while and will get back with my ex. But slowly, I an trapped by my lust and if am actually comfortable with it. Only that emotionally I do not feel happy lest the great sexxion. All the conventional movies will tell you that being emotionally happy is the most important thing. But as a man, if you are not satisfied sexually, it will also become a source of frustration in the future, at least for the next 10years where my little brother is still very itchy.
Aside from considering whether your sex-kitten-gf vs emo-connect-exgf would be a better marriage partner, have you thought carefully if YOU yourself are suited for marriage ?
You've yet to be married & already thinking of possibly seeking flings. Then why bother committing yourself -- better to be single right?
We can't foretell what happens in the future. Sexual compatibility is important no doubt, but to base your union solely on that may be rather risky. In the best case scenario: over the next 10+++yrs your sex-kitten-gf blooms into a sex-tigress, and she maintains her knockout body & boobs; as well as her nirvana-inducing sexual skills. BUT kids, work, bills will come in... How? If she's unable to maintain her USPs (unique selling points) & there was no emotional/mental connection in the first place, love & affection straight out of the window?
Marriage can be either be a blissful union or a miserable entrapment. It's after all a partnership in a way... there may be days of stress (kids, parents, work etc), hardship, financial difficulties, sickness & pain. Ask yourself honestly. If sex alone (- with a wife who blur blur ends up as another weight on your shoulders -) can carry you through & give you strength to toil alone - then maybe you're set for life
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however, sweetie, i don't quite agree with you saying that love is a tool of manipulation. female being female, they would want their other half to prove how much they love them. ultimately, it's the sense of security that us, female needs to feel in our partner. this is why sometimes female acted like a spoilt brat and demanding certain actions to be done from our partner.
Overdoing this, like any other thing, is bad. if you need your bf/husband to prove that they love you by giving in when you disagree having sex every single day, we see proving that we love you is nothing more than a tool. so the key is moderate.
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this, i have to disagree. size does matter simply because with a long and thick manhood, female will feel fully penetrated and the emotional satisfaction is beyond words.
to each his own. some female told me they were afraid of big tool cos they feel torn apart. some just love the feeling of being stretched a little more.
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Originally Posted by EatPrayLove
sweetie, what i meant was ejaculation pre-maturely all the time. I met a few when i was in my teens and i hate the feeling of being left high and dry. sex without intercourse is equivalent to not having sex at all.
I agree. no one is born a sexpert. we all first learn to walk before we can run. in this case, we first learn to cum before learning to control when to cum.
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Originally Posted by EatPrayLove
Yes, communication is key to great sex. but what if the guy is so into himself and totally ignore the sexual needs of his partner? or no matter how he tries, he just couldn't do exactly what his partner had told him? some people are just not talented in that department, if you get what i mean.
too bad for his girl. that's why LSD girl should find LSD guy as their marriage partner so likewise for HSD people. the world will be much better.
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Originally Posted by EatPrayLove
hmmmm.... nowadays looks aren't that important. it's the character and personality of the person that matters. not forgetting stability and security that a man can provide to his partner.
i find women love to use security and stability to camouflage the direct requirement they find in a man, wealth. if a guy is rich, stability is almost guaranteed (unless he's into illegal business). if a guy is rich, even if he cheats on his wife, his wife can still find security in the money he has..
and of course I seriously don't blame modern women having that mindset. money is simply the single most important thing in this world that we need to be secured with food and shelter. women seek money(security and stability) so that their offsprings can be well taken care of. in the caveman age, physical strength is the security and stability women seek from men. in this time and age, money is the single biggest equivalent for security and stability.
the reason why they say they seek security and stability without mentioning about money is so that people don't see them as looking for cashcows. please enlighten me if you find the above not agreeable and I will love to know why.
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16-02-2012, 11:13 PM
and most of the time is cos she can feel more love from the other man.
