Married Men Vs Single Men ! Married Women Vs Single Women ! Who will be better FBs !

[1stTR]

Originally Posted by Krazzie

Wah so exciting ah bro, how you managed to unstick her?

Stop calling her, avoid answering her calls, reply her sms only on selected topics, giv her the cold shoulder treatment till she cannot tahan and we sit down to a heart to heart talk.... But tis process went on for abt 6 mths. We still keep in touch nw and occasionally i still bring her and her kids out.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by 1stTR

Bro, dun mind i join in ur interesting debate. I deny on the above sentence.

Good one bro ! welcome welcome if not this thread will die very soon . I enjoy a friendly debate as long as you understand that there is no punk intended . A friendly exchange of words and ideas cos there is no ill intent .

We never meet , we only comment via post with each other . Are we friends ? Please note the term FRIENDS and how friends to each other is regarded . As how you call me BRO , and how loosely the term BRO is used here . Let us define what is friends or buddies first before we proceed okie ? Do you understand where I am heading .

Let me ask another interesting question ! A girl post for FB ! I see a lot of BROs here calling her sis ? so does it count as incest ? lol

[smartke]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Lets summarize your thread BRO . IMHO i do not agree with you fully as its just toying with definitions and glorifying it ( that is why i did not post in your thread ) . FBs ? FwBs? NSA ? Sex Partners ? you differentiated FBs and FwBs to each individual case . But it still boils down to if you are not acquaintances (FRIENDS or BUDDIES) how can you bed the person ? two strangers dun just say hello lets go to bed ? if that happens ! That is called a ONS ! FBs and FwBs to me are just terms . One is crude and the other more pleasing to the ear and more ready accepted . There is a basic understanding with each other entwined with lust in this FB or FwB relationship . But there is a willingness to continue the relationship not a one off , thats differentiates it from a fling or ons . You cannot deny the fact that FBs or FwBs all started from buddies or friends !

well, i nvr said FB or FwB r/shp not startin frm a frenship.
anyway, as i said... to each their own.

my apology to 'crash' into ur thread, fb master. 小弟献丑了.

thks for sharin.

[1stTR]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Good one bro ! welcome welcome if not this thread will die very soon . I enjoy a friendly debate as long as you understand that there is no punk intended . A friendly exchange of words as long there is no ill intent .

We never meet , we only comment via post with each other . Are we friends ? Please note the term FRIENDS and how friends to each other is regarded . As how you call me BRO , and how loosely the term BRO is used here . Let us define what is friends or buddies first before we proceed okie ? Do you understand where I am heading .

Let me ask another interesting question ! A girl post for FB ! I see a lot of BROs here calling her sis ? so does it count as incest ? lol

Tat's a good one. Paisei, too engross in laughing. Bro, in the forum, we address each other as bro. Tat means we're friends. But, dun forget tis is cyberspace/cyberworld(a term i see quite alot of ppl used here). But, in actual fact, we're still consider as stranger in the real world. 'Bro' in todays world is jus a friendly way to address ppl. Ppl we kno and oso ppl we dun kno. Like when u walk pass a durian stall, sometimes the guy will call out to u, 'eh, bro, ai jiat liu lian bo.' So, can i conclude tat the guy is my bro and i can eat all i can w/o paying? ;p I do understand where u're heading. Would really like to meet up with u for kopi sometime.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by smartke

well, i nvr said FB or FwB r/shp not startin frm a frenship.
anyway, as i said... to each their own.

my apology to 'crash' into ur thread, fb master. 小弟献丑了.

Thanks for sharing too Bro . I hope my replies to BRO 1stTR has drawn some light on my view point . I do hope you can bring your view points across in here too . We are all "Friends" and "Buddies" without the benefits cos we are straight ! whahahahaha !

I stress again that I am just a dude ! I am Jasdude not FB MASTER in any way . Just speaking and sharing from my experience .

Originally Posted by jasdude

We never meet , we only comment via post with each other . Are we friends ? Please note the term FRIENDS and how friends to each other is regarded . As how you call me BRO , and how loosely the term BRO is used here . Let us define what is friends or buddies first before we proceed okie ? Do you understand where I am heading .

Let me ask another interesting question ! A girl post for FB ! I see a lot of BROs here calling her sis ? so does it count as incest ? lol

Originally Posted by 1stTR

Tat's a good one.

Kopi anytime is no problem BRO ! hahahaha

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by jasdude

You cannot deny the fact that FBs or FwBs all started from buddies or friends ! that is my take on this issue . Peace .
.

Very interesting theory.

My theory as follows:

1. Fuck Buddy (FB) - Fuck First, Friend Later.
2. Friend w Benefit (FwB) - Friend First, Fuck Later.

Swee boh?

Originally Posted by jasdude

Are we friends ? Please note the term FRIENDS and how friends to each other is regarded . As how you call me BRO , and how loosely the term BRO is used here . Let us define what is friends or buddies first before we proceed okie ? Do you understand where I am heading .

So are we friends or are we Bros?

Originally Posted by 1stTR

We still keep in touch nw and occasionally i still bring her and her kids out.

Purely Plutonic?

[HunterJ]

Friendly discussion and debate is healthy !! I double Bro Reoxy's theory.

FB = Fuck 1st, friends later
FwB = Friends 1st, fuck later

BUT !!! aren't friendship involved in both FB and FwB ?? so both are still friends la..

hahaha...

Just some of my humble remarks..

[1stTR]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

Purely Plutonic?

Couldn't agreed more.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

Very interesting theory.

1. Fuck Buddy (FB) - Fuck First, Friend Later.

Swee boh?

So are we friends or are we Bros?

We are friends BRO ! I not swee nor i ham some hahahah ! Hey no wonder BRO you cannot find a FB . who will jump into bed with you if you don't make friends first . Even FL you also must say hello first then talk to discuss price then got bed right ?

[smartke]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Thanks for sharing too Bro . I hope my replies to BRO 1stTR has drawn some light on my view point . I do hope you can bring your view points across in here too . We are all "Friends" and "Buddies" without the benefits cos we are straight ! whahahahaha !

I stress again that I am just a dude ! I am Jasdude not FB MASTER in any way . Just speaking and sharing from my experience .

ok dude, we r here to tcss & at the same time, share some info, views, opinion & experience, & not to stess ourselves here la...

so, i totally respect each individual of their views & experience. at the end of the day, each individual will hv diff encounters & therefore, havin diff views & experience.

anyway, gd job dude. i like tis thread!

Originally Posted by Reoxy

Very interesting theory.

My theory as follows:

1. Fuck Buddy (FB) - Fuck First, Friend Later.
2. Friend w Benefit (FwB) - Friend First, Fuck Later.

Swee boh?

mate, u r one 'interestin' guy i hv evr come across in sbf. u always make my day.

but, i'm NOT interested in u. i'm STRAIGHT & perfectly normal guy.

[44mm]

Mutual understanding and respect for each other is the key factor. To have a FB i would advice brothers and sisters to know the person well. Married or single doesn't make better FB.

When i was young i would jump into bed with ladies that can onzs. Now i would try to know the person better and see if we could proceed to the next level. Be frank about it dun ever lied. You will be rewarded with things you couldnt imagine.

Just my 2 cents.

[Sexy Under]

Single or married women makes no difference. Bed skills no good can learn, bed skills good can improve to be better. It boils down to having good sex. The thing to bear in mind is such arrangements are never meant to be long term from the very beginning. Watch out for the emotion trap and always be ready to let go.

One of my married FB told me she felt like getting a divorce, I said goodbye. Another married FB told me she could not contain her guilt, I also said goodbye. I told yet another married FB I fell in love with her and she said goodbye.

The only single FB I had hinted marriage. Told her no and she asked me to go and die. A few months later, she got married.

Exclusivity? Rather not ask and not know. Wear my CD and bonk happily!

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by HunterJ

BUT !!! aren't friendship involved in both FB and FwB ?? so both are still friends la..

Not entirely correct.

FB - Fuck Buddy - Fuck First, Friend Later.
If after the fuck either one of you do not want to continue further to be friends, both of you remain as a fuck.

FwB - Friend with Benefit - Friend First, Fuck Later.
If after being friend, neither one of you want to continue further for a fuck, both of you remains as a friend.

Originally Posted by jasdude

Hey no wonder BRO you cannot find a FB . who will jump into bed with you if you don't make friends first . Even FL you also must say hello first then talk to discuss price then got bed right ?

I cannot find FB or FwB because I too scared-to-die. Remember my motto: 小心驶得万年船

My conversations with FLs are purely essential business negotiations. If I treat them as friends, I am obligated to give big tip. If they treat me as friend, they are obligated to give big discount. We always try to be professional in our business: I as a professional whoremonger and they as professional whores

Originally Posted by smartke

mate, u r one 'interestin' guy i hv evr come across in sbf. u always make my day.

Thank you for your strong support!

Originally Posted by Sexy Under

Single or married women makes no difference. Bed skills no good can learn, bed skills good can improve to be better. It boils down to having good sex. The thing to bear in mind is such arrangements are never meant to be long term from the very beginning.
Exclusivity? Rather not ask and not know. Wear my CD and bonk happily!

Good advice!

Ask also may not get the truth.

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by 1stTR

Couldn't agreed more.

I believe you.

My 小弟弟 do not.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by 44mm

Mutual understanding and respect for each other is the key factor. To have a FB i would advice brothers and sisters to know the person well. Married or single doesn't make better FB. Be frank about it dun ever lied. You will be rewarded with things you couldnt imagine..

Originally Posted by Sexy Under

The thing to bear in mind is such arrangements are never meant to be long term from the very beginning. Watch out for the emotion trap and always be ready to let go.

Originally Posted by Reoxy

I cannot find FB or FwB because I too scared-to-die. Remember my motto: 小心驶得万年船

To be franks guys and gals . Yes , people stray due to different reasons . Some are genuine cases of getting hitched with the wrong partner in marriage . However If you have a family and there is nothing wrong with it , do Play with care if you cannot resist , cos you might be hurting more than your FB if you get caught .